Things to consider when getting a family dog
Filed under: Just For Moms
I adopted my dog, Jordi, in 2002, long before I had even fathomed the thought of ever having a family. I actually went to the shelter to look at Jordi's brother Bosco, an adorable black-eared mutt with huge eyes that called to me beseechingly through the Internet. But when I got there, Jordi had other plans. He was so strangely homely, I felt sorry for him. Tragically, he looked more like a demented rabbit than a dog and he would not leave me alone, swatting my leg lightly and peering at me straight in the eyes, odd head cocked as I tried to play with his brother. In the end, he decided I was his Dog Mama and I was not really consulted in the matter. Bosco was cute but Jordi had tenacity. Who knew that's the way that it works?Fast forward five years. I am moving into a new home with a two year old and a massive white dog. Carpets do not mingle well with toddlers, so I installed hardwood, but now I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place for floor mats to protect them. A white carpet would be covered instantaneously with banana mash and unintentional raspberry purees, missed toilet opportunities and crushed cheerios. An anything-but-white carpet would be streaked and matted with the dozens of blankets in off-white fur that Jordi sheds madly everyday.
So, my unsolicited advice to families considering making an emotion-based decision when buying a family dog:
1) Make sure he isn't going to shed madly. Stay far, far away from animal rescue foundation dogs who are part husky, part shepherd, and maybe part coyote.
2) Ensure you place so money aside for future dog dentist bills because - man, that breath will blow your socks off during hot summer weather five years from now.
3) Research temperament and whether that breed of dogs is known for its tolerance of kids.
4) Black fur? Never wear white again. White fur? Be prepared to throw out every black item in your wardrobe from now to eternity.
5) How about that shedding?
**Edited to add**
For the love of all things holy, this was meant to be tongue in cheek. My dog is a furry second-son, and my own son's best friend. I wouldn't trade him in for his brother, for money, or even for a million Lindt balls. We love Jordi to pieces and couldn't imagine life without him. For real.












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7-18-2007 @ 11:27AM
blueidkele13 said...I really resent the article...shedding and not getting a part husky or shepherd? What the hell..I did animal rescue (wild aniamls and large breed dogs) for a long time. All I can say is what the hell! The most important thing you can do is become an educated pet owner. It may be somewhat true that if you can find out the breed, you should look into the traights they can or will display. For instance a shepherd will or could be more protective of their family and home than say a bird dog. I have a shepherd mix, a pitbul and a rotti at home, all my dogs are trained, all my dogs have spent tons of time with other animals and children. You have to know the limitations of your dog, no matter what breed they are. Did anyone know that small dogs bite twice as often of not more than large dogs? Its all about quality time, respect and effort on the part of the owner-you get what you put into it. I have 3 wonderful dogs, raised with kids and so many rescues. You have to research you dog, you need to train them and you and the kids on how to treat an animal and you have to love them to death.There are + & - to every breed, not just the large breeds. Its ignorance like this that aid the breed specific discrimination bull we hear all the time.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:26AM
Ernestine said...First of all, you can eliminate a LOT of shedding by combing and brushing the dog regularly (minimun, twice a week). I know it works, as I have a Border Collie. Dogs NEED to be groomed. As for the dentist bills because of bad breath....feed the dog a vet recommended dog food,(example, Eukanuba) along with dentabones of some type. We've had our dog for almost seven years; no bad breath ever and very happy and healthy! And, make certain your dog has plenty of exercise!
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7-18-2007 @ 11:38AM
Judy said...OK, so now you know some of the bad things about having a pet. Is there nothing good about the dog? If not, the poor dog needs another home. Also, no dog should shed continually every day if proper weekly brushing and bathhing - Ask the vet how often for this dog as it varies from dog to dog and breed. First and probably the most important is a good diet that gives your dog what he needs. Your statements were made to be slightly funny, but really weren't to a dog lover. It is not necessary to have hair all-over and to smell bad order from your dog everyday. Find a food that is high in fat content as it will greatly reduce the shedding hair. A weekly brushing will help also, and it is not too early to start having your child help. A slicker brush will work the best. If you do not have the right food and do not wish to change, try adding oil to the food. Also make sure the dog has something to chew on daily for helping with the odor form the teeth. It will help. having the teeth clean so often will also cause some of the shedding since the dog is under when it is done. Good luck.
Do try someof the suggestions from the comments as it will help you and the dog. A breeder of long haired dogs for 30 years.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:32AM
Michael said...After having several pets and having children we had to keep a distance between them both. Last July we purchased a "mini" bull dog.
