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Circumcision is definitely a controversial topic, both here in the United States and elsewhere around the world. In Denmark, however, if politicians have their way, all of the controversy will be moot -- circumcision will be banned. Circumcision of girls has already been banned but boys may still be circumcised under the supervision of a doctor.Several political groups are in favor, but some are calling the idea "tyranny". Jesper Langballe of the Danish People's Party said "It's completely ridiculous to compare the circumcision of girls - which is a barbaric mutilation - with that of boys, where it's just the removal of a skin flap."
Even within the People's Party, however, there is no consensus -- the party's health spokeswoman, Liselott Brixt, says "A lot of parents want it done to their children because they themselves had it done. But we're living in the present and it isn't fair to expose healthy children to religious circumcision."
Personally, I agree that male and female circumcision are completely different, but I am also not completely convinced of a need for male circumcision. Anyone have any thoughts on the matter?
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11-23-2008 @ 8:41PM
Joe said...Well the problem is your examples are pretty poor. Tongue tied and cleft lips or palettes are congenital birth defects the repair of which can easily fall into the category of medically therapeutic. Being Tongue Tied can (for example) affect feeding, speech, and possibly oral hygiene. Vaccinations are also medically therapeutic, that's a no brainer. I might agree on the ear piercing except that is reversible but I'd say it's still proabably better to wait. Not too sure on abortion, the parents should definatly be involved before 18 that I think would be situation dependent. Haven't given that much tought though.
11-23-2008 @ 9:15PM
Joe said...You've chosen some pretty poor examples. Being tongue tied and having a cleft lip or pallet is considered a congenital anomaly and easily falls with in the bound of a medically therapeutic procedure. Especially considering that, being tongue tied for example, can have an effect on speech, feeding, and potentially oral hygiene. Vaccinations are a no-brainer clearly medically therapeutic in all cases.
I might be with you on ear piercing except ear rings can be removed, the holes will tend to close up, and it isn't as damaging as a circumcision so it is reversible.
I haven't given the abortion thing much thought but it should proabably be the case that the parents are notified if the girl is under 18.
11-23-2008 @ 9:45PM
firas said...LISTEN PEOPLE THERE ARE PROS AN CONS TO EVERYTHING WE DO IN LIFE. WETHER YOU THINKS ITS GOOD OR BAD, RIGHT OR WRONG. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOME NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE REACTIONS. CUTTING THE SKIN OFF A BABY WHEN THEY ARE BORN HAS ITS UPS AND DOWNS. IT PREVENTS INFECTION, AND A LOT OF TROUBLE FOR THE CHILD, KEEPING IT AND LETTING THE CHILD CHOSE MAY ALSO BE THE BETTER CHOICE. IT WILL NEVER DE DECISIVE THOUGH. PLEASE GET OVER IT. HOW MANY ISSUES ARE THERE IN THIS WORLD OTHER THAN CIRCUMCISION THAT YOU CAN WORRY ABOUT. JOY I UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM AND PERSONALLY AGREE WITH YOU BUT JOE I ALWAYS UNDERSTAND YOUR POINTS. EITHER WAY WE WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT IS THE BEST FOR OUR CHILDREN. BLESS YOU ALL.
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11-23-2008 @ 10:50PM
Joe said...Thank you for your understanding firas. Sure there are a lot of other problems in the world to worry about, too many for any one person so we select our causes. Since I feel this falls squarely in the bounds of human rights, and involves children, I feel it is a cause worth my time. I understand if others think differently but we all take on different problems.
11-26-2008 @ 4:47AM
rachel said...Firas:
While you understand what Joe is saying, you are ignoring that he is labeling this a children's rights issue. Joe, I am really amused you think this is the most obvious children's rights issue to comment on. I hope you are not practicing law if you have this thought as one would find a plethora of more pressing concerns in the juvenile justice venue, all of which do not presume to ignore long standing religious values and unrelated but associated medical evidence regarding the value of those practices in preventing long term serious disease exposure.
11-27-2008 @ 11:43AM
Joe said...Rachel:
Just because there are other problems of greater severity doesn't mean we should ignore the lesser ones; these are sometimes easier to resolve. I am surprised that you find the potential suffering of infant boys amusing. Circumcision is not without risk and has virtually no medical benefit to 99.99% of boys. For a doctor to perform a medically non-therapeutic surgery on a non-consenting individual is unethical at best and could quite rightfully be considered a crime.
