BWI - Breastfeeding While Intoxicated
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Celebrities Who Breastfed
"I'm like an alcoholic. It's like, I don't care if I cry, I don't care if I'm fat, I'm just gonna do it for one more week, one more month, and then, when I see how much good it is doing her, I can't stop. It's a very powerful thing you know."
Salma Hayek on breastfeeding
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"You think, 'Ah, if anybody can do that, I can do that.' But it's a lot harder than it looks in the books. It just takes a long time."
Angelina Jolie
"I don't feel stunning yet. But I'm breast feeding. And he's sucking it all out of me, it seems. And when the baby comes out, it's a lot of weight right there."
Naomi Watts
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"There's just so much I can't eat because she's sensitive. You think you have to cut everything out when you're pregnant, but you really have to cut everything out when you're breastfeeding."
Nicole Richie
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"I love that I'm someone special and that I feed him. I'm the milk cow! My theory is that nursing gives you superhuman powers. How else could I be doing all this when I'm usually a sleepaholic?"
Gwen Stefani
Dennis Stefani
"(I breastfed) a good 18 months. That baby never even saw a bottle. He went everywhere with me -- premieres, award shows. I would just find a back room and hook him up."
Jada Pinkett Smith
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"People say, 'You're still breast-feeding, that's so generous.' Generous, no! It gives me boobs and it takes my thighs away! It's sort of like natural liposuction. I'd carry on breast-feeding for the rest of my life if I could."
Helena Bonham Carter
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"I think they say that when you're breastfeeding, you know, your weight kind of slims down. It's a little easier. It's like a workout within itself. It's very tiring actually and you find yourself snacking more often."
Christina Aguilera
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"I'm going to do it as long as I can. There is something so intimate about it. For that one hour or 45 minutes it's just wonderful. It's wonderful bonding and you know they're getting all those antibodies."
Catherine Zeta Jones
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"I was feeding him, and he seemed to be like this little angel baby eating, and I looked down, and he was sucking on the boob, and he was holding it, and he had his middle finger up...he was all, 'F you!'"
Tori Spelling
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Allanah Earley took her three-week-old daughter out to a bar last Friday to get the weekend started. After having half a dozen drinks or so, she took the kid and wandered about in the cold for a while before ending up at a friend's house to continue drinking and feed the baby.
Police arrested Earley and she has been charged with risk of injury to a minor. The Department of Children and Families was contacted. All kidding aside, I don't understand what was going through this woman's head that she thought it was okay to take her kid out drinking while she is breastfeeding. Perhaps if we want to ensure the continuation of our species, we need to make sure people know how to be good parents. Because while there are an awful lot of folks who are very good parents, there are an awful lot who aren't.











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 15)
1-10-2009 @ 10:12AM
kc said...GOOD! HOW SELFISH CAN SHE BE.......oh cool, lets get a baby drunk? IDIOT
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1-10-2009 @ 11:37AM
Ceci said...Hey, drunken breast milk was good enough for centuries of women, (true, but I am trying to interject a little humor here) and it should have been good enough for this women but someone decided to call the police when they realized she was using her breasts for something other than sexual eroticism!
..............What is being missed, in the rush to judgment about how intoxicated she might have been, is the fact that another woman was arrested while using her breasts for their intended purpose.
THAT and that alone is what should have every woman in this country OUTRAGED. Until or unless her breast milk was tested and proven to be detrimental to her child, she should have been left alone.
When will all you sanctimonious, self-righteous mothers understand that anytime ANY of you is arrested for breastfeeding, ANYtime or ANYwhere, it is a testament to the fact that we are still regarded as second class citizens in this country and our breasts have been usurped as the property of men, to arouse and entice them..........not to be used openly for their primary and god given purpose.
Please, just give these statements a few minutes to digest before you react or respond. Telling us how and when to use our bodies is a form of slavery that we have all been mindwashed into accepting and this case, though fraught with worrisome facts, is just another example of our seeming willingness to be enslaved.
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1-10-2009 @ 9:00AM
Bobby Capps said...I think breastfeeding in public is wrong and I think breast feeding your kid while your drinking is wrong But your civil rights are being whittled down more and more This country is going to hell in a hand basket because WE THE PEOPLE keep voting in the same old muthas.
We cant let these guys in our goverment turn us into slaves and involving themselves in every aspect of our lives. Look what they did to Tommy Chong Now I heard theres a place where you can rent an apartment buit if you smoke in your own apt you will go to jail Not to mention your own car. Time to get rid of the time for change governent and replace them with americans.
A you stupid bish If you want to drink Pump enough breast milk before you go out and bottle feed or dont drink at all. Alcohol breaks down in 4 hours
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1-10-2009 @ 9:09AM
betty said...I think breast feeding in public WITH the breast EXPOSED is WRONG. I seen nothing wrong with a baby being fed in public IF the mother has the decency to lightly cover the feeding child with a little blanket... There are plenty of those pretty little light weight blankies to use... Heck I've seen nice used ones at yard sales for only 25Cents!
