How to help the medicine go down
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In the very early hours of Monday morning, Ellie woke up in pain. It seems that after a week of sniffles and coughing, she had developed an ear infection. I tried my best to make her comfortable enough to get through the night, but it wasn't happening. When she tearfully begged to go to the doctor NOW, I knew I had no choice but to bundle her up and take her to the hospital down the road.
One of the benefits of living in a fairly small city, is the speed in which one can see a doctor in the middle of the night. At the ER, we were shown to a room almost immediately and Ellie settled down on the bed and tried to watch some television. Who know that Suite Life of Zack and Cody was on at that time? After the doctor confirmed what we already knew, the nurse administered some numbing drops in her ear and gave her a dose of pain medication as well as a prescription for Amoxycillin.
Once we got back home and tucked her into bed, she immediately fell asleep. When my husband returned from the 24 hour pharmacy with her antibiotic, I woke her up and gave her a dose. She was kind of loopy from the pain medication they gave her at the hospital, and drank down the milky white stuff without argument. That would be the last dose she took without argument.
She needs two doses a day for ten days and the battle has begun. Although she has gotten a little better about it over the past few years, Ellie has always resisted taking medications. She gets herself all worked up over it and has been known to gag and throw up before swallowing even a drop. This morning was upsetting for both of us. As she sobbed in front of her medicine cup, I begged, I threatened, I bribed with chocolate. With seconds to spare, she choked it down and we raced outside just as the school bus pulled up.
I don't want to go through this every morning for the next nine days and am begging you for some advice. How do you get your kids to take their medicine? We've tried mixing it up with apple juice or soda, but she still resists. Have any of you parents figured out a fool-proof way to help the medicine go down?
One of the benefits of living in a fairly small city, is the speed in which one can see a doctor in the middle of the night. At the ER, we were shown to a room almost immediately and Ellie settled down on the bed and tried to watch some television. Who know that Suite Life of Zack and Cody was on at that time? After the doctor confirmed what we already knew, the nurse administered some numbing drops in her ear and gave her a dose of pain medication as well as a prescription for Amoxycillin.
Once we got back home and tucked her into bed, she immediately fell asleep. When my husband returned from the 24 hour pharmacy with her antibiotic, I woke her up and gave her a dose. She was kind of loopy from the pain medication they gave her at the hospital, and drank down the milky white stuff without argument. That would be the last dose she took without argument.
She needs two doses a day for ten days and the battle has begun. Although she has gotten a little better about it over the past few years, Ellie has always resisted taking medications. She gets herself all worked up over it and has been known to gag and throw up before swallowing even a drop. This morning was upsetting for both of us. As she sobbed in front of her medicine cup, I begged, I threatened, I bribed with chocolate. With seconds to spare, she choked it down and we raced outside just as the school bus pulled up.
I don't want to go through this every morning for the next nine days and am begging you for some advice. How do you get your kids to take their medicine? We've tried mixing it up with apple juice or soda, but she still resists. Have any of you parents figured out a fool-proof way to help the medicine go down?











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11-06-2007 @ 3:53PM
Courtney said...Mine are still little enough that I drape my legs over her arms, pinch her mouth with my one hand and pour it with the other. Their are a lot of tears, but she gets it and it only takes about 5 seconds. Then I comfort her and tell her I'm sorry, but if she'd just take it, it wouldn't have to be that way. My oldest never had a problem taking meds, but luckily my nephew is exactly like my youngest and this was the suggestion of my sister. Maybe she is still small enough to do that with?
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11-06-2007 @ 4:02PM
Sandy Maple said...Thanks for the suggestion, but while that was sometimes effective in the past, she's too big to hold down now!
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11-06-2007 @ 4:12PM
Ethel said...With my mom it was "Either you take it or I will help you." Oh man, I never question that kind of statement.
I have heard of one mom using icing to help get antibiotics down - whatever works!
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11-06-2007 @ 4:22PM
Chris said...We get everything flavored with FlavoRX. The pharmacist asks you what flavor (they have 24) and it costs about 1.25. My kids actually WANT to take medicine!
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11-06-2007 @ 4:30PM
Anji said...Brute force? Sorry, I'm not much help. Orion is still at the age where medicine is "yummy!"
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11-06-2007 @ 5:14PM
Heather said...I guess we are really lucky. Both of our kids are more than willing to take medicine. They actually ask to take it.
Maybe if you explain to her that if she takes her medicine it will help her to feel better faster. Then maybe give a sucker or something to get rid of the "yucky" flavor, that may help also. Another idea is to maybe give her a little bit of a heads up that she will be taking her medicine. (After breakfast you will be taking your medicine.) Maybe it will give her a little time to mentaly prepare herself.
Other than that, I really don't have a concrete answer.
