How to Pick the Perfect Pooch for Your Kids
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Look for tolerant breeds when picking a puppy to join your family. Credit: Susan.W.Patton, Flickr
When choosing a dog breed, there are certain traits you should look for: A good dog for children is friendly, calm and most of all, tolerant.
Before selecting a dog, consider the amount of space, time and energy you can offer this new member of your family. A very large, active dog is probably not well-suited for apartment-dwellers, and busy families should consider a breed that can adapt to being alone during the day. Families with very young children should avoid tiny dogs, as they can be easily injured if dropped or handled roughly.
To help you get started in your search for the perfect pooch, we've compiled a list of some of the best dogs for kids. Click on the links for more detailed information about each breed.
- Beagle: Beagles are friendly and easy-going. Their short hair and compact size make them easy to live with and they're good with other dogs, as well as humans. Bred to hunt, Beagles need plenty of exercise and activities to keep them out of trouble.
- Golden Retriever: A beautiful dog with a long, golden coat, Golden Retrievers are the most popular breed in the nation, according to the American Kennel Club. They are easily trained, have a sweet temperament and are known for their loyalty. This dog has lots of energy and needs room to roam.
- Pug: With their wrinkled faces and expressive eyes, Pugs are playful and even-tempered. Their short hair is easy to maintain and their exercise needs are minimal.
- Bichon Frise: As happy as it is beautiful, the fluffy white Bichon Frise is a playful dog who needs plenty of exercise. With fast-growing hair, the Bichon requires regular grooming. It doesn't shed and is well-suited for allergy sufferers.
- Labrador Retriever: Intelligent and friendly, this dog has a yellow, brown or black coat. Long a family favorite, a Lab is non-aggressive, eager to please and known to be quite adaptable.
- Poodle: Active and proud, the Poodle can sometimes be a little shy. Varying in color, the Poodle's coat is hypoallergenic and requires regular grooming. Despite their reputation as dumb, Poodles are actually quite intelligent.
- Great Dane: A gentle giant, the Great Dane needs a home that can accommodate its extremely large size and exercise needs. Sometimes referred to as the "king of dogs" the Great Dane's spirit and friendly disposition have made it a popular family pet.
- Samoyed: With light colored hair, black lips and blue eyes, the looks of a Samoyed are striking. A good-natured dog who enjoys the company of humans, the Samoyed requires patient and consistent training along with lots of exercise.
- Boston Terrier: Highly intelligent and determined, this made-in-America dog is actually a cross between an English Bulldog and a white English Terrier. With a gentle disposition and moderate exercise needs, the Boston Terrier is easily trained and makes for a loyal companion.
- Mutt: Because its parentage can be unknown, adopting a mutt requires a little guesswork. While a mutt puppy's breed mix can sometimes be determined by its appearance, adopting an older mixed-breed dog whose behavior and size is already known might be a better choice.
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ReaderComments (Page 3 of 5)
4-05-2010 @ 10:09AM
Daph said...I have had Pugs, along with other breeds, all my life. I absolutely adore them!! They are funny, mischievous, loving and great with kids and other dogs!! They love nothing better than to curl up in your bed and snore gently in your ears at night. I highly recommend them as a breed for families, as long as that family is a responsible pet owner!! They do shed, but their short coats are easily maintained.
I also have Irish setters - a high maintenance dog, both in grooming and in energy, but also great with kids and other dogs and very loving and funny. But, they do need a home with a big yard or space to run fast and furiously to work off that excess energy.
The bottom line is, chose your dog carefully, and if at all possible, take a dog from rescue - they make GREAT pets!!!
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4-16-2010 @ 9:06AM
Laina said...I've had four Chihuahua/Chi. small mix 'adopted' angels, one that is 4 years old now, and a year old when I got him (apprx.). They have all been great. The one who has ME now, is his vet's favorite patient. Well behaved, social, calm, easily trained (I just talk to him!), etc. I do not recommend ANY dog or other animal around children at an early age, or children that are not well behaved themselves. Things can happen in a second. But don't consider a 'Purchased' dog from a breeder or especially a pet store. Pure bred dogs seem always so ill-adjusted/bad tempered/etc. There are far too many cast offs from every direction (individuals, breeders, etc.) and a mix is best.
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4-05-2010 @ 10:28AM
melissa said...Bassett Hounds ROCK!! They are So laid back and easy to get along with. They need daily exercise so they don't put too much weight on those short legs, but not a lot. LOVE my baby Hannah. Good with people and other dogs.
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4-05-2010 @ 10:31AM
April said...About 1 1/2 years ago our daughter brought home a mixed puppy she and the boyfriend had gotten together. I had said for a long time - no more dogs after our 12 yr old. Healer had to be put down,the heartbreak was too much! Well she has proved to be quite a winner!! She is a pug-minpin mix and is faithful to my daughter as the day is long,great with the little ones, and loves to walk every day. She is very smart,but does still chew certain things when she is bored~mainly her own bones and flannel blankets from her bed :( I never would've picked her for a family dog but now I can hardly see us without her,when my daughter moves out again we'll probably miss her alot !!
