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It seems that not long before that interview, Salma had already discovered another good reason to keep her breast milk flowing: It comes in handy when you want to feed other people's babies.
Which is exactly what Hayek, a spokesperson for UNICEF, did during her visit to Sierra Leone in September 2008. It is widely believed in this West African country that breast feeding does not provide enough food for a baby, and that colostrum, or first milk, is actually poisonous. In an effort to encourage women there to breastfeed, the actress/humanitarian offered a sick baby boy the greatest gift of all -- milk from her own breast.
After she's fed the baby, Hayek wonders aloud if she's been disloyal to her own baby by sharing her milk. She decides that she has done something good for both babies. "My baby would be very proud to be able to share her milk," she says.
It seems that Hayek's unselfish giving of her breast milk is a bit of a family tradition. She tells the story of her own great-grandmother breast feeding a stranger's hungry child on a street in Mexico. It's a beautiful story made more so by Hayek's own gift to a hungry little baby.
If you ever found yourself in a position to do so, would you breastfeed another woman's child? Would you allow your child to feed at another woman's breast?
Celebrity Parent Quotes
"The key to beauty is always to be looking at someone who loves you. Henry, who can't say all the words...sometimes he'll see me and go, "Ma-ma!" and throw himself on me. Or Finn says he likes my earrings. Or Hazel will say, "You look pretty, Mama," first thing in the morning...They're seeing the things that [my husband] does.
The coolest thing you can do for your children is to love each other in their presence." -
Julia Roberts
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"I'm like an alcoholic. It's like, I don't care if I cry, I don't care if I'm fat, I'm just gonna do it for one more week, one more month, and then, when I see how much good it is doing her, I can't stop. It's a very powerful thing you know."
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"My first job in all honesty is going to continue to be mom-in-chief," she said, "making sure that in this transition, which will be even more of a transition for the girls ... that they are settled and that they know they will continue to be the center of our universe."
Michelle Obama
"I think I'm a pretty cool dad."
Barack Obama
"There is no such thing as 'fun for the whole family.'"
Jerry Seinfeld
"Sometimes I end up having to wipe my son's nose on my shirt, so it can't be silk and cost $800."
Keri Russel
"Apparently, I get facials and manicures all the time. I read this and think, 'Oh, I wish I did that!' I don't think I've had a facial since I was 19. When I shave my legs, I use my child's shampoo and a razor -- if I can find one. If I did everything they said I did, I would never see [my daughter] Lily."
Kate Beckinsale
"I think our kids will look back on all that as being really funny when they get older, because they think of us as being really dorky -- in fact, the dorkiest people on the planet! We are very much just parents together, although we have moments of being sexy and fun, and I do find him very sexy, obviously. I believe we are together for all the other reasons."
Angelina Jolie, on being "sex symbol" parents
"Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head."
Carol Burnett
"We found a great rhythm. Contractions started kicking in. I sat there with her, right between her legs. We got tribal on it, we danced to it! I was DJ-ing this Brazilian music."
Matthew McConaughey, on the birth of his son Levi.











ReaderComments (Page 5 of 7)
2-13-2009 @ 3:44AM
pnut166 said...Salma - I`m hungry. Help me. Please.
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2-11-2009 @ 4:41PM
valjon said...hey, joey m you sound jealous !
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2-11-2009 @ 4:45PM
Gloria said...In the 70"s we did that all the time. Not a problem. Got Milk.
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2-11-2009 @ 4:45PM
valjon said...hey bill sometimes freaky is good.
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2-11-2009 @ 4:51PM
Jacklyn Lopez said...It's all for publicity...and "EXPOSURE"!
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2-11-2009 @ 5:17PM
len said...I'm shocked that so many people think this is odd. have they never heard of a wet nurse?
Granted, for any of us who breastfed, we realize this wasn't a big deal, anyone would do it. but the fact that hayek has the celebrity to make it interesting may just save a few babies.
After i weaned my sons I pumped to keep the milk coming in and donated the frozen milk to the milk bank every week for 6 months. It's something we can do with little effort and no money and it saves lives in some cases. We can't very well ship our milk to another country,but there are children here who are allergic to everything but breastmilk and their mother doesn't produce enough or any at all. I wish Hayek had pointed that out as well. It's not something you think to do unless you're made aware by someone involved. My OB was an advocate and passed out information to all her patients, think of the milk that one doctor was responsible for. OBs and pediatricians are the a perfect position to encourage this practice.
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2-11-2009 @ 4:54PM
GFeel said...I think it is a wonderful thing. I breastfed all 3 of my children and would do it again. Donating your milk is a terrific act. Exspecially if it helps a sick, dying, or starving child. Look at it as if you are donating blood. It shows the awesomeness of God's ability to allow us to show love in so many different ways.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:12PM
melissambutler said...Folks - what do you think Wet Nurses were during the times of kings and queens? During the Civil War? Ever heard the Indian expresion "it takes a village to raise a child?" feeding each others babies was a part of that - and there was no Gerber then!
You act like its a big deal. the ONLY reason women have breasts is to provide nourishment. Nowhere is there a rule that she should keep that for her babies only. sheesh...
The definition of Wet Nurse: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wet_nurse
Eliciting milk
A woman can only serve as a wet nurse when she is lactating. It is often thought that this means the wet nurse must have recently given birth to a child of her own. This may be the case, but not necessarily, since regular suckling on a woman's breast can elicit the production of milk via a neural reflex through production of prolactin.[1]
[edit] Historical use
The practice of using wet nurses is ancient and found in many cultures. Sometimes it is linked to social class. Members of property-owning classes had their children wet-nursed, in the hope of becoming pregnant again quickly to ensure an heir. (Lactation can suppress ovulation.) Poor women, especially those who suffered the stigma of giving birth to an illegitimate child, sometimes had to give their baby up, temporarily or permanently, and a wet nurse would look after it.
