Horribly Abused Little Girl Finds a Loving Home and New Life
Categories: In The News, Extreme Childhood
Lane DeGregory, staff writer for the St. Petersburg Times in Florida, set out to find the answers to these questions and share the heartbreaking story of a little girl named Dani Lierow who was found severely neglected and living in squalor by authorities.
We spoke with DeGregory about Dani's journey and the incredible family who adopted her.
Click through our gallery to see pictures of Dani Lierow and her family. Interview continues below the gallery.
Girl in the Window - Dani
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, looks up from the bubbles and bath foam, doing one of her favorite activities, her daily bath.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, has a new family now, and a new chance at life thanks to her brother WILLIE, 10, and parents DIANE and BERNIE LIEROW.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, on the half hour drive south to horse therapy, Dani, 9, stares out of the window of her family's SUV, while her brother WILLIE, 10, tries to provoke a giggle through tickling her. Willie was used to living like an only child, with his four older brothers already out of the house, but his selflessness and their closeness in age, has led them to develop a unique brother-sister bond.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, was removed from her biological mom's house at the age of 7, she was still wearing a diaper and being bottle fed. Part of the therapy she receives involves learning how to perform simple daily tasks, like scooping food up with a spoon and using a fork to stab at some of her favorite foods, green beans and tater tots. She has also graduated to eating solid foods. Her brother WILLIE, 10, watches her progress.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, on the right with GARET WHITE. White an Adoptions Care Manager for Camelot, fought for Dani's health and well being in court because she 'didn't want her to slip through the cracks.' White and Dani, 9, have a bond that extends back a few years, and Dani now feels comfortable enough with White to be able to hug her, and share moments like touching heads with her while watching a video. Even though it's a small gesture, it's huge in Dani's world to be able to trust someone enough to get close to them.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, reading. 'Brown bear, brown bear, what do you see?' squawks the talking children's book as Dani gets help pushing down the buttons which speak the words on each page. 'I see a red bird looking at me,' it says, answering its own question. The Brown Bear book is one of Dani's favorites, and the one she always chooses to use during speech therapy lessons.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Plant City, Florida, USA - 'I love that little girl, she's my life,' said MICHELLE CROCKETT, Dani's biological mom, who had her parental rights terminated after Dani was removed from her home because of neglect. 'When they took her, a third of me disappeared. I have a third of my heart for each one of my children and it's gone. But she's my baby and she needs me the most, and I need her. Because without her life don't have much meaning.'
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Plant City, Florida, USA - The house where Danielle Crockett, now Dani Lierow was rescued from on July 13, 2005. A child abuse investigator finds Danielle and is so horrified she flees the house, crying. A rookie cop retches. And a detective takes the 6-year-old from her mother, straight to the hospital.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Plant City, Florida, USA - A picture of Dani Lierow from the hospital July 2005. One of the first things biological mom Michelle Crockett did when moving into her new mobile home in Plant City was hang a photo-copied picture of her daughter Dani on the wall. Still sparse and white, three other pictures of Dani have been tacked up on the walls throughout, along with a cross.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
Feb 03, 2008 - Fort Myers, Florida, USA - Born Danielle Crockett, now DANI LIEROW, 9, on the beach with her parents BERNIE and DIANE LIEROW. In the blink of an eye, Dani can switch from happily building sand castles at the beach to running around and throwing a violent fit that her parents need to calm her down from. Her moods are unpredictable and unexplainable, and her parents Bernie and Diane just try to calm Dani down with a reassuring voice, letting her know that she is safe and everything is OK.
PLEASE NOTE: ON Apr. 20, 2009 - The 2009 Pulitzer Prize Winner for Featuring Writing was Awarded to Lane DeGregory of the St. Petersburg Times staffer for her amazing words that brought to life the moving, richly detailed story of this neglected little girl, found in a roach-infested room, unable to talk or feed herself, who since was adopted by a new family committed to her nurturing: The Girl in the Window. The Danielle 'Dani' Lierow Story, Coming Out of the Cocoon is a beautiful tender picture essay by Melissa Lyttle that accompanied the text, it was the zReportage.com - Story of the Week # 224 - Week of August 12, 2008 - Go To http://www.zreportage.com/COCOON/index.shtml to see full story pictures and for more text/video go to http://www.tampabay.com/specials/2008/reports/danielle/. STORY OVERVIEW: No one has any way of telling what lies behind Dani's big brown eyes and vacant stare. For the first seven years of her life, Danielle never saw the sun, felt the wind or tasted solid food. She was kept in a closet in a Plant City, Florida apartment, cloistered in darkness, left in a dirty diaper, fed only with a bottle. 'She was a feral child,' said Carolyn Eastman of the Tampa Heart Gallery. 'We'd never seen a case like that.' (Credit ANY Usage: © Melissa Lyttle/St. Petersburg Times/ZUMA Press)
Melissa Lyttle, St. Petersburg Times / ZUMA Press
ParentDish: How did you first learn about Dani?
Lane DeGregory: I work with a great lady from the Children's Board of Hillsborough County and she called me and said "We have a little girl who we never thought would be adopted, and lo and behold a family came forward to take her into their home." She wasn't sure the family would want to do media, but Dani's social worker brokered an interview for me so I could meet the family and explain the type of story I wanted to do.
PD: You interviewed the family over six months. What kind of changes did you see in her?
