Dad calls from Iraq, son gets suspended
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Master Sgt. Morris Hill is serving his country in Iraq, a long way away from his beloved sons back in Texas. Luckily, these days, we have the means for people on opposite sides of the planet to talk to each other in real time, almost without regard to where they actually are. We have cell phones.Unfortunately, the only time Hill could call his son Brandon was during the school day -- a time when students are generally forbidden from using their cell phones. It would seem, however, that this situation would count as extraordinary circumstances and an exception could be made, but administrators disagree. Brandon was suspended for taking the call.
"He called me during class, because that's the only time that he could," Brandon said. "I answered the call as I was walking out of class. The teacher followed me out and said, 'Oh what are you doing?' I said my dad was calling from Iraq, and I know he needs to talk to me." Brandon was sent to the office and given a two-day suspension.
The odd part is that the father had apparently made an arrangement in advance with the assistant principal to allow his sons to receive calls from him. "He had spoken with Mr. Fletcher," said Pat Hill, the boys' mother. "He thought there was an agreement understood that if he called either Joshua or Brandon at school, that everything was fine."
"If this would have been the last phone call from my husband, and he's in trouble for it and then has to deal with something happening to his dad that would be even harder," Mrs. Hill added. "These schools have to stop and realize, especially when you are in a military community, we support our soldiers, we support our troops. What about them when they are in Iraq trying to reach their family?"
Mrs. Hill is trying to get the suspension removed from her son's record, but the school says the matter is closed. Whether or not you support the United States' actions overseas, you've got to understand that the soldiers are doing their job and that they and their families are still people -- people who care very much about each other and have a need to stay in contact. It seems to me that the school could be more understanding on that point.
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ReaderComments (Page 5 of 67)
4-18-2008 @ 6:14AM
Sam said...Let the kids talk to their military parents. Did it ever occur to the school administrators that the love, and support these kids get from hearing from their parents on deployment will help them settle into the school routine. We have our heads in the sand, and we think these kids don't feel the stress that the rest of us do! How wrong you are, every time my husband left on deployment my sons grades slipped, and he had trouble sleeping. He was worried about his Dad! Smarten up SAD and stop acting like hilter. Maybe the deliquency and drop out rates would improve!
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4-18-2008 @ 6:16AM
Joe said...I think anyone who sides with the school is on drugs. You know it may be against school policy, but here is a man fighting to protect their freedom. I think they can make an exception.
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4-18-2008 @ 6:19AM
Pam said...What is wrong with schools today? I mean it's not like the kid took the call in the middle of class. Leave him alone, he just wanted to talk to his dad.
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4-18-2008 @ 6:21AM
momma10318 said...I agree with both sides. As a teacher, having a phone ring in class while I am teaching is very disrupting. The child had arrangements with the administrator to answer the phone though. I just dont understand why he was suspended when permission was given. I also don't understand why he wasnt pulled out of class to a different location if he knew his dad was going to call at a particular time. Although, if he was a football player, asministration would have done nothing anyway.
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4-18-2008 @ 10:19AM
Cynthia Fryar said...Momma10318 as a teacher, I'm surprised your reading comprehension skills are so poor. The call did not come during class, but as the student was walking out of the classroom at the end of class. The call did not distrupt anything other the arrogance of a teacher who like you, probably can't read and comprehend what she read either. Even if that call came in the middle of class.. so be it.
When a parent is in a war zone, where his or her life is in danger and he or she could die any moment in a bombing, or an ambush..
A two minute phone call isn't going to ruin your day. Missing that call could ruin a childs day if the worse was to happen and they see they'd missed the call and then there's a knock at the door and notification that their Mother or Father has died in Iraq.
The staff at this school are reprehensible and their actions are inexcusable. They should be fired. Our children need intelligent adults as their teachers. Not insensitive, arrogant morons.
4-18-2008 @ 2:54PM
Chell said...But in the article it said the boy was on his way out of class. So how did he disrupt the classroom?
4-18-2008 @ 6:24AM
Stephanie said...woah, i would totally fight the school on this matter. Even if they didn't have a prior agreement. This is ridiculous. I would have answered my phone, I don't care WHO told me I couldn't.
This needs to be taken care of, there is no reason for the B.S
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4-18-2008 @ 6:24AM
SCchristianAFvet said...This is ridiculous. This MAN is away serving this great and proud nation in the fight again terrorism and the teacher wont let him speak to his son. At a time when schools are focused on gay rights and anti christian themes,this teacher should have bent the rules for this military family. What happens if this brave soldier is killed while serving. What if this was his last chance to talk to his son. The family will forever be hurt and the teacher and school wont care. The teacher and administrator need to be fired.
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4-18-2008 @ 12:20PM
mj said...I agree with you all but the part about firing the administrator. I think he should be reprimanded for giving permission and not following through with it. Maybe he had no authority to give permission in the first place. This family should go to the school board or go as far as necessary to get it removed from his record. I'm a teacher too and realize that it can be disruptive with the cell phones and text messaging but this is an exceptional case. The rules are so rigid because they catch flack from parents for any kind of discipline that they try to with hold. Shame on them for not standing up for this boy's right to speak to his father. I don't think they should have cell phones in school at all. They are able to put them on silence and get the messages after school. In this case the boy had every right to speak to his father.
