Hot on HuffPost Parents:
North Dakota Yoga Teacher Marries Herself
Erin Mantz: I Want to Talk to My Kids About Etan Patz -- But I Don't…
Thomas Beatie - Pregnant Man Getting Death Threats
Filed under: In The News
Thomas Beatie, aka The Pregnant Man
Thomas Beatie, a.k.a. the pregnant man, recently announced that he and wife Nancy are expecting again. Deciding to go for baby number two is a big decision in any family, but the Beatie's situation likely required careful thought. On the one hand, they'd be blessed with another beautiful baby. On the other, they'd have to let the world back into their personal lives for nine months.
Getty Images
The Beatie's just don't deal with media scrutiny; they also deal with hate. They've been flooded with hate-filled and threatening emails, phone calls, and letters. Some even say they hope that Thomas will die during childbirth, while commentators hosted by Fox News called their first baby a "little Ewok" who would probably be born "with a third eye," suggesting, I guess, that their sperm donor came from a galaxy far, far away.
Getty Images
But mostly, the haters call Thomas a freak. Whether or not you agree with what the Beaties are doing, it's hard to understand how normal people can say such hurtful things about a couple who are just minding their own business (and who just might ask others to do the same). This isn't unique to the Beaties' situation, of course. In this day and age of email, caller ID blocking, and anonymous online commenting, people can say whatever they want and never have to hang around to see the consequences of their behavior.
What do you think?
Getty Images
A modeling shot of Thomas Beatie at age 13.
Getty Images
Thomas Beatie in labor with wife, Nancy Beatie at the Cascade Healthcare Community Hospital on June 29, 2008 in Bend, Oregon.
Getty Images












ReaderComments (Page 5 of 23)
11-18-2008 @ 8:40PM
MARY ANN said...no such thing-she is giving birth no matter what changes have occured-and remember thomas had to stop the male hormones sothat the natural female hormones could kick in-allowing fertilization-and how is his wife able to breast feed-and the vivid description of how they did their own invitro is soo dangerous as some will want to copy
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:43PM
Deesker said...What I find interesting is that they want their privacy but yet they're interviewed by Barbara Walters and on Larry King last night. Please give me a break. They are both freaks and it is absolutely disgusting, not that SHE wants to be a man, but that SHE is having a baby assuming the role of a man, which she is not, because she hasn't had surgery. How she is legally a man baffles me. Quit giving these people attention and they'll disappear.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:44PM
maddy said...All I hear about in the news these days is how this person is threatening that guy and so on. Its sad to say but even a threat is an act of terrorism. The people who are pulling this are in my opinion hypocrites, Weather or not we agree with something that someone else is doing is our choice but before you pass judgment on someone else as does the media everyday of many's lives we should really dig down and realize what is wrong with yourself, nobody is perfect. Look back in history and learn about people who were assassinated, There was someone who didn't agree with them, and what did it bring? someone ending up in jail, what happened to his or her family? They were probably devastated in some way, and what does that teach anyone? Not much but "Those who do not know their history are condemned to repeat it" Its sad to see how our country to where many dont like the fact that there is terrorists and terrorism somewhere in the world are creating terrorism themselves.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:45PM
Mark said...Rose,
I'm not sure I understand any of what you were trying to say. You obviously tried to make a connection with the gay lifestyle. I'm not sure what school you did or didn't graduate from, but please get an education before you post another comment here. Your comment about "lesbians" having to use toys to emulate male body parts & gay men trying to "look feminine" is so asinine it's beyond words. You obviously don't know very many gay people (if any at all). You know nothing of the gay lifestyle or you wouldn't make these false generalizations. You've watched way too much network TV or too many movies which portray gays & lesbians in a stereotypical & negative way. Please, please get to know a gay person or two before you make any further comments. You, unfortunately, typify what's wrong with a lot of society & their view toward gays.