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4-05-2010 @ 10:34AM
Joyce said...We have 3 Boston Terriers and one pug. Our 18-month old great grandson and the pug are best buddies. Pug will let the boy climb all over him, pull his curly tail, whatever. The Bostons will get up and move away, but the pug stays as long as the boy is playing with him.
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4-05-2010 @ 10:33AM
Jessica said...Many of the dog breeds you have listed here have a very long list of very serious health issues. Pugs and Boston Terriers for example are prone to respiratory issues due to their comformtion such as elongated soft palate, stenotic nares, tracheal stenosis; are also prone to Pug encephalopathy which causes seizures; food and environmental allergies. They are also prone to obesity with its related diabetes, joint problems etc
Golden Retrievers are very likley to get cancer, hip dysplasia and heart disease
Bichons will almost always have allergies as well as most other little white dogs. They are also prone to bladder stones which require surgery to remove
Great Danes have a very short life expectancy 7 to 9 yrs, are prone to back, hip and knee problems and a condition called GDV where the stomach bloats and twists on itself, once this happens it is fatal unless surgically corrected.
So before you recommend these dogs for their personality be sure to due your research. Poor breeding has resulted in a myriad of diseases and health problems especially the popular breeds. Think before you pick the cute one and ask your breeder about OFA, CERF, ECHO etc tests that should be done on any dog intended for bredding to help reduce the prevalance of these conditions
Sorry to be a downer but you have to tell the bad with the good
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4-05-2010 @ 11:43AM
DJ said...Jessica,
I don't know if I have just been extremely lucky over the years or not but having had 7 Boston Terriers and 2 Pugs I've had none of the issues you mentioned with the Boston's. The Pugs I have had to watch their diets because they to tend to gain weight easliy but I found an easy way to control that by giving only pieces of raw carrots as treats and all my dogs loved raw carrots.
4-05-2010 @ 10:34AM
Annie said...Pretty good article; researching breeds is very important. It's just as important, though, to do your research on breeders-- DO NOT just go to a pet store (and support puppy mills) or pick a random puppy out of the newspaper classifieds, no matter how easy or convenient it is. Look for a responsible breeder who does health tests on their breeding stock and cares about breeding healthy puppies, not just making $$$.
Also, for those who don't want a "mutt from the pound"-- I will say that based on my experience, adopting an adult dog--especially from a Rescue organization--is a LOT easier than getting a brand new puppy. They usually come already housebroken, fixed, vaccinated, and taught basic house manners. Also, rescues who foster dogs will know all about each dog's temperament, so they can match them up with the right families. There are rescues for purebreds as well as mutts. Just check out Petfinder.com and you can find pretty much any breed or mix in existence.
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4-05-2010 @ 10:36AM
Nicole said...I should amend my comment a bit about only getting dogs from shelters or rescues. Please realize that shelters and rescues are overflowing because dogs are overbred. That includes the very rare breeder who is dedicated to the craft--the point is, sorry to be so forward, they want to make MONEY! Especially in this economy and with the boom of mixed breed toy dogs, backyard breeders and puppy mills are flourishing and churning out dogs to stores (never, ever enter one of those friendly little puppy stores no matter what promises those folks make) and advertise online (which makes it look marginally better than an ad in the paper. The point is, there are more dogs than owners and if a Breeder is really, truly here for the best interest of the dogs, then they wouldn't breed or breed only once or sparingly to keep the bloodline alive. Problem is, and I can't say I blame the breeders for wanting to make money, making a couple thousand off a litter is just too easy. Again, petfinder.com is such a comprehensive site you can search by breed, size, sex and location near you--even if you don't want to adopt, check it out and then realize the hundreds of dogs near you that need a home. That's why I just can't believe that a Breeder is really, truly acting in the canine worlds best interest no matter how nice they are or how loving a home their own breeding dogs have. Save a dog...save a cat...there are even puppies that need homes if that is the reasoning for buying/raising. It's not a guilt trip, just one of those things that is a now-you-know situation. It's hard to justify breeding in the face of the reality of dogs in desperate need.
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4-05-2010 @ 2:14PM
k9sue said...Only thing with your comment is responsible breeders do NOT make a profit on dogs. They put far more expenses into a breeding to every recoup in the dog sales. They only breed sparingly, so they do not make it up in quantity like commercial breeders.
Health checks cost $1,000s of dollars. They pay stud fees (which are paid even if the dog does not get pregnant. They risk C-sections or even losing the mother and her pups. It takes is a lot of hours caring (properly) for a litter. Vaccinations and worming aren't cheap either.
I work in shelters. There is not an overpopulation problem with puppies. The problem is when the puppy grows up and is not longer "cute" he is discarded. Shelters are full of unwanted older pets that have behavior problems due to neglect.