One myth holds that the Egyptian princess Bithiah tried giving baby Moses to wet nurses, but he would not take their milk, for he was destined to speak with the Shekhinah. The prophet Muhammad was wet-nursed by Halimah bint Abi Dhuayb. Wet nursing was reported in France in the time of Louis XIV, the early 17th century. Later, Napoleon was wet-nursed by a woman called Camilla. Wet nurses were common for children of all social ranks in the southern United States during the 19th and early 20th centuries. Women took in babies for money in Victorian Britain, and nursed them themselves or fed them with whatever was cheapest. This was known as baby-farming; poor care sometimes resulted in high infant death rates.
Wet nursing has sometimes been used with old or sick people who have trouble taking other nutrition. John Jacob Astor and John D. Rockefeller reportedly hired wet nurses for their own use in their old age. [2]
Sigmund Freud's theories about the Oedipal complex are speculated[by whom?] to have been the result of his being raised by a wet-nurse, rather than his mother[citation needed]. This dissociation from his mother prevented the Westermarck effect from taking hold[citation needed].
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2-11-2009 @ 4:54PM
sam said...Listen, no one wants to see a baby sucking on a boob in public. I'm sorry. That is a private thing. It's tacky to do in public where other people can see you, period.
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2-11-2009 @ 4:55PM
Jasmine said...What a beaufitul unselfish act. I applaud Selma for her generosity of spirit and kindness to that child. If I could breast feed a child I would do it wholeheartly. My heart would be so full of love and pride. It is the duty of every human being in this planet to be caring towards others any way possible.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:06PM
jeanette said...its disgusting? What exactly do you think women have breasts for? TO FEED THEIR YOUNG! if you can hand food out of your pantry to an adult in need, whip it out for a baby too.
I'd have no problem with that, nor would I have a problem having my child fed by another. I'd far rather see my child with a breast then a bottle of formulated crap anyday.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:07PM
Karen said...That is just so incredibly sweet. It makes me wish I were still lactating. One nice thing about breastfeeding: you really can't catch anything from the baby that you wouldn't catch by just holding it. Except maybe thrush. Now, women with HIV should (ideally) not breastfeed directly, but instead pump and heat the milk; HIV can pass through breastmilk. If the woman's viral load is low, the chances of so-called vertical transmission are also lowered, but I wouldn't take that chance. Brava to Salma and little Valentina.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:15PM
Marsha said...I would be concerned about the baby passing HIV to her nipple, then to her baby, it sounded like the child had that or another serious illness. I heard HIV can be passed by breast milk, but I don't know if the child can pass it to the mom thru breast feeding. Just pay for some formula, then the worry is gone.
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2-18-2009 @ 2:56PM
Tanya said...In Africa, it is dangerous to use formula. The water is very unsafe and unsanitary. There is also very little risk of passing hiv or aids to an infant who is breastfeeding. The risks of not breastfeeding an infant in a third world country far outweigh the risks of passing disease.
2-11-2009 @ 8:16PM
jeanette said...For those of you who keep mentioning AIDS, inform yourself before you spout. AIDS cannot be transmitted from an infected mother to her child thru breastmilk, an infected child cannot transmit through nursing a non infected mother. the AIDS virus is far too fragile to live through digestive juices, and a nipple isn't the "mucos membrane" that can accept the virus.
AIDS infected babies usually are infected during birth, not by nursing.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:13PM
ingrid said...beautiful, absolutely beautiful
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2-11-2009 @ 5:21PM
Dale said...No one???? Speak for yourself, Sam. I'd LOVE to see women breastfeeding in public a lot more often!! And NOT for sexual reasons. There's not a DAMN thing wrong with a woman breastfeeding!! If there was something sick or wrong with it, her body wouldn't be making milk at all!! Too bad we don't have a choice of living as the opposite sex for a while every so often so we can all see what it's like on the other side of the fence. Certain animals have the ability to change their sex, too bad we can't.
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2-11-2009 @ 5:27PM
P. HIZZLE said...FIRST THING IS, NO WHERE IN THE ARTICLE DOES IT SAY THE BABY WAS STARVING! SECOND IT SAYS THE WOMEN DON'T BREAST FEED BECOUSE THEY FEEL ITS NOT ENOUGH FOOD! LOOK AT THE KID, HE'S NOT STARVING PEOPLE!! I CANT BELIEVE THE NERVE SHE HAS PULLING HER TIT OUT AND PUTTING IT IN A STRANGERS BABIES MOUTH! SHE IS A FREAKING WEIRDO, HER AND THE OTHER HOLLYWOOD DOO-GOODER WEIRDO'S NEED TO STAY THERE AND NOT COME BACK!!!!!
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2-11-2009 @ 5:47PM
Joey M said...Good for you P., I agree with you but watch out for Stephanie the blog police, she doesn't think people should express their opinions.
2-11-2009 @ 5:38PM
Stephanie said...Do you have volume on your computer?? Maybe you should replay the video and listen. The baby she breastfed was only one week old and sick!!! Breastmilk has antibodies in it to fight disease and infection and what she did was wonderful for that baby!!!
PS The baby she is holding at the begining of the video is not the one she was breastfeeding!!