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Creating a Life Book: Page 1, Alex's birth

Categories: Adoption, Media

A few days ago, I told you I was ready to get started on my daughter Alex's adoption life book.   I also told you that I'd let you know how I progressed.  Well, I have good news and bad news:

The good news is:  I've done page 1.

The bad news is:  it doesn't look anything like all those amazing samples you see on scrapbooking websites.

Figuring out what the subject of page one was going to be was actually much harder than I thought.  After much hemming and hawing, in the end, I let my archives of photographs decide:  since I had a scanned copy of Alex's ultrasound, a tasteful (read:  "non-gory") picture of my husband Marcus cutting the umbilical cord, and a photo of Alex about 2 minutes old, I thought I would let those three photographs tell the story of her birth.  I also found an old blog entry from my personal site that I felt captured my feelings around that time, so I handwrote portions of it on index cards, and included them on the page as well.

Then, of course, I'd spent so much money on that ridiculous "scrapbook jewelry," I felt compelled to sprinkle bits of it here and there.

So, the picture above is the finished product.  It's hardly of professional quality, but I guess it's made by my hands and it's from the heart, so I suppose, in the end, that's all that matters.   Also, as I looked through photographs and pulled the page together, I realized how very lucky we were to have these images -- many other adoptive families don't have pictures of their child's first breath, or Daddy cutting the cord.  Now, two years after the fact, I'm overwhelmed with gratitude that Alex's birthmother was so generous in sharing her birth experience.

I've already decided that page two will show the first 24 hours of Alex's life (and oh, how many photos I have to choose from!), and page three will describe placement day, when Alex came home to us about 48 hours after her birth.  More as these develop.

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