I will soon have a rental house and I will not rent to smokers, because I plan to one day live in that house! The cost of removing the nicotine stains and residue from the walls is high and a lot of work if you plan to do it yourself. (it's called Damage!) You can't just paint over that stuff ...it keeps coming thru. Many Many people are allergic to that.
When you rent an apartment...You are renting the USE of anothers property.. It's not "your own". It will not be "your own" unless you are buying and and have gotten the loan from the bank!
1-10-2009 @ 9:16AM
Dana said...You really think breastfeeding in public is wrong ? Do you think bottle feeding an infant in public is wrong ? You do realize that the nipple on the end of a bottle is make to look and feel like a real nipple... You do know that breastfeeding in normal, while giving a baby a rubber nipple to drink a fabricated powdered source is strange... WHEN DID BREASTFEEDING A CHILD BECOME WRONG ! WHAT DO YOU THINK THEY ARE MADE TO DO !
1-10-2009 @ 9:57AM
Drew said...How does somebody breastfeeding their child in public offend you??? I can't think of anything more natural, OHHHHH! someone might see a nipple!!!! lemme guess......religious right
1-10-2009 @ 10:18PM
Ashley said...We've been raised in a society that believes nudity and sex is wrong and dirty, of course people are going to think breastfeeding is wrong. Now I'm not a religious right at all, and I'm 16 so I havent had a kid so maybe I dont get it. But I actually do get offended when people breastfeed in public, because everytime I see a woman do it, its at a resturant (the casual kind) or a cafe and they dont cover the baby up with a blanket. I would be perfectly fine with it if they covered the baby while at a resturant. One time I was getting my hair cut and dyed and the woman waiting on the reception area of the hair salon breastfed her child and then sat him on their new leather couch and changed his poopy diaper right there. Its offensive.
1-10-2009 @ 11:54PM
Chris said...i am apalled to see you say it is wrong for a woman to nurse in public! Do you have the right to eat in public? Then so does the baby! Breastfeeding is the right way of feeding a baby!! Breastfeeding is the way that God designed! Breastmilk is the best thing in the world for the baby. It is always the right temperature and never runs out! A mother should never have to pump out her milk just because you don't want to see it! I personally am offended to see a baby eating from an artificial nipple! As a father, i am thrilled that my wife nurses my kids. I would feel sorry for anyone who tries to degrade her for doing what is the natural and best thing for my kids! If you don't want to see anything, then look away! the baby shouldn't have to ever have to suffer just to make you happy!
And on another note, the mom that got drunk before feeding her baby is nothing but trash! first off, she is selfish to have brought her child into a bar, but even more selfish to have essentially gotten her child drunk!
1-11-2009 @ 12:19AM
mamabear said...Breastfeeding an infant is a perfectly natural thing for a body to do. So is making a bowel movement. So, if it is okay for a woman to whip out her left tit for feeding purposes ... is it okay for me to drop trousers in the same place and take a dump? What if I cover my heinie with a blanket, is that better? It's all natural right? What goes in must come out .... it's the cycle of digestion. But, I don't want to see another woman's breast in public any more than she wants to see my natural "leftovers" from eating in public. Am I right?
Do it privately .... for everybody's sake!
1-11-2009 @ 6:09AM
Lily said...No one should drink alcohol while nursing thats a fact but all this bull coming from people about not nursing your child in public etc is really stupid. So either we dont nurse our children or we stay chained to the house untill they are weened? Get a grip. Stop looking at breasts as your funbags and realize that this is what they were ment to do. Drs tell us not to go from bottle to breast , bottle to breast because since the milk flows drifferently from each you run the risk of tummy troubles in your baby andother things they shouldnt have to deal with. Just stop the nonsence about the worlds most wholesome act and get your mind out of the gutter. Its ok to see some old cougar in a short skirt or some teen with tight clothes and muffin top but not the top of a breast with a baby attatched to it? GET A SERIOUS GRIP!
1-19-2009 @ 7:15PM
Heather said...There is nothing wrong with feeding you're baby in public BREASTFEEDING in public is fine, just stay decent while you are doing it;; It is not hard to do. I breastfed both my girls, and while I was grocery shopping too. nobody was the wiser.
1-10-2009 @ 9:18AM
teltech54 said...I hope one day we will have legislation that requires people to take some form of test to see if they are fit to be parents. More than half will fail.
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1-10-2009 @ 11:27AM
Marianne said...teltech54 - I totally agree, but I think it would more likely be 75% of people who shouldn't be allowed to have children. Personally, I think birth control should be in all the drinking water in America, and if someone wants to get pregnant they have to apply for the life-time responsibility, be evaluated as safe and sensible future parents - both mentally and morally (not in a religious way), prove you can financially afford to care for and raise a child, take required classes on health while pregnant, parenting skills, basic child care and safety - and pass these with flying colors. If you pass, you receive a license to become a parent and are given a drug to counteract the universal birthcontrol. I mean, you have to take tests to graduate from high school, take Driver's Ed. and a test to get a license to drive a deadly vehicle - at age 16!, and right now if you can have sex you can have a baby.
