Christians To Blame For Secular Christmas
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When the now infamous White House social secretary Desiree Rogers revealed to The New York Times that the Obamas were planning a "non-religious" Christmas for the "people's house," she put herself at the center of an entirely different, but no less fiery, controversy -- the Christmas wars.
Early this year, during a luncheon with other former social secretaries, Rogers announced that part of the Obamas' new spirit of inclusiveness (ironically) would exclude references to Christianity during Christmas. Most notably, the Obamas would not be displaying the 18th century White House nativity scene. An Obama official confirmed that there were internal discussions regarding the manger display, but in the end, tradition (along with post-state dinner scandal fatigue) trumped, and the Holy Family was not banned from the East Room after all.
Meanwhile, Dr. James Dobson's influential conservative Christian organization, Focus on the Family, is promoting StandforChristmas.com, a Web site that helps shoppers rank "Christmas-friendly" retailers (most friendly: Bass Pro Shops; least friendly: American Eagle Outfitters). The site reminds visitors that retailers "want your patronage and your gift-shopping dollars" and then asks, "but do they openly recognize Christmas?"
Sadly, both approaches precisely miss the point of this sacred and beautiful holiday.
It makes zero sense to recruit retailers in this crusade when consumerism is the reason why Christmas has morphed into a hollow shopping ritual that, come January, leaves too many families with debt hangovers and an empty feeling inside. Demanding that store clerks cheerily proclaim "Merry Christmas" as they ring up your power tools and iPod does precious little to put the Christ-child back in Christmas.
To the Obamas and others pushing the ridiculous notion of a "non-religious" Christmas, it would do them well to consider that respect for other people's faith is not accomplished by hiding your own. If the goal of the White House is to remain neutral about part of our nation's heritage, Christianity, or, for that matter, about the religious beliefs held by many of its current residents, fine with me.But if that's the case, then please spare us the tab for the reported 50,000 White House visitors who will be cocktailed and dined this month in an endless succession of banal and meaningless "holiday" parties.
If Christians truly desire to bring sacredness and religious significance back to Christmas, then it's silly to look to retailers or the First Family. Instead, let it begin, as charity does, at home. Families can start by reintroducing the season of Advent and the spirit of reflection and spiritual preparation that once occupied the four weeks leading up to Christmas.
Instead of allowing ourselves to get swept up in the whirlwind of "holiday" parties, useless gift exchanges and harried shopping, we can use those weeks to prepare our hearts and homes in meaningful ways for the Prince of Peace. Make time for family prayer, singing and the lighting of the Advent wreath. Choose cards and decorations that have religious significance.
How many homes have a prominently displayed nativity scene at Christmas time? My guess is not too many. The same goes for Christmas carols. Does your playlist include more Frosty and Santa Baby than Silent Night and Handel's Messiah? How about keeping those lights on and the tree in the house for the twelve days of Christmas - you know the twelve that follow Christmas day. Or consider caroling or having a Christmas gathering after December 25th? We have only ourselves to blame when we lose these beautiful traditions.
Should Christians be concerned about the secularization of Christmas? Sure they should. I resent school "winter" concerts, "holiday" parades, and the ridiculous fear that prevents people from wishing each other "Merry Christmas!" with total abandon.
But Christmas starts with us. In our hearts. In our homes. And in a very simple decision to reclaim the silence, joy, and quiet simplicity of that first Christmas in Bethlehem when God chose to speak to mankind in the small cry of a newborn baby.
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ReaderComments (Page 4 of 40)
12-11-2009 @ 12:28PM
Steve said...I exude peace and joy every day and don’t need your stupid, imaginary Jesus rhetoric to share goodwill with others.
12-11-2009 @ 12:34PM
JUAN CONTRERAS said...We us people have lost the meaning of christmas, My nativity set was damaged and Im trying to get a new one for outside no one sells it because it is politically incorrect. What happened to my freedom of religion, I am not trying to impose it on anyone, howeeveer others are trying to impose their views on my beliefs. Any religion Catholics, Jewish, Protestant or whichever should not be told what decorations we can or cannot display. Get Politicians are fanatics out of the Holidays.