Reply
11-19-2008 @ 1:26AM
Heather Bonelli said...Beautifully said Mark....Finally an intelligent person with a comment on this damn thing! All of these people seem to be scared, weak and hatefull.....they spend too much time learning how to hate from their church....
11-20-2008 @ 5:51PM
EH said...I agree. What is wrong with the majority of these judgmental negative post's is simple: Lack of Education and Travel!
Just the same "God intended" blind ignorance.
If God exists, he / she certainly didn't intend for the hatred passed around to those different then what someone is comfortable with.
Is this a man having a baby? No. Men do not have female reproductive organs. Is this a "man" in his mind? Absolutely!
Stranger things happen in "nature" everyday...why is it so hard for the uneducated to realize that nature does produce heterosexuals, homosexuals and transgenders?
Just because heterosexual is the dominant sexual orientation produced does not mean that the less reproduced homosexual and transgenders are not part of Nature...
Statistically, with all of the haters n here, I have to laugh, as many will naturally reproduce children with the sexual orientation they so despise. It's simply a numbers and nature game.
I have to say that I feel happy and blessed no matter what Nature gives me!! BAN PROP 8 for our children!!
11-18-2008 @ 8:55PM
Tanker said...A Man Does not have, or was born with a vagina!!
IT is a woman, altered to look like a man! Mind set does not count, nor surgery to reduce breasts, Or hormones to grow a beard! And hair cut short, lot's of dykes do that. This thing is NOT a Man!
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:50PM
peggy said...The tv special that were just featured on said that the wife nursed the baby,,how did that happen?
Reply
12-01-2008 @ 12:29PM
marilyn said...I agree with alot what is being put on this board. SHE is a WOMAN, dressing like a man. PERIOD. People like her, can try and FOOL THEMSELVES ALL THEY WANT. BUT DO NOT TRY, TO TELL ME YOU ARE A MAN , WHEN YOU WAS BORN A WOMAN. ITS LIKE IF THERE IS A CAT SITTING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME ,AND YOU WANT ME TO BELIEVE ITS A DOG. IM not gonna PLAY PRETEND, LIKE YOU GUYS ARE DOING.Its your choice to do what you want. BUT do not SHOVE OR PUSH IT DOWN MY THROAT. Down the road , im sure someone will want to marry there pet. You think this is silly, well I never thought two men and two women would want to get married. Its just a matter of time. Im sick of people playin FRANKINSTEIN. AND MAKING THEMSELVES INTO DIFFERENT GENDERS. YOU CAN CHANGE THE PARTS ALL YOU WANT. BUT YOU ARE ,WHAT YOU WAS BORN. PERIOD. IM ALSO SICK , of seeing two WOMEN AND TWO MEN KISSING AND FEELING EACH OTHER UP AND DOWN ON DAY TIME TV. I QUIT WATCHING A SOAP OPERA ALL MY CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO LESBIANS , KISSING AND FEELING EACH OTHER UP. ITS JUST PLAIN SICKNING. MY GRANDDAUGHTER CAME INTO THE ROOM AND SEEN PART OF IT. I TURNED IT OFF IMMEDIATLY. THIS SICKENS ME, ON DAY TIME TV. IF THE GAYS WANT TO BE ACTORS. GET YOUR OWN TV CHANNEL BUT NOT ON DAYTIME TV............I QUIT MY SOAP OPERA AFTER WATCHING IT SINCE IT CAME ON. WAKE UP AMERICA DO NOT EXCEPT THIS PERVERSION ON DAY TIME TV.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:53PM
olympia989 said...A Rose is a Rose... And no matter what she calls herself or how she lives Thomas is still a woman!!! Why would anyone call her a MAN? Real men can't have babies.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 8:57PM
Carol said...Why does the media keep saying "man" having baby? "It's" a female 'want to be" man having a baby!!!! BFD...most female's can have babies but not everyone is a "mommy". I feel sorry for this child, but anyway MEDIA; STOP saying; "Man Pregnant"!!!!!!!!!
Reply
11-19-2008 @ 1:26AM
Heather Bonelli said...I feel sorry for your rotten little spawns, they will be just as stupid, hateful, weak and pathedic as you are!
