Disney Princesses Pose as Cover Girls
Filed under: Opinions
When it comes to Disney Princesses, I've got an "if you can't beat 'em, join em" attitude. And it's really hard to beat 'em when you've got two small girls in the house. But as much as I've come to accept sharing my home with Princess Aurora and her buddies, I also have my guard up. I know that Disney is a company that's more than happy to take things a little too far.Case in point: "Princess Style" magazines. Okay, so they aren't real magazines. They're actually wall decorations, presumably for a young girl's room. If Ariel's impossibly tiny waist and come hither look aren't painful enough, check out the headlines:
- Great Legs Are a Dream That Can Come True
- What Your Guy Friends Say About You
- Two's Company, Eight's a Crowd
- Find Your Prince: 5 Tips to Show You How
These are, obviously, supposed to be parody, but Disney's target audience is too young to understand sarcasm and satire. My six-year-old is old enough to read them, though. Isn't it a little early to start suggesting to her that her legs aren't perfect? That she needs to worry about finding her "prince" or what boys are thinking about her? (Yes, it's way too early.) And don't get me started on the "eight's a crowd" thing. Sex, body issues, mean girls ... it's all there.
And as Lisa at Sociological Images points out, these "magazines" also bring girls -- ready or not -- right into the celebrity culture: "The product suggests that while it is all well and good to be a princess, you should aim to be a famous princess," writes Lisa, "In addition to occupying castles and fantasy forests, you should grace the covers of magazines. You should aspire to inspire the lust and admiration of the masses, not just your prince."
Fortunately, shoppers seemed to feel the same way that I do about princess cover girls. Not only do these particular pieces have clearance stickers on them, I couldn't find them anywhere on the Internet. Still, it's a good reminder that just because something has a kid-friendly character on it doesn't make it safe or appropriate for kids.











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 2)
4-29-2009 @ 11:08AM
liz saurer said...my 5 year lifts her shirt and tries telling me she's "fat" - this is a disturbing idea. sorry, i'm not allowing her to see this - major disappointment in disney
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4-29-2009 @ 11:18AM
Scott said...Get over it Liz. There are more things to worry about than your daughter saying she is fat because a Disney "character" is on a cover of a magazine. Sounds like you're a huge drama queen.
5-02-2009 @ 6:23PM
maubejr said...OMG people........LIGHTEN UP! First of all the "sarcasm and satire" is not written for the little ones. It's to keep the adult audience interested. You are looking into this way too deep! Do you think your kids are really thinking about how there legs look? Of course not.....they only know that Ariel dreams about having legs. Your reading into it like an adult would and thats exactly what Disney wants. So stop woryying about your little ones.....They know whats going on with their princeses and I guarantee they are NOT reading too much into it! When kids start thin king like adults do, maybe then it's time to worry! geez
4-29-2009 @ 11:57AM
marie said...Hoepfully most children have parents that take the time to teach them the truth and not allow them to be influenced by such trivial things as these. And while it is okay to love these fictional characters they are not real.
As for disney's targeted audience being to young to understand the parody. Well it could be the target audience was not six year olds but perhaps the older of us disney princess fans. And to that audience the disney cover girls are adorable.
However one chooses to approach the subject the fact remains that the most influential character of a childs life is unquestioningly their parents. Even the most lovable fictional character could never overshadow the adoration a child has for them. If anyone has the power to thwart such negative things in a childs life and set them on the right path it is most definately the parents.
The outside influences will always remain whether they are a lovable animated princess or even the next top model. And they will remain regardless of whether one sheilds their child or not. Keeping a child grounded so that they are not swayed by such influences that is true parenting.
4-29-2009 @ 11:59AM
mom of a diva said...I have always thought and called my 4 year old a princess. Her favorite Princess is Cinderella and recently she feels that she has to look like her. It kinda scares me because what lengths will she go to in the future to reach what she thinks is perfect. Even thought i think shes perfect in everyway now.
4-30-2009 @ 11:55AM
hazemaker said...Amazing how fast society is to judge such a small thing did anyone ever consider positiver reinforcement into the equasion. At least thats what i see. Dont forget that over 60 percent of U.S. citizens are overweight, or worse, obeist.
4-29-2009 @ 11:14AM
Leah said...I think Disney and many other corporations are pushing the limit with what they say, or show, younger children. I work with kids and many will come to me and say their fat, or ugly? When I was that young all that mattered was if I got to see my Saturday morning cartoons! A real body is one with curves, a healthy body, not these translucent coat hanger women we see on t.v. Disney should be thinking more about their consumers and less about their pockets!
