Hospital first, then baby
Categories: Newborns, Pregnancy & birth, Weird but true
Our plan for the birth of kid number three is to go to the hospital, then have the baby. It seems they do things differently down in Southern California. Seventeen-year-old Xochitl Parra was getting ready for school at 5:30 in the morning last Wednesday; alone and in the shower, she felt the contractions start. "I felt his head coming, so I sit down and pushed so he could come out," she said.Her phone was disconnected and it was too early to bother the neighbors, so instead of calling for an ambulance, she got dressed and walked eight blocks to the hospital, carrying her newborn son, still attached by his umbilical cord. "She still had the placenta and the baby was still attached, so of course everyone said, 'Don't move!'" said Dr. Jose Perez, director of the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit.
Despite the odd circumstances of the baby's birth and the subsequent trek to the hospital, the 8 pound, 3 ounce baby boy named Alejandro is normal and doing fine. Parra hadn't told anyone about being pregnant because she was worried about her mother's response. She is a sophomore in high school and didn't want to get kicked out of the house. Since the birth, however, her mother has come to accept the situation and will help take care of the baby so her daughter can continue her schooling.
Even though Parra -- still a kid herself -- seems like she's not really prepared to have a kid of her own, it also appears that this is going to work out okay. "We hear so much negative with teenagers throwing their babies in the Dumpsters," said Perez. "This baby is fine, and hopefully there will be a happy ending with the extended family." Good luck to Parra and to little Alejandro!
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
ivory 5-05-2008 @ 11:32AM
What a brave girl. I've had two homebirths, and while I don't consider myself brave for having had my children at home, I had read and planned for months prior, and on the day of, had my husband and midwife's support through the birth.
Best of luck to her. A wonderful site is http://www.girlmom.com, which aims to support young parents. There IS a stigma against young parents because of what we see in the media, and a lot of teen parents buy into the idea that they can't be more than what society says they are. Girlmom is a resource for teens moms who know they are capable of so much more.
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Judy 5-05-2008 @ 3:05PM
It is nice to see that she did the right thing and took the baby to the hospital, rather than "dispose" of the baby. We read entirely too many stories of girls who end up pregnant too young and do *anything* they can to get rid of the baby.
I've also had 2 babies outside of a hospital (the first was born in a hospital) and personally think having a normal, healthy, low-risk birth in a hospital is a lot more scary than having one at home, but recognize that the hospital is the norm in this culture. That said, having had my first baby when I was 17 like this girl, I can't imagine going through a first labor and birth, anywhere, alone.
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