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Quarterback Michael Vick is back in the NFL, where he played sparingly for the Philadelphia Eagles last season. Credit: Kevin C. Cox, Getty Images
This is a familiar trope for athletes who fall from grace -- working with kids. Because it's all about the children. After the pros screw up, at least.
Michael Vick, NFL quarterback, dog-fighting enthusiast and convicted felon, has a new reality show starting on BET this week. In a recent interview with The New York Times, Vick says he did the show, "because I felt that I can help save a lot of our kids by showing them what I went through. I want them to understand that you've got to start dreaming when you're young, but also you got to have a plan. You can't put yourself in vulnerable positions, you have to value every opportunity that you get in life."
Meaning what, exactly? That if you want to play professional football, getting caught running an illegal dog-fighting ring is a bad idea?
It's probably better for Vick to be around children than it is for him to be around dogs. But maybe he should stay away from both groups.
Former major league baseball player Mark McGwire recently admitted that he was using steroids when he hit 70 home runs in 1998.
When he testified before Congress in 2005, he admitted nothing, but he did say the following: "I appreciate the difficult job you have as congressmen and congresswomen and will use this opportunity to dedicate myself to this problem. I am directing my foundation to concentrate its efforts to educate children regarding dangers of performance-enhancing drugs. I am also offering to be spokesman for Major League Baseball and the Players Association to convince young athletes to avoid dangerous drugs of all sorts."
McGwire also has the Mark McGwire Foundation for Children, which, according to his Web site, is currently involved in the battle against bed wetting. (We're not touching that one.)
In 2009, Alex Rodriguez admitted that he had used steroids while playing professional baseball. Again, his first thought, once he got caught, was the children. In February 2009, A-Rod told ESPN's Peter Gammons that he was interested "in working with young children to help educate them about the dangers of steroid use," according to MLB.com. In the same interview, he also said, "I want to do things to influence children ... I have nine years to bring this message to children."
What message is that? That cheating doesn't work? Because in your case, Mr. Rod, it did. So what kind of "message" is that?
Rodriguez not only used steroids, but he also cheated on his wife (allegedly, but there were photos of A-Rod and a blonde that he wasn't married to). And before his dog-fighting conviction, Vick flipped the bird to fans when they upset him after a game.
But, please. By all means. Let's get these guys together with some kids.
This is not to say that Vick shouldn't be allowed to play professional football. The NFL has a number of players who committed serious crimes and came back to the league.
Former Baltimore Ravens running back Jamal Lewis spent four months in prison on drug charges. His teammate, Ray Lewis, was arrested for murder along with two other men. Ray Lewis eventually plead guilty to obstruction of justice in exchange for testimony against the other men charged, receiving one year probation and a $250,000 fine from the NFL. (He also wasn't allowed to say "I'm going to Disney World" when he was named MVP of Super Bowl XXXV. Wah.) Both men played this past season.
Athletes who commit crimes are certainly entitled to attempt a comeback in professional sports.This is true of anyone who commits a crime and is punished, no matter what his or her profession may be. But why is the first thought "get me some kids to talk to?"
Over at the sports blog Deadspin, Tommy Craggs writes, "Do we really have to drag The Children into this again? Must every scary development in American life be filtered through the eyes of The Children?"
Personally, I don't think the steroid issue is nearly as big a deal as pundits make it out to be, and I agree that "OMG! What about The Children?" is thrown into the punditry mix far too often. But The Children are getting it from both sides. There are the tongue-clucking pundits who bemoan the effect that news of famous athletes messing up has on the youth of today. And then there are the athletes themselves, who immediately reach for the kids as soon as they get caught doing something they shouldn't be doing.
Basketball player Gilbert Arenas was suspended indefinitely by the NBA for bringing an illegal handgun into the Washington Wizards' locker room. In an op-ed piece in the Washington Post, Arenas said that from now on he wants to "help guide children into brighter futures." (To be fair, Arenas does sound more contrite than other athletes who screwed up.) An article from the UPI had an inadvertently honest headline: "Suspended Washington Wizards guard Gilbert Arenas said he will deliver a message of non-violence to young fans in an effort to rebuild his reputation."
This isn't about The Children. This is about The Athlete.
Is it wrong for athletes who screw up, no matter what the offense, to try and make amends by doing some good for the world? Of course not. But can't they think of something to do that doesn't involve kids?
When the A-Rod story broke, Michael Kruse of the St. Petersburg Times asked Little Leaguers about the news. One of the kids said, "If you take steroids, you'll become mean, and you'll disrespect your friends or something. I learned that from my dad."
From his dad. Not from A-Rod. Let the athletes play ball. We'll take care of the parenting.