A year later he weighs 50lbs. not really a mini, and far from a tea-cup.
If at all possible we would consider cloaning him for we couldn't have asked for a better dog.
He's TERRIFIC with kids, strangers and if his nails are clipped even babies. He's the dog that all families should have. With all the other animals we have he puts them to shame with his temperment, wits, and his expressions.
We couldn't have asked for a better dog, he should be in movies. Our 5 year old belives the dog and him are brothers (litter mates) no joke.
Sincerely,
The Radcliffe's
email with questions:
mrad200@aol.com
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7-18-2007 @ 11:33AM
Lonnie K said...In March this year we got a rescue dog, Shiba Inu, and the shedding was very heavy. Then our daughter told us about Mazola Oil and advised us to give her one teaspoon per day mixed with her food. The change started in about 3 days and today has completely stopped. I never tried it before, but it's inexpensive and easy and worked for us.
Good Luck!!
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7-18-2007 @ 11:34AM
talia said..."Why do shelters and rescues not want to adopt dogs out to people who work full time?"
Because they have seen more than their share of dogs returned by people who don't understand why Fido hates being crated 10-12 hours a day.
Dogs are social creatures who become lonely and bored easily. If they are left to roam around the house, they will often chew from boredom and/or relieve themselves on the carpet because they've not been outside for 10 hours. Then they get crated. Many dog owners take advantage of the fact that Fido will not (in most cases) soil his crate, so they'll run that extra errand after work and make him wait even longer to relieve himself. A dog is not a cool accessory for your weekend runs in the park, then during the rest of the week make him live in a box. If you don't have the willingness and human decency to care for these wonderful animals humanely- don't get one. And don't begrudge the rescue workers for doing their jobs and being their advocates.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:37AM
pat said...This article irratated me. With so many pets out there needing homes how can you tell people to not adopt. If the local shelter is giving you a hard time then contact the breed of your choices rescue association. Easy to find on the web and since they live with foster families you will get a good idea of the animals personality. I personally have two Alaskan Malamutes and a Lab/Border Collie, all of them shed like crazy, but I wouldn't give them up for the world. I guess it depends on if you look at your dog as a pet or as part of your family.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:36AM
Lauren said...I agree wih Babylove77, they make it xtremely had to adopt a dog or cat. While many of these animals are living in horrible conditions in a cage or worse be put to death if not adopted. That is why people buy animals. There should be fnding to spay and neuter animals. The conties shoud have his money I have called about stray dogs and they will not pick them up. They tell you to bring the in and py to leave it at the shelter There is also a waiting list for the animals which discourages adopters.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:40AM
Shelly said...I got my dog from a breeder. She is a Goldendoodle and I love her! One big reason we got a goldendoodle is becuase they don't shed!!! So if anyone wants a dog that doesn't shed I'm just sayin'...Goldendoodle! In my eyes she is certainly a perfect dog but to other people there is no such thing!
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7-18-2007 @ 11:45AM
Pat said...Hi, I am not a child. I am 65 years old and have had my share of dogs for pets. I just want to share this with all the dog lovers out there. When your dog starts to destroy your property, disturb your neighbors with their constant barking, cost you ridiculous medical bills and interfere with your trip planing and family time I beg you to remember this "IT'S A DOG". Your neighbors, who are humans, are more important. Your financial status, that you need to survive, is more important. Your vacation family time is much more important. Just remember "IT'S A DOG" not a family member. It can be replaced over and over again. Anybody who reply's to me with nasty email needs to see a Doctor yourself.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:40AM
monica said...i have 2 dogs... a labrador mix who sheds ALOT and a poodle mix who BARKS alot. i "inherited" these dogs from family members. Their vet bills are alot and being the mother of 4 kids, i dont have too much time for the dogs. My husband wants me to get rid of them, but i cant-emotionally it would bother me to think they are in a shelter somewhere. I try my best to take care of them - and i keep up with their medical visits and shots - i make sure of that. the labrador mix sheds all over - and the poodle mix refuses to potty train. she has ruined my hardwood floors. and please dont tell me "cage" her - because she barks CONSTANTLY while she was confined - so caging doesnt work for her. to whomever out there that is considering getting any type of pet - please - please - make sure you have time and money to commit to them. i wish i could have just said "no" when i inherited them but i know i would miss them if they were not around. if anyone has any suggestions on how to potty train her - i would appreciate that - thank you.
