There's hardly a quiet moment in the Gosselin household. Like parents the world over, Kate and Jon Gosselin of Pennsylvania keep busy juggling household duties and kids. However, things are a bit different for the Gosselins than most of their parental counterparts.
Jon and Kate are the parents to 2-year-old sextuplets and 6-year-old twins. Or, as they like to say, "Six 2-year-olds and two 6-year-olds." That's eight kids for those of you playing along at home.
If their hands weren't full enough, the family now stars in "Jon and Kate Plus 8," seen on both Discovery Health and TLC. Kate was kind enough to fit in an interview with Parent Dish during nap time, which she was also using as a time to update the family calendar and her checkbook.
In addition to the chaos and lack of personal time that comes with eight kids, they've also become used to criticism, both towards them as a couple and for their fertility treatments.
"[Criticism] is nothing new to us," says Kate, who referred to her pregnancy as completely draining, both physically and mentally. "Prior to the babies being born, we started hearing that. It is fine for people to have opinions. Obviously, they didn't walk in our shoes...You grow a thick skin very fast. You stop reading things where people are criticizing you, you don't pay attention.
Speaking of the pregnancy, the Gosselins used a form of infertility treatment called IUI, otherwise known as intrauterine insemination. That means there were no embryos made or left over from the procedure.
When it comes to living their life in the fishbowl of the public eye, Kate admits that many times, they will be stressed, just due to the constant demands of having twins and sextuplets.
"I know a lot of people are like 'man, she's hard on Jon,' I've heard that my whole life," she says with a slight chuckle, pointing out they get many positive emails regarding their relationship. "That's just the way we do it... I think it's only now that Jon and I are embracing that marriage is not always peachy. With a couple of kids it's really not going to be peachy and with this many, it is definitely going to be difficult."
Any other misconceptions?
"There's a misconception that I clean obsessively and I laugh at that," she says, with kids rousing from naps on the baby monitor. "If my house gets cleaned once a month it's a miracle."
She points out that, yes, she does dry mop the floor around the table three times a day, but eight children dropping food on the floor make that a must. Overall, she feels the portrayal of her family is accurate, though she wishes they could catch more of the hectic moments, such as the days the kids are sick.
"I had pee in my bed, pee on the floor," she says. "I was like the mess lady today. There's a lot of bodily fluids going around in our house. It's those days, the days where the kids are sick. Those are the hairiest days of all."
If you haven't seen the show yet, it plays on Discovery Health at 10pm (E/P) on Tuesdays and the encore plays on TLC at 9pm (E/P) on Monday.
Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
Tricia 5-09-2007 @ 2:23PM
I admire Kate and Jon so much! I enjoy watching the show and seeing how she handles parenting so many different personalities at once. What one would think it would be chaos they have a very organized household!
God Bless them all! :)
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Jenn 5-18-2007 @ 7:23AM
I am so tired of this family already.
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alix 6-02-2007 @ 5:18PM
I fell in love with this family when they first aired, "Surviving Sextuplets and Twins." They are down to earth, unlike many of the other families on these channels, who have many children. Plus, the kids are beautiful.
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Tonya 6-05-2007 @ 11:41PM
I've watch 2 1/2 epidsodes of this show. I feel very sorry for Jon and the eight kids. God Bless them for having to live with her.
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Tracy 6-06-2007 @ 2:09PM
I think Kate does an amazing job in handling all the stresses of having this many kids. She has to be organized and OCD, and even a little bitchy, to get through every day life. She makes things work for her family. Both Kate and Jon deserve a medal for the efforts!
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Florence mose 6-11-2007 @ 3:51PM
As soon i watched Jon and kate i relaised there where my heros i have always wanted many twins and seeing them now i feel they are my role models and now am pregnant with my first child but after seeing them me and my husband want to find out how we can be able to have quadraples any advice from jon and kate will be highly appreciated. Jon and kates family looks wonderful and beautiful i love it and adore it. any advice i will appreciate
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Sandra 7-24-2007 @ 3:08AM
The Gosselin family are such an inspiration! They run their household like a well oiled machine, and have fun in the process. As a new mom I have learned so much by observing Kate and I really appreciate how transparent
their family is with each other. I wish this family all the best for the future!
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Pegi 6-20-2007 @ 8:11AM
I love this wonderful family. Kate OMG what a women,mother,CEO of home operations. Kudo's to you both Jon and Kate for the way you feed your family, organic and much attention to that process. I've never had any children but would have if Jon and Kate could have given parenting classes. HUGH FAN.
