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Since that day, I have had a little bit of what might be called "lice-quest obsession." I worry about lice. A lot. Sometimes, while I'm stroking my kids' sweet heads or the heads of one of their friends, I'm think, "Aw, I love this kid! Anyone alive in there? Hmm? What was that? And what was that?" I realize this can't be healthy.
Healthy or Hurtful?
Lice
Once upon a time, that kid in kindergarten with the lice had to stay home until he (or she) was nit-free. Not any more. Some schools are letting nit-infested students back into the classroom. Makes you itchy just thinking about it, doesn't it?
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And now comes news that many schools will allow kids with lice eggs, aka nits, to stay in school. The idea is supported by the American Academy of Pediatrics and the National Association of School Nurses. The point being, since nits themselves aren't contagious, kids with nits should stay in class. "To withhold a child from school due to nits really interrupts the educational process," the National Association of School Nurses Executive Director Amy Garcia told the AP. Apparently, about 60 percent of schools already allow kids with nits to stay in class.
This concept inspires a little anxiety: Aren't nits just "about-to-be-hatched" lice? Apparently, not always ...
It turns out, some nits never hatch into lice. And children with actively crawling lice in their hair are sent home from school, though some new thinking is that schools should let crawling-lice-infested children stay in school for the rest of the day, and just "avoid close head contact with other children."
If you've ever tried to keep your child from sharing hats, hair bows, or jackets, you have some idea of how well that warning must be working out.
This is a tough and divisive issue: Parents of kids who don't have lice definitely want children with nits to go home for a thorough comb-out, while parents of those children who, through no fault of their own, keep getting nits just want their kids to get back to learning their colors and new math. Most of all, no one wants any child to be shamed with a public "Go home! You have lice!"
Meanwhile, the US has anywhere from six to 12 million cases of head lice a year. That's a lot of hair crawlies. In the end all we can do is try to keep lice at bay as best we can, since that's best for everyone.
Part of my personal lice obsession has been driven by the fact that I'd never actually seen live lice and everyone kept talking about how impossible they are to see and how you never know if you have them until you're "really infested." (Gross. Gross. Gross.) I recently found a few videos that show you exactly what those little critters look like crawling along in the hair, and how to treat lice. Since I saw them "live" on video I haven't been as obsessed. Much.
PS: Your school nurse should know the policy at school. Ask if you don't know.
Do you think kids with nits should be allowed to stay in school or sent home?
Sabrina Weill is editor-in-chief of PrincessLovesPink.com











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 3)
2-19-2009 @ 6:28PM
ame s said...Better safe than sorry, I say the child should stay home.
My daughters had lice (I think from the home of a friend) TWICE the year one was in K-garten and the other in pre-school. Both have very thick, long hair. It was a nightmare getting rid of them.
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2-20-2009 @ 12:41AM
Lillie said...I think that they should be sent home and washed and clean until none is left. It is no fun to have those things jumping from one to the other. It has happen before. I am clean, my children are clean and I expect them to stay that way. It is not going to hurt them staying home to get clean.
2-22-2009 @ 3:01PM
chirppal said...I am a School Nurse. The criteria for deciding to keep a child with nits in school goes beyond what has been stated above. For example, nits need warmth in order to hatch. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, if the nits are more than 1/4" from the scalp, they are not viable. The nits are cemented onto the hair when it is laid. As the hair grows, the nit gets further from the scalp and the warmth of the scalp. Therefore, if a nit is more than 1/4" from the scalp, it is not new and doesn't have the right conditions to hatch. In the past, we were sending kids home that had just one nit, even if it was 3" from the scalp. Does that make sense? Most of you are having an uninformed, emotional reaction to the lice issue - please get the facts. If the no nit policy was working in the past, why did we still have lice in kids? I can tell you stories about kids who were sent home for nits by non-School Nurses, but the nits turned out to be dandruff, residue from too much hair gel or hair spray, and once it was residue from dried on bubble bath. Lice do not jump!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They crawl!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you want good, valid information about lice, google the following: lice and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (i.e. lice cdc) - that explains everything that you want to know about lice. By the way, I don't lke lice either - I had them when I was a brand new RN while working in the hospital. I blamed my job, but I was also apartment-sitting, and most likely they were in the mattress of the person whose apartment I was staying in. Also, of the thousands of heads that I have checked, I have very rarely seen live lice; just know that if you see any slow movng insect in your chld's hair or on a towel after they wash their hair, that is lice.
