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Our five-year-old-son is named Azure. It means blue in French and Azurite is the name of a mineral with several shades of blue in it. Have never met or seen the name used on anybody other than my son...however, on baby-naming sites, it's listed as a girl's name. Why? Blue is usually associated with boys not girls. It sounds like a boy to me.
- Mom of Boy Blue
Turning a word into a name is a daring act. You're striking out into uncharted territory, beyond the old-fashioned confines of tradition. That's what you wanted, right? For your son to blaze a new trail with his name, free of all preconceptions? Not quite, it seems. You still wanted everyone to see his name and assume he's a boy.
You give up that pre-tested certainty when you leave the beaten path. Names like Jack and Tom and Matt earned their all-boy sound the hard way, through years of steady use. To get guaranteed manliness with a name, you have to go ultra macho: Hawk, Ranger, Blade. Even so, a new name can turn on a dime. Dakota sounded like a rugged cowboy -- until actress Dakota Fanning came along.
It can work the other way, too. Ashton was following Ashley's girlish path until Ashton Kutcher pulled it over to the boys' side. Then again, you see names that mean "son of," like Madison and Emerson, becoming hits for girls. It's unpredictable, and it can take years for a name to settle into one column or the other.
In the case of Azure, the silky-smoothness of the name has tilted it to the girls' side. At least four out of every five new Azures born is a girl. The good news, though, is that there are precious few of them. Most people truly have no preconceptions of the name. For that matter, most people don't even know it means blue!
So don't worry how Azure is listed. You accomplished your main goal with a name that is poetic and memorable, and will set your son apart.
Have you dealt with an androgynous name? Share your experiences! And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!
- Mom of Boy Blue
Turning a word into a name is a daring act. You're striking out into uncharted territory, beyond the old-fashioned confines of tradition. That's what you wanted, right? For your son to blaze a new trail with his name, free of all preconceptions? Not quite, it seems. You still wanted everyone to see his name and assume he's a boy.
You give up that pre-tested certainty when you leave the beaten path. Names like Jack and Tom and Matt earned their all-boy sound the hard way, through years of steady use. To get guaranteed manliness with a name, you have to go ultra macho: Hawk, Ranger, Blade. Even so, a new name can turn on a dime. Dakota sounded like a rugged cowboy -- until actress Dakota Fanning came along.
It can work the other way, too. Ashton was following Ashley's girlish path until Ashton Kutcher pulled it over to the boys' side. Then again, you see names that mean "son of," like Madison and Emerson, becoming hits for girls. It's unpredictable, and it can take years for a name to settle into one column or the other.
In the case of Azure, the silky-smoothness of the name has tilted it to the girls' side. At least four out of every five new Azures born is a girl. The good news, though, is that there are precious few of them. Most people truly have no preconceptions of the name. For that matter, most people don't even know it means blue!
So don't worry how Azure is listed. You accomplished your main goal with a name that is poetic and memorable, and will set your son apart.
Have you dealt with an androgynous name? Share your experiences! And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!












ReaderComments (Page 5 of 15)
7-29-2009 @ 9:19PM
jack said...Thanks a lot ....Mom! I wonder how many fights I'll be in over this?
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7-29-2009 @ 6:03PM
Bob said...Hey, that douchebag Mike Tyson named his daughter Exodus.
exodus:
–noun 1. a going out; a departure or emigration, usually of a large number of people: the summer exodus to the country and shore.
2. the Exodus, the departure of the Israelites from Egypt under Moses.
3. (initial capital letter) the second book of the Bible, containing an account of the Exodus. Abbreviation: Ex.
WTF?!
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7-29-2009 @ 6:07PM
ladypet said...I named my son Dana, 46 years ago. I liked the actor, Dana Andrews, way back then. He's never been teased about it. I've met both male & female Dana's since.
