The Unschooling Movement: School's Out ... Forever
Filed under: In The News, Weird But True
If she is lucky -- very lucky -- Michele Darr-Babson can get from one end of a sentence to the other uninterrupted.
Mornings in her Salem, Ore., home are slightly, shall we say, chaotic.
"We're able to give our children ... Louis! Don't stand on that!" she tells ParentDish (and Louis).
What Darr-Babson is trying to say is that unschooling -- a movement where children get no education and basically teach themselves what they need to know -- gives kids more choices. Apparently, the choice for Louis to stand on whatever "that" is, is not one of them.
Darr-Babson has 10 children in her blended family. She used to unschool most of them, and it's a good idea, she says. In theory, at least. Most of her children are in traditional school these days. That's because attending school was one of the choices they were free to make. Darr-Babson's ex-partner didn't share her enthusiasm for homeschooling.
But when unschooling works, Darr-Babson tells ParentDish, it can work magnificently.
"It enables children to focus what they're interested in," she says.
A growing number of parents are unschooling their children. ABC News reports there are 56 million American children in traditional schools, with another 1.5 million being homeschooled.
Of those, according to the network, about 10 percent are unschooled.
Unschooling is not homeschooling. In homeschooling, children receive structure, discipline and curriculum.
Darr-Babson explains that unschooling has no rules. It is all organic.
"It really promotes how learning is accomplishing in real life -- through experience," she tells ParentDish.
Her two oldest children, ages 18 and 20, are in Egypt. "Now that's a learning experience," she says.
But does visiting the Sphinx teach a person algebra?
Children can take care of that on their own, unschooling parent Christine Yablonski of Massachusetts tells ABC News.
"If they need formal algebra understanding, they will find that information," she tells the network.
She knows her kids will do what they need to do, she adds.
"They might watch television. They might play games on the computers. The key there is you have to trust your kids to find their own interests," she tells ABC News.
It doesn't bother her, for example, that her 15-year-old daughter Kimi Biegler stays up all night.
"She's getting everything done that she wants to get done," she tells the network.
What about Kimi? Does she feel prepared for college?
"No, not really," she tells ABC News. "I haven't done the traditional look at a textbook and learn about such and such."
When such and such becomes important, she adds, she'll study it.
"If I wanted to to go college, then I would pick up a textbook and I would learn," she tells the network.
According to the Home School Legal Defense Association, there are no laws regarding homeschooling or unschooling in Idaho, Texas, Oklahoma, Missouri, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Connecticut or New Jersey.
All you have to do in those states is notify the school district that your child won't be attending classes. There is no testing or other requirements.
The rest of the states vary in the amount of notification parents must give and how much student testing is required. Colleges can set their own requirements for the admission of homeschooled and unschooled students.
"We find that we don't need a whole lot of rules," Kimi's father, Phil Biegler, tells ABC. "They will do what they need to do whether or not they enjoy it because they see the purpose in it."
Ann Pleshette Murphy, the former editor of Parents magazine and the current parenting expert on ABC's "Good Morning America," is doubtful.
"This to me is putting way too much power in the hands of the kids -- something that we know kids actually can often find very anxiety producing," she tells ABC News.
"And it's also sending a message that they're the center of the universe, which I do not think is healthy for children."
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 26)
4-19-2010 @ 7:02PM
Sara said...And because they're well to do and white it's not a problem.
If these kids were black and lived in the inner city it would be a horrible thing and someone would call CPS.
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4-20-2010 @ 8:56AM
Tree said...Are you serious? It's not about being white or black. Those kids are white and I don't think it's okay, and from the comments it doesn't seem like anyone else thinks it's okay either. Quit crying the race card. And anyways, if African-American children in the ghetto weren't attending school and getting an education, wouldn't you be happy people were calling CPS so that they could straighten the situation out and help those children go to school so that they wouldn't end up being adults living in the ghetto as well? My goodness. CPS gets called on everybody, not just blacks in a bad area.
4-19-2010 @ 8:40PM
Pamela said...I have to totally agree with you Sara. If they were black living anywhere it would have been a problem and someone would be calling the police, and CPS. But to have your kids at home not teaching them anything is not a good idea. I really don't like homeschooling either because parents are not teachers and have not been to school to study about teaching a child or anyone.
