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Is this Puyallup, WA, mom remorseful or scared? "I'd do it again, if not better," she tells ABC News Seattle affiliate KOMO-TV.
Gibson's older daughter, Rachael Porter, came to her mom's defense saying, "She was protecting her kids like she should have been. They locked her up for way too long."
What would you have done?
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Mother Beats Sex Offender with a Bat
Tammy Gibson, a Tacoma, WA, mother beat a sex offender with a baseball bat after she saw him chatting with her young daughter. She was sentenced to three months in jail, but says, "I'd do it again." READ MORE
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Gibson pleaded no contest to assault charges last week against hulking 7-foot-3 William A. Baldwin, a Level-3 sex offender. She could have received as much as eight months in jail.
"I don't care if it hurts me, I don't regret it," says Gibson. "It got him away from my kids and all the other kids in the neighborhood."
Baldwin moved into his uncle's home last June, shortly before county deputies had distributed fliers around the neighborhood to alert residents of his presence.
On June 19, Gibson went to the house in the trailer park looking for Baldwin. When he walked outside, Gibson accused him of molesting her children. She hit him repeatedly and allegedly injured his arm. But here's the twist: Gibson later told police he had not molested her daughter, Renee Maria Perez, saying instead that she recognized Baldwin from the flier as the man who had chatted up Renee last summer.
"For him to be right there, in front of my house and talking to my child -- made me crazy," she says. "I just told him that if it were up to me, I'd kill ya."'
Renee, now 11, was in tears during the sentencing. "He tried to give me fireworks and I wouldn't take it," she says.
Gibson says she hopes the attention created by her case will trigger a change in the laws regarding released sex offenders.
"I would hope that me doing this and going to jail would change something, change some kind of law, change something where people like him can't be standing around little kids?" Gibson says. "It's not right, it's not fair to the kids at all."
Whether this mother should be punished for protecting her child is up for debate. Who wouldn't rage at a sex offender spending time with your young daughter? But Baldwin was accused and attacked (unprovoked) at his home. Living near a sex offender is enough to put any parent on edge, but last checked, vigilantism is still against the law.
Baldwin has since moved from Tacoma to Seattle -- a soon-to-be neighbor to another parent's children.
What do you think -- is Gibson a criminal or righteous mother hen?












ReaderComments (Page 5 of 24)
3-02-2009 @ 10:39PM
ROGER said...Its the Bleeding Heat Liberals that let laws get passed that do not let scum like this giant of a sexual deviant be allowed out of jail with his reproductive organs still atached to his body
3-04-2009 @ 9:41AM
Sue Greer said...LS: Thank you so much for the one shining comment amid the masses. I had begun to think that we were all in a great lot of trouble if these reactions are indicative of rationale. I completely agree with your assessment of the situation and your comments mirrored my own. One of my first questions when I read this story was how and when did this mother know exactly what happened during that incident? I am sure her daughter must have related it to her, (however abbreviated) and where I can see just the thought of him talking to her would infuriate any mother, she had time before approaching this man at HIS RESIDENCE to gather her information and process her actions. Would it not have been just as effective for her to approach him and tell him that she was going immediately to the police and report to his parole officer that he had violated his parole and she would press charges to make sure that he went right back to jail. Then maybe he would be the one spending the time behind bars and not her. That brings up my second point. How ludicrous is it that you have a crime, the nature of which of itself, makes it impossible to return that felon out into the world, and then give him a "slap on the hand, and a light sentence" and turn him loose again. There are no neighborhoods that I know of that do not have children in them (unless you want to add senior housing, and that is not a "neighborhood" just a residential location. So, in lieu of finding an island and creating a "felon residence colony" what is so hard about making the sentence fit the crime? LIFE without parole. That would cut down on having so many repeat offenders clogging up our prison systems.
As for the mother in this instance, my heart is with her and I truly feel the anger she must have felt, being a mother myself, I echo her feelings, but not her actions. First of all her actions did her no good. She is behind bars and he is still loose (as far as we all know). Now she has to worry about what might happen in her absense. I will hold out hope that maybe some good will come out of all of this and maybe some laws will get changed. Good luck with that.
3-02-2009 @ 10:29PM
pengberts said...You a Lawyer? That's the problem with our country, too many lawyers. Too many taxes, also. lmao as if we have any say
3-02-2009 @ 10:36PM
LS said...No, I'm not a lawyer. I'm a mom. And a citizen who actually READS the Constitution. And who also understands right and wrong.
Yes, what the guy did was wrong, that's why he went to jail. No, I do not agree that he should have been released if, indeed, he was a Level III Offender (the definition of which can be found with a quick Google Search).
However...
I also understand that what this woman did was WRONG. You do NOT hunt people down in their own homes and beat them with a baseball bat because he may or may not have spoken to your child. Last I checked, Freedom of Speech was still a right granted by the Constitution. The man NEVER touched the girl. NEVER. The woman was wrong. She is in jail. That is the law. Deal with it.
