New ParentDish Feature: What are you reading?
Filed under: That's Entertainment
We are starting a new weekly feature. On Fridays, I am going to tell you about what I am reading, and ask you, Please God, to tell me what YOU are reading. I tend to eat books. But I should warn you: My reading habits are pretty... lowly. I read dry medical texts most of the time, and then in the evenings I am busy harassing encouraging my kids to do their homework, making dinner, putting kids to bed, shaping young minds, (you know, the usual) so when I am reading for leisure, I want the book (and Calgon) to take me away.
But! I am always open to suggestions for really good books to read. It's not that I can't read stuff that isn't crap-- it's just that the crap is so very easy to read, and doesn't toy with my emotions like quality literature sometimes does.
Also, I am opening this feature up to more than just books. Heck, on Fridays, most of the time when I am at the grocery store, I am slipping a magazine of some sort into my cart. Again, though, I tend not to read quality stuff (like, say, Harper's or The New Yorker)-- but I'd like to start! Usually if someone points me to a great article in The New York Times or Salon.com, I'll go read it.
Also, if any of you are interested, we could even start a monthly book club, where we take turns choosing books that you recommend in the comments, and we can then talk about them once a month.
Ultimately, if someone can help me with this, I'd also like to start some lists we can all follow on Amazon.com. I love seeing what other people recommend, because it helps me find authors I wouldn't have otherwise thought of.
[You will notice that I have not mentioned what I am reading to my kids, with my kids, or encouraging them to read. That can be a whole other column if you are interested. Just tell me in the comments! But this one is for Grownups.)
So, click on the fold to find out what I'm reading this week.

My best friend from college has turned me onto some amazing books over the years. And I owe her in a big way. Most recently, she mentioned to me a couple of times that I should go and check out these vampire books she had just read. I happen to love vampire books (please don't stop reading this column based on that statement, LOL), but I didn't rush out and get the books. She mentioned them to me two other times before I finally was having a bad day and decided to do some book retail therapy at the local bookstore. They only had one of the books she had recommended, in hard back, but I got it because I was in a really bad mood, and decided I deserved a hard back. The book is Twilight by Stephenie Meyer.
The books in this series are also juvenile literature. I should say that I enjoy juvenile fiction, but I also like murder mysteries, romance novels, fiction and non-fiction, so don't take this week's selection as a sign that this will be a column of any particular kind of reading material. But in case you are interested or concerned, this book is absolutely clean in terms of language and sexuality. I would absolutely recommend it for young readers, too.
I started reading the book that evening, and I stayed up til 3:00 a.m. reading it. I did close it at about 1:00 a.m. and TRY not to pick it up again. But I simply could not put it down. Before I had actually finished the book the next day, I was at Amazon ordering the second book, New Moon, for next day delivery (I pay an annual fee that lets me do this pretty cheaply). The day New Moon arrived, I had a huge work project, so I forced myself not to start the book until I had finished the work project. Good thing, because I stayed up til 5:00 a.m. reading it, sobbing in the wee hours of the night at its conclusion.
The premise of these books is that a teenage girl moves from Phoenix to a small town called Forks, Washington. She moves in with her father, after her mother remarries a traveling baseball player. Bella Swan is the daughter of the police chief, and instantly a new wonder at the small high school. She finds herself drawn to five students who are different from the rest: pale, beautiful, aloof. These five are the only students in the school who appear to have no interest in her-- until she finds herself seated next to Edward Cullen in her biology class, and the recipient of his seething hatred.
Bella is intrigued by Edward and his odd behavior toward her. He saves her life one day, sort of accidentally, and they forge a type of friendship after that that blooms into a taboo kind of love: Edward, of course, is a vampire. And Bella's blood is as potent to him as vampire heroin. And yet, he cannot bring himself to kill her. So, he is torn between not being able to stay away from her and always being tempted to harm her. Bella is simply irretrievably in love with Edward.
The plot turns toward a small group of vampires who try to kill Bella (apparently, her blood is potent to other vampires as well), and then leaves us bracing ourselves for the next book.
New Moon is, if anything, better than Twilight, which was absolutely compelling. I don't care if Bella and Edward are teenagers: I challenge you not to fall for Edward Cullen. Even typing his name gives me a cheap sort of thrill. In New Moon, Edward decides it is too dangerous for him and his family to be around Bella, so he leaves her, forever, and strips her of all pictures, CD's, any reminders of their time together. He tells her that he will never return, and that it will be as if he has never existed. Meyers' treatment of how Bella handles Edward's leaving is absolutely searing: If you have ever loved and lost, this book will hit you where it hurts.