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7-18-2007 @ 12:08PM
pammbw said...As a dog breeder, I can tell you the screening process is very necessary. I can't tell you how many people I know who tell me their pet horror stories when they find out I breed dogs. I say to them, the dog was perfectly fine when it was sold to you. I ask many questions and charge a lot of money for my dogs because I do not want an animal that I have loved and nurtured for 8 weeks to be mistreated. It takes a lot of time and effort to raise a litter of dogs to 8 weeks, and a lot of heartache when some don't make it. The screening and the high price weeds out those who are not serious and dedicated pet owners. I have a very generous return policy, and keep up with all of my dogs in their new homes. Most of the problems that occur with pets are simply the owners lack of dedication and incorrect expectations about what it takes to own a pet. If you leave a pet home for 8-9 hours a day and expect no problems you are crazy. A dog especially needs companionship and stimulation. They get bored like the rest of us, and that is when they get destructive. Be harshly honest with yourself and decide if you can deal with all the baggage that comes along with owning a pet. It is for your own good as well as the good of the pet. If you can't stand shedding DON'T GET A DOG!!! There is no such thing as a non shedding dog!!! Besides, who wants to live in a perfect home anyway? So cold and unwelcoming.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:40AM
POODLE said...Well, all I can say if you don't want a dog that sheds get a poodle. They come in all sizes. Just a thought!
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7-18-2007 @ 10:22PM
NORMA said...YOU HAVE TO LOVE ANIMALS TO GET A DOG OR ANY PET. AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT PET HAIR OR ANY THING. JUST GET WHAT KIND OF DOG YOU WANT AND TREAT IT LIKE ONE OF YOUR OWN FAMILY. I HAVE TWO POODLES AND LOVE THEM EVEN THO I HAVE TO CLEAN UP AFTER THEM BRUSH THEIR TEETH, AND THEIR HAIR TAKE THEM TO THE VET WHEN NEEDED. THEY ARE NOW OLD SENIORS ALSO BUT THEY ARE LIKE MY KIDS THEY ARE FAMILY. I HAVE HAD A DOG OF SOME KIND ALL MY LIFE AND LOVED THEM ALL AND MISSED THEM WHEN THEY PASSED ON. I AM NOW A OLD SENIOR MY SELF AND THEY WILL MOST LIKELY BE MY LAST. SO GET A DOG OF SOME KIND IF YOU ARE READY TO COMMIT YOURSELF TO CLEANING UP AFTER THEM OTHER WISE DO NOT GET A DOG OF ANY KIND.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:46AM
Artis said...Realize that it is not unusual for some breeds to snap or nip when crossed (Miniature Pinchers and Jack Russell terriers, for instance.) But if your dog is allowed to roam or is unsupervised and he seriously bites a neighbor or another dog you can expect a visit from the police or even a lawsuit. This is your responsibility--not the dogs.
If, for any reason, you are unable to keep your companion it is your responsiblity to find him a good home.
By the way, I have a Min Pin. He snaps and occasionally will bite when crossed. I can't complain because I made it my business to study up on the breed before I got him and was warned by the breeder.
Because both my Min Pin and my Cairn are males they do compete a bit and mark in the house. I knew this was likely to happen so I take my lumps.
I ADORE both my fiesty obstinate Min Pin and my fiesty stubborn Cairn. Typical of their breed types and both loyal and very loving. They're not perfect (who is?), but they're more than worth it!
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7-18-2007 @ 11:50AM
Joy said...Always Adopt a dog! Always, they make far better pets .. even with children than expensive ones. Buying a dog isn't an option, not when there are so many homeless dogs that really need your home and love. If you are looking for a pure-bred try the breed rescues. Be careful when buy9ng dogs online, and in newspapeers. These dogs could have problems.. most of these breeders are backyard breeders, please don't support them. Even if the dog is free. Don't ever buy a dog from a pet store. They come from Puppymills. Please consider adoptionss. And if you want a dog that dosent shed much. try the poodle. These breeds are even hypoallergenic.
1) Make sure he isn't going to shed madly. Stay far, far away from animal rescue foundation dogs who are part husky, part shepherd, and maybe part coyote. -n Youre wrong. Many are actually good. It sounds like your dog was abused in his past. Many actually are abused and looking for better homes. Stay with adoption agencies.
