13-Year-Old Dad May Not Be Father After All

I'm starting to think this is all just a big hoax. I'm 16 and the friends of mine who have gotten pregnant can tell you that their baby's daddy wont take responsibility, most of the guys pretend like they dont even know the girls half of the time. So for a whole bunch of guys to say "oh no I'm the dad!" seems fishy, like theyre doing it for some amount of fame.

speaking of protection;I don't think they make condoms xxxxsmall.Do U?also i don't think he boinked hr,he's so small ,he'd problably fall in and be lost 4ever. :)..i know this is a serious matter ,but hey,the damage is already done,so may as well make light of the situation.Gee,the kid didn't even know what "financially" meant;:D .He'll find out when he's old enough to work ,and that child support starts kikng that A%$.iwant to see how cute his / her moms think it is then.especially when they have to live with either parent.is the girl still in school?

I am not surprised. Recently I told my wife and blogged on this very topic. With all the attention the 13 year old boy is getting, everyone else wants to copycat him. What sort of parents does this girl have that so many of the boys in the neighborhood can claim they have had sex with her? What sort of boys are these that will "kiss and tell?"

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This is why kids should be talked to openly about sex and whether you like it or not you should give your kids, well not kids but teens condoms. You should say I don't want you to have sex but if you choose to please be safe. I have worked w/ teens for years teaching them about hiv/aids and other std prevention.

lol...what are you saying melissa,when you say their too young,and that your NOT SAYING YOU WAS A VIRGIN at 16,..just because you knew how to protect yourself from catching an STD,or get pregnant,doesnt mean you wasnt doing the nasty,or make it right at that age to have sex...and YOU USED THE WRONG WORD (KNEW)...in your comment,..NEW mean BRAND NEW,..KNEW is TO KNOW,which is the KNEW you should have used

Goldfinger: As you criticize Melissa for her spelling error, you need to be made aware that your post, by my count, contains at least fourteen errors (and probably more - I did this quickly, and I'm not an English major) in spelling (2), punctuation (3), uncapitalized word (1), wrong tense (3), and sentence construction (5). Your post was so poorly written that It was hard at first glance to tell what you were trying to say. Feel free to make your point, in any manner you wish, but avoid criticizing what others have written, without first getting someone with at least a seventh-grade education to proofread your comments.

I did not even have sex until I was 22. About a month after that, we got married. Not cuz we had to, either. I cannot have kids. Now, I wish I had waited until I was married to have sex. It cheapens the act. Living together cheapens it too. Once you "do it", there is no turning back. But, you can take a vow to NOT do it again until you get married. If I had known he was going to abuse me, I would have never done it. Nevertheless, Alfie is TOO YOUNG to be even doing this stuff. NO ONE should have sex before marriage,no matter how old you are. It's a beautiful thing God intended to happen between a man and his wife. That is just the way it is. But, you know, hindsight is 20/20.

Goldfinger:

I couldn't even understand half of what you were saying because it was so poorly written....so I left off the "k" on a word, oops, one typo (one to your 14 or 15 lol)....and I said I was 16, not 13, and he got the girl pregnant when he was 12! He also said she has been his "girlfriend" for 2 years....that means since he was 11 and she was 13....when I was 11 boys still had cooties! A 13 year old boy tried to kiss me when I was 12 and I punched him lol! My whole point was that kids are having sex younger and younger these days, and they are not being taught about how dangerous it is (HIV/AIDS, herpes, all other kinds of STD's that I can't even think of right now, pregnancy). I was with the same guy from the time I was 13 until I was 17. He was my first boyfriend, I was his first girlfriend, and we lost our virginity to each other. I was 16 when it happened, he was 17, and yes, I wish we had waited, but we didn't. But we were also safe, we used a condom, I was on the pill, because my mom talked to me beforehand. She told me, "no I don't want you to do this before you get married, but if you are going to, you need to be safe."

I have ranted enough. I better proofread this so no one else gets on my back lol.

i agree most guys don't take responsibility for a pregnancy.
im 18 and have a 1 year old. and that doesn't mean i wasn't responsible, or that it was my parents fault, or the village. bottom line is it was my decision and my boyfriends decision. Clarissa, that whole no one should before their married is your opinion and some of us aren't like you so if the kid was having yea because it was not stuff, it was his decision. He's taking responsibility you should be preeching to the millions that don't and leave the poor kids alone

U R right ashley i mean this whole thing is fishy it reminds me of that whole anna nicole smith ordeal

12 and 13 year olds should keep their pudding in their own pants ;)

It doesn't mean the kids didn't have a stable home life. Kids make their own decisions if they live in a normal home. Do yoyu want them tied to the bed post 'til they are 21?

What is needed in this situation is a calm voice of reason, who will get to the heart of the problem through rational means that will answer all the questions and provide some sense of rightness and propriety for all concerned, as well as everyone else. Bring a light to this dark situation, with someone who really, really cares about these kids and their well-being! We americans know the RIGHT way to sort out and solve these problems: Please! Quick! Someone call Maury Povich!

The only thing a Village can raise is an Idiot. Parents must be held accountable