3-06-2009 @ 2:16PM
toni said...i don't think she lied about anything. the child also said he offered her fireworks, which seems to indicate that he was trying to entice her for something. i love kids but i would never just offer them things. as a mother, i would say that her instincts took over and she did what she had to do to protect her children. ideally, she should have taken her daughter away and called the police or something, but in the heat of the moment it is difficult to think clearly. especially where our children are concerned. on top of that, he was a sex offender who has been found guilty.
granted most sex offenders have gone thru something in their past that makes them so twisted. i feel for them as i cannot believe they can be happy being what they are. however, as a mother i can also say if i ever found a convicted sex offender around my daughter i cannot say what i would do. i am a christian who believes in turning the other cheek, but then i am also human. and i can totally identify with the woman saying she would do it all over again.
perhaps the authorities could have come up with a better solution than jailing the mother. maybe they can try to rehabilitate the sex offender and give the mother a warning or something, because i cannot believe that honestly trying to protect your children from 1 of the worst things that can happen to them is a crime. assault is a crime, i agree, but protecting one's child isn't a crime is it? and that was her main motive.
3-02-2009 @ 8:20PM
cocoainwinter said...As a mother of two girls who have been molested, my thought at the beginning of the story was "Go Mom! He deserved it." But then after reading that she went to HIS residence I disagree. My opinion is that if she had looked outside and seen this man chatting up her daughter, I would have agreed with the choice to take a baseball bat after the man at that moment in time. However, since some time had passed and she went to his house the most she should have done is told him that he had better stay the he** away from her kids or there would be trouble.
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3-06-2009 @ 12:53PM
jessica said...If you are seriously the mother of two molested children and you actually feel the need to take up for this guy by writing in his defense on here than I think you may have some issues. Most of us support this woman without having had our kids molested.
3-06-2009 @ 9:22PM
cocoainwinter said...Jessica I was in no way taking up for the man. What he did was wrong, however, it is against the law to go to someone's residence and beat them with a baseball bat. She was in the wrong too. And now her children are left without their mother around for a few months because of that choice. That isn't fair to the kids. Before I found out that my girls were molested I always said that I would cut off the 'thing' of any man who touched them and take pleasure in killing them (as most moms do say). But when it actually happens you realize that you cant take yourself out of your children's lives in order to retaliate (which is a felony offense). How would that solve anything? Sure, you would get the temporary pleasure of torturing the person, but that does nothing for keeping you with your family. Or for helping your child to heal from what has been done to them. You need to be there for them as a shoulder to cry on, listening ear, and loving embrace. So you let the law do the punishing. You can put me down for what I wrote, however, I am just stating what is REAL. Think about it...
3-02-2009 @ 8:47PM
gwugluud barcher said...She should have called the police. As a registered sex offender, they would've dealt with him. Lynching and vigilanteism is 19th-century. This is North America, not Iran.
She just wanted an excuse to hit someone with a baseball bat. It could be her issues are just as twisted as his!
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3-02-2009 @ 9:30PM
trisha C said...I agree- she should have called the police. He deserves to be beaten, but really, taking the law into your own hands is never a good idea.
3-02-2009 @ 11:34PM
patrice said...yeah right , see how many people willl agree with you
3-24-2009 @ 1:43PM
gwugluud barcher said...It would appear several people willllllllllll agree with me. Or, "with meeeeeeeeeeee..."
3-02-2009 @ 8:24PM
slycatjr said...Isnt there some sort of law that he cant be talking to kids or around them.? He should be back in jail for the very fact that he was NEAR a 10 year old. I can say I would have surely done the same... If there was more SWIFT JUSTICE for idiots like this the world would be a better place.
You are a hero !!!!
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3-02-2009 @ 8:24PM
jorgebrito2 said...This lady is a nice lady. That criminal guy should be given the death sentence. The law here does things that are unfair to society.
She should sue the law for what they did to her. She is INOCENT.
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3-02-2009 @ 9:57PM
SKN said...Learn to spell before making ignorant remarks.
3-03-2009 @ 7:32AM
Vanessa said...She should have killed him. I don't care if it was unprovoked. I'm sure that the person he commited the crime against didn't provoke it. I'm so sick of having to tolerate this hideousness because "they did their time". It doesn't change the fact that he probably ruined alot of lives and will likely reoffend!
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3-02-2009 @ 8:25PM
Chris said...What idiot judge/jury gave this woman jail time for standing up to a 7'3" monster?? I understand that her bravery might open up the door to every sick pervert getting their butt whipped but how about 10 hours of community service instead?? She really shouldn't be punished for doing something so instinctive to every good parent.
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3-02-2009 @ 9:41PM
My Way said...I think that everyone can relate to the mother's anger and admonish her for wanting to protect her daughter.
There may be room for improvement for her methods, however.
Why didn't she just call the police and report him?
If she attacked him on the spot when he was trying to interact with her child, (when there was an immediate danger) the baseball bat would be the better approach.
But, according to the article, that's not what happened. She attacked him later.
She says that she wants laws to help protect people, but it seems like she's not so willing to follow those laws herself.
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3-02-2009 @ 9:53PM
D'Shani said...Thank you for having some sense and reading the article most don't read anymore they just post away. Please read my comment I am commenting to everyone.
3-02-2009 @ 8:26PM
watdafuk said...Jail time? Give her a pat on the back and a shinny new bat and send her on her way.
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