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Circumcision is definitely a controversial topic, both here in the United States and elsewhere around the world. In Denmark, however, if politicians have their way, all of the controversy will be moot -- circumcision will be banned. Circumcision of girls has already been banned but boys may still be circumcised under the supervision of a doctor.Several political groups are in favor, but some are calling the idea "tyranny". Jesper Langballe of the Danish People's Party said "It's completely ridiculous to compare the circumcision of girls - which is a barbaric mutilation - with that of boys, where it's just the removal of a skin flap."
Even within the People's Party, however, there is no consensus -- the party's health spokeswoman, Liselott Brixt, says "A lot of parents want it done to their children because they themselves had it done. But we're living in the present and it isn't fair to expose healthy children to religious circumcision."
Personally, I agree that male and female circumcision are completely different, but I am also not completely convinced of a need for male circumcision. Anyone have any thoughts on the matter?











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11-25-2008 @ 4:42PM
Michelle said...Who cares??? Are you men under the impression that your penises are pretty?? If she was worth having..she wouldn't care.
11-24-2008 @ 5:00AM
ninainindia said...The people that say it's for health reasons only think this because they have grown up in a country where most men have had this done. What about all the men in Europe that are not circumsized according to your reasoning at least 50% of these men has health problems because their penis is still intact! And that is not true.
I think it's good countries are banning this practice because it's outdated and unnecesary to cut of part off a babies penis (even if it's only skin).
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11-24-2008 @ 9:17AM
SKL said...I am aware that most Europeans don't have this done. So why do they need the law at all? It will mainly affect people who do it for religious reasons. Thus it's about religious freedom.
If you're a member of a religion that insists on circumcision, there's no reason not to do it. It isn't a big deal. This is where other countries can learn from the US. Having a foreskin or not having one doesn't make much difference in a child's or man's life, from a physical or social perspective. Yes, it reduces the incidence of some physical problems, and there are rare cases of complications from the procedure. The degree of physical concern qualifies it to be a parental decision. If it's not routine in Denmark, and a parent requests it anyway, it seems obvious that the parent weighed pros and cons before making that decision. Doctors can and should objectively educate and warn of any side effects. And they should be able to refuse to personally do the procedure if they don't believe in it. But that's as far as government regulation should go.
As far as complications not happening in Europe, that's nonsense. It's not the sort of thing you're going to tell your buddies over a beer, is it? My brother had problems and had to have the procedure at age 3. Pretty much everyone I know has personal acquaintances / relatives who have had problems that a circumcision would have prevented. Just because they don't chat about it publicly doesn't mean it isn't happening.
I only have girls, so I'm glad I don't have to make this decision. I am not sure how I'd choose if I had boys. But I'm glad I'd have the choice.
11-24-2008 @ 12:36PM
Joe said...Because it is an issue of child welfare.
I have numerous acquaintances and friends who've had complications due to their circumcision ranging from moderate to severe. In some cases, these are things that can't get fixed such as painful erections, a situation which develops because it is hard to know how big the penis will become an that is the result when you skin them too much. Or slightly less common meatal stenosis which can be fixed surgically among many other possibilities. And you're right, people don't talk about these problems over a beer so don't think they don't happen or all that uncommon. Add to that there are many people who weren't happy with their parents decision to circumcise.
The difference here is that problems with the foreskin can be handled with, in the absolute worse case, a circumcision but that is very rarely necessary. However, when circumcisions go wrong the results can be devastating. And for those who wish to get circumcised the solution is pretty easy, it isn't that easy the other way around.
What do you tell a boy who suffered a severe complication due to a decision his parents made that was not medically necessary? How do you comfort the parents of a boy who died from a circumcision he didn't need to have? Does it matter how rare it is or it isn't?
11-24-2008 @ 12:45PM
Joe said...I also feel compelled to point out that these initiatives are often started by Drs and child advocacy groups with the support of Drs. Similar legislation has been considered in other European countries but not yet acted upon and it is currently being considered in Australia.
http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2007/12/09/2113665.htm
11-24-2008 @ 10:23PM
amandamay said...are those of you FOR circumcision (and who keep saying "because of infection") american? because in most european countries, circumcision is in the minority. and no one seems to complain of infections. seems that was hysteria brought about in the 1970's in the states that has been proved ridiculous.... and for the record, i'm an american woman having lived many years in europe with one uncircumcised son (6 years old). he'd be the "odd one out" at school if he had been circumcised as pretty much no one seems to be circumcised here. and like i said, i'm not sure where this "so many infections" business is coming from. it'd be pretty hard to get an infection there unless you aren't cleaning it at all! my son (and his uncircumcised father) have never had a problem with it. hmmm.
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11-25-2008 @ 12:31AM
woodsyearthmama said...American mom here...and my son is not circumcised...nor are most of his friends. I let my husband make the final call(he is circ) and after doing much research he realized that if he did it would only be so our son's would look like his and that was not enough for him.
