Denise Richards: argument over vaccinations ended marriage
Categories: Health & safety, Medical conditions, Celeb kids, Celeb parenting
Denise says that when she decided to vaccinate four-year-old daughter Sam, Charlie accused her of poisoning their child. "I knew when he said that, that the marriage wasn't going to work," she tells Rebook magazine.
While that does seem a little harsh, I've seen first hand right here at Parent Dish how the subject of vaccinations can divide parents. In the end, the best we can do is agree to disagree. But when mom and dad have different opinions, things can get a little more complicated. Have you and your partner found yourselves on different sides of the vaccination debate? How did you work it out?
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
mamastimeout.com host 5-10-2008 @ 3:35PM
I can understand the disagreement on this issue. However, feel people are misinformed or non-educated about vaccines. Look at the current measles epidemic growing in AZ recently. There have been over 17 reported cases of children with measles. Those parents chose not to vaccinate and now a disease that was not prevalent is becoming widespread once again. Hopefully they will get it under control, in the end parents need to take into consideration the public responsibility they have when they choose not to vaccinate and also think of the health of their child in the long-term. The benefits of vaccines outweigh the risks. If vaccines were so "poisonous" and harmful why aren't more people dying, getting sick or diagnosed with other problems such as autism?
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Austin Primer's Mom 5-18-2008 @ 8:26PM
Denise is very lucky that her child was not visibley damaged by vaccines. Not all of us were that lucky. My child's titers for Measles are more then if he was contagious. My Child has Autism it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what caused that Autism.
~Monica 5-10-2008 @ 11:10PM
Sorry, but do you know 100% that of the children who contracted measles were all those who did not vaccinate? Do you realize you can in fact get every single last one of the vaccinatable diseases even if you're vaccinated? They are *not* a 100% guarantee and that fact is listed in even the pro-vaccines literature.
And people ARE dying, getting sick and being diagnosed with everything under the sun including autism and to say that vaccines have nothing to do with that in every single case is just an uneducated hopeful assumption.
Do you really believe that the neurotoxins found in vaccines are actually harmless? In every child? Even when mixed with all the other neurotoxins and crap found in vaccines? And even when every child is biochemically and neurologically different from the other? Really? Do you believe that the only things that exist are the things published by government agencies or gov't funded organizations?
17 cases = widespread? Really? Since when did vaccines erradicate every single disease to the point of no one ever getting it?
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Mindy 5-17-2008 @ 3:13PM
Monica -- Have you known anyone who has had smallpox recently? Wanna know why? How 'bout polio? Again, do you know why? Vaccinations. And there are several others that are almost eradicated in countries with vaccination requirements. Regardless of other risks of vaccinations, the benefits are seen worldwide. It's a fact that can't be disputed.
Anita 5-18-2008 @ 10:24PM
Mindy, well said!
Carrie 5-11-2008 @ 12:10AM
"If vaccines were so "poisonous" and harmful why aren't more people dying, getting sick or diagnosed with other problems such as autism?"
Uhhh... they ARE. Dying, getting sick and diagnosed with autism in increasing numbers. And the recent measles outbreaks are proof positive that vaccines aren't nearly as effective as people are brainwashed to think. The population is 98% vaccinated, yet outbreaks still occur. Don't blame my healthy kid for that. Blame a system that doesn't work.
But the point under discussion is whether disagreement over a health care issue is enough to break up a family. It ain't. But, a man who would accuse his wife that strongly when they simply disagree? He's probably emotionally abusive.
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george 5-12-2008 @ 6:02PM
Well, while it is necessary to recognize that simple minds might prefer a simple conclusion, a vaccine eradicated smallpox. Vaccines have nearly eradicated polio in most of the world, with periodic outbursts only where cultural norms have delayed universal vaccination.
As the current flu season shows, not all vaccines are equal.
So, if statistics show that your car seat reduces the risk of your child dying in a car crash, does that mean you don't bother to strap you child in? And if a study reports that there is some evidence that car seats may cause death in rare cases by interfering with infant breathing (and there is one that does), does that mean you don't strap your infant in?
For those worried about neurotoxins (presumably the mercury in thimersol) in one of the vaccines used in pediatric practices, check out the mercury levels that are found in breast milk.
Nothing wrong with concern about mercury levels. But, if you are going to worry, worry about important things, like the EPA policy on mercury emissions from power plants.
Not to mention the Chinese emissions....
