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Michelle Obama pledges to help working families and military families
Filed under: In The News
This should come as no surprise given that her husband ran on not only the Democratic but also the Working Families ticket, but Michelle Obama wants to help working families and military families. As part of her duties as First Lady, Michelle sees these two things at the top of her very big, very important to-do list. At least that is what she said she'd do in an article penned by the now-First Lady Elect in mid-October, 2008 for the U.S. News and World Report's Opinion section.
Obama also claims that she'd make time for more sleepovers, at the behest of her two daughters Malia and Sasha. Obama goes on to say that no matter what, her first job would always be as a mom. This presidency will be the first time in my experience that there have been children--real children, not ever teens--in the White House. And even though their mother is now the First Lady (Elect, I know, I'm getting ahead of myself), they'll still want to do things like have sleepovers. Perhaps this aspect of First Lady as mom helped sway some votes toward Obama? Maybe.
Getting back to brass tacks, Michelle tackles some very difficult topics in her opinion piece. She discusses the rock and hard place that is trying to work and take care of your children. For many women, working outside the home, which they have to do in order to make ends meet, requires them to get childcare, which is so expensive they might as well not work in the first place. Those families with a parent in the military have it just as bad if not worse--one parent is serving as two. This brings to my mind the needs of all the single-parent families out there. At least someone in the military is hopefully earning some money for all their efforts. Single parents have to be both parents on one income.
Will Michelle hold true to her word--or, at least, her opinion? We have four years to find out. Well, two months and four years. Until then, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that she does help working families and military families...and that she has a few of those well-deserved sleepovers, too.
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11-08-2008 @ 10:05PM
Joy said...I'm not going to change anyone's mind nor do I wish to. I'm merely pointing out, like SKL mentioned in one of her comments, the big men in suits that have money to spend, aren't. That's the bottom line. They are probably digging holes in their back yards and putting their money there. Obama has already said he's going to take from us and give to those less fortunate. What exactly does that mean? Does it mean that those of us who've worked hard our whole lives have to give part of our pay and our savings to those who have chosen to only "get by?" Nobody is going to do anything until they see the new direction of a new party. We go through this every election. It's always slow now. It's just more severe this time with the stock market and the economy the way it is. There is no way it got to this point without a lot of blame to go around. This wasn't because of one president. In the first place, how much control do you think the president has?
My husband won't lose his company nor will his brothers or my son but what it means is who've been working there, no longer will be. A few of these people are close to retirement. They know nothing else. Face it, these are small town people. They are devastated.
I could give a rats behind what color anyone is. That means nothing to me but since it's been brought up, why is it that all these millions of African Americans have never voted before? Whoopi Goldberg said on The View last Wed that her mother had never voted before. So are you trying to tell me that Obama's color didn't have anything to do with that? Why was it that all the African Americans on the news were crying "Never in my life did I think I'd see this?" Was it the democrat that they wanted or the color of this man? Be honest.
Have you been watching the news and reading the paper? Do you know how many laborers have been laid off and aren't working? We can't afford to wait nor can we afford new business's. Obama should step in and help the people who are already in place with work. Bush can't do anything now. Besides, Bush wasn't running. Neither was Palin. People didn't vote for McCain because they didn't like Bush.
I don't want Obama to give me anything, I just don't want him to take anything away that we've worked our whole lives for.
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11-09-2008 @ 3:20PM
TANYA said...JOY :
YOU HAVE QUESTIONED WHY SO MANY AFRICAN AMERICANS HAVE NEVER VOTED BEFORE. IT IS CLEAR TO ME THAT YOU ARE NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN AND CAN NOT POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS. ALOT OF AFRICAN AMERICAN PEOPLE VOTED FOR THE FIRST TIME NOT BECAUSE OF BARACK OBAMA'S SKIN COLOR, BUT BECAUSE OF THIS ABILITY TO ENCOMPASS EVERYONE'S NEEDS. SURE, SOME VOTED ON THE BASIS OF SKIN COLOR ( DEM. & REP. ALIKE ). I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD STOP RUSHING TO JUDGEMENT ! HOW DO YOU WORRY ABOUT THINGS TO COME? THE JOBS LOSSES , MORTGAGE LOSSES ETC ARE ALREADY HERE. LETS DEAL WITH THE ISSUSES AS THEY COME. I RESERVE MY JUDGEMENT FOR LATER. LIKE IT OR NOT WE WILL HAVE SENATOR OBAMA FOR THE NEXT FOUR YEARS.
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11-09-2008 @ 9:11AM
Amanda said...Mihir,
Read what I wrote. I didn't say the right to speak out was gone, I said that it was threatened by things like the Patriot Act and the "Free Speech Zones" that required protesters to be 2 miles away from wherever Bush was appearing. It makes complete sense that there would be more protests, not less, simply because people felt that their first amendment rights were being threatened.
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11-09-2008 @ 10:27AM
jen said...One of the reasons minorities and young people voted for the first time, is that they are optimistic for the first time in a long time about the possibility of change for the better. Obama had a message of hope and optimism versus McCains message of fear and division.