LD: We watched [Dani] be potty trained. She realized when she had to go and would take her mom's hand and lead her into the bathroom. She learned how to drink out of a cup without flinging it all around. We watched her learn to feed herself and use a fork and that was really cool. It was like being on a time table of a two-year-old, so we saw baby steps each time we came back. She was learning how to ask for something, like just point to a drink or point to her bathing suit or bring her shoes. She was learning that she had some autonomy and a little more control over her environment. But emotions are still really hard. She hates having her hair brushed and she was would just run away. And if you didn't hold her hand she'll just bolt -- run into the street, or run into the pool when she was dressed for school already.
PD: Do the experts working with Dani think she'll be able to improve more?
LD: They tried sign language for a little while, but she has no dexterity so she couldn't sign. She doesn't even have a pincher grasp. Even a baby, you can teach to sign, but she couldn't make her finger do what her eyes were seeing. The window is getting shorter the older she gets in terms of how she can learn stuff -- she will keep getting better by baby steps. But will she ever be able to have a conversation or live on her own? They don't know that yet.
PD: Is there anyway of knowing what really happened to Dani those first seven years of her life?
LD: They don't know and by they time they got to her, the environmental detriment had been so great they didn't know what was born and what was caused.
PD: You had a chance to meet her birth mother. Did she explain how she could do this to her child?
LD: As far as she was concerned, Dani was fine. She felt she was a little bit skinny, but she said "I was skinny at that age." No, she didn't talk and wasn't potty trained and she didn't think anything was wrong with that. The police said like [Dani] wasn't even propped in front of TV. She just wasn't interacted with and was terrified of other people and unable to even eat. [When I met the mother] she was crying asking how is [Dani] is, and saying "I love her." She had her picture hanging up.
I expected to feel hatred towards her, but it felt to me like her world fell apart -- at some point she just gave up. Her husband had died, her house burned down, she has two young teenage boys and got pregnant [from a] one a one night stand. I saw her IQ score and realized she was borderline special-ed, but she functioned -- she worked at Wal-Mart, played bingo and drove a car. I guess the most egregious thing I can remember was in the police photos of all the different rooms in the trailer and Dani lived in such squalor and the kitchen and the living room were disgusting. But the mother's bedroom was nice. It looked like something out of a Kmart ad. It was like clean. It was astonishing. And the cops were like that was the first thing we thought -- ok, she does know better.
Most of what the neighbors told us was that she left Dani there the her two brothers while she would go play bingo and one of brothers was retarded. We met him, but couldn't talk to him. He was just really completely out of it. The only thing her could say was "huh," and "no" and we couldn't have had a conversation. And if that's who Dani was left to be cared for, then I guess he was keeping her alive. She was eating out of a baby bottle at age 7.
PD: It takes a very special kind of family to adopt a child with the disability and needs Dani has. What are her parents, Bernie and Diane Lierow, like?
LD: They are just very loving people, giving people. They each raised two boys in former marriages, then they had this little boy William, who is a year older the Dani, together. They sort of fell in love with Dani's face in this photo before they knew anything about her her. And Diane took it like if "I knew I was pregnant, and then I found out she was having problems, I'd still have the kid. I keep learning about more and more problems, but want the kid." And her dad, Bernie, he had this dream where he felt like God was telling him "this is your little girl." They have great faith.
PD: And what about Dani's new brother William? How did he handle having a Dani become a part of his life?
LD: He said was scared of her at first, but William really liked teaching her and having someone to play with. I think he got lost in the shuffle for a little while. She needed so much attention. But he really seemed to love her and want to help her. He had a big heart for a little guy.
PD: What do the Lierows hope for Dani's future?
LD: For all of us the question mark was as big as the hope. No one was willing to say she'll be able to live on her own by the time she is 20. Diane and Bernie are not people of means by any measure, but what they could give her was love and attention and make her feel safe and a give her glowworm at night and pink Hello Kitty sheets on her bed. We might hope our kids go to college or become the president of the United States, but theirs is just for her to be happy and be loved.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
ggghrs 6-05-2009 @ 4:32PM
I think that this family should receive all the stuff that octomommy did. These are the kind of people that God has destined for greatness. I pray for the health, wealth, and deep love in thier hearts. I thank God for being in our hearts and this is just an example of How HE works... HEY WAL MART HOW ABOUT A HUGE GIFT CARD FOR THIS FAMILY!!!! giva
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Billy 6-05-2009 @ 6:42PM
Soooo sad - Wish them my best from the West Coast!!!!
Billy
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damoki 6-07-2009 @ 12:37PM
The sad thing is, this type of story is normally covered by the media as a tragedy rather than a success story. The success is in the humanity of the adopting family, and the hope, albeit limited, Dani now has. And there is even a shadow of success in the maternal mother and the rest of her family, in that the attention or at least awareness of their plight may garner some assistance for them too, and finally there is the success of the programs which foster the help and participation of agencies in cases like these.
It is sad when errors in life happen, but let's invest time in learning and correcting rather than blaming and putting down. And.... lets stop the obsession with "Octomomish" drivel.
DaMoKi
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stacy 6-10-2009 @ 6:09PM
As I sit here and read this story I thank people like them and see that their is some kind o realness out their. I was a foster mom of a 16yr old girl and her daughter who were my daughter and grand child who were taken from me because the State of Rhode Island didnt do the job in the right way. Right way what is that? You take achild from a loving home place her back into a shelter wich she has ran away from two times now because you didnt do your job right, I guess that makes sense too who? I am very glad that little girl now has a life and two parents that are their for her.
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