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Die, Filthy Space Alien Scum: Kids and Video Game Violence
Filed under: Tweens, Teens, Activities: Babies, Development/Milestones: Babies, Media, Toys, Gadgets, Kids' Games
Set limits on gaming time. Credit: Corbis
Zombie bodies fall to the ground, spurting blood. The gunner stops to reload and turns to face an entire army of half-decomposed corpses, advancing slowly, menacingly towards him.
Sounds familiar?
If you are the parent of a child between the ages of 8 and 18, it is more than likely that you have seen this or a similar scenario played out on your computer or television screen lately.
According to the Media Literacy Clearinghouse, children in this age bracket are spending, on average, one hour and 29 minutes everyday playing video games. A survey by the Kaiser Family Foundation found that more than 80 percent have at least one video gaming system in the home.
This means that for many children, games are exerting a large degree of influence in their everyday lives.
Parents have long been concerned with their children being exposed to violence. And with good reason. The American Psychological Association states that studies consistently show that children who frequently play violent video games exhibit higher levels of violent behavior and a decrease in pro-social or "helping" behaviors.
One of the biggest problems with violence in video games is that it is typically shown to have no negative consequences. There is no right and wrong. For example, in the game "Grand Theft Auto," stealing cars gets you extra points rather than jail time.
So does this mean that you should unplug the XBox and toss it into the fireplace? Don't do it just yet.
Experts point out that video games can offer many positive learning experiences, aside from being an enjoyable hobby for your child. The key is to offer age-appropriate guidelines and supervision where video games are concerned. Following are some tips for developing such guidelines:
1. Know your child. All children are different. It is important that you understand your own child and how he or she reacts to various situations.
For example: Is your child sensitive? Does he or she have a hard time distinguishing between fantasy and reality? Assessing your child's temperament and development can help you decide whether a game is right for her. If you have a 10-year-old who has nightmares about clowns, getting a game about a spooky carnival may not be the best choice.
2. Understand the video game rating system. In both the United States and Canada, video games are assigned one of six ratings by the Entertainment Ratings Software Board (ERSB). They are:
- EC: Early Childhood. These games are intended for preschool-aged children (3 and above) and do not contain any type of violent material.
- E: Everyone. Games that are rated E are considered appropriate for all family members, aged 6 and up, although they may contain some "comic mischief" or very minimal violence.
- E10+: These games may contain mild violence or suggestive themes and are not recommended for children under 10.
- T: Games that are rated T for Teens may have violence, suggestive material and/or strong language. These games may be appropriate for children 13 and over.
- M and AO: Games that are rated M for Mature and AO for Adults Only are not considered appropriate for children under 18 and may contain heavy violence, graphic sexual content and strong language.
3. Supervise your children. Be aware of how much time your children are spending playing video games and what they are playing. Spend time playing games with them if possible and set clear limits on the types of games and the amount of time that children are allowed to play. Keeping video gaming systems in a public space can help make supervision much easier.
4. Rent video games before you purchase them. Renting a video game gives you a chance to preview the content of the game prior to making a purchase.
5. Consider choosing video games, with the input of your children, that the entire family can enjoy together. Nintendo's Wii entertainment system is a popular choice for many families, as it offers a wide range of games for all ages and interests and requires physical activity.
Most importantly, however, experts point out that the best way to limit the amount of time that your child spends playing video games is to simply be involved with them, and regularly engage in family activities.
Shooting alien scum may have its place as one form of entertainment, but it cannot and should not replace other activities.
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 1)
4-12-2010 @ 7:17PM
Dexter Sylopolous said..."One of the biggest problems with violence in video games is that it is typically shown to have no negative consequences. There is no right and wrong. For example, in the game "Grand Theft Auto," stealing cars gets you extra points rather than jail time."
Wrong.
Wrong wrong wrong.
The concepts of Right and Wrong are fully prevalent in Grand Theft Auto, and there are no 'points' to speak of at all in the game. Steal a car, and you will attract the attention of law enforcement, who will attempt to chase you down and arrest you. But this is a common misconception played by the Media in order to drum up fear in otherwise ignorant parents that can't be bothered to properly supervise their children or buy them age appropriate video games.
Grand Theft Auto has a very simplistic right vs wrong system built into the game. Just because you CAN steal cars, doesn't mean you SHOULD. There are consequences for your actions including getting arrested or incapacitated, forcing a trip to the police station or hospital. Granted you're allowed to continue playing rather than ending up in the morgue or behind bars, but you walk out with nothing more than the clothes on your back and a lot less cash in your wallet.
That's not to say a child should be playing it: No decent parent would allow their child to play Grand Theft Auto, but it is not the Devil in disguise, as this article would have you believe.
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4-12-2010 @ 1:19PM
Trizone said...And we wonder why we are losing our children to violence in this world. We call it entertainment!
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4-15-2010 @ 2:53AM
Michele W said...My son is 8 and plays all the war games. I will not let him play the grand theft auto because of sexual content in it but he plays all of the call of dutys, and like halo and I feel comfortable with him playing them because I have explained to him that just because the game does it doesn't mean it is ok in real life. All the war games are violent of chourse but to me he is also learning from it too. These wars happened and people actually had to go through this. but again he knows that just because he kills people on the game doesnt mean he is going to run around killing real people. It is the part of a parent to make sure your kids know the differance between real and fake.
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4-23-2010 @ 5:17PM
shelly said...Wow, well my sister in law who I do not get along with is a terrible mother. Her son who is four yrs. old and has played halo, call of duty, battle field since he was a year old at first it was just pushing random buttons on the controller then he learned to shoot at 2 and a half years. i was appalled by the fact that his stupid mother would allow him to play. he sits in front of the tv playing these games like a zombie he does not talk just yells he not potty trained only eats pizza and chicken nuggets, hits people and breaks things when they tell him no and when he is not playing he carries around guns pretending to shoot people and thats all. his mother only buys him guns to play with. and when he does not have a gun toy he uses his hands and sneaks around like a soldier throwing grenades . its disgusting children should not play these games and the parents should not buy them to begin with.
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6-16-2010 @ 10:31PM
kingsndstrm said...hmmm im 13 im human and for one i play violent games THEY ARE JUST GAMES PEOPLE so what my parents told me the differnece between right and wrong and they said just as long as its not too violent i can still play it and before anyone says oh your parents should not let you play that type of game well then BACK off i know the difference and i am not listening to anyone who says im wrong