George
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Dawn 5-19-2008 @ 6:52AM
At 34 years of age, my hearing was damaged last year due to one vaccine. At the same time my infant was suffering from convulsions, high-pitched screaming, congestion, developmental delays, and "regression" in milestones (he stopped doing things that he was already doing) from just a few of his recommended vaccines. The extent of any neurological damage if any will not be evident until the school years (I already have one learning disabled child already and know that it may rear its ugly head later). My 14 yr. old suffered from vision damage after the Hep B vaccine too (one dose). Vaccines are not safe and the reported outbreaks currently occurring in California, Arizona, Wisconsin and Nigeria among the vaccinated is proof that they aren't 100% effective either. I would trade any one of those diseases for the nightmare my family has had to go through any day. For anyone to say that vaccines are safe is an ignorant fool that not only hasn't done their homework, but also hasn't talked to the tens of thousands that were hurt by them.
Denise - all I can say is Charlie was right about this one. You should have listened. Whether or not the vaccines hurt your children may not be evident until the school years (learning disabilities). Of course there are other things that vaccines are capable of too even months later according to countless studies all dismissed by our lovely government agencies - diabilities, bowel disease, allergies, etc. If only I listened to my Mom's intuition and refused them all.....Vaccines are a joke and the joke is on us.
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Dawn 5-19-2008 @ 6:52AM
George, I'm sorry, but two wrongs don't make a right. The FDA and EPA told us Moms not to consume any mercury while pregnant and certainly do not give it to any babies either. There is a reason for that - bile is what removes mercury from the body and infants do not produce it until 6 mo. of age. There is still mercury in all of the "mercury free" vaccines too only the FDA doesn't require the drug manufacturers to list it as an ingredient if it is in "trace" amounts nor do they even test these vaccines to see how much trace is really in them. (According to researchers there is no way to remove it 100% because it binds with other agents in the manufacturing process). Well, according to these two government agencies' formula, just a "few shots" would exceed even their guidelines for my infant (again, though there is no safe amount for an infant under 6 mo). How many shots does the average child get these days? I'm sorry, but nobody knows just how much mercury will cause a child to develop Autism - and yes vaccines can trigger Autism according to a recent report from Japan. What about formaldehyde? The EPA is considering it a possible carcinogen too. It is in half of the vaccines on the market! Then, there are all of the other toxins - anti-freeze, aluminum, etc, etc, etc.
Now, if everyone was jumping off a bridge to their death, would you do it just because everyone else is? I know I wouldn't even if they told me it was o.k. Sorry, but I'll take the less traveled road on this one because I did my homework (after the damage was already done to my family).
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Dawn 5-21-2008 @ 1:18PM
Mindy -
In case you were not aware - the majority of these diseases were eradicated BEFORE each vaccine came on the market. Don't believe me? Take a look at the CDC's reported statistics 1-5 years BEFORE each vaccine was introduced. That is my answer - that vaccines are a joke. FYI- many outbreaks have occurred among the vaccinated populations. Again, do your homework and supply facts. Don't just have blind faith like our beloved doctors. By the way.....can anyone tell me what happens to the brain's immune system during/after vaccination (yes, the brain has its own according to neurosurgeon Russell Blaylock)? Again, do your homework. With all of this technology there is no excuse for ignorance these days. So, I guess my families' injuries were solely due to greed (money).
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Debbie 6-11-2008 @ 8:53AM
The only reason that Charlie feels safe in not vaccinating his children is because the rest of us have stepped up and vaccinated ours. If you feel secure about it, take your kids to a third world country where kids are dying from diseases that can easily stopped with vaccines. Not just for a few days, stay a year then tell me how much better it is not to give your kids shots.
Dawn 6-11-2008 @ 5:38PM
Debbie - I'm sorry, but if you knew anything about vaccines you would know that there is no such thing as herd immunity. Don't believe me? Next time you are at the doctor's office, ask them to pull out the vaccine literature for ANY LIVE-VIRUS Vaccine. Better yet, I'll give you an example of one.
http://www.merck.com/product/usa/pi_circulars/v/varivax/varivax_pi.pdf (page 7)
It was after my baby and I were vaccine-injured last year that I really woke up and starting doing months of research and began speaking to professionals. It used to be the poor uneducated parents who couldn't afford to vaccinate their children, but studies are now showing it is the middle class, college educated who no longer vaccinate. Why? They actually STOPPED listening to ignorant fools who told them vaccines are safe and effective - and actually found out for themselves the truth. Here is the link for every U.S. Licensed Vaccine on the market. I urge everyone to read up on every vaccine very carefully and then take the list of ingredients to a chemist (not one who works with the medical community or drug company). You will be quite shocked by what you hear.
http://vaers.hhs.gov/pdf/PackageInserts.pdf (to view all vaccines)
Take a close look at the cancer disclaimer on every vaccine too while you are at it. They don't know if they cause cancer, alter our DNA, or impair our fertility - YET THEY TELL US THAT VACCINES ARE QUITE SAFE??? How do they know if they haven't studied these areas.
It is time to wake up America before 1 in 4 of our children are in Special Ed for Autism, learning disabilities, bi-polar, ADHD, etc.