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When celebrity chef Nigella Lawson announced that she wasn't planning to leave her children a penny of her considerable fortune, she was roundly criticized. Convinced that financial security ruins people, she says she wants her kids to learn the value of money by actually working for theirs. You can add actress Gwyneth Paltrow to the list of wealthy celebrities determined not to let their kids have a free financial ride. Like Lawson, Paltrow believes kids need to learn to work and that a guaranteed trust fund fortune looming the the future can inhibit the desire to do that.
"My father made it very clear that the day I left university I was on my own," Paltrow said. "He didn't give me any money and I really struggled and I waitressed and bought cigarettes out of tips and tried to get to auditions with no gas. The worst thing you can do is give a child a trust fund. They know they'll get it when they're 18 or 21. And it just kills passion."
I think what Paltrow says makes sense. Unlike Lawson, she's not saying she will never give Apple and Moses any money, she just isn't going to hand it over to them the moment they become adults. But I do hope she will be willing to chip in for the name-change expenses Apple is surely going to require should she choose a career outside of Hollywood.











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5-20-2008 @ 2:17PM
Scott said...No, a poor person buying cigarettes means they are depressed. Have a heart.
5-20-2008 @ 3:31PM
Chandra Bredel said...Smoking curbs the appetite. Many "poor" people use this to fend of hunger. It is also an addiction, though many start as kids to "fit in", or feel like an "adult", they can become addicted.
It always amazes me how people make such sweeping judgments.
"Be the change you wish to see in the world" Gandhi
Instead of being critical and judgmental, try that instead.
5-20-2008 @ 3:46PM
pbwalt said...True dat. I totally agree.
5-20-2008 @ 8:56PM
ninainindia said...Smoking is very expensive, if you complain that you do not have money to feed your children while smoking a cigarette at the same time, I do not have any sympathy for you.
If they spend the money on food instead of cigarettes they don't need to curb the hunger and an addiction can be broken. I know many people that have quit smoking.
That is a great saying by Gandhi, but it doesn't apply here.
5-20-2008 @ 12:36PM
Bonnie said...I think Warren Buffet takes the same approach... isn't one of his daughters a nanny?
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5-20-2008 @ 5:41PM
Ruth said...I don't know about Warren Buffet but Princess Diana was a Nanny and look at how much her family had.
5-20-2008 @ 2:30PM
kim01965 said...Is that what happened to Paris Hilton?
You go Gwyenth!!!
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5-20-2008 @ 2:14PM
Gc said...We all know that Hollywood acts like a bunch of groupies: what one does they all do. They all name their kids weird names, they all are liberal Democrats supporting Barack Obama and now the new thing is to place their kids in poverty at age 21. Watch what happens 20 years from now - a bunch of resentful kids coming out with expose books about their greedy parents. No one says you have to give your kids a silver lining but a little head start is the least you can offer especially if your kid's name is a fruit.
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5-20-2008 @ 11:00PM
Joy said...It doesn't say she isn't going to any money it just says that she isn't going to hand them a large sum of money when they turn 18 or 21. I am pretty sure those kids will be taken care of but know the value of a dollar.
5-20-2008 @ 2:19PM
betzalin Flores said...I agree with her teach your children to be responsible
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5-20-2008 @ 6:24PM
Deb Johnson said...Good for you Gwyneth. My parents are wealthy and there are 3 of us kids. Two of us work and one is a free loader. She has no passion to work. No incentive to educate herself. She always know all of her bills will be paid NO MATTER WHAT. Some adults can be responsible and make their own way some will sit on their butt and not. I wish my parents would cut my sister off.
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5-20-2008 @ 2:22PM
Christine said...Yes, Warren Buffet has said that he's leaving his children a VERY small inheritance - not enough for them to live off of, so they will still be "forced" to work.
While I agree with Gwyneth's sentiments about money, I don't believe for a second that she struggled in her life. Her entire early film career was a gift from her parents (she was offered her first film role in "Hook" by Steven Speilberg himself). She didn't have to audition, do the TV or B-movie route, or struggle the way other famous actors have. How else do you explain winning an Oscar at age 27?
Also, to answer the question about cigarettes: it is often the POOREST people who buy them. I was poor throughout college (actually poor, not Gwyneth-poor), and had a bad nicotine habit that cost me every penny I had back then.
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5-22-2008 @ 4:33PM
Deb Johnson said...Let Gwyneth have her FRIGGIN CIGARETTES people. Some of you drink alcohol/ drink starbucks/ or get fast food when you are barely scrapping by. At least she used her tip money instead of charging it on a credit card. Everyone has their own VICE.
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5-20-2008 @ 2:22PM
jcbrod1 said...gwyneth made it soley because of her name and being the daughter of a celebrity. get over it..!!
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5-20-2008 @ 2:36PM
Sue said...I dont have any children of my own. But when I do get around to creating a will, lets just say my nieces will be very surprised when they are at LEAST 30 years old.
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5-20-2008 @ 2:44PM
Jennifer said...There is a big difference between leaving (or providing) your children enough money to pay off a mortgage, take care of medical bills, etc. than leaving (or providing) them with enough money that they don't have to do anything for their entire life. I know a few people who are "trust fund kids" and their lives have gone 1 of 2 ways:
1. They have a college education but do nothing cause they don't have to work and then complain that they never have enough money (while looking out the window of their $5000 a month beach front apartment.) [This same 'kid' spent over $200,000 on his dad's credit card in 1 year..in addition to the money he was pulling off his trust fund.]
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2. They never take for granted the money that has allowed them to pursue their passions and constantly seek to better themselves.
I cannot begin to tell you how badly I want to slap type #1 upside their heads and tell them to stop b!tching. I plan to pay to put my kids through college and help them when they need it but I can definately see why I would hesitate to hand them over control of a trust fund worth millions when they turn 25.
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5-20-2008 @ 2:45PM
JohnQ said...None of my business
None of AOLs business
Gossip is boriing
The Gossip business is Evil
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5-20-2008 @ 3:24PM
linda said...Then why are you reading the article?
5-20-2008 @ 4:23PM
tallkkmoore said...And yet, here you are....Hmmm. Your life must be pretty boring if you have nothing better to do than comment on that which you say is so boring.
5-20-2008 @ 2:49PM
S.Lane said...My brother feeld the same way. He won't give his kids any money and he has plenty. He feels they should develop a work ethic. He is the same one who forgets his wallet when our famillies go out and eat....twice!
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