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Master Sgt. Morris Hill is serving his country in Iraq, a long way away from his beloved sons back in Texas. Luckily, these days, we have the means for people on opposite sides of the planet to talk to each other in real time, almost without regard to where they actually are. We have cell phones.Unfortunately, the only time Hill could call his son Brandon was during the school day -- a time when students are generally forbidden from using their cell phones. It would seem, however, that this situation would count as extraordinary circumstances and an exception could be made, but administrators disagree. Brandon was suspended for taking the call.
"He called me during class, because that's the only time that he could," Brandon said. "I answered the call as I was walking out of class. The teacher followed me out and said, 'Oh what are you doing?' I said my dad was calling from Iraq, and I know he needs to talk to me." Brandon was sent to the office and given a two-day suspension.
The odd part is that the father had apparently made an arrangement in advance with the assistant principal to allow his sons to receive calls from him. "He had spoken with Mr. Fletcher," said Pat Hill, the boys' mother. "He thought there was an agreement understood that if he called either Joshua or Brandon at school, that everything was fine."
"If this would have been the last phone call from my husband, and he's in trouble for it and then has to deal with something happening to his dad that would be even harder," Mrs. Hill added. "These schools have to stop and realize, especially when you are in a military community, we support our soldiers, we support our troops. What about them when they are in Iraq trying to reach their family?"
Mrs. Hill is trying to get the suspension removed from her son's record, but the school says the matter is closed. Whether or not you support the United States' actions overseas, you've got to understand that the soldiers are doing their job and that they and their families are still people -- people who care very much about each other and have a need to stay in contact. It seems to me that the school could be more understanding on that point.











ReaderComments (Page 4 of 67)
4-16-2008 @ 2:52PM
Kristin said...That is utterly ridiculous. I can see why a regular school in a non-military area might have trouble understanding the situation, but this was in a military area. Have these people no compassion? That poor kid just wanted to talk to his dad and the school is going to make a stink about it. My father is teacher and he's had trouble with kids and their cell phones, but I don't think he or any other teacher in his school would protest a call to a child from his father stationed overseas.
The school board needs to be involved in this and I hope they open their minds and their hearts and let this suspension drop. Is there a way the public can email the board and make their opinions known? Perhaps public outcry can assist here as it has in the past!
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4-16-2008 @ 3:43PM
isisaquaria said...Actually, we live away from the military installations--My 12yo daughter has a cell phone and my husband has the younger daughter's teacher's phone--he can call anytime, they have no problem with this. The teacher actually gave me her number for this purpose, I never asked for it. They have been wonderful, thankfully common sense lapses are not everywhere
4-16-2008 @ 2:51PM
Sabrina said...I agree, ridiculous. I am fully against cell phone use in schools, but the article says they'd made previous arrangements with the administration, and regardless, his dad is in a WAR ZONE...what if it was the last time he got to call? Sheesh, I could go on about this all day. My husband is USAF and when he's gone I take calls day and night, regardless of where I am, even in a hospital. Sorry, but that's life.
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4-16-2008 @ 5:03PM
Abelicio Padilla said...THIS IS THE EMAIL FOR THE PRINCIPAL AT CCHS:
Dr. Carol Saxenian--saxenianc@ccisd.com
PERHAPS IF ENOUGH PEOPLE CONTACT HER DIRECTLY AND DEMAND THAT ANY RECORD OF THE SUSPENSION BE ERASED, IT WILL HAVE AN EFFECT.
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4-21-2008 @ 3:17PM
rereray8 said...the e-mail address did not work
4-18-2008 @ 9:03AM
Tanja said...I wrote her and appreciate you giving me the address! We are military and I just can't believe there are still people like this out there! My husband has served in several overseas tours, I can't tell you how much those phone calls mean to both sides of the line. GOD BLESS AMERICA and GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS!!!!
4-18-2008 @ 1:05PM
Judy said...Thanks, I sent her a letter of support.
4-16-2008 @ 10:01PM
Justin said...Christ, what is it with hopeless, ignorant, selfish, jerky schools lately?? Is it something with the moon cycle?? Seriously, what the hell is wrong with these people!
I'm not even going to bother going into a deep comentary as I'm too tired and too pissed off now after reading this. I swear every day I think home-schooling my kids is looking better and better by the second.
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4-18-2008 @ 9:43AM
Jane said...'Jerky schools LATELY'??...These government run schools have been this way for years....I'm surprised you just noticed. What do you expect when you allow the government to take control over your children?
4-17-2008 @ 4:19AM
karen said...I agree with the poster Sabrina. I agree with not allowing kids to have cell phones in school (just my personal opinion) but if my kids had one and their dad was in Iraq you can bet damn skippy they would take his calls since typically their night is our day.