2-19-2009 @ 7:59PM
trisha said...I think children with nits should NOT be allowed in the classroom.
At my daughter's school they are allowed to stay and I am involved in an ongoing battle with headlice. I have to treat her and the whole house once a week or she is infested. Allowing children with nits to remain in the classroom only contributes to my problem.
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2-19-2009 @ 7:44PM
windex said...Stay home! No ifs ands or buts. They are horrible to get rid of and should be prevented at all costs.
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2-19-2009 @ 8:16PM
Kerri said...This is completely ignorant! Lice are parasites and can transmit disease. I'd be mad as hell if I found out a kid with lice was allowed to stay in school and possibly infect my child. It costs a fair amount of money to treat an infestation along with the headache it causes with sterilizing everything. Seriously, I'd be mad as hell.
2-19-2009 @ 9:38PM
Lulu said...KEEP THE LICE AT HOME!
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2-20-2009 @ 2:15AM
michelle said...all these schools are interested in is the money they will miss out on when kids are not at school
2-22-2009 @ 11:24PM
sandi said...I think they need to stay home.
2-22-2009 @ 3:15PM
sarah said...all four of my children had lice in the 80;s which in return gave my husbank and i lice. When I found out about thel lice, ofcourse i treated all the children include myself and my husband, washed everything in site in lysol not once but 3 times, had a carpet man shampoo my carpets and furniture, i rented a hefa vac cleaner for my mattresses, scrubed all wood, even walls with lysol. after several days of staying home and giving them another lice shampoo and pull the nits from the hair, they went back to school. But in the mean time, I called the school and told them and wanted the health dept to check every head of hair on the kids in school. When I think that they did and the health dept checked the heads of the kids, they went back to school. But guess what?
the school never called the health dept about the lice as they told me they will, so my kids went back to school, they got lice again two weeks later.
At the time it was very expensive to treat the kids, especially when my husband was a police officer making about 25,000 a year.
When they came home with lice again i was livid. I contacted the school, the contact the board of health and they were not informed about lice going around and the school did not call them.
As it was I sued the school for over 2,000.00 to get rid of the lice twice, and not notifying the board od health (at that time)
Not only I got my 2,000 back, but my attorney's fee paid for.
This is what you have to do. If you can't afford an atty, take them to small claims court for nearly nothing. Everyone heads should be checked by a nurse and sent home. As for the new rule, I would not send my kids back to school until everyone was cleaned of nits, and lice, and the room was santized completely, and want proof of it also.My children did not have anyone over the house for weeks, and then I called up the mothers to see how well they cleaned the hous and the child's hair. Call me a clean freak if you wish, but this is disquisting. After that, the board of health always came to inspect. The child that had lice or nits were sent home until cleaned and not to return back to the school unless they were checked by a nurse. My daughter had very long curl hair, I couldn't take out off the nits, I couldn't bring her to a beautician, so I got the sicors and cut it myself all off, yes she cried but that's they way it goes, and on my 3 boys it was a hand full to clean the nits off, but I wored at it for hours, I would not dare take them to a barber and expose everyone. There hair was washed twice a week for 2 weeks.
So, don't listen to the school, your children's health is more important. by the way they were in middle school them.
Thanks for listening to me
Sarah from Virginia.
2-19-2009 @ 8:16PM
Dixie said...Sorry, but now my head is itching!!!!!!! This is terrible!
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2-19-2009 @ 8:25PM
woman said...I think they should have to stay home,my daughter also has problems with getting head lice.they are a pain,she has been getting them for the past 4 months,and scholl does nothing,we know the sorce (child) that has them and her parents dont have the "time" to get ride of them,now we all have to suffer!I have to treat her at least every 3 weeks.