Just so there is no confusion, a medical-benefits or "therapeutic" justification requires that:
1. Overall the medical benefits should outweigh the risks and harms of the procedure required to obtain them.
2. That this procedure is the only reasonable way to obtain these benefits.
3. That these benefits are necessary to the well-being of the child.
None of these conditions are fulfilled for routine infant circumcision. So I'll have to ask you to clarify this statement: "preventing long term serious disease exposure"
11-23-2008 @ 11:26PM
c_rousseau05 said...There are pros and cons to both sides and personally I would want my sons circumcised for HEALTH REASONS, not religious reasons. I find in my research and in my own opinion that it is healthier to have a circumcised penis than one that is not and if it's a matter of health, should it be up to me and my family to decide?
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11-24-2008 @ 12:12AM
Joy said...I just feel that you need to think of this in terms of when these boys turn into men. My dad had infections even caused by soap getting trapped. It's not just about germs and dirt. Under that skin, a lot of germs and things can get trapped. One of his friends had to get one in his 40's and it was because he had such a bad infection it was the only way to get rid of it.
Joe, I'd bet you that you'd get a lot of arguments about the vaccinations. Who says that's a no brainer? My boys were far worse after a dose of those than they were after this procedure. Those vaccines caused their legs to swell and they got fevers and they cried much longer after those shots. They also use a ring now that just causes the skin around it to die off and it just falls off.
I agree with c_rousseau05. This is about health to me and not religion.
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11-24-2008 @ 7:47AM
Joe said...I've had this conversation both here and in Europe. The differences is that in Europe, and other places where circumcision is practically unheard of, nobody ever describes these problems. The medical circumcision rates is very very low which tells me that we are doing something wrong. And it proabably has to do with the fact that circumcision has been common in North America for about two generations.
I don't get into vaccine debates ever. That is a different issue, routine vaccines have a medically therapeutic purpose, but routine circumcision does not. I am aware of the ring thing, cutting is still involved and if you want to know what that might feel like, wrap a rubber band around your finger until it turns black. Pick a finger you can live without. BTW, at least one boy died from that procedure in your very country (province of Ontario) last year.
11-24-2008 @ 9:32PM
Uly said...That would be a more compelling argument if the people who practice FGM - aka "female circumcision" - didn't make the *same one*.
And yet, here I am, all my body parts attached.
11-24-2008 @ 9:38PM
Joy said...Joe, my "very own country" isn't Canada. I'm an American.
11-24-2008 @ 9:55PM
Joe said...My apologies I thought I read you were in Canada. I can point to deaths in the US too if it makes a difference.
1-29-2009 @ 2:30PM
J said...Joy, you have an agenda, because now you have to defend your decision to cut off part of your son's penis. Yes, it was part of his penis. Amputating perfectly normal healthy sexual tissue from non-consenting minors is unethical. Would you cut off the skin from around your daughter's clitoris? After all, it would have the same benefits - lower risk of vulvar cancer, better hygiene, and according to doctors in Indonesia, a lower risk of urinary tract infections.
11-24-2008 @ 1:37AM
Hugh7 said...Joy, you are absolutely right that we have to think about when baby boys grow to men - and have their own ideas about what parts of their own sexual organs they want to keep (almost invariably all of them) or get rid of (hardly ever any). Did your father try using milder soap? Or using yoghurt to restore the natural bacterial balance the soap destroyed? Infections under the foreskin are vanishingly rare, but we only hear about them, never about the billions of men who go to their graves happy to have kept all of their genitals. Your attempts to define the foreskin as not part of the penis belong on the absurdities page of http://www.circumstitions.com.
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11-24-2008 @ 2:12AM
Joy said...You've got to be kidding me right? Infections are rare?? Why do you think older people and late teens need to get this done? Mild soap?? I'm talking in the 70's. People didn't talk about this. Do you think having an infection in your penis doesn't hurt and throb every time you move isn't painful? Now think of this happening every few months never mind your wife having bladder and yeast infections that you gave her. I don' t see how you can't see this isn't best done as a baby. It may be painful on some and not on others but you have to look at this long term.
I also realize this is done as "tradition" in some countries and different cultures. My dad was born in Canada where they didn't do this like in the USA and I can tell you, many of my older uncles and cousins as well as my dad wished they'd had it done. It's a constant pain with most of them.