12-11-2009 @ 12:49PM
esther said...Loved the article and agree with your comment. We quietly celebrate the true meaning of Christmas, but the Great Commission instructs us to tell the whole world! We need to start sharing what God has done for us with everyone we meet and enrich their lives as well!
12-11-2009 @ 1:24PM
kim said...Thank you and Merry Christmas!
12-09-2009 @ 8:45PM
Sifrina said...I so respect your keeping the religion in Christmas for you and your family as this is very important to you and your husband. You are truly "true to your school" on this point and I find that so refreshing. I am fortunate to have lived in an Opus Dei residence in Venezuela during Christmas and was able to see (and learn of) the special Catholic traditions and beliefs there. I will never forget that, or the amazing Nativity scenes I saw on literally every street corner!
Many families, however, such as ours, do not celebrate Christmas. We are Jewish. My son may want to decorate a few "Candy Cane Villages" here and there but I do feel somewhat disrespectful about taking part in something that is not my religion or belief. This is about Christ's birthday and I never forget that (even if the rest of the country seems to think it is all about Macy’s). I'm ok with doing the obligatory "work holiday party" but truth be told, I'm happy to be a respectful bystander. Meanwhile, in 2 days I will be talking to my son, again, about Hanukkah and its significance. This is what we do. Passover will be an even more significant holiday for us.
The point is, each family has to decide this for themselves and, quite simply, not everyone wants a religious Christmas and you shouldn't call that "ridiculous." You say: "To the Obamas and others pushing the ridiculous notion of a"non-religious" Christmas, it would do them well to consider that respect for other people's faith is not accomplished by hiding your own." You assume people are hiding their own faith but you don’t acknowledge that people may have views different from yours – such as those of us who don’t celebrate Christmas at all (why would we; we're Jewish) and we really don’t want to go to a Christmas concert (especially if our son is at a public school; your kids can go to a Christmas concert at a parochial school if they are still attending such a school). Religion is a private, family matter, not something to impose on others. Did it ever occur to you that this isn't about political correctness but what the Obamas choose to do as a family? Isn't this their right, to refrain from having a religious Christmas if they so see fit, or do you think everyone must embrace Christmas as you do? I'm proud that in this country we have both of these rights - to freely participate in a religion or to refrain from participating in a particular religion, or any religion even.
Anyway, I wish you a very Healthy and Merry Christmas to you and your lovely and growing family. You can just wish me a Happy Hanukkah, or nothing at all (but please don't wish me a Merry Christmas because it's not our holiday!!!!!!!).
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12-10-2009 @ 9:51AM
LS said...Overall, I agree with you, but for one thing. You said:
Did it ever occur to you that this isn't about political correctness but what the Obamas choose to do as a family? Isn't this their right, to refrain from having a religious Christmas if they so see fit, or do you think everyone must embrace Christmas as you do?
You are right, the Obamas can celebrate however they want, as a family, in their own residence. If they want to do their Private Residence up like the Griswold House, stack presents to the ceiling, and avoid all religious tradition, I'm all for it. Their house, their traditions, their stuff. They have a right to it.
But the White House Proper is the "People's House" and they would do well to remember that. Like it or not, the majority of citizens in this country still identify themselves as Christians; our founding has a strong base in Christianity. To then secularize Christmas in the People's House is wrong. And I would be saying the same thing if they chose not to display a Menorah at Hanukkah.
The whole point of our founding - the opinions of our Fore Fathers - was that this country recognizes and does not prohibit the practice of ANY religion. This country embraces (or is supposed to) religious freedom, recognizes that everyone celebrates differently. That does NOT mean the "absence of religion". Christmas exists because Christians believe that it is the birthday of their savior, and that is a day worthy of celebration. For the President to then say, "sorry, that might offend someone" and not celebrate it - in public - is not in keeping with the founding principals. Especially when he turns around and acknowledges the celebrations and sacred days of other religions.