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4-29-2009 @ 11:48AM
Michelle said...Young girls should ot be allowed to be exsposed to such ideas at such a young age. It is bad enough that whe they get older they will be dealing with these issues, but to tell a child that thier legs aren't perfect is going too far. When I use to babysit the girls would say " i'm fat" adnd they would also tie thier shirts up to show off thier bellys. It is bad enough that the media tells kids what to eat and watch, but telling a child that they should worry about what a guy is thinkng about them is pushing things too far. I agree that this time Disney has gone too far.
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4-29-2009 @ 12:10PM
Nichole said...If your daughters are acting this way, and will react to the magazines the way you fear they will, it's not Disney's fault. It's YOURS. If you think your daughters, or children for that matter, are perfect now, make sure they know that too. It's your responsibility to teach them that Ariel's waist is as impossible for them to have as are her fins. Stop blaming media, companies, and other people for your parental shortcomings, and step up to the plate. Have a better hand in how you raise your own children.
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4-29-2009 @ 1:15PM
Marie said...Take into consideration that Walt Disney's target audience was not that of six year olds but consisted of us older princess fans. And while it may seem as thought it might be promoting a negative self image. It is stated plainly in the article that it is a parody and in that sense is poking fun at the negative adds that do exist which takes the seriousness out of the idea completely.
While little girls across the country and world for that matter love, adore and in fact look up to these fictional beauties not one of the characters could hold even a tenth as much influence to a child as that of their own parents. And in this sense instead of putting the focus on any outside influence that exists (and will continue to exist despite our personal opinions of them), it is a parents job and obligation to raise their children to be healthy and grounded individuals who will not be swayed by such negative influences.
Children watch their parents more then cartoons, and look to their parents to learn proper behaviors, positive body image and self esteem.
A real fashion magazine targets adults. Influencing them to long to be beautiful, to go on diets, to want to be something that they are not and to morph themselves into the public's perception of beauty. It is adult women who look at these things and long to be better then they are while their daughters sit back and take it all in. How many little girls watch their mommies go on diets or look at themselves in the mirror in disgust of tummy fat. And then their mommies wonder where they get it from.
It is normal for a child to want to look like or dress like a disney princess, (what little girl didn't ever dream of being a princess), that's play, that's make believe. It is the parents job to teach a child that she doesn't need to be a princess or look like anyone else besides herself to be beautiful. It is our job to influence our children more postively then anything in the public ever could or ever will. It is our responsibility to put forth a positive self image of ourselves in order to raise self confident daughters.
4-29-2009 @ 2:30PM
Nichole said...Marie: Just like your first sentence says, Disney's target audience WAS and CONSISTED (past tense) of older princess fans. Their target now is anyone who's interested and wants to (or wants their parents to) spend the money. And I agree with every single statement you made. I am glad there are people out there with common sense.
4-29-2009 @ 2:32PM
Nichole said...Marie: I agree with every single statement you made. I am glad there are people out there with common sense.
4-29-2009 @ 12:13PM
michellemcuellar said...I grew up watching the Little Mermaid and she was my favorite. I also would walk around saying I was fat , i didn't get that idea by looking at her body. I got that idea from other women I would see saying they had to loose weight , or they had to go to the gym. For example I am 24 and my little sister is 10 , when I was 17 and 18 I would always talk about working out and how i was fat . Than one day she said she had to workout because she was fat. I than realized that she only came up with that idea because she has 2 older sisters that she hears all the time along with the magazines and T.V.
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4-29-2009 @ 12:40PM
katie said...I actually have the Sleeping Beauty one hanging in my 4 yr old's room. I too think that too much is being read into the captions. Of course I do say that, knowing that my daughter can't yet read what the thing says, so maybe that would change my opinion, but I doubt it. For now, all she knows is that it has a princess on it and she likes it. It hangs on her wall and I don't think she even notices it most of the time! It is easy to blame media and these companies such as Disney or Mattel. To some extent they do have a responsibility to create proper toys and decent images for our children, but beyond that, it is our job to protect our kids from images and characters that we do not find appropriate. It is also our job to support our children and make sure that we do all we can to encourage them to be themselves and remind them just how special and beautiful and smart and funny and creative, etc... they really are. It is impossible to protect our children from ever seeing anything that we do not find acceptable, we just need to prepare them so that when they do see these images or receive these twisted messages, they know how to respond.
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4-29-2009 @ 12:57PM
nadia said...Once again, parents the world over are overreacting. A child looking at this will see it as being about Ariel, not in the way adults will look at it. Just as maubejr said, they will only know that Ariel wanted legs, not that they themselves are less than perfect. In the same way, no child will see "eight's a crowd" as being sexual. Children are just not in the same mindset as their parents. Another fine example of how today's parents are overzealous in everything they do for their children. It's no wonder the youth of today have problems!
