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Good advice, that.
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Bristol Palin (pictured here at the 2008 Republican National Convention with brother Trig) says that "Girls need to imagine and picture their life with a screaming newborn baby and then think before they have sex."
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Bristol Palin has changed her mind about abstinence; she's back on board and is speaking out about why teens should not have sex. Palin and ex-fiance Levi Johnston are the parents of a baby boy, Tripp, born in December.
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"We both love each other," Levi Johnston, 18, told the AP in a rare interview about his relationship with 18-year-old Bristol Palin. "We both want to marry each other. And that's what we are going to do."
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Levi Johnston called himself a "redneck' on his MySpace page.
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Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin and her husband Todd have five children with short, masculine and certainly unique names: Track, 19, Bristol, 18, (with Levi Johnston), Willow, 14, Piper, 7, and Trig, 8 months (not pictured). Read More
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Sarah Palin initially hid her pregnancy with Trig from the public, causing rumors that Trig was her grandson via Bristol.
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Gov. Sarah Palin, her husband Todd, and daughters Bristol,16, right, and Piper, 5, at the end of a 2006 inauguration ceremony in Fairbanks. Palin, 42, is the first female and youngest governor of Alaska.
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"Trig is beautiful and already adored by us," read a statement by the Palin when Trig was born on April 18. "We knew through early testing he would face special challenges, and we feel privileged that God would entrust us with this gift and allow us unspeakable joy as he entered our lives. We have faith that every baby is created for good purpose and has potential to make this world a better place. We are truly blessed."
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"Our beautiful daughter Bristol came to us with news that as parents we knew would make her grow up faster than we had ever planned," the Palins's statement said when they announced her pregnancy. "As Bristol faces the responsibilities of adulthood, she knows that she has our unconditional love and support."
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Chuck Heath, 70, (pictured with wife Sally), Sarah Palin's father, said gift boxes for his newest grandson are piling up in the governor's mail room from all over the world. There's no way the family will ever be able to answer every letter, he said, although they are trying.
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For Palin, the consequences of her choice to be sexually active include juggling two part time jobs and caring for her 5-month-old son, Tripp, all while living in her parents' Wasilla, AK, home. Tripp sleeps in a crib in Bristol's room, and typically wakes twice during the night for feedings, which the teen mom handles herself. This month, Palin graduated from Wasilla High, although she missed most of her senior year and spent graduation night at home with her extended family, not out with her friends and classmates.
But she does see her story as a cautionary tale, one that she's hoping to share with other teens. "If girls realized the consequences of sex, nobody would be having sex," Palin says firmly. "Trust me. Nobody." Palin hopes to take that story directly to vulnerable kids, as an advocate for teen pregnancy prevention.
Bristol Palin has gotten a bad rap, primarily for things that were beyond her control, like her mother's Vice Presidential campaign. But she seems to be a level-headed kid who is making the best of a tough situation, and who is turning into quite role model.











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 14)
5-21-2009 @ 2:29PM
Melissa said...I may not be a republican and I may not like her mom all that much, because I just feel like she is a phony, but Bristol seems to be handling this well. I mean, she is telling girls "think before you do it", and that's coming from experience, it's not coming from a belief that's shoved on her and is not her own. A few months ago she was admitting that teens would not be abstinant, it's just not even smart to think they would. I actually admire her for her honesty. Hell, I'm 30 and a single parent, and I think she's handling it better than I did lol!
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5-21-2009 @ 9:37PM
Mary said...It seems to me that not long ago; Bristol was saying that it wasn't realistic to expect teenagers to use abstinance in a sexual situation. I taught my children protection. They are all happily married and did NOT have theit children until after they were married. Be realistic Bristol!
