Mom Turns Library Scofflaw to Prevent Kids from Reading 'Gossip Girl' Series
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Tina Harden, a Florida mom, says the books on which the Gossip Girl and It Girl series are based are inappropriate for teens. Credit: Jacob Langston, Orlando Sentinel / MCT
Tina Harden's teenage daughter checked out four books from Seminole County's Northwest Branch library in Lake Mary, Fla. in 2008 -- one from the "Gossip Girl" series by Cecily von Ziegesar, and three from a spin-off series called "It Girl" -- and she turned library scofflaw rather than return the books to the shelves.
The Orlando Sentinel reports that Harden owes $85 in fines for the overdue books, which she holds hostage in a closet in her Longwood, Fla. home. The mom of three says she doesn't care about being dunned by bill collectors for the fees -- all she wants is for the library to put a warning label on the four titles in question, all of which chronicle the life of "Gossip Girl" fictional character Jenny Humphrey.
Harden is adamant that young tweens and teens not be introduced to the nefarious world of "Gossip Girl," which is also a popular TV show on the CW Television Network. The show is populated by wealthy, outrageously attractive New York teens who engage in sex, crime and, of course, gossip.
Jane Peterson, the county's library services manager, tells the Sentinel a warning label would be considered censorship. And, according to Deborah Caldwell-Stone, deputy director of the Office for Intellectual Freedom at the American Library Association, doing so would be unconstitutional.
"Somewhere in every library, there's something to offend everyone," she tells the newspaper. "You tolerate that because the library is trying to serve the needs of the community."
Harden is not the only mother who finds the series objectionable. Dixie Fechtel of Leesburg, Fla. wanted her neighborhood library to boot the books after her own 13-year-old daughter brought them home in 2009. She and another parent, Diane Vanetta, succeeded in persuading the Leesburg Public Library to label certain books "high school."
In an effort to get the books back from Harden, librarians at the Seminole County's Northwest Branch agreed to re-shelve them in the adult section, but Harden says she won't be satisfied until the books have warning labels. The curse words, drug-use references and sexual situations are just too much, she says, for young adults.
"The whole book was filled with everything I don't want my daughter to do or be," she tells the Sentinel.
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 18)
5-07-2010 @ 3:47PM
dougalcandy said...Thanks for your concern...but I WILL DECIDE WHAT MY CHILDREN CAN READ!!!!
Who appointed this woman as the moral police for the rest of us? What nerve!
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5-08-2010 @ 7:22AM
Crimsonrayne said...I dont see where an age appropriate rating/warning is censorship, music, video games and movies already do it, and there ARE books with an age stamp. We want our kids to read, but we really do need something to help us with deciding what books are OK. There are plenty of books that I have read that should have been fine for my children to read, but because there was sex thrown in, I could not give it to them to read. I had absolutely no idea when I purchased the book that this would be inside it, a simple rating would have been nice. I think that it is something authors and publishers should work out, and use.
5-08-2010 @ 8:54AM
Karra said...So glad you have 24 hours a day to monitor, LOL...
5-08-2010 @ 9:17AM
Simzee said...Is this Mother in some other reality realm? This woman is either on drugs or NEEDS to be on drugs. Parhaps she in need of a few drinks. What does she do for her children when she has to take them somwhere? Does she cover their eye? Block their hearing? This lady is a kook. Reality rules & this lady does'nt know it.
5-08-2010 @ 10:12AM
Lee said...You can be sure that her daughter will be the first one in her high school class to get pregnant or become a drinker or drug user.
5-08-2010 @ 11:35AM
pd39 said...dingalcandy - That is EXACTLY what Tina Harden is saying! Glad to see you agreeing with her.
What nerve!
5-08-2010 @ 11:58AM
ThinkingPerson said...Parents who shield their children from the ugly realities of life do them no favor. By hiding something, or pretending it doesn't exist, they deny their children the warning system they will need when they get out into the "real" world. I speak from experience as a person whose parents insisted on "sheltering" me and living as though all is an "Ozzie and Harriet" world. It's not. Grow up, woman. Read the books WITH your children, and tell them your objections to the material. THAT'S educating them, and "guiding them in the way they should go".