4-18-2008 @ 6:27AM
Peter C said...Do you know what zero tolerance means?
It means that your too stupid to make an educated decision.
It's clear in this case stupid is, as stupid does, It's no wonder the children of this country are in so much trouble today. Life is a series of choices and Rules are made to be guidelines, we should be teaching our children how to make the right choices in life, a blanket Zero Tolerance doesn't teach them anything. This phone call is a perfect example, should the kid have been on the phone under normal circumstances NO, based on the situation should the kid have been allowed to break the rule for the greater good YES.
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4-18-2008 @ 7:15AM
Berh said...people just don't think sometimes. The relationshipe between parents in our socioty are alreadt fradgle. Why would an educater not want to support the bond between thim. These guys are at war, any call coule be the last call.If I knew the school, i would be on the phone that states polititions demanding they correct this injustis.
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4-18-2008 @ 6:31AM
WALT said...THE PRINCIPAL SHOULD BE SENT TO IRAQ TO THE FRONT LINE, WITH NO AMMO & NO GUNS. SEE HOW HE LIKES IT WITHOUT A PHONE TO CALL FOR HELP! OR SOMEONE TO GET IN TOUCH WITH. AGAIN THE SCHOLLS CANNOT TEACH COMMON SENSE TO ANYONE BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE COMMON SENSE.
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4-18-2008 @ 11:07AM
Susan said...Hey Abelicio Padilla ...thanks for that email....I am going to email this woman and give her a piece of my mind...these school administrators should be ashamed of themselves...maybe if they had a loved one in Iraq, they'd have a little empathy for this child.
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4-18-2008 @ 6:33AM
Jon said...HANG UP AND STUDY! HANG UP AND DRIVE! GET OFF THE PHONE! NO CELLPHONES IN SCHOOL.....WHAT DONT THEY UNDERSTAND? WHY CANT THE DAD IN IRAQ TEXT THE KID? THE KID CAN PUT THE PHONE ON VIBRATE ONLY. SIMPLE THE KID CAN TEXT HIM BACK AFTER CLASS.
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4-18-2008 @ 9:22AM
Ron said...Jon, I am almost speechless at your rigid, unbending attitude. There is nothing more important than family. When a family member is in an extreme circumstance, it's incomprehensible that a student would be punished for taking the call.
4-18-2008 @ 11:41AM
Betty said...tex Mail is not like hearing his dads voice .The voice is a personal contact to his child ,but I do have to agree that if that is the only way to get anything from his dad then do so .I would just bet you that the teacher is anti war and anti everything .If I had been the teacher I would have put my job on the line for that child to speak to his dad and had the complete class stand up and Applauded the child dad for his protecting us and others .
4-18-2008 @ 12:14PM
Yvonne said...Texting is not the same as hearing your loved one's voice. Try being apart from your loved one for months or years at at time. My husband was gone for almost 2 years over in Iraq, I got to see him for a whole 2 weeks during that time. Oh wow I got a text yeah right, hearing a voice is a heck of a lot better.
4-18-2008 @ 2:24PM
Bessie Burnsed said...Your a dumb ass.
4-18-2008 @ 1:25PM
MessalineApghar said...Jon, , as a 35yo Child of WW2 vets, That's just a totally ignorant thing to say. If I had a relative in a warzone, , and they texted me b/c they knew I wasn't "allowed" to take calls, and they were killed before I got to answer or speak with them again, I'd be furious. So Furious, I think I would most assuredly go into the school with intent, aimed at the administration.
Surely the generalized use of phones and text during schools should not be permitted, but in my opinion, there should be a standing exception to that policy regarding Military Personnel in theater, and Medical/Death Emergency Notification. And if a parent sees fit to interrupt a child's learning for something they see as important, even if it's "I'll be late, wait for me" then it's the parent's right to do so . and it's most definitely not the school's right to take away.
Whether the call came during or after class is not stated, they kid did leave the class, though, to minimize the disruption obviously and perhaps for a little privacy. that in itself shows good judgement, far better then even most adults have. there have been numerous reports published this week, that all sorts of insider and confidential information is discussed openly in public on cell phones, for anyone to overhear. or even just to be annoyed by.
If I were the teacher of a student who received a call from an active military person, I would ask them not to hang up, and when they were done to come back and put mom/dad on speaker so we could express our thanks and best wishes.
disruptive my a$$. AND just what does the school think is more disruptive ? a few badly timed phone calls from military personnel , or the uproar from this student, his friends, his family, the military in the area, and the public at large?
Would they have done the same if a parent had called from inside WTC on 9/11 during the chaos? probably. thoughtless and impersonal imposition of impartial law. even the courts system has discretionary powers , to be meted out by the judge, under "guilty, with an explanation" pleas. Like breaking the speed limit to get to the Emergency Room.
4-18-2008 @ 1:45PM
Bonibond said...The father is very limited to when he can call and I think if a child can only speak to his father once a week or even less, he should be able to speak to him, he shouldn't have to text. Hearing his father's voice would be very important and reassuring.