5-21-2009 @ 10:46PM
Barney C said...I'm an old man, age 63. Yet I remember vividly -- vividly! -- being young. The drive to have sex was the strongest I had in my entire life! How can "adults" forget this urge? There is no stopping it! It caused me to do the most dangerous things I have ever done in my life, well into adulthood! "Abstinence" sure, it's a good idea but it's a fools notion, dreamed up by up-tight old people. Folks, don't you remember being young??? I sure do. There must be an alternative. Bristol, poor girl, is currently paying the price.
5-21-2009 @ 11:41PM
Gail-Jean Babcock said...The hard part isn't having a baby as a teen ager. The hard part comes later, when you have dedicated your entire life to raising your wonderful children. During that time you have to make many sacrifices, so you never get to really explore what your own personal life is about. Then, suddenly, your children are grown and gone. They have wonderful, amazing lives of their own. You are left on the sidelines, lost and alone. It's hard to know where to turn when you never had the experience. In the blink of an eye, you are an outsider to the only life you have ever known.
5-22-2009 @ 12:08AM
Candace said...I am twenty years old and have two children. I had my son when I was 17 and my daughter when I was 19. It is ALOT of work! More than I could have ever imagined. I am a medical assistant for the hospital and I am going to school to be a nurse.
Going to school, work and having a family is extremely difficult however I wouldn't change anything.
This isn't what I thought my life would be but it isn't bad. I needed to have children. They are the joy of my life.
I wish Bristol would have talked more about what a wonderful experience it is instead of what a burden it is.
I love being a Mom. I wouldn't change anything. I don't encourage premature sex but it is going to happen and when teenage pregnancy happens everyone should support and not judge. More embracing and support would have a better outcome for everyone.
It's a lot of work but I will still be successful and still give my children a good stable enviroment and a good childhood.
5-22-2009 @ 1:32AM
Jim said...Let me see if I get this straight. This teenage girl essentially states that you are stupid if you think teenagers will abstain from having sex... because she did (oh AND got pregnant from it.) Then when she sees how hard it is to raise a child (I'm a father of three) she says that teenagers should abstain because it is really really hard. My question for the group is... Why should ANYONE listen to this girl? She is a naive child who seems to be about as smart as a box of rocks. Oh, and for the record, fire is hot. Don't take my word for it. Go play with some fire and then tell people that fire is hot because you've been burned. That makes about as much sense as what she is doing.
5-22-2009 @ 4:27AM
Harley Stegner said...The Palins are real people. Bristol made a mistake and she is trying to warn other young girls not to make the same mistake. She is apparently handleing it well. The worst thing is many who make the same mistake can't. Either the situation is bad or they just mentally can't handle it. We never know until were faced with it. I applaud Bristol for doing what she is doing, and takeing advantage her position of being heard. Politics put her in that situation, but politics have nothing to do with what she is saying. Thank You Bristol. Harley
5-22-2009 @ 5:28AM
ADL said...I dare you to tell me why you don't like her mom. You probably don't even know why or you are just jealous of her good looks.
5-23-2009 @ 9:58AM
wideglide721 said...This message has been around for years and she didn't listen. What makes anyone think that ths girl should be a role model for other teens. The only thing that makes her different than any other girl is her Mama has money!!
5-23-2009 @ 11:09AM
Pa said...If you think Sarah Palin is a phony. What are your thoughts on Hillary Clinton.
5-21-2009 @ 2:36PM
ame s said...it's hard for some teens to think about the consequences of any of their actions.
The first of my peers became sexually active at 11, with a high school boy. The only reason we even knew was b/c she and he thought it was a good idea to have sex at the neighborhood park in broad daylight while a group of us other kids were playing on the swings and slides.
I remember the pride on the face of Tiffany during lunch when we were in 7th grade(she was 13), as she told of her weekend adventures with 8th grader Jack. She was not amused when I told her it didn't take a lick of brains to have sex & I knew this b/c I'd seen dogs "stuck together" in my yard many times.
Pre-teens and teens still think having sex makes them appear more grown-up. My older daughter is only 11 (but looks 15, menstruates, wears a 36-C) that it is more grown up to realize a person needs more than physical maturity before having sex..