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 9)
2-07-2010 @ 7:48PM
Mia said...I agree with you 100%. There are some crimes worse than other. Hence statutes of limitations. When someone does something evil to a child, an elderly person, or an animal, whether death or rape or anything just as evil is involved or not, it's clear that the offender is attacking an innocent, defenseless being. They might just knock them down and rob them, or kick the dog, but the fact is this is a person of power and strength attacking a weaker creature.
For this, there's no forgiveness.
If Michael Vick picked fights with other big, brawny, tough football players (proving himself to be the man he THINKS he is, risking getting his ASS kicked), then it wouldn't be as bad an offense. But because he chose his victims to be a weaker creature than himself, then he's a gutless P.O.S.
I have NO forgiveness in my heart for him.
And one more thing: Stay away from the kids! They've got enough troubles nowadays without YOU polluting their little, innocent minds!!
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2-07-2010 @ 8:09PM
nickibeme said...You people who JUDGE and JURY others.. Need a class or something in Hypocrisy.. You all.. And I mean ALL have done something WRONG in your lifes.. Regardless of what it was, or how bad it wasn't, From stealing a dollar that wasn't yours, to talking behind someones back.. You did something Wrong. Regardless of how you want to defend it.. "Spare me that was't a bad thing", or "Give me a Break.. You Can not Even Compare them!" But yes you can, and I will. EVERYONE has SKELETONS in thier Closet.. But you chose to be a Hypicrit about it, and tell everyone else what they should or shouldn't do, or how they should act, or shouldn't..Get a Life, Get a God, and Give us all a break.. Its Life, we all make Mistakes, Stop Juding others, Your DAY will Come, I PROMISE you all.. It will COME...
2-07-2010 @ 8:54PM
Lita said...nickibeme responds to Mia by saying, "You people who JUDGE and JURY others.. Need a class or something in Hypocrisy.. You all.. And I mean ALL have done something WRONG in your lifes.. Regardless of what it was, or how bad it wasn't, From stealing a dollar that wasn't yours, to talking behind someones back.." I can't believe that this jackass is equating stealing a dollar or gossiping to the the torture of animals. Using that "brilliant" logic, I guess we should not criticize those who murder or rape, either, since we have all done something wrong. nickibeme is another example of how you just can't fix stupid.
2-07-2010 @ 10:01PM
baybe said...May GOD bless you ...with no forgiveness in your heart you can bet your life will continue ....out of control, full of negativity ..drawing more and more and no real intimacy or LOVE.
One thing you ALL have to realize is holding negative thoughts and emotions is what dis-eases people and causes feelings of lonliness, despair and depression. Not being able to conjure love and forgiveness for another shows just how far you are from the GREAT LIFE you ARE.... Try harder to forgive it is the only way to cultivate LOVE forgiveness and compassion for YOURSELF!
2-07-2010 @ 10:26PM
moneymike said...Are you serious? You and your greater than thou partners need to get counseling. I just hope whenever you need forgiveness someone is around to give it to you. You all should be ashamed of yourselves.
2-07-2010 @ 10:32PM
Kyla said...To nikibeme
"Its Life, we all make Mistakes, Stop Juding others, Your DAY will Come, I PROMISE you all.. It will COME"
There's mistakes, then there are felonies. When a doctor is convicted of a felony, he generally does NOT get his license back and has to find a new profession. I fail to understand why a professional athlete "should" be allowed to return to a multimillion dollar paycheck after committing a felony, and no logic to banning one athlete for life because he bet on a game, but letting a murderer play again. Second chance, yes; second chance to be a spoiled millionaire, no. Perhaps if they knew without a shadow of a doubt that their career would be permanently over if they were convicted of a felony, they would exhibit a little more self-control and responsibility. Instead, they can continue to carry the "I can do whatever I want and nobody will bother me much about it" attitude and, sadly, they're mostly right. Apparently, the ability to run back and forth while holding a ball confers exemption from all standards of civilized behavior. A truly fine thing to be teaching our children.
2-08-2010 @ 12:38AM
Shannon said...Nickibeme I have done things wrong I have even beat humans down but I have never..NEVER harmed an animal or a child because both are defenseless victims. Any one that can harm an innocent animal or child is a worthless piece of crap that I would happily beat the hell out of because that person deserves to feel the pain he/she inflicts. I do not claim to be a saint but I can also say a coward only prays on the defenseless and I am not a coward. A human adult may deserve an ass whoopin from time to time therefore although it may not appear to make me a saint in your eyes I am happy to give it to those who need it.
2-07-2010 @ 8:01PM
Karena said...Yeah this guy deserves NO forgiveness! He doesn't deserve the oxygen he breathes.
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2-07-2010 @ 11:36PM
alabama334 said...why would u say such a thing everyone deserves a right to live even you.he who has not sin shall cast the first stone and i dont know you but i bet you can pick up one.