Also, talking about the "big men in suits" or whatever, with money to spend - have you actually researched the appalling transfer of wealth that has occurred in this country in the past 8 years? over 80% of wealth is owned by less than 10% of our citzens, and much of that transfer has occurred since Bush has taken office. His theoiry of "trickle down" to average citizens via jobs, corp investments, etc just doesn't work. The rich get richer and the middle-class become, poor.
I am in the tax bracket that will probably seen a modest tax increase, but I don't really care. We received tax breaks from Bush that weren't really needed, at the expense of the less fortunate. Now it's time to invest in the hard working middle and lower income folks and give them a chance to catch up - not a "hand out" but a break for the first time in 8 years!
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11-09-2008 @ 10:57AM
Joy said...Okay, so Whoopie Goldberg is in her mid 50's which would probably put her mother at 70 or so. Your really going to try and tell me that this is the first time she felt "hope?" Maybe the with the young I'd buy that but not senior citizens. To much of a coincidence to me.
This isn't about race. This is about in the last week, all the lay offs and the small business's that are closing because the bigger companies are running scared and not buying their product. I said before that I could care less what color anyone is but I'm scared for the "small people." Check out how many laborers have been laid off in the last week. Go read the NY times or any other major newspaper.
11-09-2008 @ 5:25PM
SKL said...I still don't get it - if you feel you have extra and others in need should have it, why would you not simply donate it to those people or to charities that specialize in helping those people? Do you really believe this can only be done by a government bureaucracy?
I didn't "need" the Bush tax cuts either, but I made them count by donating the difference to people and organizations that I felt would benefit, as my value system defines "benefit."
I find it hard to believe that people like you really care about others if you don't donate what you can when you can.
11-09-2008 @ 11:23PM
jen said...SKL - Why would you assume I don't donate to others in need? I do donate to private charities of my choosing, but I also feel it is proper to pay my share of taxes to support the government and its programs which help the less less fortunate.
And why do you and others insist that tax breaks to the lower income earners are some kind of handout? They are simply one small way of correcting the incredible inbalance in the transfer of wealth that has occurred over the past 8 years as a result of Bush's favorable tax cuts to the already-wealthy; Tax cuts that were "supposed" to result in opportunities for the less fortunate via "trickle-down" but which back-fired and resulted in the wealthy becoming absolutely filthy-rich instead.
11-10-2008 @ 2:22AM
SKL said...jen,
Your own comments state that you received a tax break you didn't need "at the expense of" others who needed it. If you felt that way, I don't see why you didn't do something to make it right. It would have been easy to do. It just sounds idiotic to fault Bush for giving you something that you didn't need, unless you refused it or passed it right along to its rightful recipient. Kinda like the foreclosed homeowners saying they are aggrieved because the banks believed the lies they told on their loan applications. And if you did pass it right along, then what is the problem? The vast majority of Americans donate money, and donations have increased a lot during Bush's time. Doesn't that mean people in need got assistance? I know it does, because I'm on several nonprofit boards and personally saw the results of taxpayers and corporations having more disposable income to donate.
I know lots of people, including myself, who are a lot better off after Bush's 8 years, even though none of us had any wealth to begin with. I know nobody who is in the opposite situation. And by the way, the wealthiest in this country have always owned most of the wealth - er, that's why they are called "wealthy" - this is not a Bush phenomenon. They were talking about the "poor getting poorer" under Reagan too. You know, back when they came up with the ridiculous idea that able-bodied people on welfare should do something for their money - at least train part-time for a job - and some folks found that so taxing that they actually dropped off welfare. (Hooray!)
You talk about a "transfer" of wealth. What I have seen and experienced is an increase in wealth that has resulted from income, i.e., wages and fees for services. I have seen this at all levels from working-class green-card holders to highly educated professionals. What we all have in common is that we started with little or nothing. Personally, eight years ago I was up to my rear in debt because I had to pay for every penny of my professional education (3 degrees, 2 professional licenses) through student loans, scholarships, or low-wage jobs. My parents could not give me a penny and in fact needed me to send them some help. I had no assets except for one-third ownership of a house with a mortgage (which I bought out of my wages, if that needs to be said). Today, I am in the same position as far as assets, except that I now have an education fund for my kids instead of debt. So I have "wealth." Uncle Sam has already taken hundreds of thousands of dollars off the top of my earnings before the balance could become "wealth." It has been further reduced by hundreds of thousands of dollars that I gave away to causes of my choice. And most recently by some hefty adoption fees. But because I have always lived lean and usually worked multiple jobs late into the night, I have a nest egg that is larger than average. So now you tell me that this is a big problem for our country, a scourge, a scandal, and it must be undone. It was unpatriotic of me to pursue a higher education, to work long hours, to pack my lunches and avoid making unnecessary purchases. Because see, if I'd just done what the average person did, I'd only have a little bit of wealth, if any. Heck, I might even have my hand out demanding money from Uncle Sam instead of the other way around. Obviously I had my priorities screwed up and it's time I saw the error of my ways.