No problems here or in anyone I actually know. I always hear the "somebody's uncle had a horrible infection" stuff...but people get infections of all kinds in all sorts of different places. I would not mutilate(my honest opinion) my son out of fear of infection...but if he were to have a terrible, incurable infection one day we'll see. For now six years and he hasn't even needed antibiotics once-for anything. Healthy, strong and intact.
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11-25-2008 @ 11:06AM
dee said...Same here. It was both our decision but driven by my husband. I'm kind of always amazed by people who claim that it's via research that they've come to the conclusion that circumcision is the better way to go, because there's almost no reputable, scientific research out there (even the HIV research performed in Africa has a lot of issues with it, and significant errors in the results have been discovered with peer review) that shows that circumcision is the "healthier" choice in a first world country. I spent a lot of time looking at the published research on the topic, and the counters to that research.
My husband has uncorrectable problems related to his infant circumcision, and therefore he didn't see the need for a boy to be circed and saw the possibility of problems. His problems wouldn't even be counted in the numbers of problems-related-to-circumcision because they are adult problems, not problems that emerged as a direct result of the surgery as a child. But the problems are directly caused by the removal of too much skin--something that's not going to be discovered until puberty.
And I see the posts above about little boys needing circumcision at 3 due to lack of "proper care" and wonder what the heck was going on there. Proper care for an uncirced 3-year-old is wiping down the outside with a washcloth in a bath or a wet wipe during a diaper change. If anyone was retracting and cleaning underneath, _that_ was the cause of infection. The foreskin shouldn't be retracted until it retracts naturally; and soap should never be used underneath (just like soap should never be used on those lady parts either). Soap being used on the sensitive parts of the genitals leads to infections because it dries out the skin (creating the perfect environment for opportunist infections) and destroys the body's natural, good bacteria which help prevent those infections.
11-25-2008 @ 2:47PM
Joe said...That is really a shame about your husband Dee. Would you be willing to share what problem your husband had? I understand if you wouldn't want to but I was courious.
11-25-2008 @ 8:36PM
Cheryl said...I read this article and the posts with much interest. I'm Jewish (not religious) and American and both my husband and son are circumcised - at 8 days old. It was done by a special religious person called a mohel whose job it is to do this things. Mohel's apply a drop of wine to the baby's gums. My son didn't even cry. Yes, the thought of it is barbaric - but it's part of my religion. What upsets me is this - I can't help but feel that by outlawing circumcision you are very subtly being anti-Semitic. If a Jewish person is being prevented from practicing their religion by law - that's like how the Holocaust started. Also, if Jewish people in a country can't practice their religion they might have to leave that country or else give up their religion. What an easy way to make that country free of Jews. I'm not the kind of person who sees anti-semitism around every corner but certain things raise red flags for me. And the fact that this is happening in Europe really comes as no surprise to me.
I don't really understand the issue. No body is forcing you to circumcise your sons so there really is no need to outlaw it. If no one wants to do it - that's your decision and your your right. However, if it's part of your religion then your rights are taken away. This law will really only effect those for whom circumcision
is a religious right and when you start outlawing religious rights - well does Auschwitz ring any bells.
Please - it's anti-semitism bundled up in law designed to be humane.
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11-25-2008 @ 11:57PM
Joe said...Cheryl thanks for the well thought out constructive comment. I want to think about this before I really reply and if I can come up with something more compelling I'll add to this.
I do understand your concern but I'll say out right that I personally, and respectfully, believe it is a human rights issue. I firmly believe that people should be able to practice their religion but that that right stops at another humans body. The reason is that I am not aware of another religious rite which could potentially lead to death. It doesn't matter how rare that might be, it is a risk and I think it's unfair that someone who can't consent has to face that risk.
http://tinyurl.com/6q4nr5
11-26-2008 @ 12:20AM
Jason said...Tired of the excuses! Stop mutilating our children, PERIOD! If you do not like it Denmark, MOVE!!
11-26-2008 @ 4:45AM
Carmie said...Married 35yrs. to an uncircumcised man, our 31 year old son, also uncircumcised, have never had any infections or problems in that area.
As a toddler we showed our son to clean and rinse the soap
off. He went to college and was/is popular with girls- so no problem there.
I don't see how everyone got infections or were rejected by women. I know we made the right decision in our son.
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11-26-2008 @ 7:54AM
Mark Lyndon said...I'm tired of hearing about all these bogus reasons to cut off parts of children's genitals. Almost everyone in the Europe is intact, but they don't seem to get all these infections that pro-circers seem to insist are so common. If a UK male is left intact, there's about a 1 in 140 chance that he'll need to be circumcised, and it's getting rarer.