I have read criticisms of New Moon that talk about co-dependency and Bella being too reliant on a man for her own self-esteem and happiness. But if you can overlook that obvious criticism and read these for what they are: a terrific story of love and loss, then you will have a great, intense, two-day reading love affair. I gave these books to my neighbor and warned her that if she started them at night, she wouldn't sleep. She insisted that she would. The next day she came over sheepishly and said she had been up til 3:00 a.m. also. She described the books as "book crack. Better than french fries!"
So, I hope you will check them out and then come and tell me what you think!
What are YOU reading? (And for guy readers who may not so much be into the vampire romance, don't worry, I will talk about Ian Rankin's Inspector Rebus novels, too!). And can you help me out with the Amazon list thing? Do you have any Amazon lists?
But! I am always open to suggestions for really good books to read. It's not that I can't read stuff that isn't crap-- it's just that the crap is so very easy to read, and doesn't toy with my emotions like quality literature sometimes does.
Also, I am opening this feature up to more than just books. Heck, on Fridays, most of the time when I am at the grocery store, I am slipping a magazine of some sort into my cart. Again, though, I tend not to read quality stuff (like, say, Harper's or The New Yorker)-- but I'd like to start! Usually if someone points me to a great article in The New York Times or Salon.com, I'll go read it.
Also, if any of you are interested, we could even start a monthly book club, where we take turns choosing books that you recommend in the comments, and we can then talk about them once a month.
Ultimately, if someone can help me with this, I'd also like to start some lists we can all follow on Amazon.com. I love seeing what other people recommend, because it helps me find authors I wouldn't have otherwise thought of.
[You will notice that I have not mentioned what I am reading to my kids, with my kids, or encouraging them to read. That can be a whole other column if you are interested. Just tell me in the comments! But this one is for Grownups.)
So, click on the fold to find out what I'm reading this week.

My best friend from college has turned me onto some amazing books over the years. And I owe her in a big way. Most recently, she mentioned to me a couple of times that I should go and check out these vampire books she had just read. I happen to love vampire books (please don't stop reading this column based on that statement, LOL), but I didn't rush out and get the books. She mentioned them to me two other times before I finally was having a bad day and decided to do some book retail therapy at the local bookstore. They only had one of the books she had recommended, in hard back, but I got it because I was in a really bad mood, and decided I deserved a hard back. The book is Twilight by Stephenie Meyer.
The books in this series are also juvenile literature. I should say that I enjoy juvenile fiction, but I also like murder mysteries, romance novels, fiction and non-fiction, so don't take this week's selection as a sign that this will be a column of any particular kind of reading material. But in case you are interested or concerned, this book is absolutely clean in terms of language and sexuality. I would absolutely recommend it for young readers, too.
I started reading the book that evening, and I stayed up til 3:00 a.m. reading it. I did close it at about 1:00 a.m. and TRY not to pick it up again. But I simply could not put it down. Before I had actually finished the book the next day, I was at Amazon ordering the second book, New Moon, for next day delivery (I pay an annual fee that lets me do this pretty cheaply). The day New Moon arrived, I had a huge work project, so I forced myself not to start the book until I had finished the work project. Good thing, because I stayed up til 5:00 a.m. reading it, sobbing in the wee hours of the night at its conclusion.
The premise of these books is that a teenage girl moves from Phoenix to a small town called Forks, Washington. She moves in with her father, after her mother remarries a traveling baseball player. Bella Swan is the daughter of the police chief, and instantly a new wonder at the small high school. She finds herself drawn to five students who are different from the rest: pale, beautiful, aloof. These five are the only students in the school who appear to have no interest in her-- until she finds herself seated next to Edward Cullen in her biology class, and the recipient of his seething hatred.
Bella is intrigued by Edward and his odd behavior toward her. He saves her life one day, sort of accidentally, and they forge a type of friendship after that that blooms into a taboo kind of love: Edward, of course, is a vampire. And Bella's blood is as potent to him as vampire heroin. And yet, he cannot bring himself to kill her. So, he is torn between not being able to stay away from her and always being tempted to harm her. Bella is simply irretrievably in love with Edward.
The plot turns toward a small group of vampires who try to kill Bella (apparently, her blood is potent to other vampires as well), and then leaves us bracing ourselves for the next book.
New Moon is, if anything, better than Twilight, which was absolutely compelling. I don't care if Bella and Edward are teenagers: I challenge you not to fall for Edward Cullen. Even typing his name gives me a cheap sort of thrill. In New Moon, Edward decides it is too dangerous for him and his family to be around Bella, so he leaves her, forever, and strips her of all pictures, CD's, any reminders of their time together. He tells her that he will never return, and that it will be as if he has never existed. Meyers' treatment of how Bella handles Edward's leaving is absolutely searing: If you have ever loved and lost, this book will hit you where it hurts.