2) Ensure you place so money aside for future dog dentist bills because - man, that breath will blow your socks off during hot summer weather five years from now._ Somewhat true. But you can fix it without paying the bills. Feed your dog dog food, no table scraps. But dental bones, asnd chew toys. There is a wonderful product called an Easy Brush Bone.. works wonders. Also Yip Yap Mints for dogs.
3) Research temperament and whether that breed of dogs is known for its tolerance of kids. - Great advice..
4) Black fur? Never wear white again. White fur? Be prepared to throw out every black item in your wardrobe from now to eternity. - Whats wrong? Cant afford a dollar lint brush or buy bounce dryer sheets? These things come in habndy always. Bounce dryer sheets repells most dog fur.
5) How about that shedding? - you can't help that.. 99% of dogs shed.. live with it. Or don't get a dog.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:50AM
ShadowAceD said...I have owned many dogs in my life time; from a tiny little Yorkshire Terrier to a massive Siberian Husky. I have to say, I do not agree with the suggestions on what to think before adopting a dog in this article.
To tell people to stay away from rescue foundations aiding the lives of huskies, shepherds and the like is rather ridiculous (around here, that is about all you can find). If everyone followed that belief, I would love to know how those animals would escape euthanasia. Dogs shed, that is a simple fact of life. The ONLY animals who will not shed are those who's coats are kept shorter than their natural length. For instance, my Shi-tsu (obtained from a friend who's pair bred) is groomed to be a short haired dog every three months or so and, as a result, never sheds. My Boxer (rescued as a severe abuse and neglect case), however, sheds like you would not believe, but I remedy that by having him undergo a twenty-five dollar shampoo treatment every five months that keeps it under control.
Also, a dog's teeth can be maintained, as stated before, by raw meat or even by simply giving them the proper bones to chew on (teeth brushing is also an option with special tooth paste). My Shi-tsu is reaching ten years and I have yet to have a problem with her teeth or her breath and, if you do not know, small dogs are notorious for horrific teeth problems.
I would also like to add STAY AWAY FROM PET STORES. As cute as that little over priced mutt puppy is in the window, you need to realize it is likely from a puppy mill or some other B Breeder jerkwad. It is always best to recieve an animal from a reputable shelter or rescue foundation. The most you will pay (more often than not) is a 200.00 adoption fee and that is it.
The point I am making is simply that a dog is a full time commitment. It is not some thing to chain up and forget outside. My dogs are like my children and they are just as spoiled and just as adored. If you want a dog, do your homework. In the end, it is better for you and the animal. Do not pick out the first dog you see. Look around and make sure your needs and their needs can be met without too much difficulty.
Dogs can be very life enriching.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:54AM
Ann said...We have wood laminate flooring and hard tile throughout the house, which is perfect if you have dogs. Neither the flooring nor the tile can be scratched and they're easy to clean with just a stick vac. The furminator tool also works great for getting dog hair off the dog including from the under layers of fur before it gets onto the floor. I also have to say that I had a stray husky/german shepard mix who lived to be 18 years old and was the best dog in the world. He was extremely sweet and patient with kids, adults, and other dogs, calm and content if I walked or ran with him daily, and so eager to please. Please don't take the other person's comment seriously about never adopting a rescue dog with husky or german shepard!
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7-18-2007 @ 11:52AM
Carla Hart said...Instead of calling for people to stop adopting a particular breed of dog just because the dog happens to shed, try this: Go to your local Sears or Lowe's. They both carry this amazing machine that picks up dog hair in seconds. It's called a vaccuum cleaner. Use it a couple times a week and love and embrace your dog for who he/she is.
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7-18-2007 @ 11:52AM
JANIE said...I HAVE HAD DOGS FOR THE PAST 27 YEARS. SINCE I HAVE A SMALL HOUSE, I LIKE SMALL DOGS. THE FIRST THREE WERE EITHER BLACK OR GREY IN COLOR. I DON'T CARE MUCH FOR SHEDDING DOGS, SO I ALWAYS HAVE GOTTEN POODLES OR POODLE MIXES. THERE'S REALLY NEXT TO NO SHEDDING WITH THEM. THE 3 COCKAPOOS WERE PROBABLY THE BEST AS FAR AS TEMPERAMENT. I NOW HAVE A ZOOPOO - THE FIRST ALMOST TOTALLY WHITE DOG THAT I'VE EVER HAD. NO HAIR SHEDDING THERE EITHER. TO ELIMINATE THE SHEDDING, GET A POODLE - STANDARD OR ONE OF THE SMALLER SIZES, IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE - THERE'LL BE NO SHEDDING.
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