Sally & Melissa: I agree, the larger factor here is taking a 3 week old infant out to a bar so you can booze it up - I think that is appalling enough to take public-breastfeeding out of the picture in this story. I can't believe the bartenders & friends allowed her to drink, but of course no one ever steps in to slap someone upside the head when they're being an idiot.
As for breastfeeding in public, Angelina, those mothers aren't interested in "rip it out just any ol' time" or titillating those who might catch a glimpse of their breast or nipple, they are concerned with providing their child with the best possible care and nutrition. If you're so worried about public nudity, start a campaign against "Girls Gone Wild". And most women do breastfeed in public as discretely as possible, using blankies or cloths to cover up. As for feeding the child in private, how many public establishments have any such accomodations?! It's hard enough for working women to get a private place at their job to breast pump as they need to. The restroom is just unsanitary and gross, and do you expect a mother to leave her job, a meeting, a party, shopping, or whatever to drive home with a shrieking, hungry baby so she can breastfeed in private?!
Simzee and everyone else who comments on seeing naked bits in public: have you ever been to a rated R movie? Be honest. There they are, larger than life, in digitally remastered color, NAKED BITS! OMG! Have you been to the beach lately? Most bikinis wouldn't make a useful kleenex, again - Girls Gone Wild, wet tee-shirt contests, etc... If you don't want to see public nudity, don't stare at it getting angry (and catching an eyeful) - avert your eyes or discretely move away until they are out of your sight. Problem solved with no fuss involved. Or you could do something useful like promoting private breastfeeding booths in public locations instead of being all offended.
Again, the bigger picture here is that woman endangering her baby by drinking, getting drunk, and passing alcohol to her baby through her breast milk, not breastfeeding in public.
1-10-2009 @ 11:16AM
Whitney said...DITO!! I think everyone should be sterilized at birth and only be able to have the procedure reversed once they have matured to a certain age and have passed a test on raising children. There should be questions like, should you drink and breastfeed, should you let your children do drugs, should you DO drugs with your children? I only add those specific questions b/c I know stupid parents who have done these things. Another one, which is more important: cigarettes for you or diapers for you baby? I swear! I have 3 children and breastfed all of them (I am currently breastfeeding the 3rd.) It is amazing to me that "critics" of breastfeeding say it shouldn't be done if public and women should just formula feed. I swear. Maybe they should read the research. They are probably ignorant b/c they WEREN'T breastfed!!!
1-10-2009 @ 9:15AM
Angelia said...u should breastfeed in in your own home not out in public places. and if u r going out pump some milk out a enough so u will have enough for u'r trip down there and back. And another thing correct me if iam wrong if u drink alcohol and so many drinks it goes into u'r breast milk and the baby getting that alcohol in his/her system?I think it is not right also like that story they had on aol about a lady puttig a pic of her breastfeeding her child that was gross. To me that a one one one thing with u and u'r child and it should be done in the child room windows close door close. y is ppl have to broadcast they feeding thire child all over the net is that the new thing for 2009!! it is gross and needs to be stop .
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1-10-2009 @ 9:33AM
SUE said...Are you kidding me? Do you eat when your out of your house? When you get hungry do you go to a restaurant? Or do you pack your lunch wherever you go? Here's a simple solution, if you don't want to watch a baby doing the most natural thing ON EARTH which is nursing, then turn away, it's as simple as that. No one thinks it's gross when they see other people eating a salad or a sandwich do they? It is no difference in seeing a baby nursing from her mother. Oh and your idea of pumping whenever you have to go out? Some mothers don't have the ability to pump for whatever reason, so what should they do, starve the kid or never go out of the house again?
1-10-2009 @ 9:36AM
Tina said...You morons! Pumping doesn't work that way. At least not for me. I nursed both of my children and they get used to you. Neither one of them wanted any fake nipple. Breasts were MADE for nursing. Not for some perverted people. Get a life you losers!
1-10-2009 @ 9:59AM
Angelia said...To:Tina and Sue I just think breastfeeding a child should be done at home or or try and pump milk out so u have enough for the trip . I mean your breast is a private parts of our body and we should keep them cover at all times and not exposed them for the world to c we might as well walk around naked or with no bra on and just let our tits fly around . That would be gross . U should not rip it out just any ol' time and say oh my kid is hungry and i have to feed him and her right thire on the spot while u r enjoying someone conversation and eating and enjoying yourself u should excuse yourself from the table and go feed in private don't make other ppl gross out nobody wants to c other ppl private parts and iam sure u do not want to c mine. if i had a child i do the nice and proper thing and go to a restroom or go home and feed my child. not out in public. Eating is a totally different thing.
1-10-2009 @ 8:07PM
kim said...I really cant believe that you think breastfeeding in public is so bad. when did something so natural become so bad. people like u need to know that there are plenty of us breastfeeding in public and u dont even know it.
1-10-2009 @ 10:30AM
Lee said...To Angelia:
You think its, "gross" to breastfeed in public , but have no problem using the derogatory term tits on a public message board? If that isn't being a hypocrite I don't know what is?