Mom writes about taking her kids to a soup kitchen
Categories: Money & work, Single parenting
Parents every where are finding themselves saying "no" more often this summer. This tough economy, coupled with painful gas prices and the rising costs of feeding a family mean that there's less money leftover for luxury items. I was relieved when my daughter decided to reuse last year's backpack, and since she's not yet old enough to realize that back-to-school often means an entire new wardrobe for other kids, I was able to get off easy with one new "first day" outfit (on clearance, no less), a lunch box, and a new pair of sneakers, making back-to-school shopping relatively painless.But in these difficult times, some families aren't just having to say no to "wants," they're finding themselves unable to fill the needs of their families as well. Heather Ryan recently shared her own experience in Salon's new regular feature "Pinched," essays about life in a poor economy. Though Heather was employed and working full time, she couldn't cover her monthly expenses and ended up taking her three children to a soup kitchen one summer, because she feared running out of food by the end of the month.
She writes eloquently, and you can feel her pain and her fear as she worries about condemnation from the soup kitchen staff and faces her older daughter's shame and embarrassment. It had to be difficult to take the step, but far more difficult to realize that you were unable to provide in the first place.
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Rathbone 8-23-2008 @ 9:30AM
I thought the piece was designed solely to tempt a book deal. Why did she drag her kids? Ryan seemed almost glad that her oldest child was humiliated. She could have gone to Legal Aid and forced her deadbeat ex to pay his child support. Her pricey day care was at U of Oregon, where she now teaches (the story dates from when she was in grad school, living in married students' housing.)
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yankeerose0828 11-13-2008 @ 8:53PM
I completely relate to this article. I was working full time for the state of Florida before i was laid off in June of this year. although i receive unemployment and child support, i made a mere $6.00 over the state's maximum amount gross monthly amount to qualify for food stamps. although i didn't want to do it at first i finally had to break down and contact food pantries in order to feed my kids. and the sad part is that on one particular day i called 5 different pantries in my county and none of them had any food available.
it's not such a bad ting to have to go in this direction i found out. most people who run these pantries are very understanding and know that these economic times are hitting everyone and that some of us just don't have a choice.
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