Are You a Mousewife?
Categories: Just For Moms, Money & Work
When I was growing up, I knew very few kids who had moms working outside the home. With the exception of a few girls with divorced parents (also rare), just about everybody I knew came home to a full-time mother who relied solely on her husband to support the family. The mom who stayed home was so common then that she didn't need a name to differentiate her from her working counterparts. She was just a mom. Things have changed a lot since then. When more and more mothers began joining the workforce, the mom who wasn't earning an income earned a name: the stay-at-home mom. I know some mothers who bristle at that title because it gives the impression that they aren't actually doing anything except staying at home. We all know that isn't true.
But these days, many SAHM's resolve to stay out of the workforce is being tested by economic hard times. Raising children is an important job, but the pay isn't so great. Lots of us have found a way to earn some money while not compromising our desire to be full-time parents. We take jobs that we can do from home -- usually on our computers. And now, since we are actually earning some money, we get a new name: Mousewife.
A new study of British mothers finds that almost half of them are making extra cash by working from home at computer-based jobs. From selling things via Internet auctions to writing product reviews to handling overflow typing, they are bringing in some much-needed extra money while simultaneously caring for the kids.
I see the same thing happening where I live. Almost every SAHM I know is earning a little cash with a home-based business. And while they are all grateful for the opportunity and happy to be doing it, I guarantee you they would not like to be referred to as a Mousewife. I get the clever reference to the computer mouse, but couldn't we come up with something a little less...mousy? Or, better yet, let's just drop the labels altogether. We are all moms and we are all working in one way or another.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
LS 1-27-2009 @ 9:21PM
I agree about the name. When I saw the title, I thought, "Mousewife"???? Great, now they're labeling moms who are homebodies, who LIKE to stay home and "make a nest".
It never occurred to me that it had something to do with the computer!
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rebecca Biernesser 1-27-2009 @ 11:12PM
lol...i honestly thought this article would be about Stay at Home moms that just stayed at home and didn't get out much. Never linked it to computers and Mom's working from home
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Jessica 1-28-2009 @ 7:47AM
I like the name mousewife, but not all mousewives are making money on the internet. I am a SAHM with a part-time serving job and I go to an online college during the day. I propose two new catagories of mousewives, student mousewives and buisness mousewives.
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Lindsey 1-28-2009 @ 9:52AM
Call me crazy, but I actually prefer "CEO of Home Engineering." :)
I read this article awhile back about how well "SWAT" (smart women with available time) moms can do at home. As a full-time stay-at-home/work-at-home mom, I'm really pleased with my family life and career.
http://www.findingdulcinea.com/news/business/May-June-08/At-Home-Moms-Are-an-Effective-Workforce.html
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Becca 2-16-2009 @ 2:19PM
First of all, I love the term "mousewife"! And, yes, I am one. I've been able to find a lot of freelance writing jobs through the outsourcing site oDesk. It's enabled me to spend time with my daughter during the day which I never would have thought possible before.
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stephanie 2-19-2009 @ 6:36PM
http://www.moms4netprofit.com/rainforest
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Barb 2-20-2009 @ 11:15PM
I used to have a J.O.B.(just over broke) but I discovered a business I could do at home, around my kids' schedules. It's so easy to do, my twelve year old could do it. My support company has been in business for 29 years and is among the top 100 companies on the NYSE. The numbers show 19 consecutive quarters of double digit growth! Where else can you find that? ... Not many places. We are recession proof. If you would like more information on this amazing opportunity, contact me at ebherbal@aol.com.
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