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4-29-2009 @ 1:15PM
Sharon said...Sorry - when I was doing daycare I saw little girls AND little boys who were overly concerned with their looks.
I saw little girls whose mothers dressed them like little hookers.
My neighbor - sweet woman - wants her kids to be kids, has dozens of different fashion & glamour magazines. Not a single national geographic or ranger rick or highlights. Her 5 yr old showed me her SHAVEN legs while wearing a crop top that exposed her little belly and during exuberant play - her nipples, and proceeded to tell me she was on a diet to lose weight.
She wasn't the only child to follow mommys' footsteps either. Granted most were to a lesser extent. None mentioned leg condition but some asked if their hips were to big, did they have round butts, etc etc.
I was APPALLED. I did my best to avoid asserting my opinion, I did suggest shirts with more coverage were better for play & sun protection.
My daughter only ever fusses with her hair. Something her bald dad kind of foisted on her. She never wears belly exposing shirts, has never asked me if she was to fat, and certainly isn't concerned with her legs. But then I keep my adult concerns about my expanding waist line to myself and there aren't any glamour or high fashion mags in the house. Just kid stuff.
Kids follow their parents and playmates. When a new friend brought over an EXTENSIVE make up kit and bratz dolls, I called her parents and said that I didn't support bratz and could she keep those toys at home and make up was messy and I hate cleaning my furniture & rugs - could she keep that at home too? thankfully they were understanding and happy to comply.
Disney was way off the mark on this.
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4-29-2009 @ 1:58PM
marie said...The point is not to shield your kids from every negative influence in the world that is humanly impossible. The point is to raise them to be better then that to rise above that. The negative influences are constant and are everywhere. There is nothing a parent can do about that. If not from magazines then from tv if not from tv then from the internet and if not from the internet then friends at school, there is no way around exposure. Sorry real life doesn't work that way. The point is to raise them to be self confidant and proud of who they are and unwilling to compromise themselves to be popular or pretty, or even socially acceptable. The point is to raise them to love them selves and want to be who they are and not some model in a magazine that hardly looks human. The point is that it doesnt matter what magazines say or what any doll looks like or what image any company projects.The point is that all these stupid and petty things that some parents like to blame things on should hold no significance to raising a child. And if a child is raised right they will never hold significance at all. No question young children's minds are maleable, but just as easily as they can take in something negative their parents can just as easily turn it around and put them on the right path. Disney ,bratz even barbie are not to blame. If a mother doesnt want them to feel negative about themselves then she needs to stop feeling negative about herself. No doubt if a little girl is asking if her hips are to big or if her tummy is to fat then chances are her mother does that herself at home. Fathers are no acception. If a father tells his wife how fat and unappealing she is that's just as bad. Children want to be accepted by their parents.
4-29-2009 @ 2:49PM
sharon said...I never heard my neighbor put her kids down. She was always proud of their accomplishments.
But the constant reminders of the magazines and chat between her mom & adult friends put those thoughts into her head.
I don't think at 5 she really had a negative image but the constant belly stuff had her pretending to be an adult. Those concepts will stay with her from grade to grade. And they'll grow into larger thing. From wearing lipgloss to lipstick before jr. high even.
I really despise bratz concept. Small girl children wearing to much make up and revealing clothes. WTH is that about?
4-29-2009 @ 1:24PM
LS said...For the love of pete... if you don't like it, DON'T BUY IT. I don't like the headlines on Cosmo, so I DON'T BUY IT.
I'm sorry, I am tired of the media getting the blame for every d*n thing, and parents whining and saying, "THEY'RE corrupting my kids!!!" YOU have the ability and the responsibility to censor (egads!!! She said the "C" word!!) what your children see. Don't like that society says that girls have to be anorexic? Teach your daughter to be strong, eat healthy, and find her worth in her head and heart, not in her legs. And turn off the tv. Turn off the computer. Don't read the rags.
I'm not saying that media doesn't have a responsibility to the children they target,but WE, the parents, are the gatekeepers. If our kids learn strong values from us, if they have a strong foundation upon which to stand, those headlines - be they real or satire - aren't going to mean a thing.
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4-29-2009 @ 1:46PM
FJ said...For a father-to-be in August, this is pretty sickening. I can only hope that I'll be able to either explain the difference well between reality & this satire nonsense, or if I have a daughter, avoid this type of nonsense entirely. From what I see on shelves & on TV lately, the media is an enemy to be avoided whenever possible when it comes to parenting. May sound a bit harsh, but TV is far from natural or normal!
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