Reality TV Roloffs Share the Good, Bad and Ugly

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What's it like to have your life on reality TV? ParentDish recently sat down with Matt and Amy Roloff, stars of the hit TLC reality show, Little People, Big World, to talk about what it feels like to have their every move broadcast for the entire world to see -- and judge -- before they start their next season this week.

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    Amy Roloff

    Amy Roloff may be little, but as you can see on Little People, Big World, she has a huge heart.

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    Kate Gosselin

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    Denise Richards

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    NeNe Leakes

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    Tori Spelling

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    Mommy Meerkat

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    Renee Wilson

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How do the kids feel about the cameras? Matt: The kids have thick skins, and sometimes, [the critics] get it right. It may be nasty, but sometimes you have to look and say, "I really need to work on that." It can be a little bit of a cat-and-mice game. For instance, if Molly doesn't want them to film her practicing for her driver's test, they will catch her.

What if the time ever comes when one or all of them decide they've had enough? Amy: If they ever came to us and said, "Under no circumstances," then we would have to have a family discussion about what is best for everyone, and then it would be over.

Is what we see real? Amy: Those moments don't represent the last or the next 20 years of our lives, whether we are going through the best times or the most horrible times. You almost want to say, "Can I put a mirror in your face?"

Matt, you were arrested for driving under the influence last summer and found not guilty in January. Did the show influence the trial? Matt: I'm not sure if it helped or hurt the trial. I just didn't think about it. When you've been doing the show as long as we have, if you analyzed everything that happened in your life, you'd drive yourself batty. You just have to let the show take its course. I say, let the good, bad and ugly fly.

If it's so hard, why do it? Matt: I think we have committed ourselves to sharing our story, as raw and painful as it can be, like when the kids to stupid stuff or even my DUI. The funny part is that the very stuff you don't want to share is the stuff that makes the most compelling television.

Fellow reality-TV parents Jon and Kate Gosselin recently came under fire from critics who say that the two violate child-labor laws by allowing their eight children to be filmed almost 24/7. Matt: We can't speak for the Gosselins, but our kids have gotten a lot of benefits from the show, including a weekly paycheck from the family corporation.

How does your show impact how the world sees little people? Matt: Jacob has walked into a grocery store and watched his mom be teased for being a little person. The show can play an important part in society's acceptance of little people. I hate to say this because it sounds so cliché, but we have been called to be part of a show that really celebrates diversity, and I think it has changed a lot of people's viewpoints.

Can you talk about the hints that Matt suffered a heart attack? Amy: His health is just fine.

Speaking of hearts, any advice for marriages on camera or off-screen? Amy: It's all about give and take. There may be ups and downs, but in the long run you have to think about what brought you together, and that is love.

Little People, Big World season 5 airs Mondays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.

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