Presidential Parenting: Which Commander-in-Chief is Like Your Head-of-Household?
by Gary Drevitch (Subscribe to Gary Drevitch's posts) Nov 2nd 2009 9:00AM
Categories: Celeb Kids, Life & Style, Celeb Parenting, Extreme Childhood, Amazing Kids, Amazing Parents
Sasha and Malia Obama are the first preteens to live in the White House since Amy Carter, but they're just the latest in a long line of kids who have called 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. home. With the holidays around the corner, we took a look at White House family life and presidential pops.
Parenting Styles At The White House
44th president, 2009-Present
Style: Dad in Progress
After nearly two years on the campaign trail, Barack Obama committed himself to spending more time with Malia, 11, and Sasha, 8, in the White House and tries to have family dinners whenever possible. He also had a tricked-out swing set installed on the White House grounds, visible from the Oval Office. Obama's daughters have been more visible than some other recent first children, seeming to relish opportunities to travel the world with their parents, often in the care of their regular baby sitter, first lady Michelle's mother, Marian Robinson, who lives with the family in the White House.
Alex Brandon, AP
43rd president, 2001-2009
Style: Been There, Done That
George W. Bush has something in common with his twin daughters, Barbara and Jenna -- all three are the children of presidents. (Bush's dad, George H.W. Bush, was the 41st president.) Bush himself has said about his early days, "When I was young and irresponsible, I was young and irresponsible." Like father, like daughters; Barbara and Jenna, college students when he took office, were both cited for underage drinking in Texas.
Pablo Martinez Monsivais, AP
42nd president, 1993-2001
Style: Protective Pop
Bill and Hillary Clinton faced allegations of scandal starting in the 1992 presidential campaign. But as much as their critics reviled the couple, most credited them for their efforts to protect their only child, Chelsea, from the media spotlight. Chelsea turned 13 soon after her father began his first term and from the start, the Clintons insisted that there be no photos or interviews of their daughter. They also sent her to the private Sidwell Friends School to further protect her from the press.
Greg Gibson, AP
39th president, 1977-1981
Style: Plains and Simple
When Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter moved to Washington, D.C., from Georgia, they had three grown sons and a 9-year-old daughter, Amy, whom the Carters enrolled in a Washington public school; no presidential child has gone to public school since. True to the family's small-town roots, the president designed a tree house for Amy on the South Lawn of the White House, big enough for sleepovers. When she had friends over, Secret Service agents stood guard under the tree.
Warren K. Leffler / Library of Congress
36th president, 1963-1969
Style: All the Way With LBJ
As a baby, Claudia Taylor was nicknamed "Lady Bird." When she married Lyndon Johnson, her initials became LBJ, just like his. The couple didn't stop there, naming their daughters Lynda Bird Johnson and Luci Baines Johnson. Moving to Washington, D.C. gave the girls a chance to spend more time with their father, a career politician. The girls took their politics seriously -- Luci often said that her 17th birthday was her most memorable, because it was the day her dad signed the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
AP
35th president, 1961-1963
Style: Superstar Dad
John and Jacqueline Kennedy did their best to shield their two young children from the media spotlight. The first lady started a school on the third floor of the White House with 11 handpicked students, including kindergartner Caroline, and on weekends, she often took Caroline and her toddler brother, John Jr., away to a private Virginia farm. During the week, John Jr. could often be found crawling around beneath the president's desk in the Oval Office. The boy was just 3 years old when his father was assassinated in 1963.
AP
33rd president, 1945-1953
Style: Stand-up Dad
Harry Truman's only child, Margaret, was a college student while her father was president. She went on to become a successful author but in her youth, she aspired to be a popular singer. After a Washington Post music critic, reviewing a 1950 concert, said that Margaret was "flat a good deal of the time," the president wrote him a note, saying, "Some day I hope to meet you. When that happens you'll need a new nose, a lot of beefsteak for black eyes, and perhaps a supporter below."
AP
26th president, 1901-1909
Style: Not-so-rough Rider
Teddy Roosevelt's youngest sons, Archie and Quentin, and their friends called themselves "the White House Gang." They raced their bikes in the hallways, dropped water balloons on visitors from the roof and attacked a portrait of Andrew Jackson with spitballs. Roosevelt, the old soldier, often left his office at four in the afternoon to play with his "blessed bunnies," typically ending the sessions with pillow fights. He famously said of his notorious oldest child, Alice, who was known to gamble, smoke, drink and bring her garter snake to formal functions, "I can be president of the United States, or I can attend to Alice. I cannot possibly do both!"
Library Of Congress / Getty Images
22nd president, 1885-1889 / 24th president, 1893-1897
Style: The Old Dog
Grover Cleveland became the first president to get married in the White House in 1886 when, at age 48, he wed 21-year-old Frances Folsom in the building's Blue Room. Cleveland lost the 1888 election but he and Frances returned to the White House four years later, accompanied by toddler daughter, Ruth, America's sweetheart. After her death at age 12 of diphtheria, she became the inspiration for the Baby Ruth candy bar, according to the confections manufacturer.
Library Of Congres / Getty Images
19th president, 1877-1881
Style: Wholesome But Fun
Rutherford B. Hayes and his wife, Lucy, were religiously observant and well-known teetotalers. They banned drinking, smoking, dancing and pool at the White House. But they still had a good time. To the delight of their son, Scott, they hosted the first White House Easter Egg Roll in 1878, reviving a tradition that had begun at the U.S. Capitol and has been a presidential institution ever since.
