Little Boy Weeps When Told He's Not a Single Lady, But Dad Saves the Day
Filed under: Funny Stuff
Our vote for father of the day goes to this guy, Carlos Whittaker, who tells his rockin' 3-year-old that he's not a Single Lady. Okay, so daddy dearest momentarily rained on his preschooler's parade, but what makes us love him is how quickly he recovered.
As soon as he saw little Losiah stop dancing in his car seat, he says, "Yeah, you are. You're a Single Lady. Sorry...I was just kidding...You're a Single Lady, okay?"
Then, the paternalia, a pastor and Christian rocker himself, whose album, Ragamuffin Soul hits iTunes soon, joins in the chorus, followed by a heartfelt confession: "I'm a horrible father."
Dude, in our eyes, you're pretty awesome.
Whittaker, 35, and his wife adopted Losiah from South Korea back in 2006 and he told ParentDish in an exclusive phone interview, "My son is the joy of my life."
So, where did he get the name Losiah? Whittaker says he's always wanted to give his son his name, but figured that a Korean kid named Carlos would be cause for curious questioning throughout the boy's life. Since his wife liked the name Isaiah, they combined it with Carlos and came up with Losiah. His daughters have equally cool names: 7-year-old Sohaila, which is Arabic for morning star, and 6-year-old Seanna, which is Celtic for God is near.
As further tribute to his blended family, his song, God of Second Chances, alludes to the idea that "adopted kids are being given a second chance at a great life," he says.
But back to Single Ladies...how did the kids come to dig on Beyonce's hit?
"Alvin and Chipmunks: The Squeakquel," Whittaker says, laughing. "Ever since we saw that movie, they have not stopped singing that song."
For more fun with the family and his music, follow Whittaker on his blog at RagamuffinSoul.com. We certainly will be.
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ReaderComments (Page 3 of 8)
4-01-2010 @ 8:53AM
NANCW69 said...YOU ARE AN IDIOT
4-01-2010 @ 5:13PM
Bones said...THATS RIGHT! you tell them!! such a horrible father AND PERSON! what kind of person would accidently ruin their childs good time and then try to make it better!? THE NERVE! he should have stood by his convictions and ruined his little adopted boys day!
I mean, to think, that someone wouldn't even try to reason with a 3 yr old. Thats just not fair. Give the little guy a chance to understand sexuality and gender... AT 3! If we don't start teachin' em about it when they shoot out the womb... then WHO KNOWS what could happen... they might be androgynous until the onset of puberty, just like every other child to be born and raised in the thousands of years we've been civilized... what a step backwards.
We need to push forward, full throttle, buy your children bra's at 2, porn at 5 and condoms at 7. AMEN and let Jesus into your heart, soul, or hole... whichever pleases you most.
3-31-2010 @ 7:56PM
Dee Yates said...He's such a sweetie:-)
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3-31-2010 @ 8:02PM
Caroline said...There always has to be at least one negative person making a negative or stupid comment on every subject on every board ...Try being positive for once in your life .
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3-31-2010 @ 8:10PM
Paul said...Haters are going to hate, but the bottom line is that daddy cares for his little son and it's great that there are people able and willing to adopt so that kids have a legit chance. I'm quite sure that by the time it matters, he will figure out he's not a single lady. For now let the kid sing!
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3-31-2010 @ 8:09PM
hautahbuhgee said...The expression on the face of the girl/sister in the middle could be "I can't believe you want to be a single lady." The father did right in soothing the feelings of the child.
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3-31-2010 @ 8:20PM
nicknacks said...I LOVE this video!! What a great family. What a wonderful dad!
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3-31-2010 @ 8:22PM
jay said...Hey Dopes, the song is calling for ALL my single ladies, NOT I'm a single lady. You guys/gals are the dumbest bunch of folks I have ever seen. Beyonce' aint the most articulate but she is singing it clearly ALL my single ladies,...DJ's often make that request when they ask the ladies to head to the dance floor...ALL MY SINGLE LADIES GET OUT ON THE FLOOR! so Dad is incorrect and the little guy who is crying got it RIGHT....all the dumb clucks responding thinking the kid is wrong or cute by saying he is a single lady. >>>WRONG, WOW YOU ARE now THE FOOLS!!!
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4-01-2010 @ 6:17AM
Kiera said...What the hell does it even matter what the lyrics are? Jesus Christ, the whole video is about this family, not whether or not they got the song right. Go get your facts straight before you start calling everyone dumbasses.
As for the actual video, I don't think the father meant anything homophobic. It's clear he loves his son, and if he were a true homophobe, then he would be sticking by his statement and not trying to comfort the kid for 'not being a single lady'.
3-31-2010 @ 8:31PM
deedy said...Daddy is hot... oh wait, that wasn't the subject huh?? LOL WELL, he is!! ;)
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3-31-2010 @ 8:34PM
faithful4ev said...aww!! what a cute lil boy!! and a good dad!!
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3-31-2010 @ 8:36PM
heather said...You ppl read to much into everything, it was a cute video that their family wanted to share. This is why ppl don't share things with the public, because you suck the life out and try to find something wrong with everything. Just live,stop being so stuck up and caught up in everything, it has nothing to do with christian values, or car seats, or the kids name. It was silly about the childs reaction to a statement about a song. PERIOD!. The age group takes so so literally so its funny. GET over yourselves and just laught at the video like everyone else.
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4-01-2010 @ 8:04PM
Daniella Lopez said...Thank you Heather!! I agree with 110%!! I loved this video because it reminds me of the innocence we all had at one time. Its a great home video and like you said "JUST LAUGH!!" People make everything a big deal and SMUTHER their kids. I'm glad you put this post!! You go girl!
3-31-2010 @ 8:41PM
Alan said...Talk about distracted driving!
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3-31-2010 @ 8:42PM
kaitlin said...awwww por little boy your a single ladie buddy dnt listen to dad
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3-31-2010 @ 8:46PM
meeoww(: said...hahaha that was Funny! it reminds me when my brother thought he was a girl and would dress up in dresses
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3-31-2010 @ 9:13PM
Amanda said...Video taping and driving, Nice one! other than that such a cute video!
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3-31-2010 @ 9:19PM
Tara said...My question is that how did he know to take the camera out? Like, I'm not saying it's fake, but I am asking how did he know that is would be a priceless few moments there?
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3-31-2010 @ 9:18PM
Josh W said...His song, God of Second Chances is so awesome!! I can't wait until his new album comes out!
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3-31-2010 @ 9:25PM
Chelle said...This is a beautiful story - can't wait to check out this adoptive father's song next! HOpe you all will check out my videos and learn about my life as a (reunited) adoptee @ youtube.com/coffeetalkwc
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