Opinion: Don't Be Scared, Sandra Bullock; I've Been There

Roland,,you are a wise man also a thruthful man..call it as it is..if every one would think this way,,we would all be better to one another. I will be keeping this to read to my friends and family.

There are three animals that are truely monogamous in the world. The american bald eagle, Orca Whales and my wife's husband.

I give you advise that I gave my own daughter: You can tell if a male is lieing to you. his lips are moving.

So, by your own words, were you lying when you said you are monogamous?

that was VERY well put i have coppied it and put it up on my fridge

People. He is just saying if the man is a liar, he will always be a liar. If he cheats once, why wouldn't he cheat again. Quit reading so much crap into it. Its good advice. Don't think you can change a man(or woman) into something else.

My husband is a beautiful spirit, a kind, loving, funny, smart, loyal, family man who thinks cheating is so dirty and low. My husband manages a car delearship and not a week goes by that someone doesn't hit on him. Even when he's told women he's married, some persist in trying to lure him into their trap. One woman even went so far as to tell him, 'I won't tell if you don't tell' and my husband told her all he had to offer was friendship because his heart belonged to me. That's a real man! He tells me every day he loves me, he's always where he says he's going to be, he loves our grown children and our grandbaby and would never do anything to break up this precious family we've created. Wonderful men are out there, ladies... don't sell yourself short or set yourself up for a lifetime of misery with anyone who doesn't love and respect you. And, be a good partner... appreciate your man!! I clean the house and myself every day. I have a hot meal and a smile waiting for him when he gets home. I no longer work myself, and my type of wifey-ness might seem pretty 1950's, but it works... appreciate him when he goes out and works all day and he'll appreciate you back!

roland , were you born with a vagina

Jeannine, I wish there was a reply option to your post to Roland. I just want you to know the end result of a daughter being raised by her step father. On 4/17/10 my dad died after being my dad for 38 years. I flew from IL to OH to be with him in his last week of hospice care. I thanked him for being my dad when he did not have to be. I told him how much I loved him and what a great Papa he was to my young children. I told him that I could not have asked for a better dad. I held his hands, rubbed lotion on his tired arms and hands, kissed his cheeks and forehead and anything else that I could do to show my love and gratitude to him. I love my dad and will miss him beyond any words that I could express. I was 4 years old when he became my daddy. He was 83 when he died of congestive heart failure. He was always a kind man, a good man and a hard worker.

Roland, Thank you for that I will be sending it out to all my friends who need this kind of advice to finally move on with their life. God Bless You!! >^.^

Please your holiness . Waive the three miracle rule and make Sandra a Saint . The Mother Teresa of the new millenium

You need to get out more. Unfortunately, there are many married women who do not practrice monogamy. Ofen women are more discreet, but there arae lots, and lots, and lots of them. Somehow, you, and most women have concluded it is in your best interest to blame all the ills on men, thereby making you appear chaste.

I am so sick of hearing about Gods gift to all of mankind

That is one of the best comments from a man I have ever seen on these boards. You are a man among men & I applaud you.

Roland,
My husband, Robert, is in the same league as you. We have been married for 41 1/2 years. We were High School Sweethearts for two years, became engaged three weeks after graduation and married 7 months after that. We both have never been "with" anyone else - were BOTH virgins when we married. That, in itself, feels fantastic! He is wonderful to me and was and still is a great Dad and a great GrandDad to our two children and 6 Grandchildren (one of whom is in heaven)! There are some great men out there - they just may be harder to find now. I guarantee you will not find them in bars or nightclubs! The "good men" do not go there to find a mate. Try church Singles Groups, charity events, etc. And, girls AND BOYS, do NOT give away your "TREASURE" to anyone. Save yourself for the man or woman you are going to marry. You will be glad you did. I am speaking from experience. You have a right to your body - no one else does. Just say NO! I mean that for Girls and Boys, Young Men and Young Women, Older Men and Older Women - Save yourselves for your "forever mate." Yeah, it sounds "old fashioned." Remember this - You can choose to stay a Virgin - you can never go back once you give it away. And being engaged is not the time to give it away, either. Wait until the "I Do's" and your wedding night will be very special and spectacular! Humans do not have to act like dogs or cats! You have a brain! Do not let yourself get into a compromising position if you think you cannot trust yourself. Do not be completely alone anywhere. It is not easy and it is completely feasible. You CAN just say NO! NO to your selfish desires and NO to your partner's selfish desires.
I am sure I will get lots of flack for my views. Bring it on!

wow thanks I needed to hear that.

Whenever anyone buys something new, you usually get a manual or some kind of reading materiel. Why do people think that the creator of all things would not do the same thing. The Bible says "your word is a lamp to my feet a light to my roadway" The reason this world is in such a mess, and people chose to do what they think is right, is because they ignore God's Word. I'm sure you remember the scripture "What a man sows, so shall he reap"
WWJD

Tony, i hope you remember that Mrs. James is not in love with you
and you dont have any weapons lying around the house.
please seek medical help you sound a little dangerous