2-08-2010 @ 1:24AM
Dog mom said...Karena...True Dat!! The only thing Vick is "sorry" for is that he got CAUGHT! Had he not been, he would STILL be dog-fighting. Anyone who preys on the innocent is a gutless punk! What he should be doing for restitution is (1) paying an annual stipend to Dog Town and several other animal rescue groups and (2) shoveling shit at an animal shelter.
And yea, Nickibeme...we all have skeletons in our closets, but at least mine (& most everyone else's) aren't in the form of murdered dogs!
2-07-2010 @ 8:01PM
heidi said...He is a disgusting excuse for a human, he tortured beautiful dogs. I would not let him around my children either or my animals. Anyone who can harm an animal or a child should be tortured the same way.
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2-07-2010 @ 10:01PM
baybe said...No, no one should be tortured and it sad to hear a Mother speak this way...what would your children think?
How do you really believe your Self to be better spouting such utter disgusting negativity.
Your Kids need a prayer and your animals too..cause if you still believe in an eye for an eye..you can best believe it is with them that that BELIEF will play itself out.
I shudder to think what it WILL take for you and alot of others to just look at your own behavior, thoughts and words.....if you only knew that the kind of negativity you're allowing to well up and spill over can only hurt you and yours.
Be Well Mommy!!
2-07-2010 @ 10:28PM
moneymike said...You're a disgusting example of a human being. Who are you to judge anyone. We'll probably see you to catch a predator one day.
2-07-2010 @ 8:04PM
Michele said...Michael Vick makes me sick. Why is it that when these athletes that get paid WAY TO MUCH MONEY..to throw a ball, end up in trouble or in jail or prison they find Jesus??? They've learned the error of their ways? They are most definitly NOT role models and NONE of them should be allowed around children. Someone should give Michael Vick a taste of his own medicine. Maybe, oh I don't know, beat and torture him if he doesn't play good ball?
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2-07-2010 @ 10:28PM
moneymike said...The only thing that is sick is your self serving comments about who should be forgiven and who shouldn't. I hope when your time comes for forgiveness you're given the same treatment that you are more than willing to give others. Way too pathetic.
2-07-2010 @ 8:05PM
Civilized Human said...Vick and his scumbag homeboys not only trained dogs to tear each other apart, they slaughtered dogs that could no longer fight by shooting them, cutting their throats, electrocuting them, and drowning them alive...all while sipping Cristal and laughing and laughing and laughing.
Michael Vick is subhuman scum, and ANYONE who supports him is just as much an ignorant savage as he is.
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2-07-2010 @ 10:02PM
baybe said...WOW!!!
where do you think young african americans learn to fight dogs? Honey you must be willing to see that it is YOUR ANCESTORS who began such vile and inhumane practices..
Just like Af Americans are asked to forgive ALL the atrocities that have been endured at the hand of white people and in this very WHITE society.. Now it is your turn to understand, acknowledge and do your best to hold a great feeling in your heart where all who do terrible things are concerned....
Try...please..for ALLof US.
2-07-2010 @ 8:10PM
wackywade said...For all the talk by Vick and the Eagles that Vick was going to speak out about his disgraceful dogfighting fetish, he's made maybe four appearances; and he never, ever, mentions that he got in trouble for fighting and killing dogs. All he says is that he made "mistakes".
Vick also says that, once he gets paid for this BET series, he's never going to talk about his dogfighting crimes, ever again. So much for spreading the word among kids that dogfighting is wrong.
Vick only made a mistake; and who hasn't, right?
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2-07-2010 @ 8:08PM
Denny said...I do not think it is right for him to be around kids. He may say he is sorry, but that is just for getting caught. The children that listen to him might not realize what JAIL meant to him. He just saw it as a a few months in and when he got out everything would be forgotten. Well, it almost seems that way. Too many people are forgiving him for the atrocious things he did. I do not feel that way. Most children say,well, he is out now and making BIG money so I guess everything is all right! NO, NO WAY!
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2-07-2010 @ 9:23PM
Nan said...I couldn't agree more Denny. The only thing Vick is sorry for is GETTING CAUGHT! In all of the interviews I've watched him do, not once did I get the sense that he regretted being involved in dog fighting. Furthermore, I feel that the SYSTEM failed us as a community by giving him such a lenient sentence. If I had commited the same crimes as Vick did, I would still be sitting in a jail cell. Of course, I can't throw a football more than a few feet, or run the ball into the endzone past 1/2 a dozen huge men who are trying to crush me. If I was in his position, I'm certain that one of the conditions of my release would be that absolutely NO ASSOCIATION with children or animals (women should be included) would be allowed. Vick IS an animal, and he has nothing positive to offer our youth. He should still be in prison, and once released, should not be allowed to return to football and his multi-million dollar contract. He didn't suffer one iota compared to the dogs he tortured and killed. What a travesty!