You know, for every hour I spent burning the midnight oil so I could build my "wealth," I generated more and more tax dollars for the community pot. I still do. It's not as if we don't already pay way too much in taxes. Somehow, even under Bush, my existence as a working human justified the government needing $50K+ per year at last count. The more I worked, the bigger the government's chunk of my wages. Now here comes Obama and says that's not nearly enough! Even if he cuts my income tax (and you know he won't), he's going to significantly raise my payroll taxes and other taxes that will flow through to me. So my question is, when is enough enough? Is it ever enough?
I am a single mother and I'm getting up in years. I've acted responsibly all my life so that I could stop worrying at this time in my life. So now I'm being attacked for having "wealth." Last I heard, the democrats want to take my 401K. What will be next?
This is not about whether or not I care about my fellow man. Look at the conditions that Obama's own relatives have been living in - and he's a hell of a lot richer than I'll ever be. He doesn't care whether I care about people in need. He doesn't care which charities or struggling individuals are going to be hurt by my lack of disposable income to give away. He just wants to transfer my wealth into a fund that he will use to push his political and social agenda. Enough will never be enough until he's out of office.
11-10-2008 @ 7:36AM
jen said...SKL - You've totally missed the point regarding the purpose of the Bush tax cuts - they were supposed to stimulate economic growth, not increase my or your giving. It has been proven over and over again that the trickle down theory does not work in times when there is economic uncertainty and the Bush War (that's what they call it in Europe) has destroyed this country's sense of economic confidence. You said it yourself in a previous post - "Yep, I think it's pretty clear that the people who have money to make financial decisions with have been scared into sitting on their cash. "
Regarding your comments that donations have increased during Bush's time is flat out false. That might be true for your microcosm, but overall giving has decreased. I am not going to do your research for you, but your statement is just FOX news tactics - just b/c you say it is so, doesn't make it true (just like they AREN'T "fair and balanced", regardless of what they advertise). Lucky for you everyone around you is better off since Bush - you must hang out in a very elite crowd - that is NOT the case for most Americans - again, you need to do your research and get out of your little bubble of what's true for you must be true for all.
You seem to base all your arguements on your personal experience - YOUR education, YOUR student loans, YOUR business, YOUR giving, scrimping, savings, etc. Just becuase the system worked for you doesn't mean it worked for everyone, or even most, or some. Other than the wealthy (and yourself apparently), people in this country are less better of than they were 8 years ago. It is a fact, and you would see that if you researched more, and spent less time writing long posts about your limited personal experience.
11-10-2008 @ 8:35AM
Amanda said...Jen,
It's not worth the energy to debate SKL. As you said in your last post, SKL bases her entire argument on her own personal experiences. She cannot see beyond herself, and feels that anyone who hasn't succeeded as she has just hasn't tried hard enough. I scratch my head when I read her posts because I just don't know how she could know all about everyone else's lives. Then I realize that she doesn't, and that the reason she tells people who debate her here that it's not her responsibility to research facts to back up her points is because she knows the facts will prove her points wrong.
The thing that saddens me most about SKL and others like her is that they believe that people only work hard to get rich. I believe that while money is substantial motivator, it isn't the only reason people work hard. Speaking for myself, I know I also work hard for the satisfaction I get from producing a job well done, whether or not I am being paid. And, if money was the only reason people worked hard, we wouldn't have any teachers, nurses, cops, fireman, etc. Those jobs do not make you wealthy, but are hard work. On the flip side, pro sports players work half the year doing things most people consider leisure and get paid millions of dollars. So, having wealth doesn't mean you worked hard for it, and not being wealthy doesn't mean you don't work hard.
11-09-2008 @ 1:07PM
jen said...Joy - In case you haven't noticed, Bush is still president and anything that has happened in the last week or so is attributable to his failed economic policies. Obama may be the change this country needs, but he has never claimed to be a miracle worker!! He has already moved faster that any other prez-elect naming his cabinet and reviewing which of the failed Bush policies he is going to overturn as soon he does come into office. Why don't you take a cue from the majority who elected Obama, and try some optimism for a change - or at least give him six months or so to deal with the mess that took Bush 8 years to create!!
As far as Whoopie's mother is concerned - I don't (nor do you) know why she hasn't voted before, but she certainly is not the single be-all representative of black voters across the country - I doubt seriously that Obama won the election simply by virtue of the elderly black vote!! And so what if maybe she voted for him because he's black - there are plenty of people who did not vote for him for the same reason. Overwhelmingly, Obama's support comes from people who simply recognize that he is the best choice for this country - period.
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11-12-2008 @ 9:44PM
Jeannie said...Working families and military families! What about the rest of us. I am one of many of single mothers that tried working but spent nearly a third of our hard earned pay for daycare and whats left goes to gas, car insurance, car payments and health insurance. Whats Left? Do we people blend into that new upcoming picture??
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