Giving thanks where thanks are due

Filed under: Just For Dads

To my husband's eternal frustration, I am a 'glass half empty' kind of girl. Despite my efforts at change, I tend to see the negative side of things first. I appreciate the benefit of looking at the bright side, it just doesn't come naturally to me. But because of my husband's influence, I have at long last learned to follow up my gloom and doom thoughts with deliberate attempts to the see good side of things.

So, this is the time of year when I make a full stop and take a look around my life and try to focus on all those things that make me glad I'm alive. That's when I realize that if I had any sense at all, I would be jumping for joy each and every day of my life. I have a healthy and happy family that I love with all my heart. I have a beautiful home and enough money to pay for it. I have good friends who make me laugh and keep me from going too far inside myself. I have four funny pets who endlessly entertain me. I enjoy my work and have more time for play than I've ever had in my life.

As I think about the things I am thankful for, the list becomes ridiculously long and one thing becomes obvious. My husband has not only helped me to appreciate how blessed I am, he has made many of these blessings possible. I was and still am a strong and independent person. But before he found me, I was also struggling and alone. He brought love, patience and an endless supply of optimism to my world. He became a father to my daughter and a Papa to my granddaughter.

For all those reasons and many more, I am most thankful to the man who threw caution to the wind and jumped aboard this crazy train with me. I know I don't say it often enough, but I am saying it now. Thank you, Andy.
AOL Answers is no longer available
AOL Answers is closed

AOL Answers is no longer available.

As AOL continues to grow and evolve we are taking necessary actions to ensure our efforts and resources are
focused on the areas where we can create the maximum amount of value for our loyal consumer base. As a result
we have decided to sunset AOL Answers. Thank you for your participation in this site. If you have an AOL-related
question (passwords, account information, etc.), please visit our AOL Help site at

ReaderComments (Page 1 of 1)


Flickr RSS



AdviceMama Says:
Start by teaching him that it is safe to do so.