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5-22-2009 @ 3:41PM
jasaminetmi said...your daughter is having sex.
5-23-2009 @ 10:41AM
dara walker said...ummm ever occur to you that maybe kids arent having sex just cuz they want to be grown, but rather cuz they naturally have hormones and sex feels good?
5-21-2009 @ 8:14PM
Samantha said...I personally think that having sex is not the issue, its that we need to teach teens to have safe sex and get on birth control. I feel as if we scare teens too much some times, but we all have to face the facts that we arent going to stop teens from drinking, having sex, or any other rebelious things they do. The only thing we can do is preech to them about having safe sex and understanding what will happen if they do not have safe sex. Palin is handling this very well though and I suppose everyone has their opinions about how to handle this issue.
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5-21-2009 @ 8:30PM
Rachel said...Speaking as a teen, I agree with Samantha that if teens want to have sex, they're going to do it whether or not adults are teaching abstinence. We need to teach them how to be safe about it, not just repeat over and over DON'T HAVE SEX.
5-21-2009 @ 9:29PM
JOAN said...NO BRISTOL IS RIGHT. WHEN I FIRST GOT MARRIED, MY HUSBAND WAS IN THE NAVY AND WE DID NOT WANT TO START A FAMILY RIGHT AWAY SO WE USED BIRTH CONTROL AND AT THE TIME IT WAS CONDOMS. WELL, GUESS WHAT, I HAD AND HAVE TWO DAUGHTERS BOTH CONDOM BABIES. GO FIGURE; IN FACT, MY NEICE WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL AND HAD A DAUGHTER. I HAD MY GIRLS, ONE WHEN I WAS 20 AND THE OTHER AT 21. NEEDLESS TO SAY, IT WAS A VERY DIFFICULT TIME. AFTER THAT MY HUSBAND HAD HIS TUBES TIED. I AM NOW 64 AND IT SEEMS NOTHING HAS CHANGED. THE ONLY THING THAT HAS IS THAT SEX IS TALKED ABOUT AND GLAMORIZED MORE AND MORE IN EVERY WAY AND IN EVERYTHING YOU EITHER TOUCH OR EAT. LIKE M & M'S. PARENTS TALK TO THEIR KIDS, CLASSES ARE HELD IN SCHOOLS AND TEENAGERS STILL HAVE BABIES. SO ONCE AGAIN, BRISTOL IS ABSOLOUTLY RIGHT, ABSTAINING IS THE BEST WAY.
5-21-2009 @ 10:06PM
patty1664 said...Is this the same "safe sex" (contraception" that is supposed to protect them from AIDS?
5-21-2009 @ 9:50PM
Betty44 said...You don't think sex is the issue? Are you nuts? I think if you teach your kids from an early age what is acceptable and what is not, they will understand perfectly why they should not have sex as a teenager.
5-21-2009 @ 10:50PM
Kayla said...WELL RACHEL and the adults above, I am a teenager and I plan on practicing abstinence. It's a personal choice and yes, being taught abstinence has helped, so let's not go straight to "just use protection" because you personally were loose when you were a teen. I plan on keeping my virginity because #1 I don't believe in abortion, second, I don't want my future husband screwing around with other girls before me, and third, it's what my faith teaches. THE END! =)
WOOO!
5-21-2009 @ 8:15PM
liz said...Who cares.. Its not like she comes from a broken, poor home. hey, they can afford having a child whats the problem, its either have the child or go to plan B, but she didnt so give her some credit that she is standing up to her responsibilities, if not they can always hire a nanny. She's not like those girls that have babies and throw them in the trash or not able to feed them etc. People aint perfect, but at least she is woman enough to be their for her child. How many men abondon their children, no one ever point the finger at them, but always blams the mother for everything. I see nothing wrong with this, nor that lil spears girl. She is a working woman, who makes more money than a married couple. hey they can afford raising the child. Whats the problem, do ur duty and teach UR kids about sex,, dont let others do the work for you.
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