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Will you get the flu shot this year?
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And, will your kids? I got a flu shot for the first time in my life last fall when I was pregnant. My OBGYNs strongly urged me to do so, and with all the contact I have in a given day just in New York on the subways with passengers both sick and well I thought it best to heed their advice.
I didn't end up getting the flu while pregnant, an illness that can apparently have fatal results for a fetus. I was nervous the entire time though that my child would be autistic or something of that nature, what with all the rumors and paranoia and unsubstantiated research floating around out there linking vaccines and autism.
That time passed, however, and I gave birth to a healthy baby boy. I was healthy too, and flu free. Now flu season is upon us again, and New Yorkers are being asked to get their flu shots. My husband took our son to get his latest round of vaccinations and when the nurse offered to give the baby a flu shot at the same time my husband didn't think twice about it.
Well, he did when he realized our six month old son then got five shots! Poor thing! He handled it pretty well though. I was actually sort of annoyed when my husband told me this though--I hadn't even been consulted. Truthfully, and especially because Mr. Pickles is in daycare, I probably would have opted to get the flu shot anyway. I just wanted to be asked for my opinion, I guess.
Next up is me. Should I get a flu shot? While I am generally opposed to putting anything into my body, especially while breastfeeding, I may go the shot route this year. Why? I've already been majorly sick twice. And I'm pretty sure that since the baby was sick at the same time he picked something up from daycare and brought it home to me.
A cold is one thing, but the flu is another. I can and did tolerate the cold but the flu is a most unwelcome guest. Now I just have to get myself to a doctor to get one before we run out! That does happen around here--only so many flu shots to go around for a population of around eight million people!
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10-23-2007 @ 8:55AM
Melissa said...I will get the flu shot.
I got the flu while breastfeeding my first son. When I get the flu, it's awful - at least 24 hours of vomiting and the other, too. It completely wiped me out AND shot my milk supply. My milk never really recovered and I dried out soon after that.
So, I guess for me, breastfeeding is all the more reason to get the shot. I'm the sole food source for my son, and I'm the sole care provider for two children. I need to be able to care for them, and I'll take my chances with the flu shot and any potential side effects.
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10-23-2007 @ 8:17AM
Nancy Toby said...Already done - me and my twin 4-year-olds at the local community center along with 800 old folks! My husband gets them free at work too.
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10-23-2007 @ 8:27AM
Marcia said...http://www.parentdish.com/2007/10/19/jennifer-garner-want-everyone-to-get-their-flu-shots/
I don't see the point in purposely giving myself the flu. Everytime someone in my family gets a shot, it gives makes them sick within the month. Thankfully I've never had a bad case of it to worry about needing a shot.
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10-23-2007 @ 10:26AM
Joy said...I have no reason or explanation but I don't get the shot. I'm not afraid of shots and I do agree with vaccinatons for children, I just don't do it for no good reason.
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10-23-2007 @ 10:34AM
Jenna said...Nope. We don't get the flu shot here. We're home most of the time. I'm not missing work if someone happens to get sick and needs taken care of. So, nope. No need for them here.
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10-23-2007 @ 11:02AM
Nancy Toby said...The injected vaccine in 2007 is made from a killed virus and cannot cause influenza. Please check your facts.
http://www.cdc.gov/flu/professionals/acip/composition0708.htm
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10-23-2007 @ 6:38PM
Erin said...I am a little confused by the logic of being "generally opposed to putting anything into [your] body, especially while breastfeeding", but at the same time having no qualms injecting that same substance into your child. If your child has already received the vaccine, what is the harm in you receiving the vaccine while breastfeeding?
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10-23-2007 @ 11:52AM
Michelle said...I've been told by my pediatrician NOT to get the flu shot specifically because I am nursing and that my baby should be at least 6 months old. I have only gotten the flu shot once and I did not get as sick as if I had gotten the flu, but I was sick for almost 3 months. I prefer the flu, it's horrible, but much shorter. I would check in with your pediatrician and/or family doctor before getting one yourself.