4-05-2010 @ 10:56AM
jody ralyea said...BOXERS, HELLO!!!!! One of the best dogs ever. Lovable, loyal, very kid friendly, sweet as can be! Also, every breed has a rescue, the puppy mills have to be stopped and breeders as well until the thousands of homeless dogs are placed. Money, Money, Money, is that all anyone cares about! These poor animals are suffereing, please go to a shelter, rescue and yes Petfinder.com, you will find any dog/cat that you could desire....
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4-05-2010 @ 10:57AM
Laura said...I have a pug and she is a wonderful pet. But just because they have very short hair does not mean it is easy to maintain...pugs shed an incredible amount and it is the kind of hair that manages to "weave" into your clothes. She is a wonderful companion and brings much joy to our family, but people do need to be aware of the shedding.
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4-05-2010 @ 11:01AM
Doug Hess said...Good article but I can't believe you didn't mention sheading, a very important consideration, just ask any one with a golden.
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4-05-2010 @ 11:02AM
joeomar said...Granted, I'm echoing comments from other people, but 1) Poodles have a "reputation as dumb"? They have a "foo-foo" reputation, not a "dumb" reputation. And in fact they're usually ranked as the second smartest dog breed, behind the Border Collie. 2) Golden Retrievers are NOT the most popular dog in America, Labrador Retrievers have held that spot for many years now. Even the TINIEST bit of research spotlights that fact.
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4-05-2010 @ 11:10AM
DJ said...I've had 7 Boston Terrier's, 2 Boxer's, 2 Pug's, 2 Chihuahua's and several mixed mutts including one mixed Boxer/Pitt Bull in my lifetime and all were wonderful family pets and great with young children. Because of my age I now have the last two dogs I will ever share a life with. They are a Boston and a Pug. Both very loving, playful funny dogs as all my other's have been. I will say Boston's have been the smartest dog's over all and by that I don't mean the other breeds were dumb at all but the Boston's just seem to learn so easily it's amazing. I had one that had to stay overnight at a vets once and the vet wanted to buy him because he was so amazed at his intelligence. He said he was almost human like in his understanding of words and he really did understand everything you said to him. Boston's and Pug's are natural babysitters. They won't let a baby get into anything without letting you know. My Pug will not leave my young granddaughter's side when she stays with me, night or day no matter how many days she is here. He is her protector. She is a child and he knows she has to be watched at all times and he has done this for almost 6 years now all on his own. Dogs are a wonderful gift from God and I highly reccommend all the breeds I have mentioned above for any family.
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4-05-2010 @ 11:10AM
joann said...on a list of dog intelligence....the border collie ranks first, then the poodle and third german shepherd.......i have a standard poodle puppy, 9 months old and i guarantee she is smart....they are most loyal family dogs and extremely protective....i also have a pekinese....they are great pals...and a great comfort to me...
my last dog, was 3/4 border collie and 1/4 german shepherd...she died at the age of 16 and she was the smartest dog i ever owned....i even had her trained to pee on command....she never failed..i could practically show her something once and she never forgot it.....the easiest dog i ever had to train...and so very full of love and devotion...
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4-05-2010 @ 11:11AM
kathy said...don't forget the german shepard, you will never find a more loyal dog, they are protective of their family, they are very loving
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4-05-2010 @ 2:19PM
k9sue said...Its a German ShepHERD, not a shepard. They help the man who Herds Sheep - the Shepherd get it?
4-05-2010 @ 11:17AM
kryswyn said...BRAVO! You hit the nail on the head! The author only highlighted the positive aspects of the breeds mentioned. Every breed has its downsides, which depending on the family (and their financial resources) may outweigh the 'cuteness' or 'fad' factors. Too many rescues are inundated with individuals who developed the illnesses associated with their breed given up because the owner/s can't affort the surgical fix. And don't get me started on bloat where distraught owners just found it too inconvenient to feed small multiple meals or restrict water drinking unless they were there to monitor intake, or worse, a small woman with a large breed dog who could've afforded surgery, but was unable to get her collapsed 150 lb dog into the car to rush to the vet.
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4-05-2010 @ 11:46AM
joann said...krywsyn......in response about the lady who couldnt get her dog to the vet because he was too big for her to lift in the car.....
i am 73 years old and couldnt lift my 40 pound dog....BUT i had prior arrangements with my wonderful vet to come to my home in the event of an emergency where i couldnt get her into the car...
when the disc in her back ruptured and she couldnt walk and i couldnt carry her...my vet was here in 20 minutes....not his assistant, but my vet was here....he lovingly lifted her and carried her to my car and when we got to his clinic, he carried her in....
when she died, my vet cried almost as hard as i did....he had taken care of her since she was 6 weeks old and she died at the age of 16 years old....my dog was diabetic and required 2 insulin shots a day and she also had chronic pancreatis..and close to the end , she had severe arthritis....so my vet spent a lot of time with her....