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When a preschooler hears the word "pot" chances are he thinks of that thing mommy makes mac-n-cheese in on the stove. Well, most preschoolers anyway. Last week, a four-year-old in Tamarac, Florida brought pot with him to school. He casually pulled a plastic bag filled with marijuana out of his backpack and told one of his classmates "this is my brother's weed," according to reports.
His teacher, Iris Dasilva, 45, overhead the little boy and checked his book bag, where she found two more small bags filled with pot. Dasilva then called the Broward Sheriff's Office and the child abuse hotline.
The preschooler initially told investigators his older brother, 21, hid the drugs in the book bag, but later said he found it on a table in his brother's room, the police report said. A Sheriff's Office deputy and an investigator for the Department of Children and Family Services conducted a home visit at the child's residence and found the home clean, in order, with plenty of food, the police report said. It was also reported that the boy's mother told investigators she had never found marijuana in her house and that there was none in the book bag when she packed it.
Before you send your little one off to preschool, you'll probably speak to him about sharing, bullies -- ya know, normal stuff a four-year-old needs to know. But pot? I'm sure we all expect to talk to our kids about drugs at some point, but how young do we really have to start?
"As soon as you can speak to your children, you can start," says Hallie Deaktor, spokesperson for The Partnership for a Drug-Free America. "Preschool is a great time to reinforce how important it is to be healthy. At that age, kids understand that when they feel healthy they can run, jump and play, and when they feel crummy, they can't." Deaktor adds that while a four-year-old shouldn't know the word marijuana, he can understand that there are things people put in their bodies that can make them feel bad -- the same way you would explain to him that some things aren't safe to eat. "If your child is in a situation and he sees something he's never seen before -- like marijuana -- and someone wants him to try it, he won't want to put it in his body because he'll understand it may make him feel bad." The conversations you have with your child about drugs should change as they get older, but starting at a young age and talking about it on a regular basis, will help decrease the likelihood that they'll try drugs when they get older, she adds.
Would you talk to your preschooler about drugs?












ReaderComments (Page 4 of 4)
3-12-2009 @ 6:49PM
Buwana Kuwana said...These new Democrats are out of control.
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3-12-2009 @ 6:51PM
JS said...Hey, get off the kid. It's never too soon to get stupid!
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3-12-2009 @ 6:58PM
MARYE said...''OH MAN, HOLY COW''
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3-12-2009 @ 7:05PM
JS said...THINK. It wouldn't be right to show a black kid, even if he was, because we wouldn't want anyone to think that blacks are into drugs.
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3-12-2009 @ 7:07PM
maureensigg said...why do people always become english professors whenever someone writes an article on here? I don't think that is the point of the comment section.....
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3-12-2009 @ 7:40PM
blondechick13jh said...pot is awesome!! its not addictive
shyt i bet da preeskool teacha wanted 2 giv da kids da pot 2 calm em down
pot makes u fel calm & lyk ur floating dis world wud b a betta place if every1 used weed
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3-12-2009 @ 7:55PM
freethetrees420 said...i beleive that marijuana should be legalized.the medical benifits could be so great but theres a problem with the goverment ever legalizing marijuana it can grow almost any where so they cant tax it. but it would be great if weed was legal because prisons would be way less crowdedthere is a redicolus amount of people in prison for mariuana law violations. so make it legal and theres a ton of money saved right there .people would be happier. if the goverment legalizes marijuana they would put an age restriction on it just like cigarettes and alcahol but even with it legal i think that would stop a lot of teens from smoking it in the first place because it wouldnt be such a rebellious thing any more . and marzmeetsvenus i like yr posts u giv ur opinion and support ur beliefs with solid facts.
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3-12-2009 @ 10:46PM
ame s said...I second that motion. I lost my first husband to cancer. He was in agony for the last 6 months of his life. Morphine and codeine helped with the pain, of course, but they caused horrible constipation & kept him semi-conscious at best. He asked me to time the dosages so he could be alert enough to interact with our daughters when they got home from school. A couple of hits from a joint did the same job for pain relief,
3-18-2009 @ 2:10PM
freethetrees420 said...also ame the drugs like morphine and codine are highly addictive and marijuana is not.t5his just quick post probly be back on l8er if people r even still watching this board
3-12-2009 @ 8:06PM
Bob F. said...Let’s remember that this could happen to ANYONE when there is such a large disparity in the ages of siblings – so we should show a little empathy for the incredible embarrassment this has probably caused the parents.
I was a late-in-life “surprise” (I tend to prefer that term over “mistake”, lol) for my own parents, so the age span between the kids in our family was about the same as in this case, and I can testify that if I had found pot in my big brother’s room the outcome would have been EXACTLY the same! The only major difference might have been that in those days the teacher would have probably at least made an attempt to talk the situation through with my parents before going further. If she didn’t get real convincing answers from them she might have still contacted the authorities – but she wouldn’t have immediately presumed the worst. Of course, had she made that initial call, both big bro and I might have greatly PREFERRED she had called the authorities instead!
I’m not really the nostalgic type – I think we’ve advanced remarkably in many ways over the past 20 to 30 years - but I believe cases like this highlight where we’ve regressed. My preschool teacher would have had the confidence to make that call to my parents because she had the training to do so and because she knew the school would back her up. Today, everyone is so scared of each other and of the system that such confidence doesn’t exist. A teacher doesn’t dare make any attempt to use his or her own judgment in such situations. If she did, and she erred, the PC crowd would crucify her - making sure she not only lost her job but that she never taught again. And the school administrators would literally run the other way for fear of losing their own jobs or being sued. This is progress?
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3-14-2009 @ 2:17PM
Valerie Valentine said...You are so right, Bob they should have talked to the Parents first cause that little child could have been taking away from the parents for something like that who knows the child could have picked that up some where besides the home and then the parents would have got in trouble for it. The way the authorities thank now a days. The parents are always the first to get the blame. Then that little child would have been placed in a foster home where he would not get the love that his own parents would give. I know cause I was placed in a foster home before.
4-15-2009 @ 10:33PM
Caitlin said...It amazes me at the fact that a board of comments about the fact that a 4-year-old bringing pot to school has turned into an adolescent debate over "I'm right, you're wrong"...
I don't believe this article had anything to do with the fact of legalizing marijuana. I don't believe this article asked your opinion about marijuana.
What I believe this article intended to do was EDUCATE you on the fact that a 4-YEAR-OLD kid brought marijuana to pre-school. Regardless of whether or not it was legalized, would you feel comfortable with your 4-YEAR-OLD posessing it?
I wish that you all rethink your comments, and focus more on your home life. Who cares what all these other internet users think of your lifestyle (if you do or do not use marijuana)...what matters is that you are keeping YOUR children safe. This means, don't allow them into your pot stash, but don't allow them into your wine stash either. Don't allow them into your prescription stash. And if you have older children, make sure they're not introducing anything to your children. Even if all you say is "I can't prove you have anything, and I don't really care, but what I DO care is that little (Johnny) doesn't find it.
Regardless whether or not marijuana was legalized, I doubt it would be legalized to 4-year-olds.
This is saddening...and the response to it makes me even more sad.
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