11-24-2008 @ 5:29PM
Hugh said...Of course they're rare. Most of the men in the world are intact and never have them. You'll need more than anecdotal evidence to establish that they're common, because we only hear the anecdotres about the infections, never about their absence. (I'm afraid I can't say anything about the apparently high incidence of preputial infection in your family without seeming to cast aspersions on your family.) As for giving her bladder and yeast infections, it takes two to tango, and he's at risk of her giving them right back to him. So should we be cutting bits off her (it might work, too)?
You're absolutely right that circumcision spread under cover of the taboo about talking about anything sexual. As you say, they didn't talk about it - just cut it off. But now we can talk about it, and it will wither and die in the sunshine of good information.
joseph jozwiak: if men find, or think, that women will find them more attractive with less penis, they are always free to have it done. (With circumcision now running at 55% in the US, that unfamiliarity factor will soon be gone.) But if for any reason or none they want to have it all, cutting them as babies has removed their right to that option.
11-24-2008 @ 1:46AM
SLT said...There are PROS and CONS in everything we do. As parents, we have to make decissions that we feel are right based on OUR CHILDREN, not the masses. You see, my son was BORN with an ear infection, this poor little boy had terrible ears and by the age of 2 he had tubes put in his ears. Some people were very vocal about it with me, telling me it was senseless to risk my childs life (yes, there is a very very small risk) by putting him under anestetic to have tubes inserted into his ears when the tubes god gave him naturally would correct themselves as he grows. Easy for them to say, they didn't have to see their little boy tortured by the infections, as soon as antibiotics would wear off, another one would be back. They were chronic to say the least and I do not regret my decission AT ALL. His quality of life was severely improved and yes, they came out, and yes his tubes are now fine without the inserted drains, but imagine 3 more years of that in the meantime, it's cruel. But I was judged. Imagine not having the choice?
Well there are many many people who would argue that not all vaccinations are necessary (flu shot, chicken pox, mennengitis etc) yet they are still being ENCOURAGED by goverment (as a preventitive measure) but not mandatory. There is also quite a bit of controversy regarding vaccinations being to blame for the increasing cases of autism and learning disabilities in our children. Both sides of that coin believe that they are doing what is best for their child. Imagine not having the choice?
Now, the same can be said with circumcision. There have been numerous studies that suggest that the lack of circumcision increases the risk of HIV and HPV, thus, increasing the rate of cervical/penile cancer. Some believe that removing the foreskin is unnecessary. We don't all agree, imagine not having the choice like these poor people in Denmark.
You can't ignore the pros just as much as you cannot ignore the cons. That is why it is so important that GOVERNMENTS ensure that parents are given accurate and unbiased data regarding the issues so that the parenting is left up to us. No GOVERNMENT BODY can make ANY decission regarding my children that they've never met before. Personally, I hope the people of Denmark fight for choice.
SLT
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11-24-2008 @ 8:00AM
Joe said...SLT said: "His quality of life was severely improved and yes, they came out, and yes his tubes are now fine without the inserted drains, but imagine 3 more years of that in the meantime, it's cruel. But I was judged. Imagine not having the choice?"
In this case you would always have the choice because there was a therapeutic need. It's quite a different situation.
SLT said: "We don't all agree, imagine not having the choice like these poor people in Denmark."
They're not going to miss it because like most Europeans virtually nobody circumcises there. Secular circumcision is only common in North America though the number have been in a fast decline in Canada and a slow decline in the US. In most other countries, excluding the US, it's even hard to find a doctor willing to do it to a child. This is an idea floated by child advocacy groups, ethics groups, and the local medical societies not some rouge government bureaucrat looking to grab more control.
11-25-2008 @ 6:26PM
Michelle said...How about we stop cutting up baby bays and teach them to pull back the foreskin when they clean it. Also....lets push condoms....I'm pretty sure there's a lot of circumcised men spreading HIV.
11-24-2008 @ 3:04AM
joseph jozwiak said...oh thats it no more typing in bed.....what i meant to say, i have a friend who is uncut. and whenever we would pick up girls in the club, once they saw that he was uncut, over 80% walked out. and he has told me its hard to find a girl nowdays under the age of 24, that would even considering going down on him. see the big issue for him is he wants it done, just cuase WOMEN expect it to be.
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