11-19-2008 @ 1:00PM
Carol said...Whatever the hell "heather" said?
11-18-2008 @ 9:00PM
Barb said...This is not a man having a baby. He is a woman who decided to have a sex change. She has feamale organs in side her -him. NOT A MAN HE IS A WOMAN. They are doing this for the attention and that is just what they are getting. She a woman is having a baby not him. She look's like a man but is a woman. It is crazy. Sick of hearing about this as I am sure alot of people are.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:08PM
Kayla said...Forget all of you jerks! Thomas is a brave MAN, trying to have a family the only way he know how. I applaud he and his wife for their bravery, but of course the backlash of going public should have been expected and adequately prepared for.
I wish them, their little girl, and their unborn the best of luck and long prosperous lives'.
FYI: All of the delusionals who comment about God's will are just nuts. We could never know the will of such an impersonal balancing force in nature.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:12PM
Rob C said...If this is a so called woman then be proud to be a woman. A woman having a baby is how it is supposed to be whether or not SHE has had an operation or not. Women with breast cancer, cancer in the uterous and so on should be offended. Trying to say that because of operations a female becomes a male! Women should be angry being this is trying to say they are not needed to have a baby. Men should be angry being a "woman" says "she" is a "man" having a baby. My opinion " she is a psycologically damaged confused woman that wants attention". I do feel so sorry for the kids that will come of this. Did the "real man" that donated sperm agree to this? I certainly hope not! The media shares equal blame on this! They should NEVER had said this was a man having a baby. IT'S NOT! If these so called parents really love kids they would correct this. If they think threats against them are bad. What do they think will happen to the kid?
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:14PM
Torey said...JoAnn said it very well....Thomas Beatie is a transgendered person who is anatomically female ...thus retaining the ability to become pregnant. Although he identifies himself as male, he was biologically female at birth. This is not really the story of a man giving birth.
I also question the publicity issue...news of the pregnancy may have leaked to the media eventually, but the Beatie's certainly did not need to deal with nine months of intrusion into their personal lives until the baby is born. They themselves must have alerted the media.
All that being said, their first child is beautiful, and I pray that neither of their children are affected adversely by the circumstances of their births. Children are precious, and should not be subject to ill will in real life or on message boards. God bless these precious little angels and please grant them the gifts of good health (mentally and physically), and a stable, strong, loving family to grow up in. Yes, the Beatie's family circumstances are unique, but that does not give anyone the right to threaten them with harm. Despite the choices we make in this life, we are all children of the same loving God. Let's all try to practice the Golden Rule, and not wish anything onto this family that we would not want to happen to our own families.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:24PM
Erika said...While I understand the desire of Thomas and his wife to have a family, I don't know why they have put themselves out there into the public eye. Did they need the money from appearing on TV talk shows? I admit I was intrigued when I first heard about the "pregnant man" during Thomas' first pregnancy, I pretty much lost interest when I learned Thomas is a pre-op transexual.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:33PM
taylor said...All of you are very un educated...gender is in the mind...genitals are a physical adaptation to procreate. He is male with female parts....nature loves differences....society hates them.Everyone is born with female anatomy fisrt..dows that mean all men were once female?? or if a man loses his genetalia do you think without that part of him he is now female???and men with gynomastia(large breasts) does that mean he is half female ?? No of course not becasue that is ANATOMY.. HE would still be aman as Thomad beattie is. You all who disagree arent intelligent enough to even have your confused little comments mean anything here.
Reply
11-18-2008 @ 9:27PM
DonEllen said...Recently they have been appearing on numerous talk show. This AM they were on the KTLA News here in Los Angeles. Last night they were on Larry King Live and then of course Barbara Walters did an hour show with them. I am sure they are being paid for these interviews or they would not be doing them. I really don't care what they do what I do care about is that I need to have this thrown in my face The interviews and the questions are stupid. There are far more interesting people to report on then these people.
Reply