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Why You and Your Kids Should See Pixar's 'UP'

Categories: Divorce & Custody, Media

Last week, my three oldest kids and I had a date night. We went to a 50s style diner, had hamburgers, fries and milkshakes, and headed to the 7:30 PM show. Not having read any reviews prior, I purchased tickets for Pixar's "Up" fully expecting that I was in for predictable kid's movie fare – you know, sassy animal sidekicks, inside adult jokes that (we hope) go over the kids' heads, and, of course, the prerequisite potty humor.

What I got was a more than a pleasant surprise. "Up" is a rare find. A diamond in a pile of cultural rubbish served up to kids these days. Stripped of much of the cynicism and reliance on bodily functions of so many modern animated films, "Up" is written to respect kids' intelligence and sense of humor. Just as important, it is a first-rate commercial movie that isn't afraid to be wholesome - evidence that films for kids can be highly entertaining and simultaneously reinforce virtues such as love, kindness, empathy, and courage.

Kids Movies 2009

    Earth
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    Hannah Montana: The Movie
    If you have a tween girl in your house, you've probably known about this movie for months. It's essentially a longer version of the Disney Channel TV show, but with new songs and a slightly more complex plot. Your daughter will love it, and you'll be happy you took her. We promise.

    Disney

    Up
    The latest in this year's crop of 3D movies is the improbable story of a crotchety old man and an excitable little boy who fall into the adventure of a lifetime. Kids will love the 3D technology, and parents will appreciate the humor and fast-moving plot.

    Disney/Pixar

    Coraline
    Newbery Award winner Neil Gaiman's magic realist novella comes to the big screen in a mesmerizing, scary adaptation. Coraline's new flat has a secret door in it; on the other side is a world just like hers but seemingly so much better -- until she discovers it's frightening secrets. This is definitely a big kids movie.

    Focus Features

    Hotel for Dogs
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    Nickelodeon

    Inkheart
    Meggie's father has a magical power: when he reads aloud, stories come to life. Now Meggie must rescue him from a fictional villain come to life. Brendan Fraser stars as the supercool bibliophile dad in a film guaranteed to get kids interested in reading.

    New Line Cinema

    Pink Panther Deux
    While most parents will roll their eyes at the thought of another Pink Panther Movie, kids will love Steve Martin's slapstick humor and funny mispronunciations. Take the kids and try to remember what it was like to watch the original Pink Panther movies -- you might find yourself laughing at the pratfalls, too.

    Sony Pictures

    Under the Sea
    The first in the year's crop of 3D movies for kids, Under the Sea is a documentary about the costal regions of Southern Australia, New Guinea and the Indo-Pacific. Narrated by Jim Carrey, this is a movie that will thrill and educate the kids.

    IMAX

    Jonas Brothers: The 3D Concert Experience
    Not willing to take your tween to a Jonas Brothers concert? How about the next best thing -- the 3D concert movie! Earplugs recommended if you're over 16.

    Walt Disney Pictures

    Race to Witch Mountain
    Remember back when kids movies were smart and funny and exciting, like Escape to Witch Mountain? Here's hoping that the sequel will be all of that. But really, any story about a UFO expert and two kids with paranormal powers is the perfect Saturday afternoon matinee, for kids and parents.

    Walt Disney Pictures



The main character is an elderly and curmudgeonly widower named Carl. The film begins with a charming depiction of Carl's pre-digital age childhood – a much-needed reminder to today's parents of the unchanging importance of play and imagination in a child's life - and introduces us to Carl's playmate, Ellie. Ellie eventually becomes Carl's soul mate and wife and the subsequent love story that unfolds without words and set to music (clearly an homage to Charlie Chaplin) is an unforgettable movie moment as powerful as anything seen on screen before. The sweet and indelible impression left by this sequence does more than color the rest of the film, it has the potential to color the adult viewer's life: Reinforcing one's commitment to love and family and encouraging a reexamination of life's priorities.

For all its retro charm, "Up" does not shy away from themes of alienation and the problems of modern life. Most poignantly, it tackles the thorny and sadly too common issue of divorce, from the perspective of the child, Russell, an earnest and thoroughly lovable Junior Wilderness Explorer (think Cub Scout) determined to earn his "elderly badge" in hopes that his absent dad might show up to the ceremony and pin the award on him with all the other dads. I couldn't help but wonder how many fathers – divorced or not – might see the film and be touched by Russell's innocence and how he experiences and deals with the pain of his father's lack of involvement in his life.

This film will do more than entertain kids and adults. It's likely to encourage parents to play catch with their child, build a tree house out back, or, as Russell reminisced that he once did with his dad, share an ice-cream cream cone while counting cars. I say go see "Up" because any movie that encourages us to slow down, enjoy life's simple pleasures and savor fleeting childhoods is well worth the price of admission.

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