Denmark has almost no circumcision, but a lower rate of penile cancer than the USA, where the circ rate used to be 90% (now 57%).
You might also want to check out the following. Most of the male doctors in these coutries are circumcised, yet they recommend against circumcision, or say it has no medical benefit. I had to remove some web addresses as there's a limit of 3 URL's.
Canadian Paediatric Society
http://www.cps.ca/english/statements/fn/fn96-01.htm
“Recommendation: Circumcision of newborns should not be routinely performed.”
www caringforkids cps ca pregnancy&babies circumcision.htm
“Circumcision is a non-therapeutic" procedure, which means it is not medically necessary. Parents who decide to circumcise their newborns often do so for religious, social or cultural reasons. To help make the decision about circumcision, parents should have information about risks and benefits. It is helpful to speak with your baby’s doctor.
After reviewing the scientific evidence for and against circumcision, the CPS does not recommend routine circumcision for newborn boys. Many paediatricians no longer perform circumcisions.”
Royal Australasian College of Physicians
http://www.racp.edu.au/download.cfm?DownloadFile=A453CFA1-2A57-5487-DF36DF59A1BAF527
"After extensive review of the literature the Royal Australasian College of Physicians reaffirms that there is no medical indication for routine neonatal circumcision."
(those last nine words are in bold on their website, and almost all the men responsible for this statement will be circumcised themselves, as the male circumcision rate in Australia in 1950 was about 90%. “Routine” circumcision is now *banned* in public hospitals in Australia in all states except one.)
British Medical Association
http://www.bma.org.uk/ap.nsf/Content/malecircumcision2006?OpenDocument&Highlight=2,circumcision#Circumcisionformedicalpurposes
"to circumcise for therapeutic reasons where medical research has shown other techniques to be at least as effective and less invasive would be unethical and inappropriate.”
National Health Service (UK)
www nhsdirect nhs uk articles article.aspx?articleId=649
”Many people have strong views about whether circumcision should be carried out or not. It is not routinely performed in the UK because there is no clear clinical evidence to suggest that it is has any medical benefit.”
Canadian Children's Rights Council
www canadiancrc com Circumcision_Genital_Mutilation_Male-Female_Children.aspx
"It is the position of the Canadian Children's Rights Council that "circumcision" of male or female children is genital mutilation of children.
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The Canadian Children's Rights Council position is that there is no medical benefit to the routine genital mutilation (circumcision) of any children (defined by U.N. as those under 18 years of age). Further, all Canadian children, both male and female, should be protected by the criminal laws of Canada with regards to this aggravated assault. Currently, the protection provided by the Criminal Code of Canada includes only genital mutilation (circumcision) of female children."
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11-26-2008 @ 4:50PM
PJ said...To those who think infection is a valid reason to circumcise, I ask: what parts of female genitals do we amputate due to infection? If a girl or woman get a yeast infection they get antifungals or antibiotics, not their labia removed.
And as an atheist, I abhor permanent body modification to helpless children in the name of religion. I'm glad I wasn't permanently scarred in the name of my parents religion that I wish no part of.
High praise to Denmark in protecting the rights of children.
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11-26-2008 @ 11:00PM
Maribel said...I had to put my two cents. I am a registered nurse, I have seen circumcisions done to these tiny ababies and they were done in a military hospital wihout any anestehesia. The babies cried bloody murder, I hated that rotation to the nursery beacuse I suffered every time they did one. My son nor my husband are circumsized, doing fine, no infections ,no problems. My son is 25 years old now. If you clean yourself well, there are no problems. Is a matter of choice. The only issue is if it is a religious act, the baby does not have a choice. I think we should allow our kid to decide when they are older if they want one or not. If is a matter of health, then it should be done.
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11-27-2008 @ 6:35AM
lisa said...My husband was never circumcised, had no problems, he is now 77. We chose not to have our son circumcised, no problems, he is now 25. Proper care is not the babysitter's responsibility at ALL times, so the parent should know how to take care of this too.
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11-27-2008 @ 7:07AM
jazzyazaliah said...Okay, here's my two cents, for what it's worth:
My husband is intact, and his two older brothers are as well. His younger brother, however, had to have his foreskin removed at age 6 due to infection. They ALL lived on a farm. Dirty beggars the lot of them growing up! The older boys regularly mucked around with horses and pigs and baled hay and all sorts of dirty things, and the only one who got an infection was the youngest, who DIDN'T do nearly as much mucking as the older boys did.
Now, my father and my brother are both circumcised. My brother's mother being Jewish insisted upon having it done to my brother, though I seem to recall (I was 15 a the time) my father being more reluctant for some reason. To my knowledge, my brother doesn't mind, and my father has never complained. Then, would you complain to your daughter or sister? I guess not.
My adoptive brother was circumcised at 8 days old. The doctor made a mistake and he is scarred for life. My adoptive mother regrets ever having it done. It wasn't a religious decision; it was a personal decision.