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11-06-2007 @ 4:55PM
Joy said...Boy Sandy, Ellie sounds just as DRAMATIC as my granddaughter who is 7. Anything like this is tramatic for her and she's been known to gag too. Ever had pink eye? Those drops were so hard for them to get in her that my son had to stay home from work as he was the only one who could do it. I agree that she is to old to hold down. Maybe try telling her a movie out or a shopping spree for a new outfit when the medicine is gone would work for her. My little one loves to go shopping with me ALONE so much and sometimes a pack of new markers and a few writing tablets is all it takes. Hope all goes well. I'll be thinking of you.
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11-06-2007 @ 4:59PM
KS said...My four year old son refuses all meds (even the kiddie-flavoured ones) and has done since he was a baby. We have had some success making up a special icecream sundae with a small scoop of icecream, "special" (ie medicinal) icecream sauce, and icecream sprinkles. Usually works for about 3-4 doses before he decides he doesn't like icecream...
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11-06-2007 @ 5:18PM
Maggie said...Love and Logic has a new book that deals with stuff like this, "Parenting Children with Health Issues." You can learn more at www.loveandlogic.com.
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11-06-2007 @ 6:14PM
Tamyu said...I wish I had a good solution for this. My son is one of those children who just senses that medicine is in something and would rather fight to the death than consume it. We`ve actually had to endure hospital stays on IV to get both medicine and nutrition in, because once he thinks I put something in his food - he will eat or drink NOTHING for days. Syrup medications are the worst - and I don`t blame him, those things make me gag too.
We`ve found that medications come in a lot of different forms, and that there are often patch or suppository types of most everything but antibiotics. For those, we ask for the active ingredient powder, and can usually get by with a virtually flavorless sprinkle. My son is just getting over pneumonia, and has had to have medication for the past week and a half. He has a 24 hour patch, a suppository every 8 hours, and 2 types of powdered antibiotics. I have found that mixing them into very thick cocoa seems to work the best to get them down with minimal fight.
Have you tried slipping them into something she consumes before she knows that she is taking them? The thought of taking them seems to be what is upsetting her more than the actual taste. I have a feeling that as long as she knows that she is taking medication, it`s going to be a trauma situation for her.
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11-07-2007 @ 10:42AM
BigGUM said...What works pretty well here, is to get the dose ready with something sweet as a chaser (juice or soda). We have our son pinch his nose and swallow the medicine quickly then take a big gulp of the sweet drink before letting go of his nose. No smell, no taste. Works great!
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11-07-2007 @ 11:48AM
Sandyone said...With ear infection abx, I'd be inclined to just not give them to her. I'd tell her that I'm not going to fight her on it. She can take it or leave it, but she should remember the incredible pain that she was in the other night.
This puts the onus on her. The infection will either clear up on its own or she'll decide that she needs to take the meds. If she takes them, great, because the next time she needs them, she'll know that she can take it and will be more willing and able. Of course, if the infection clears up without the abx, it'll make it harder to convince her to take them when they're absolutely necessary, like for a UTI or pneumonia.
With other infections, I think abx are more necessary. Some infections don't go away without them, but research indicates that most ear infections don't require abx. If you can put the responsibility in her hands for this illness when it's not too important that she succeed, I think it would be good for her.
There is always the threat of abx by injection. I thought we were going to have to do that with our youngest. The threat wouldn't have meant anything to her, but she needs the abx and wasn't taking them. Then, she pulled a two yr old's prerogative and decided that she loves this antibiotic and that it tastes like candy.
I have also considered freezing meds in dosage sizes. They can swallow these down with a chaser. I haven't done it, yet, because I keep forgetting toask the pharmacist if freezing will damage the drug. Keeping it in the fridge helps with the taste, too.
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11-07-2007 @ 12:57PM
Margaret said...When mine were very little, the magic trick was letting them do it themselves -- you put the dropper in, not Mommy, wow, you're so grown up.
For the older ones, it's been a combo: They're very firmly told that if you don't take the medicine, you don't get to complain about your sore throat or whatever -- I simply won't be able to hear any whining you do about it.
But if you *do* take the medicine, you can have a mini Hershey bar afterwards.
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11-07-2007 @ 1:07PM
Eileen said...I hate to admit this, but I recently had the same problem, and I used bribery!! I promised her a new toy at the end, and I also reminded her how much pain she was in and that it might return. She had just suffered from 2 ear infections in one month, so it seemed to work! Good luck!
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11-07-2007 @ 2:01PM
Sandy Maple said...Good news! We went to the grocery store yesterday and discovered it is eggnog season again. She agreed to try her medicine mixed in with some of that and it worked! She says she can't even taste it and drank it down this morning with no hesitation! Can you freeze eggnog? I'd sure like to have some on hand if she gets sick when the stores are no longer selling it. Thanks for all your suggestions!
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