Teen response to Sally Kern
Filed under: Just For Moms, Teens, In The News
I've had a tough time getting Sally Kern's hateful words out of my head. Truth be told, I have yet to be successful. Of course, I am not the only one who has been bothered by what she said -- the internet is veritably humming with outraged discussion. But what about the people she represents, the people of Oklahoma? Are they in agreement with their elected official?Apparently not, based on what I've been reading. Perhaps most poignant and thought-provoking was a letter from an Oklahoma City teenager, a senior in high school. Normally, his letter might be written off as nothing more than an inexperienced kid talking about something he knows nothing about but, in this case, sadly, he does have some relevant experience. As he wrote:
"On April 19, 1995, in Oklahoma City a terrorist detonated a bomb that killed my mother and 167 others. ... That terrorist was neither a homosexual or was he involved in Islam. ... Your harsh words and misguided beliefs brought me to tears, because you told me that my mother's killer was a better person than a group of people that are seeking safety and tolerance for themselves."
This is obviously an intelligent, eloquent young man who was severely hurt by Kern's words. If this is how students in Oklahoma are taught to reason and express themselves, perhaps there is hope for the state after all, despite Representative Kern's best efforts.











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3-14-2008 @ 11:27AM
jane said...I was so saddened by this woman’s words that I don’t know what to say. I thought we had come farther than this.
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3-14-2008 @ 12:13PM
ammie said...Roger, Sally Kern is not a good representative of Oklahoma or its people. Yes, there are people like her in this state--people supporting her. Oklahoma has its fair share of ignorance and intolerance just like any other state.
I'm an Oklahoman. I was born here and have lived my entire life here. Sally Kern does not represent my family's beliefs or the beliefs of my friends. I don't know that many people that agree with what she had to say.
And I--for one--am raising my children to be tolerant, compassionate, intellegent, well-reasoned, independent individuals who would never agree with this woman.
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3-14-2008 @ 10:37PM
Steve Rider said...As an elderly gay man, I've been bashed many times. I see myself bashed on the news or online every single day.
What is different this time, from my perspective, is my reaction. I have created a new website, inspired by Sally, just to reply to her.
http://SallyKern.com/
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3-15-2008 @ 8:49AM
shirlee said...Re: Sally Kern
I first heard of this watching "Ellen". It is hard to comprehend someone who thinks like her. Gays are more dangerous than terrorists? Someone should take Sally, out for nice afternoon of electra -shock..maybe then she would clear her brain or at the least hear herself as she says these hurtful things.
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3-15-2008 @ 11:25AM
Washington Vomit said...She has the right to say whatever she wants to say. it is not ignorance, ignorance is mindlessly enforcing political correctness. Society has taught you to feel sorry for gay people, so i have much respect for this woman for going against the grain and speaking her mind. Hail Sally Kern
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3-16-2008 @ 2:39PM
teddy knight said...Children as young as 2, if they had any idea what she was talking about, would just say "Eww! I want my Spongebob. " The idea, the delusion, that our fragmented society, led by an officially homophobic president, would agree about anything educational, is just plain silly. We would have a hard time getting agreement about whether 2-year-olds should still be using a bottle or whether they should be potty trained, much less anything as far off a child's radar as how adults do sex. We cannot even support our K-12 schools, how are whoever "they" are supposed to get the money for 3-4 additional years of school? If Sally Kern has an answer for that, I suggest she immediately become Budget Director and Secretary of the Treasury.
A survivor of children, grandchildren, Scouting, Sunday School, and summer camp counselling.
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3-15-2008 @ 10:22PM
mike said...You must realize that Ellen DeGeneres' audience is probably very accepting of her being a lesbian so their response to the issues concerning homosexuality are probably skewed. Whether we like it or not, whether we want to look accepting and liberal, the truth of the matter is that this Representative is to a certain degree right. Teens today are not being taught just to be "tolerant" of homosexuality but to accept it as if it were "normal." I have two daughter's and even they have commented on how they were/are taught in school to be accepting of this lifestyle. They see it all around them, in school with their liberal teachers, in the movies, in the news, and on shows such as Ellen's. I think it is about time that we take a step back in this country and see what all this "tolerance, acceptance, and outright pushing the younger generation to accept things that we the older generation (anyone over 35 yrs) is doing to our country. I like Ellen but and understand that homosexuality exists. As a coworker once told me, "I'm gay because I choose to be gay." He's a great person who is lived by many at work, yet, the majority of us at work disagree with homosexuality. Homosexuality is a very minute part of our society yet if you watch TV or surf the internet it would seem as if it were the majority of society, Almost every episode of some show or almost all of the movies in the theaters have some character who is gay, etc.
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3-16-2008 @ 12:23AM
george said...your co worker is an idiot
3-21-2008 @ 8:06PM
Stefve said...I come from a very large family and I too just happen to be gay. When I came out to my family many years ago, I was treated just like before.
Maybe Mrs Kern and all the other just like her, sit back and think. Most gay people who don't have kids come to help their parents when it come time to need help. Think most of us just want to belong, and when they can't get it from their own family, then who?
Speaking for myself, I was proud to tell my family about me being gay. Hell my mom would have loved seeing a drag show.
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