5-08-2010 @ 11:36AM
Dee said...I am totally disgusted by people like this woman. Maybe she read Farenheight 451 and decided the firemen were right to burn books. Or maybe Hitler was her hero. Or more likely she never read anything about them because she is a literary moron.
5-08-2010 @ 12:18PM
kenster said...Hmmm, well, nobody made her the moral police. She did it out of her own morals, thinking that most people would understand and agree with her. There are many people who agree with her. People who would not put ideas of a immoral life into a girl in a very moralistic family.
5-08-2010 @ 12:39PM
Jackie said...No no no. You missed the point. You CAN decide. But trash is everywhere, and it would be nice to have a label on the front stating where it resides. You however, can let you children read it, even with the label see. That is YOUR call.
5-08-2010 @ 12:38PM
al said...What you said is fine--but DO YOU censor anything of your daughters, or merely demand that "right"?
5-08-2010 @ 1:55PM
Harold King said...Her nerve makes her a moral judge. Your spineless acquiescence to "whatever" is why this country is sliding down the drain.
5-08-2010 @ 12:59PM
Julie said...People, she's only asking for a warning label. She's not asking to eliminate the books from the library. The comparisons to Hitler are misguided.
5-08-2010 @ 1:04PM
Kate said...I will gladly donate either these books or the money to have them replaced to this library.
When I was a young girl there was a series of VERY popular books called Sweet Valley High. Everyone in them for the most part were socialites, rich, and good looking. There was a lot of kissing, dating and almost "doing it". For about a year all I wanted to read on my free time were books from this series. My parents just rolled their eyes because they clearly could see how sappy sweet and in la la la land all of these books were. They knew because they took the time to look. But you know what? They were confident that I knew these were just stories. There is nothing wrong with a pre teen child imagining how it would be to have maids, all the best clothes, the big house, car, and lots of guys wanting to be your boyfriend. Isn't that what so many adults still do? Isn't that why some of these reality shows do so well?
As the girl's mother she does have the right to decide what she doesn't want her child to be reading. However, that ends with her child. Imagine all of the books that would go missing in the public library if this type of behavior is encouraged. How would this mother feel if for example a controversial book she needed for a college class was no longer available? She would either have to try another library or buy it. Then how would she feel if the reason why it wasn't available is because some mother decided nobody should be able to read it? Silly? I think so.
5-08-2010 @ 1:06PM
CBE said...Well what is her high moral standard when it comes to theft? AS a matter of fact if she objected to the books why did she not check the books out herself rather than get her daughter to "steal" the books. Evidently corrupting the morals of a minor is also not a problem for her. So I guess I guess two criminal offenses are ok but the books need a label. Maybe we should put a label on her as " Warning not fit for minors".
5-08-2010 @ 1:18PM
David said...I agree, who made her the moral authority over the rest of us. My daughters read these books and enjoyed them when they were younger and they have turned out just fine, thank-you.
PD39, you moron, that is NOT what this nazi is saying. She is holding the books so that NO other parent can decide if they do or do not want their children to have the opportunity to read these books.
5-08-2010 @ 6:43PM
thecross719 said...Good, then YOU buy the books and we won't have to waste tax payer dollars on trash designed to erode the scant remains of morality in our culture.
5-10-2010 @ 8:46AM
Chris said...I agree completely. This is a typical example of how too many Americans have come to expect the government (in this case the library) to step in and do their jobs as parents. I'm tired of it. She did her job...intercepted the books from her kids, made her point to them, now she should return the books, pay her fine, and SHUT UP!
5-10-2010 @ 9:07AM
Pat said...She's stealing books from the library, a wonderful example for children.
5-10-2010 @ 11:05AM
Amber said...IN RESPONSE TO "POOT"
I do agree with her not be allowed to "censor" the rest of us, but wouldn't you be just as bad for forcing her to read nothing but the constitution? Sounds a tad hypocritical don't you think??? Punishments should be stricter and I think public. People take advantage of things, and cannot seem to locate their own moral compass. Just hope I can keep mine north.