12-10-2009 @ 10:43AM
SKL said...Obama proclaimed his deep belief in Christianity during the campaign, because he knew he would lose votes if he admitted he could care less about Christ. I agree that he has as much right as my Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, and Buddhist friends to personally recognize the season in accordance with his heart-felt beliefs. But he lied about it in order to get elected. And that is the voters' business.
I also agree that there should be no exclusion of the most popular religion in this country in the "people's house," particularly on the most popular religious holiday. How dare he decide that Christians, the majority of Americans, have no right to see their conscience represented. Christianity isn't a contagious disease. If you're non-Christian and you see a Nativity scene (in the White House or anywhere else), how is that any more damaging to you and your kids than a Santa or a Maypole or the Great Pumpkin? Or more damaging than my kids seeing a Menorah? I embrace the opportunity to tell my kids about other religions, and the discussion is often sparked by seeing one of their symbols. I'm not concerned that my kids are going to disrespect me or my religion as a result.
I know I'm in control of what my kids learn and focus on during the holiday season. However, it's a little irritating to see how aggressively the commercialized part of it is thrust at us. My kids are about 3 now, and finally able to actually understand the holiday to some degree. I planned to wait until we fully experienced Thanksgiving and then break out the Christmas stuff and really get into it. But well before Thanksgiving, their school was shoving Santa Claus down their throats. What is the big hurry?
12-10-2009 @ 12:43PM
Irish said...I'll be sure to ask what your religious standing is before I say, "Merry Christmas." It's people like you that have helped destroy MY holiday. But GOD forbid, I upset yours.
12-10-2009 @ 2:44PM
SKL said...I would like to extend the political correctness to those of us who are not morning people. Who wants to hear "good morning" all the time when we hate mornings? Please refrain from such comments out of respect for those who may not celebrate mornings.
BTW, Merry Christmas!
12-13-2009 @ 9:00AM
CHER said...I WOULD LIKE TO WISH YOU A MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY HANUKKAH. IT IS JUST ANOTHER WAY OF SAYING MERRY CHRISTMAS .
12-10-2009 @ 7:58PM
budro said...This nation was founded "under God" and to deny God for Islam is a HUGE MISTAKE
12-10-2009 @ 8:01PM
Stupid said...Sifrina - I agree with you. People often forget that this is a melting pot. That actually started as a british & french prison colony. Puritans came to the New World, because they disagreed with the Church standing in Europe (not the so truthfully religious persecution we learn about in school). I am a Christian and I celebrate Christmas. Although I don't fully agree with the more Hard Core believers, I still believe in religion, religions. I have friends of many faiths and (the odd truth) we all believe in one God, but seem to argue how to worship him or who his messages come from. I say Happy Holidays. I say Merry Chrsitmas. I say Happy Hanukkah. I say have a respectful Ramadan. Heck, I'll say Happy Festivious! My point is I don't think embracing others, washes out your own beliefs. I honest think people spend way too much time getting heated over their own "be more like me or how i want you to be" instead of smiling and wishing everyone peace on earth and good will to everyone! Happy December and New Year to eveyone!!! Oh.... a bit early for the Chinese. :)
12-10-2009 @ 8:04PM
Witness of the Truth said...There is only one Truth, and one God, the Lord, Jesus Christ. Those that fail to bend their knee to the eternal King of Kings, and Lord of Lords, will be punished with everlasting destruction ( II Thes 1: 8-9 ).
Every other religion, including "no" religion, are engaged in idol worship. Rejecting the Lord, Jesus Christ comes with a hefty price. It means you will be rejected on the Last Day at the Rapture, and will be left behind, to endure God's fierce anger. Certain eternal death. We are very close to that day. In fact, God's Law Book, the Holy Bible, declares that day will be May 21, 2011.
For a True Christian, everyday is a celebration of the Lord. We do not wait for a special day to lift up our Lord. It would be wise to reconsider what your relationship to the Lord actually is. How much, if any, of your day is spent with the Lord in prayer, and reading His Word?
Are you ready to meet Jehovah God, the Lord, Jesus Christ?