4-19-2010 @ 8:50PM
professoryuks said..."And as for letter, I need but three to set you down..A.S.S."-Cyrano
4-19-2010 @ 8:45PM
Pamela said...I have to totally agree with you Sara. If they were black and living anywhere it would have been a problem and the police and CPS would have been called. I don't like homeschooling because to me none of the parents are teachers, never been to school to learn how to teach a child. Every child should be in school learning.
4-19-2010 @ 8:47PM
kevin said...She states that "most of her children have chosen traditional school now." They probably did that to get away from her.
4-19-2010 @ 8:47PM
Kitty said...You got that right sister!
4-19-2010 @ 9:25PM
MOMwithAbrain said...I completely agree with you.
4-19-2010 @ 9:28PM
Kimmie said...Pam and Sara
Not everything put on the table is of race. I happen to be a white girl from the ghetto and social services was called on my father by a black teacher. She helped me get back into school and I went to college and graduated. It is not about black and white anymore. It is about our children. Out of the 1.5 million who and "unschooled" I am sure all races are included in that figure; Not just black and white, but Hispanic, Asian, etc. Who knows where education is going to take us. Moreover, education and the future of our nation is going to be in the hands of all these young people. I pray all children are prepared for the challenges.
4-19-2010 @ 9:39PM
An Alaskan said...Or white and poor.
4-19-2010 @ 9:54PM
David said...For God sakes Sara get a life. Don't you understand that you are why the black are in the situation that they are because you think the world owes you a living. Stop passing the blame on to other people and take responsibility for your own actions. Nobody owes you anything and if you are poor then you are not doing what you need to in order to succeed in what you are doing. Stop playing house and get mad at the right person, yourself. Owe yea by the way I AM BLACK
4-19-2010 @ 9:45PM
Adam said...Wow did you retards even read the article? Or are you just jumping to conclusions? In the Article it states that "According to the Home School Legal Defense Association, there are no laws regarding homeschooling or unschooling in Idaho, Texas, Oklahoma, Missouri, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Connecticut or New Jersey." So yes if you do not live in one of those states and your kids are running around doing whatever they want your neighbors SHOULD be calling CPS if this is occurring. However if you do live in one of those states and the police coming its on your for being a terrible parent and not them.
Furthermore your point is hypocritical because the people who would be calling the cops would be other inner city people. So what are you trying to prove? That everyone in the inner city is out to get one another and that people in well to do suburban areas care about their neighbors?
4-19-2010 @ 11:27PM
renee said...I'm white, but I totally agree with you.
4-19-2010 @ 10:14PM
I hate Florida said...I am thinking about this, my son is doing poorly in school and besides, I won/t have to worry if he is in danger here in Florida there are to many nuts!!!
4-19-2010 @ 10:26PM
ja said...it has nothing to do with black and white and everything to do with money
4-19-2010 @ 10:30PM
betty said...I guess if you have those type of "low intelligence" type kids... (get a hint from the parents) Then by all means...Save the state some $$ and keep the kids home. The rest of those who want a REAL education... will not be held back by your hellions
4-20-2010 @ 12:37AM
Lisa said...I'm troubled that these kids are learning that they are the center of the universe. Education is so much more than academics. While I appreciate their parent's love of their children, I think the permissiveness is misguided. I would say this regardless of race, color, etc...
4-19-2010 @ 10:55PM
Terry said...LOL nooooo there's no political bias in media ha ha...the government sets up schools that fail the kids on purpose...the schools are failures and so parents who really care about their kids pull them out of the failed school system and school them on their own and they do better on tests that the public school kids do and the media makes them out to be some sort of freaks or weirdos because they don't do things the government way but then there are all sorts of scandals, bullying, sex stuff going on in the public school but that's okay...so the normal people are called freaks and the sickos are called normal...there's the media and the goverment for ya.
4-19-2010 @ 10:59PM
I'm not black said...This isn't about race. It's about education. These kids, whether they are white, black, yellow, green, or orange are not being provided an education that will actually sustain them for life after adolescence.
4-20-2010 @ 12:18AM
Doll said...I can just see me hiring these children. As the employer, I'll ask them to initiate a task, see it through, and report back. They'll say, "I don't do that..that's not what I'm interested in!" There's no discipline in choices. The choice is to discipline so that you eventually can wisely choose.