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As a college student, I learned about the various stages of grief outlined by Dr. Elisbeth Kübler-Ross: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
I've done a bit of air travel over the summer and one thing I noticed is how parents' reactions to their child wailing during a flight mirrors Kübler-Ross' list. I saw saw parents who:
In a way, it makes a lot of sense. Being forced to play the role of Person with Annoying Crying Kid that every flight is apparently required by law to have, is a death of sorts. You might drive a minivan and know all the rules to Pee Wee soccer, but you never thought you'd have the kid who deafens an entire cabin and causes people do birth control shots and book vasectomies upon landing.
In spite of being sandwiched in a row between not one but two infants quite vocal regarding their displeasure at being delayed on the tarmac while the plane's "computer system" was being worked on (I always suspect that is code for "engine fell out and we need more duct tape"), I was understanding and stink-eye free to the parents of the wailing wee ones.
You see, it wasn't all that long ago that my husband and I were horrified when our normally good-natured firstborn screamed his tiny throat raw on a flight to visit my in-laws. In spite of bouncing, feeding, burping, changing, cajoling, and walking (judging from the looks we were given by fellow passengers, you'd have thought we were also pinching, stabbing, and torturing) the child was inconsolable. Nearly fifteen years later, I still wish I could send everyone on that flight a doctors note explaining the baby had a double ear infection and the screaming was the result of pain from take-off and landings.No, there will never be an evil glance from me due to a crying baby on a plane. However, the preschooler who kicks the back of my seat the entire trip is another story........
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10-09-2008 @ 9:30AM
Uly said...The trouble is that once you're on the plane, there's not much you can do. You can't step outside. You can't get some exercise and burn off energy. You can't even give a good time-out - if you can't make them be still when they're not on punishment, what hope do you have?
You're STUCK.
And that just sucks.
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10-09-2008 @ 11:08AM
Nicola said...Been there, done that. My guy is a frequent flier and we'd never had a single problem. Until the time that we did. And oh boy did we! He SCREAMED. He screamed and screamed and screamed. And there wasn't a single thing that I could do about it. He was tired and angry and coming down with something (that cabin pressure is murder on their ears!), and had no desire to be strapped into a seat in the cramped confines of an airplane at that particular moment on that particular day. He didn't want to nurse, he didn't want distractions, he just wanted to be pissed off. And to let every other human being on that plane know all about it. All that I could do was to cuddle and hold and sooth him to the best of my ability. For approximately 45 minutes. Until he zonked.
At which point it meant the world to me that the woman sitting behind me with her husband leaned forward with a reassuring smile and said, "You are a wonderful mother. He just needed a nap. Now you sit back and relax too".
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