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2-19-2009 @ 8:25PM
Sherry said...Ok, I am itching all over which always happens everytime I hear the word lice. I had such an obsession when my daughter was little, I made the writer of this article look normal. THE CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED IN SCHOOL UNTIL THEY ARE TOTALLY FREE OF LICE AND NITS! We will have a problem that will be out of control if schools are allowing this to happen, It is not a head to head problem, they can live in combs, coats, scarfs, head phones, fabric chairs, reading pillows, nap blankets, they can go locker to locker, in fact we used to have to keep our childrens belongings in a plastic bag that sealed when we had a problem at our school. I hope taht parents will stand up to the schools and demand that they reconsider this decision, do it for your kids, do it for your own sanity because it is horrible to treat, to do so effectively takes at least one month of every day treatment for your house and your car.
YUCK!
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2-19-2009 @ 8:28PM
Anita said...I am a school nurse and I just updated our school with the "No Lice" policy and did away with the "No Nit" policy. The AAP and NASN agree with this policy. Nits are not contagious. If a child has nits I check them weekly for hatching until the all the nits are gone. They are very hard to get rid of and it can take a few days to a few weeks to comb them all out, esp. in girls with long hair. But the main reason we believe kids should be allowed in school with nits is that lice are not dangerous and carry no disease. It is more of a crime that a child should miss a lot of school for a benign condition.
If your child ever ends up with lice and the nurse allows to you to keep sending them to school once they've been treated, you will be thankful for this policy. Parents miss less days of work also.
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2-19-2009 @ 8:40PM
debbie said...lice are parasites plain and simple. No nit policy should be enforced. Lucky for me it was the daycare and neighbor's was where my kids got it. and I could take steps to avoid further infestation. And as far as being a school nurse if you were any good you would be working in private practice.
2-19-2009 @ 9:14PM
Anita said...Debbie, I have been a pediatric nurse for 15 years and a pediatric nurse practitioner for over 10 years. I took the school nurse job so I can work around my kids' school schedules. Please don't tell me I am not good at my job. You don't know me. Besides, I made my decision based on recommendations by the AAP and National Association of School Nurses, of which I am a member. They are reputable medical organizations, able to guide policy making based on scientific data. I would not say the same about your uneducated opinion.
2-22-2009 @ 10:26PM
Tramey said...This is ridiculous. Really. Do you even understand how expensive it is to treat lice? You should rethink your policy. Nits are going to be lice. They are lice eggs. No-nit policies should be enforced in schools and childcares. People like you are just keeping the lice problem ongoing.
2-22-2009 @ 3:09PM
kayte said...Anita, respectfully, how can you say nits and head lice are not contagious when a child goes to an infected child's home and catches them? Head lice are, by nature, travelers and opportunistic, looking for clean healthy hair and heads and our experience was of exactly what I am saying. My daughters slept over one night in an infected home, in the rooms of infected children and we had an eight week nightmare on our hands. We ended up (after all the useless over the counter poisons and old wives tails) ending the cycles with a natural remedy bought over the Internet and only after two weeks of being nit, egg and lice free, did our children return to their schools. The number of days a mother has to take off work should not be a factor in deciding if it is good to send them back or not.
2-22-2009 @ 5:08PM
Amy Sue said...Tramey,
I understand how expensive it is to treat lice. I have also read the box and it says kills lice and their nits. It says nothing about removing them, have you ever had 3 kids with head lice, treated them, treated the home and removed all the nits in one day. My child went to school and they found one nit and sent her back home. Our school has a no nit policy, the nurse told me that the nit was empty but it was policy. I took my daughter up there 3 times that day and she found a total of 2 nits and they both were empty.
2-22-2009 @ 9:48PM
Anita said...Kayte, I did not say lice are not contagious. They are. Nits are not contagious. They don't move off of hair without some degree of force. They certainly don't crawl from head to head like lice do.
The AAP has found that there is no difference in the incidence of head lice in schools that enforce a no nit policy versus a no lice policy. But schools with a no lice policy have a much better attendance record. I researched this very thoroughly before creating the policy at my school.
It is a shame for a child to miss days or weeks of school for something that is not dangerous. Contrary to popular belief, lice to not carry germs, do not spread disease, and do not harm children in any way. It's the ick factor that make people hate them.