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Changing the fundraising system?
Filed under: Day Care & Education
There's a lot of things that make me cringe in life, but when I see a kid pull out the dreaded "sign-up" paper for his school's newest fundraiser, well, I just want to run and hide.Before I say anything, let me tell you this: I do not like fundraisers. I don't like feeling guilty if I don't want to pay $10 for a candy bar that I don't even like. I really hate how people end up bringing these things to work and then you feel suckered into helping your coworker out.
I think the whole system stinks. In fact, I think it stinks so much that I plan on discouraging my children from participating.
Here's an interesting editorial about how children who participate in these fundraisers should be rewarded. Should only the highest sellers get the big prize? Or, should the entire school have a party for those that participated if the school reaches the goal?
I'm not exactly sure how the system works right now as my children are not in school. Does your school have rewards based on how much the student sells? Or is it a party for everyone that participated? What about the children that don't participate?
The article makes a good point about why schools do these fundraisers. Without them, computers might not be updated, field trips may fall to the wayside.
But...there's just part of me that wonders about how important education and our public schools are if kids have to peddle popcorn to help get playground equipment.
So, what do you think? Keep the fundraisers? Change the reward system? Or, in my personal opinion, do you do away with them altogether?
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10-16-2006 @ 4:27PM
Uncle Roger said...In my experience, kids who sell/raise more get bigger/better prizes.
I too hate fundraisers, mostly because I end up with crap (and I do mean crap) I don't want for way too much money and the school gets half or less. I would definitely prefer to just give the school the money directly and not have to find a place for some stupid, supposedly cute salsa dish. Better for me, better for the school, and I'll say a prayer for the fundraising company next time I get around to praying.
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10-16-2006 @ 4:30PM
ann adams said...Our school candy supplier for the fundraiser hands out tacky, cheap prizes based on sales. Normally that means which parent can twist the most arms at work or at church, etc. I'm sick of it and this year I finally went completely on strike so far as selling door to door is concerned. I'll send a check.
For the strangest fundraiser I've ever heard of, click on the link.
http://thehomesickhome.blogspot.com/2006/10/tootired-updated.html
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10-16-2006 @ 4:38PM
dlbs said...I, too, am not fond of school fundraisers. I'm all for finding alternative methods to raise funds. At my son's school, they participate in the EScrip program (I register my ATM/Credit card and everytime I go shopping at a participtating store, the school gets a percentage of what I spend). They also held a walk-a-thon to sponsor Performing Arts-related field trips. So far, this year, there are no plans for the traditional forms of fundraising (selling cookie dough, wrapping paper, etc.). But, if those were the only options, I would have my son participate. It's sad the our public school system doesn't have enough money to fund itself, but that doesn't mean it's okay to let it self-destruct. I can't afford to send my children to private school and I'll do whatever I can to help the schools out so that my children get the best education and have the best school experience possible. You say you would get rid of fundraisers all together, but my question to you is, do you have a better, viable alternative to raise the money or would you have the schools do without?
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10-16-2006 @ 4:49PM
ann adams said...Dibs, we do that too. I'd forgotten. I split my grocery shopping between basically two stores. Half goes to the school, half to my church. It's great.
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10-16-2006 @ 8:29PM
Nancy Toby said...I'd be happy to get a statement at the beginning of the school year that says "For a contribution of $XX we won't bother you or your kid with any fundraisers for the entire year."
I'd pay.
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10-17-2006 @ 9:57AM
Type (little) a said...Dude. I just got a fundraiser catalog at my daughter's daycare. She's 2. AND I pay $1200 a month. Why do they need to raise funds, you ask? Because they have a PTA. AT A DAY CARE CENTER. These wimmins take themselves way too seriously.
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10-16-2006 @ 11:47PM
Eden said...My kids aren't in school so that taints my opinion of these fundraisers but I'm w/ you Rachel. I think they're horrid. No one ever sells anything I would buy (my nephews do this; it's all I can do to find two items that are decent). What happened to bake sales? Craft fairs? Halloween/Autumn carnivals? Is it liability? Surely we can be more creative than these company-run generic products.
I'm also w/ Nancy. I'd pay and I'd pay a little extra on behalf of the families who couldn't just so we could all be left alone.
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10-17-2006 @ 9:04AM
wookie said...I agree with Eden. I'd be much happier spending 20$ at a school carnival or craft fair or bake sale (and happier to spend the time baking/crafting to participate) than hassling my co-workers to buy cheap garbage from a catalouge.
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10-17-2006 @ 9:40AM
Heather said...A co-worker brought the chocolate bars to work just last week. But that was ok, it wasn't just the almonds and fake caramilk bars. there were chocolate mints, and toffee, and about 5 other different ones. Now that I don't mind.
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