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School Board Cancels Prom Rather Than Allowing Same-Sex Couple

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All Constance McMillen wants is a night to remember. Photo courtesy of Constance McMillen.


School board members in Fulton, Miss., decided to cancel the senior prom at Itawamba Agricultural High School rather than let a lesbian student take her girlfriend to the dance.

Now 18-year-old Constance McMillen says she fears retaliation from her classmates.

"The message they are sending is that if they have to let gay people go to prom that they are not going to have one," she tells the Clarion Ledger in Jackson, Miss.

"A bunch of kids at school are really going to hate me for this, so in a way it's really retaliation," she adds.

The American Civil Liberties Union in Mississippi has taken up McMillen's cause.

School officials in Fulton (a town of about 4,00 people in the northeast corner of the state) circulated a memo Feb. 5 telling students that same-sex couples would not be allowed at the prom.

In an ACLU press release, McMillen reports meeting with the assistant principal and later the district superintendent. She says she was told she could not attend the prom with her girlfriend or show up wearing a tuxedo.

And no matter what they did, McMillen says in the press release, she was told they would be thrown out if their presence made any other students "uncomfortable."

Mississippi ACLU officials gave school district officials until Wednesday to respond to their demands that McMillen and her sophomore girlfriend be allowed to attend the April 2nd prom. School board members reacted by canceling the event entirely.

The board issued a statement suggesting a private group host an independent prom. A private group would not be bound by the same anti-discrimination laws as a public school district.

Low blow, McMillen tells the Clarion Ledger.

"If they set it up privately, they probably aren't going to allow gay people to go, and there is nothing that you can do about it," she tells the paper. "I'm going to have to change schools or something."

Christine Sun, the ACLU's senior attorney for its gay rights project, tells the Clarion Ledger that banning same-sex dates violates McMillen's constitutional rights.

"We believe the law is pretty clear," Sun tells the paper. "The school just can't arbitrarily say you have to have an opposite-sex date to go to the prom."

While the ACLU rallied to McMillen's side, a conservative group quickly flocked to the side of the school district.

Leaders of the Liberty Counsel, a conservative social policy organization in Orlando, Fla., offered the district free legal services to the school district to fight McMillen.

"We view this as part of a broader picture," Liberty Counsel attorney Stephen Crampton tells the Clarion Leder. "It's not, sadly enough, about one young lady's desire to bring her date to the prom."

Crampton tells the paper that attempts to permit same-sex couples at school dances are part of a larger agenda to force legal recognition of same-sex couples. He adds that Mississippi still has anti-sodomy laws on its books.

"The district might be motivated by a desire to prevent the ultimate conduct that is presumptively illegal in this state," he tells the newspaper.

However, a 2003 Supreme Court decision struck down a Texas sodomy statute and ruled all similar state statutes are unconstitutional.

While McMillen may face tough times at school, she has the support of her family. Her grandmother Dale McMillen tells the Clarion Ledger that she supports her granddaughter.

"I've always tried to teach my children and my grandchildren that if you believe in something you need to stand up for it," she tells the paper.

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