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7-29-2009 @ 7:20PM
Tracy said...My husband and I both have unisex names; Kerry and Tracy. He gets called by my name and I by his. We usually just smile and go on.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:24PM
Chantelle said...BIG MISTAKE!! He'll be explaining his name for the rest of his life. Do him a favor and go change it to known boys name. Someone's name in nothing to fool around with and can influence their life in a negative way in the long run.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:26PM
ROBERT SEATON said...YEAH,...I'M SURE YOUR SON WILL THANK YOU WHEN HE'S GETTING TEASED,AND BEATEN EVERY DAY.BECAUSE YOU ARE A BONE HEAD. YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THE KID, YOU CARE ONLY ABOUT HOW CUTEY WOOTSEY IT SOUNDS TO YOU.PARENTS WHO GIVE THEIR KIDS WEIRD NAMES SHOULD
BE TAKEN OUT AND CAINED.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:46PM
HOLLY said...MY GOD-DAUGHTER'S NAME IS EZRA - SHE IS THE ONLY EZRA I HAVE EVER HEARD OF THATS A GIRL - THEY ONLY NAMED HER THAT BECAUSE HER COUSIN IS EZME?
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7-29-2009 @ 6:28PM
Heather said...When we were picking out our first borns name...a boy... we decided to name him Bailey. I have heard the name more as a girls name, however, I have also heard it from several other boys. The original meaning of the word is "bailiff".
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7-29-2009 @ 7:08PM
Chantelle said...Eeek !!!!!! Bailey's my dogs name!
7-29-2009 @ 6:38PM
thundercat1945 said...Azure a shade of blue. It's commonly used as underside camouflage on British aircraft. Go figure naming a child that.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:36PM
Kerri said...Just as mentioned in the story, my son's name is Dakota. He was named for my grandfather, who was Native American and a member of the Dakota tribe (aka Lakota, aka Sioux). I thought I was being not only very original, but it sounded like a very masculine name to me. Right after he was born, I called the nursery because he was in the hospital for a few days, and told them I was Dakota's mother - their answer? "Which one?" They went on to explain that they'd had SIX kids named Dakota in the last 2 weeks, and four of the six were female. I was horrified. But thankfully, he's only run into two other Dakota's in school, and both of them were also boys. Being original with a name can be tough, but I think it's worth it.
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8-04-2009 @ 10:16PM
Steven said...Enough with the made-up names already. How about Edward, David, or Michael as a boy's name? Life is hard enough as it is without being saddled with an odd name. Employment prospects are brighter with a standard name.
When we name children, we should consider their welfare in school and beyond. If you suspect that a name is too girly, trust your instincts. Azure is girly, even if it does mean blue. By the way, blue used to be the color for girls because of its association with the Virgin Mary.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:48PM
Azuree said...My name is Azuree, and my mother named me after her favorite color as well. But the name Azure (nor the color) is not pronounced the same as my name is (my name has a soft 'z' sound and there is no accent over the two e's...Mom 'Americanized' it).
Now that I've introduced myself, I'll address the issue at hand. I think the name Azure can be used for both genders; as the article said, there are lots of names that started out masculine and became popular as a feminine name (and vice-versa). What I will admit is that it sounds more masculine than feminine, and looks more feminine than masculine in writing. So perhaps that's more the issue than the name itself. If someone wants to name their child Azure, I say go right ahead. But from a personal standpoint, the child may get a lot of flack from the so-called 'normal-named' kids for having a 'stupid' name (I did).
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7-29-2009 @ 6:59PM
Taylor said...My name is Taylor and I'm a girly-girl, but my name suits me just fine. I've seen all types of girls named Taylor-- artsy, sporty, quirky, cool-- and Taylor suits them too. While it can be a boy's name, there's nothing wrong with it being a girl's name as well. I think old-fashioned names are just fine, but I also think more modern names are cool too. It just depends on the person.
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7-29-2009 @ 6:55PM
john said...I named my son "Sue". He beat the hell out of me in the bar a while ago.
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8-02-2009 @ 9:38PM
NIkki said...GREAT SONG. Im sad no one picked up on that yet.
7-29-2009 @ 7:02PM
Barbara Greene said...I know another little boy named Azure.
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8-01-2009 @ 12:30AM
mom said...What do you think of boy name Charell
7-29-2009 @ 7:03PM
jon said...Your son is going to have the crap kicked out of him at school.
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7-29-2009 @ 7:08PM
Chantelle said...Right on, Jon. Have you noticed that it's mainly men who object to the name Azure? I think you guys know what you're talking about, it's no fun to stand out in the crowd as a kid.