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Pegi 7-06-2007 @ 10:39AM
I love this wonderful family. Kate OMG what a women,mother,CEO of home operations. Kudo's to you both Jon and Kate for the way you feed your family, organic and much attention to that process. I've never had any children but would have if Jon and Kate could have given parenting classes. HUGH FAN.
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LINDA 6-24-2007 @ 9:50PM
OMG, This woman is such a b@@tch. I am so tired of her already. And the way she yells at Jon in public, I'm suprised he doesnt throw her a punch !
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susie@doodleranch.com 6-27-2007 @ 2:32AM
Ohhhh Kate!! I hear you girl. I've got 9 kiddos myself (ages 13 down to 5 mos) and I get into the panic mode too. Everything will be fine, we'll be having a blast coloring eggs or carving pumpkins, then all of a sudden my other personality pops out and I start freaking out -- totally out of character and I can't reel myself in!! :) I laughed so hard when you said that too!
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Pat 7-23-2007 @ 11:29PM
While it is really interesting to watch how the kids interact with one another and how Jon & Kate manoeuvre through the course of a day, I cannot watch this anymore. Kate is so openly verbally abusive to Jon. It’s wrong for a husband to constantly undermine and degrade his wife so why it’s entertainment to watch Kate do it…I don’t understand.
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Christine 7-30-2007 @ 7:25PM
I enjoy watching the show. Kate and Jon are definitely devoted to their children. They are all so happy and sooo cute. I think Kate is a great mom despite that she yells and nags at Jon. It is implied in the show that they understand one another and who wouldn't get stressed out from time to time with such a clan. Kate has a high maintanance(sp?) personality which would is a whole lot better than low maintanance especially in such a busy family. Keep up the good work Gosselin's.
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Alex 11-20-2007 @ 10:14AM
These people are disgusting! Please explain what is so admirable about using artificial means to have two sets of multiples over populating the earth when so many children are desperately in need of adoption! This is just another outrageous example of the over consumption and gluttony in this country. In many parts of Europe
(and rightfully so!) there are strict laws regarding In Vitro and surrogacy!
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Devin 11-20-2007 @ 10:37AM
ALEX- I am sorry, but you apparantly have had no problems having kids or don't wnat kids or whatever.But unlike you there are some of us who desperately want to have kids and will do what we can to make that happen. Don't get me wrong I agree that there are a lot of kids who need to be adopted, but until I am told that there is no way for me to have a child of my own flesh and blood, I will continue to use artificial means to have a baby. Just because you use artificial means doesn't mean that you will have multiples, that is just luck of the draw. Obviously god knew what he was doing when he gave them to Jon and Kate. I think they are wonderful parents. As far as Kate I can completely understand where she is coming from I run a daycare out of my home and have 10 kids enrolled, so yes there are days when your patience runs thin.
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Mona 11-20-2007 @ 7:00PM
Kate must be a terrible friend as well as a terrible wife. Everything is about her!! Her friends must hate when she calls because they know it's something about her and probably relates to her asking them to do something for her!
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mary ferguson 11-20-2007 @ 7:56PM
I watch the show last night when they went to the furniture store to buy beds for the kids I could not believe how out of control those kids were, why didnt kate say something to them I was surprised the store didnt ask them to leave. That women is crazy and gets more every week, I cant wait till Jon asked for a divorce, wont be long.
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Michelle Nagy 11-21-2007 @ 12:41PM
I truly admire Kate and Jon!!!! I have two children ages 7 and 4 and I am quite exhausted every day.
These parents due a wonderful job.
They are trying to handle 8 children with different personalities and needs.
I am also very neat and tidy in my home and my children are rarely sick. This is a must with 8 children. Keep up the good work.
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Jean 11-21-2007 @ 10:05PM
I love the show but am getting sick of the way Kate treats Jon like he's a dog. I know the pressure is on both of them with 8 kids but there is NO excuse for the way she talks to Jon. Why does she sound so hostile toward him. Wonder how the kids will turn out selecting their spouces? Kate you better wake up while you have time. I wonder if Jon will still stay married to the WITCH after the kids are grown. It really looks like Kate is USING Jon for what she wants him for......its not love as she says. Love does not speak to their loved one like she does. She needs help with communications with Jon.
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Angela I 11-23-2007 @ 2:42AM
Love, love, love the show and Jon and Kate. How natural they are in front of the cameras. These are very brave people who are not afraid to show the raw side of marrage and kids. Kate's my hero--amazing mother and so unbelivably organized. I can't imagine the stress level and yet they find time to laugh and love. I wish they could adopt me.
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