Library of Congress
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 2)
colleen 11-03-2009 @ 7:33AM
I read the first two and couldn't go on. That was ridiculously biased. Painting a picture of Obama as world's greatest dad, eager to spend time with his family and watch the girls play from the Oval Office window. And then it moves on to Bush and all there is to say is that his college age daughters were cited for underage drinking? Nothing about Bush as a father at all? That was by far the worst AOL post I've ever read, and that's saying something...
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Janette 11-03-2009 @ 5:06PM
Is it not true that the Bush girls where not drunks? Get over your self. It is what it is. And life go on.
Janie 11-03-2009 @ 5:51PM
Colleen - your right on with your comments on how Bias the media and the blogs depict President George W. Bush. A good man, he deserves better.
carol 11-03-2009 @ 11:37PM
Like father like daughters - following in dad's footsteps and partying hardy in college. It is what it is, Colleen, so get of your Republican high horse!
Lotte 11-04-2009 @ 4:31AM
Not to mention that this story was just another sick ploy to put their faces in OUR faces...again! I only came to check what was being said about other "presidential dads", suspecting it would NOT be what the headline read - and look! I was right, don't you just hate that?j/k
KMJb4KMF 11-03-2009 @ 8:35AM
This all coming from a guy that has not lived with his family full time since 1996 untill they got in the White House what BS as they try to get him father of the year. LOL
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Kay 11-03-2009 @ 12:46PM
But this guy was paving the way for his family. Some have it handed to them, The rest of us have to work for it. I would say Obama was working to make a better life for his children
Janette 11-03-2009 @ 5:05PM
Know your facts. Do more research before you open up your pie hole.
Dr. Dave Cash 11-03-2009 @ 8:10AM
Spin it ALL you want,folks,...but the fact remains:
LIBERALS ARE ON THEIR WAY OUT!!!
No more..we've seen enough!!
Watch the elections in Virginia today...you'll see what I mean
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becky 11-03-2009 @ 8:32AM
What a lame post. Obama is a chain smoking elitist socialist. He has never had an father figure in his life. He was born a bastard by a white woman who was essentially a psycho so his white grandparents raised him. He's made bad choices for friends, i.e William Ayers, Rev Wright, Van Johnson. He's picked totally incompetent people for his cabinet and other positions of power.
He sucks.
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csjones3 11-03-2009 @ 10:56AM
I just have one thing to say to you. "He who is without sin cast the first stone. I don't think you would be the one to talk or cast a stone. It is what it is Mr. Obama is commander and cheif and we all should stand with him. So get over it.
Amala 11-03-2009 @ 4:45PM
How can you not comment on that whore, Thomas Jefferson. Raping Sally Hemming since she was a teenager, not acknowledging his children, and having the audacity ... yes, I said audacity, to claim that African Americans were not equal to whites. She was equal enough for him to rape her for over 20 some years. AND in his lifetime, never did free her. Hypocritical dogs ... just like your boy, George Washington; another rapist with a child by a slave women ... a tall red headed slave that looked just like him, who he favored over all other slaves. If we're going to talk about trashy president let's start at the beginning. Or leave it alone. Shesh!
Ruth Telford 11-03-2009 @ 5:28PM
How do you really feel?
point a finger 11-03-2009 @ 7:33PM
When you point a finger, three of your other fingers point back at you.
lam12sacred 11-03-2009 @ 8:57AM
Mr. Obama ... our President of the United States ... on HIS WORST day ... is so-o-o-o-o ... much better then Bush ever was !
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p.brooks 11-03-2009 @ 8:59AM
THE ONES I MOST ADMIRE ARE CLINTONS & KENNEDYS FOR KEEPING THEIR CHILDREN OUT OF POLITICS....& SHIELDING THEM FROM PRESS...THE OBAMA'S SEEM TO BE USING THEIR CHILDREN TO HELP HIS POPULARITY...(IT AIN'T WORKING)................
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June 11-03-2009 @ 10:50AM
JFK and Bush are my favorites. Obama is all BS. Clinton drew undue attention to his family when he had an affair with Monica. and was always eyeing every woman.
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guambetty 11-03-2009 @ 11:47AM
Please, please cut out all the BS about ---is it OBAMA MAMA?
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ddj 11-03-2009 @ 12:24PM
Look through all of the citations. It's interesting to read about how all of the Presidents responded to their children in the White House. It reads like Teddy Roosevelt was the best loved father, but he created the problems with his daughter Alice from his first marriage. Alice's mother died while birthing her. Teddy's beloved mother died on the same evening. He left his child behind with his sister; did his outdoor stuff, etc. He did not ask for Alice back until he had married a 2nd time. Alice was happy where she was and did not take well to being moved in with her father and rather stern step-mother. As an aside, Alice was raised with another semi-orphaned cousin Eleanor Roosevelt who married FDR. Alice and Eleanor were opposites in personalities.
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md 11-03-2009 @ 1:28PM
Interesting that a male president can be a good father and family man...wasn't there a recent female vice presidential candidate who was constantly criticized for aspiring to a position that would keep her far too busy to be a good parent. Where are you, "NOW"?
P.S. to Philip: while I'm not a fan of the president or the first lady's opinions, your comments about the first lady are inappropriate, uncivilized, and indicate that you are, too. IF you TRULY wanted to say something that mattered, you would find a way to express yourself that gave your opinions credibility. Good luck with that.
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