I have read criticisms of New Moon that talk about co-dependency and Bella being too reliant on a man for her own self-esteem and happiness. But if you can overlook that obvious criticism and read these for what they are: a terrific story of love and loss, then you will have a great, intense, two-day reading love affair. I gave these books to my neighbor and warned her that if she started them at night, she wouldn't sleep. She insisted that she would. The next day she came over sheepishly and said she had been up til 3:00 a.m. also. She described the books as "book crack. Better than french fries!"
So, I hope you will check them out and then come and tell me what you think!
What are YOU reading? (And for guy readers who may not so much be into the vampire romance, don't worry, I will talk about Ian Rankin's Inspector Rebus novels, too!). And can you help me out with the Amazon list thing? Do you have any Amazon lists?
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ReaderComments (Page 2 of 2)
4-27-2007 @ 6:12PM
Jacqui from the Bay Area said...I just can't get enough of this thread and was just re-reading the other commenters' post. It is great to see so many similarities here.
Wally Lamb's "I Know This Much Is True" is one of the only two books I brought from my collection in the home country when I immigrated to the US seven years ago. And after reading Lauren's post, I took it down from its perch on the shelf and re-read some favorite parts, only to fall asleep with the heavy book on my lap (I am home sick today with a very sore throat).
I, too, just love Jennifer Weiner (her previous book Little Earthquakes was a laugh-out-loud-funny read) but I have long ago stopped reading Dean Koontz because they give me nightmares. :) I am eagerly counting the days to July 26, or is it 21st, for the release of the seventh Potter book. And for sure, I will start on the Time Traveler's Wife. Thank you for all these wonderful posts. Just what a bedridden mom needs on a sick day.
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4-27-2007 @ 6:32PM
jennifer said...This is a terrific feature! The next book I hope to read is "Three Cups of Tea" by Greg Mortenson. It's about a famous K2 climber who returns to the remote Pakistani village that nursed him to health after a failed climb, to build schools. I asked for it for Mother's Day!
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4-27-2007 @ 7:15PM
MaryP said...Great idea, Jen! I am such a voracious reader, it's really hard to pick one book. Not one for vampire books, though. Read Anne Rice's Interview with a Vampire. Meh.
I read Oliver Sack's "Seeing Voices" earlier this month. Fascinating book about the history and treatment of the deaf in the US.
Couple of fun chick lits:
Picking Up by Kate Fenton. Nicely ironic/not sappy. Funny and happy ending.
Inappropriate Men by Stacey Ballis, which I love so much for its irreverent approach to sex and relationships, and its HYSTERICAL sex-gone-wrong scene towards the end.
Another vote for Time Traveller's Wife. Great book.
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4-27-2007 @ 11:36PM
Molly said...Oh hooray! I'm a librarian (though currently a stay at home one!), so I'm generally reading a couple books with about a million books on my to read list.
I also like vampire books for the pure escapism of fun reading, and I actually haven't read anything by Stephanie Meyer.. add yet another one to my list!
I second the recommendation for Christopher Moore's books.. so funny!
I'm particularly fascinated with post-apocalyptic books, and always have been. I want to read 'The Road' by Cormac McCarthy (Pulitzer winner and Oprah pick), but it's supposed to be pretty intense and dark, so I've been putting it off.
If you like books like that try 'Dies the Fire' by S.M. Stirling. It's based in a world where most of the technology and basic laws of science suddenly stop working and the aftermath for humanity. Freaky, but good.
Currently reading 'The God Delusion' by Richard Dawkins. As a closet atheist for most of my life it's very eye opening to read a book that makes no apologies for atheism.
Thanks for the new feature, I think you've got a hit!
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4-28-2007 @ 11:05AM
Dawnkeywest said...I too like many different reads...any new Stephen King books suck me right in. But, in response to 'Jaqui from the Bay Area', I have recently discovered Jane Green and LOVE her! However, if you 'love' her, you will absolutely "LOVE" Marian Keyes. I have read all of her books in the past couple of years and have passed all of them on to my sister and multiple friends and they have all become addicted to her also. They are pretty 'light' reads also, but with a backlit message/agenda. I'm sure that you'll be staying up into the wee hours, unable to put her books down. Love this new twist on this site!
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4-29-2007 @ 11:55PM
Heather said...Star Trek- A time to be born
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5-02-2007 @ 3:54PM
thordora said...I have to second Molly's love for Stirling. I just picked up Dies the Fire, and it's incredible. I also have Conquistador at home, and it's well thumbed-it's about an alternative universe like our world, but the white man never found NA.
Thank you for the tip Molly! I never remembered his name at the store!
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