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This Christmas, some moms will end up with a Snuggie, or a box of Whitman's Chocolates, or the standby present of a gift certificate to their favorite department store. Truthfully, most husbands really want to give their wives a thoughtful gift, but lack the gene we women are born with that makes it easy for us to know what others will love. For my husband, buying me a gift feels like a high school Spanish test -- no matter how hard he tries he will never really excel in the venture (that darn gringo accent!). Over the years, I've learned to assess his love for me in other "subjects" that he's much better in -- and thankfully, there are many. In fact, most years, my gift to him is to give him permission to not get me a gift. And he gives me the same "gift" back. Honestly, I really don't mind; with all the things to do around the holidays, we both appreciate having one less thing to worry about.
But last week Sean asked me to compile a list of a few little luxuries for him to pick from. At first I recoiled at the thought. You know ... the economy is tanking ... I don't need anything ... we'd never done that before, etc. etc. But then I began to think that it would be fun to come up with a list and see what he picks. And frankly, I haven't splurged much on myself lately. I've been too darn busy. Why not let Sean do something sweet for me if he wants to?
When the kids go to bed on Christmas Eve, we'll do what we always do: sit by the fire with a glass of wine, listen to carols, and watch the snowfall outside. This time, however, under the twinkling Christmas tree, will be a little gift waiting for me that I know I will love and use. And trust me, it won't be a Snuggie.
Thought I'd share my list, but please let me know if you have a great gift idea for me and other moms.
1. Voluspa candles. Affordable, long lasting and attractive. Excellent for the bath, but I use them to enhance my housecleaning experience. I can't explain it, but it can even make cleaning a bathroom a little more dignified.
2. Cosabella babydoll nightgown. Need I say more? I happen to love the "Suri". Too cute!
3. Coco Chanel or Coco Mademoiselle fragrance. Classic, timeless and beautifully packaged. Feel like a 1940s movie star every time you leave the house.
4. Mod.Skin Labs Resvesterol Ampoule cream. A 14-day miracle cream – no joke! At $40 it's very affordable. Actually, you might want to gift this one to yourself – before the holidays! Have bright, rested skin even if you don't feel bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.
5. Ahava Sea Bath Salts from Israel's Dead Sea. This is the best line of bath salts I've ever tried. A 20-minute soak is all I need for butter soft skin and a new attitude.
6. Soft leather gloves. Go with Coach for the splurge, J. Crew for the mid-range option. What woman can't use a nice pair of gloves in the winter? Go for red or olive green to spice up your wardrobe.
7. A love note that includes a promise to give mom an evening alone in the house while dad takes the kids out to the movies. Priceless.
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12-02-2009 @ 2:02PM
Amy said...All I can say is www.shutterfly.com no joke about it there is no better gift than a personalize something with the faces of the people you love on it! My husband made me a planner last year that had pictures of himself, the kids, my favorite things, quotes, poems and was even able to personalize pages with important dates (ones I didn't even remember like our first kiss). Now I realize not all guys are that mushy but I am sure if I really wanted it I could hint like crazy to my mom and she would gladly make one for me. It only takes a little bit of thought and time and you can have the PERFECT gift! :)
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12-02-2009 @ 2:31PM
Anne said...A gift certificate to a (really) nice restaurant and some movie tickets is always neat. If the mom has more time, a gift certificate to bedandbreakfast.com is even better! She can choose the inn. I also like monogrammed gifts from Pottery Barn, Crate & Barrel, Lands End, etc - everything from robes to picture frames to special towels and more. Some items are extravagent but I think they're oh so luxurious and special.
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12-02-2009 @ 3:12PM
amy3 said...Those are some good ideas.. but here is an idea that is extra special for Mom from kids of ANY age You can read about it at Celebration Ideas Online (www.celebrationideasonline.com/gift-for-mom.html) She will LOVE it
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12-02-2009 @ 7:39PM
Sifrina said...So delighted to see COCO on your list! It has been my only "night-time" perfume for over 20 years! I rarely hear of other fans of it (why isn't it ever mentioned in magazines?) but everyone loves it on me and, yes, you're right - you feel instantly elegant the moment you put it on! Sake (the perfume) at Sephora is a happy/fresh daytime perfume (and not that expensive). Another instant mood lifter is any of the Chanel glossimer lip glosses. Finally, cashmere is getting more affordable and always makes me happy - especially a very, very long scarf.
This year I'll be happy with anything but I'm hoping (secretly) for a J CREW gift card or a 1 hour body massage.
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12-12-2009 @ 9:36AM
Sifrina said...PS Just a point of clarification, for me I'm talking about Hanukkah gifts (what we celebrate), but my Christian in laws are kind to send me, my husband and my son a Christmas gift every year.
12-02-2009 @ 8:49PM
Sifrina said...Oh, 1 more - I like these sweet mothers'/childrens' diaries on mariechantal.com - it runs by the school year and has places for special/sweet notes and also city guides for NY and London (with kids' activities). The prices are down on these and I would have definitely asked for one but they are a little too big to carry to and from work (if I worked at home this definitely would be on my list).
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12-03-2009 @ 1:42AM
gifts said...Hey These all gifts are good and its a nice thought to give gifts to mom this Christmas. I like the idea of gloves and a love note.Its good. Enjoy..
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12-03-2009 @ 4:00AM
www.sfbsc.com said...I could give mum some luxurious bath salts
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12-03-2009 @ 2:20PM
Red73 said...I posted on truuconfessions.com about how my husband keeps joking that he is getting me a snuggie for Christmas. I would KILL him. I have learnt over the years that I really need to tell my dh exactly what I want, that way there is no dissapointment and it takes the stress out of it for him.
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12-04-2009 @ 9:06AM
Not as wealthy said...Very nice gifts, but all I could think while reading your suggestions was "HOW MUCH MONEY this family must have to consider these gifts 'affordable".
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12-10-2009 @ 10:00PM
Dan M. said...Actually, the origional Christmas was a pagan Roman holiday. It was Christianized by having the church recall the birth of Jesus on tht date. The actual date of his birth is unknown. It was part of Paul's idea of bring grace into the secular.
If you really want to do it the Christian way, you should remember that through Dec. 24th we have Advent, not Christmas. It a time of preparation and fasting.
Dan M.
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