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4-18-2008 @ 9:08AM
NJersey said...Can the parent (s) get hold of the school assistant principal that the father had contacted about his need to call the kid (s) during he day because of the time difference? And if that assistant principal did not do anything to intervene in favor of the father's request, that official should be suspended and without pay. Unbelievable.
4-17-2008 @ 11:49PM
Chris said...Let me state that I am an AF child and have a brother in the Army who has been deployed twice to Iraq.
To be the devil's advocate: say an entire unit is deployed so most of their kids are in the same schools. What if about 30 of those parents decided to call during their shift change: you'd have chaos in school.
I'm not saying they shouldn't answer the call, especially since they had taken the time to OK it with administrators. but where do you draw the line? Can a cop call his kid during the day? What if he was a SWAT cop and was getting ready for a raid? How about the international business traveler? I'm just saying that I respect our military, but there is such a thing as going to far in giving them the leeway to interrupt classes to call home. When my brother was in Iraw, he made it a point to try to call before the kids left for school, right after school or in the evening. His wife did her best to be ready for those calls. It took a lot of planning for him, but it worked out great!!
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4-18-2008 @ 6:20AM
Sam said...smarten up will you!!!!!!!!!!!! If a 2 minute phone call is the only interuption this kid gets in school he is way ahead of the game. Get your head out of the sand, these kids are text messaging up to 1000 times a day to their friends! And talking about God only knows what. A call from a parent and the kid actually answers? Have at it kids
4-19-2008 @ 5:24PM
Deanna said...My husband has been deployed for 14 months now. There are people who have no idea how extremely difficult it is until you have lived through it. I don't agree that kids should have cell phones. However, if that is the only time that my husband can talk to the kids then so be it. The phone calls are short in duration. If this is what these kids need then give it to them. It isn't like my husband can put the war on hold to schedule a call. He can't tell the taliban to hold their fire in order to call home. You don't have to agree with the war, but at least support our soldiers fighting for your freedom.
4-18-2008 @ 7:09AM
NIKKI said...To Chris... There is a diffrence in a parent being in the SWAT team and a parent being in Iraq! The kids get to see the parent in the SWAT every day but the parent that is in Iraq does not get to see his family! Think about this... It is awful that the school did what they did, my prayers go out to the family and every person that it is affected by the war! Chris, have compassion!!!!!!
4-18-2008 @ 7:14AM
Vanessa said...i do believe the article said the boy answered the phone as he was walking out of class, not during class. have a heart
4-18-2008 @ 10:28AM
Shelley said...As soon as the police are working for 8 month shifts, they can call during school hours. And when the international business traveler is saving lives and being shot at while they are working, then they can call their kids at school too. You are a nit-wit. It was ONE phone call that was PRE-ARRANGED. Let it go...
4-18-2008 @ 12:39PM
Ashley said...Sorry, but comparing Military to cops, just isnt the same. These children do not get to see their parents 12-15 months out of the year, yes thats the typical Army deployment. Unless you are married to a solider, or are one yourself, you can never get what we have to go through as a community and how our children suffer everyday. To take a simple phone call away from a child whos father is deployed and very well could get killed on any given day is despicable. Who knows when he could have called again or what he was about to go into? When you live in a military community, you take all of these things into consideration and you never take anything for granted. Obviously the teacher and administration are incredibly ignorant. Obviously they do not live in or have a loved one in the military. This is terrible. People will not stand for it.
4-18-2008 @ 9:04AM
Carla said...Too bad being a military kid didn't give you a heart or smarts. War is more harder on the kids. I don't think kids should have cell phones in school either but that is progress. I do think the school was plain stupid for suspending the kid for answering a call from his dad in Iraq. I can think of hundreds more reasons why a kid should be suspended that would be more of a reason than this, like being a bully but they don't. Can you imagine that if this kids dad was blown up after he tried to call his kid and no answer , the kid would harbor such hate and may become the next campus sniper. What was the hard, the only thing I can see coming out of the phone call is that the kid is forming more of a bond, the dad talking with his son whom he loves so much to help him endure and have strength to go on another day to fight for your freedom.I think some forget what the men and women are sacraficing for our freedom. I say let any child recieve a call from mom, dad, brother, or sister who is deployed. It can make a big difference.
4-18-2008 @ 12:56PM
sherri said...I understand what you are trying to say chris but as a child of the military from the past I can tell you it would have been great to have those calls from my father when he was found after missing for 18 months and you better bet i would have risked any punishment for that call. and to be honest, i feel the problem here is that the school went to far!! and I fully agree with everyone when they say this assistant principle should stand up for this kid and his family. maybe we should get their email and let them know what we think of a coward who will not come forward with an explanation