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10-23-2007 @ 12:16PM
Ethel said...I'm nursing my 15 month old, and he and his nearly 3 year old brother are getting their vaccination on the 1st, my husband will get his this Thursday and I merely need to schedule my own. If there is anyway to get around not having the flu I will try to avoid it, especially with one wheezy little kid who has a hard time breathing with any cold and the other contracting bronchitis with a cold this June. I don't need them getting pneumonia and ending up in the hospital, or God forbid, dying (kids and geriatric patients can succumb to the flu). And, I sure as heck don't have the ability to be flu sick taking care of two toddlers.
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10-23-2007 @ 6:34PM
Nancy Toby said...BTW, for you needlephobes, this year I (and about 800 other people in our county) got the flu "shot" with a new needle-less device that injects it directly through the skin with air pressure.
It actually doesn't feel much different from a regular flu shot, but if needles cause you anxiety, you might check it out.
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10-23-2007 @ 6:32PM
Crystal said...We will not be getting the flu shot in this house. I welcome the flu, I could use a day or two in bed and I'll happily watch my MIL chase around my kids for a few days. lol
I dont really have a good reason NOT to get it. I just dont feel comfortable with it.
AND, my son has a sensitivity to eggs, and there is something in the flu shot that is egg related, so we have been cautioned by his pedi and his allergist NOT to let him have the shot. He is 3.
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10-23-2007 @ 6:30PM
Tash said...The flu shot is one of the only on the market still with trace amount of mercury in it.
See: http://www.nvic.org/Diseases/influenzafacts.htm
Ask your Doctor to see the product insert and review the ingredients with you prior to vaccination.
And watch this comedy sketch which is accurate: http://www.informationliberation.com/?id=18211
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10-23-2007 @ 1:06PM
Jan Bay said...I got my flu shot last week. I usually wait until the last week in October to get stuck but DH talked me into going the first day. I have gotten vaccinated every year and have never had any symptoms whatsoever, but I was advised awhile back by an RN to take some Advil an hour or so before getting the shot to avoid any feelings of minor discomfort.
This year I forgot my routine and didn't take my Advil because as I said, DH talked me into it at the last minute. Well, if I wondered whether or not that Advil before the shot made a difference I know now that it does. I was slightly achy for about a day where I never had been before. Nothing extreme, but I felt the difference.
Glad I've got the shot behind me and I hope that it covers whatever bugs are out there this winter. Our littlest one can't have it because of the egg allergy, but the rest of us get it as a precaution. Did anybody else hear that the stats say that the flu shot has not decreased the number of flu deaths in the elderly. Yesterday a friend told me that she was not going to get the shot this year because of that report.
Jan from http://www.unique-baby-gear-ideas.com/
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10-23-2007 @ 2:24PM
Tash said...Jan here is a link to one of the articles on that story:
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/02/14/health/main674098.shtml
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10-23-2007 @ 2:28PM
Tash said...And http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/chi-1023_health_flu_roct23,1,4226728.story?ctrack=1&cset=true
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10-23-2007 @ 2:59PM
SKL said...Nope. I'd rather keep my immune system in shape.
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10-23-2007 @ 3:54PM
Jen said...Good comment Erin, I was thinking the same thing. We aren't getting the flu shot, my family has a lot of autoimmune disease and my older son has a lot of sensory and behavioral issues while my younger son has a history of developmental delays and severe food allergies. We stopped getting shots when my younger son was a baby.
Jen
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10-23-2007 @ 4:40PM
Croft said...Normally I would not and neither would my husband or our daughter (29 months) since none of us have compromised immune systems or any other reason the flu could be potentially fatal to us (just an inconvienience) - however this year I am due to deliver my son sometime around Thanksgiving who at his very young age during flu season will be at higher risk of complications of the flu. I got the "mercury" free one from my midwife already, and my daughter should get hers next week. My husband just got his today from his employer. Next flu season, as long as my son does not have any medical issues we will be back to no flu shots...
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10-23-2007 @ 6:31PM
Jennifer Jordan said...Tash--good point. I know my peds use only mercury free vaccines, so my son is ok. I will need to confirm with my own doctor though!
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10-23-2007 @ 8:36PM
Jennifer Jordan said...Crystal--another good point. I remember being totally freaked out when I read the information that came with the flu shot and saw the part about the allergies to eggs and goose down. I'm not sure where the connection lies but there is one. I hate getting any sort of shot like that but this year I feel like for me and the baby it's the lesser of two evils...
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