I have no idea about my brothers on my biological mother's side, as I don't know them well.
So, taking into consideration the seven men I know, three of whom are not circumcised, I wouldn't have it done to my son. Only one kid had it done for medical purposes, and one kid had his penis mutilated at 8 days old. It seems to me that either way there's a risk, but if I had to make the choice, I'd opt not to have it done, because the risk of infection if the child is properly cared for and taught to properly care for himself seems far less risky than having someone brandishing a scalpel or a sharp shard of flint stone near my child's penis.
I can understand the Law of circumcision and why it was written WHEN it was written, but, speaking from a strictly secular point of view, it's no longer necessary. Let's face it, the Israelites lived in a wilderness without antimicrobial soap or even running water. There was a pretty good chance of them getting infection from sand, fleas, dirty hands, you name it. Now days, better still, even in the later years before the common era, hygiene, or at least the ability to care for one's self hygienically, had improved greatly.
Good thing is, I'm neither Jewish, nor am I expecting a boy. At least I don't have to make that decision. If I had to make a statement on it as a human rights issue, however, I'd have to say that I whole-heartedly believe in religious freedom. It'd be very difficult for me to agree with a ban, simply because banning one aspect of religious freedom opens the door to further bans, and bans on religious freedoms often lead to misunderstandings and persecution.
I'm not a Jew, but I am a religious person, and I wouldn't want someone dictating to me what part of my faith I may or may not practice. To the Jews, circumcision is a matter of obeying the Law. If someone were to ask me to disobey God to conform to secular laws, I would refuse. Mind you, there are some people who will always abuse the right of religious freedom, making up the rules as they go along so to speak, but the outright banning of religious practices that have been long-standing, well-established, and deeply ingrained in one's culture is asking for trouble.
Take care,
Azy!
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11-29-2008 @ 6:49PM
Heza Hekele said...I wonder if this will even be up for debate in generations to come?
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11-29-2008 @ 7:03PM
Sifrina said...Here is what the ever reasonable, balanced, non emotional American Academy of Pediatrics says below if anyone's interested. I always thought fondly of living in/visiting Denmark (seemed more enlightened and civilized), but I'd feel very much in the isolated minority being there as a Jewish mother who circumcised her baby boy for religious, cultural, family, and health reasons. How uncomfortable it must be to be a Jew in that country right now. Parents may not choose this for their sons in the US, but the sizable Jewish population in certain cities (unlike Denmark), as well as the large percentage of circumcised boys/men here, make this an understood, acceptable practice (and not vilified; this is simply not abusive mutilation as some here descibe it). Parents in Denmark should have this choice as well.
[From AAP.org:] Should we have our son circumcised?
At birth, boys have skin that covers the end of the penis, called the foreskin. Circumcision surgically removes the foreskin, exposing the tip of the penis. Circumcision is usually performed by a doctor in the first few days of life. An infant must be stable and healthy to safely be circumcised.
Scientific studies show some medical benefits of circumcision. However, these benefits are not sufficient for the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) to recommend that all infant boys be circumcised.
Because circumcision is not essential to a child's health, parents should choose what is best for their child by looking at the benefits and risks. Circumcision may be more risky if done later in life, so parents should decide before or soon after their son is born if they want it done.
Reasons parents may choose circumcision
There are a variety of reasons why parents choose circumcision.
Medical benefits, including
A slightly lower risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs). A circumcised infant boy has about a 1 in 1,000 chance of developing a UTI in the first year of life; an uncircumcised infant boy has about a 1 in 100 chance of developing a UTI in the first year of life.
A lower risk of getting cancer of the penis. However, this type of cancer is very rare in all males.
A slightly lower risk of getting sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.
Prevention of foreskin infections.
Prevention of phimosis, a condition in uncircumcised males that makes foreskin retraction impossible.
Easier genital hygiene.
Social reasons. Many parents choose to have it done because "all the other men in the family" had it done or because they do not want their sons to feel "different."
Religious or cultural reasons. Some groups such as followers of the Jewish and Islamic faiths practice circumcision for religious and cultural reasons.
Reasons parents may choose not to circumcise
The following are reasons why parents may choose NOT to have their son circumcised:
Fear of the risks. Complications are rare and usually minor but may include bleeding, infection, cutting the foreskin too short or too long, and improper healing.
Belief that the foreskin is needed. Some people feel the foreskin is needed to protect the tip of the penis. Without it, the tip of the penis may become irritated and cause the opening of the penis to become too small. This can cause urination problems that may need to be surgically corrected.
Belief it can affect sex. Some feel that circumcision makes the tip of the penis less sensitive, causing a decrease in sexual pleasure later in life.
Belief that proper hygiene can lower health risks. Boys can be taught proper hygiene that can lower their chances of getting infections, cancer of the penis, and STIs.
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