12-10-2009 @ 9:27PM
boosmom said...I am a Christian but I do wish you happy Hanukkah. We might have a different belief in when the Messiah came vs coming but we do have more in common than the differences. We support Israel as being God's chosen people and we are very grateful for Israel's support.
Whether we have a Manger or a Menorah we honor God.
12-10-2009 @ 8:19PM
xkatybug said...It is not possible to have a non religious Christmas. CHRISTmas is a religious holiday, and without the religion, it isn't even Christmas anymore. If Obama really is a Christian like he says, then he should celebrate his religion's holidays just like everyone else does. I understand that we have to have "holiday concerts" and the "holiday season" because there are many different holidays in December, but Christmas has the word "Christ" in it for a reason. Christmas isn't about the tree, the presents, or the parties, its about celebrating the birth of Christ, and if people won't celebrate the birth of Christ, then they shouldn't celebrate Christmas at all.
12-10-2009 @ 8:28PM
Tim said...You did great all the way up to the last line or so. Do you plan to be translated off the planet on Dec 25th? You'll be here when I and many others are celebrating Christmas. I hope that you have a merry Christmas no matter how you choose or choose not to celebrate it.
12-10-2009 @ 8:31PM
Witness of the Truth said...The Lord, Jesus Christ, according to His Law Book, the Holy Bible, was born on this earth on October 2, 7 B.C. That is the Day of Atonement, in a Jubilee year.
Of course, the Lord's blood paid for the sins of those whom He came to save. Christ is the fulfilment of the Atonement and the Jubilee.
Those still celebrating Passover are rejecting the Lord. ALL of the Old Testament feast days were pointing to the Lord, Jesus Christ. To continue to celebrate Passover in our day is sinful, and you will face the wrath of God for this rebellion.
12-10-2009 @ 8:42PM
rusty said...sifrina. you are exactly right, the comment about the those coming over from england IS EXACTLY RIGHT. The founding fathers wrote the constitution & the declaration NOT FOR A SPECIFIC RELIGION there is no way around that no matter how one looks at it. if you think that go back & read it again, it does not state any one religion, apparently it is assumed though. I have repect for all religions, but the government buildings are know place to have any belief chosen over the other. there are plenty of other ways people have to get their point across. Every year this is always the fight. if christians are allowed to put a scene up at the capital so has the right of others. Its that simple
12-10-2009 @ 8:42PM
Joseph said...Definitely grateful for a post that remind the entire world (including Judaism) that we all are celebrating the NATIVITY of CHRIST the Lord, and considering that he was born in Bethlehem, that definitely is part of the new State of Israel (only since the 60's) it should be in part, also at least remember by Jewish people, because HE was a JEW in the first place, but basically because of reasons, that don't come to the point, but that were absolutely in favor of just one religion, this country, began to disregard the celebration as a Christian one and began, celebrating the " Holidays " Chanukah and Kwanza included, now considering the number of people who celebrate one or the other, is definitely concise to say, that Christians of all denominations outrank in number the other 2 holidays, so please let's go back to what centuries of tradition had been part of the culture of the world, of course respecting the " other " holidays, but at the same time coming back to the real and absolutely value of the season itself, the renewal of our faith in someone that came to this World (in it's entirity) to just bring peace, love and understanding among all people, including the ones that supposedly don't celebrate, because they even have to recognize that Jesus was real and a very important part of their history, even do, they don't want to recognize it.
So again and bless the Season wishing each other a " Merry Christmas and a very Happy and Healthy NEW YEAR " as in the past but enjoyable times that we had prior to the simple Seasons greetings!!!!!
12-10-2009 @ 11:15PM
dinerokid7 said...America was founded by christians seeking religious freedom. Their belief in GOD is shown in currency, public buildings and, most importantly, in the prayers of the people in this wanderful country. Americans are tolerant of religious festivities by people of other ideologies or beliefs, yet people of other beliefs do not wish to accord christians their celebrating their religious beliefs... People of the jewish faith don't have to celebrate christmas, so why do they have a problem with christians celebrating christmas?
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, to those who have a problem, move to where they do not celebrate christmas, we do in the good old USA!