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Can I Name My Baby After the Dog?
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I am seven months pregnant with my fourth (and last) boy. The name we are strongly considering is Jasper, however, that was also the much-loved name of our much-loved dog -- my "first baby" -- who has been dead now for over five years. As we live somewhere new, no one knows it was our dog's name, only family and older friends. I love the name, he was a great dog, and I am running out of boy names! Is it OK to call my new son by this name?
-- 4BoyMom
All of you dog lovers out there, see what happens when you give up on canine classics like Spike and Buster?
In an age when so many of our dogs have their own beds and their own wardrobes and special organic doggy diets, we've gone the extra step to make them true members of the family. We've decided to give them people-styled names.
No more Spot and Fido. Today, we're following our people-based fashion sense. The top names for today's dogs are old-fashioned cuties like Max and Lucy and preppy surnames like Spencer and Bailey. So when a young adult gets a new dog, her instinct is often to leap at the chance to use one of those special favorite names she's kept tucked away for the future.
Too late, many parents realize that their "first baby" has the name they wish they'd saved for their latest baby. You know, the human one.
Some parents just go ahead and name their babies in homage to their pets. Most, though, write the name off as a loss. Even if the parents themselves are OK with cross-species name sharing, the reaction of friends and relatives makes it a no-go.
But you're right, Jasper is a heck of a name. Fashionable, but not yet overused; on trend without being trendy; cute on a toddler and reasonable on an adult. It's no surprise you're not willing to give it up. Here are some questions to ask yourself to see if you can make the dog-to-baby transition work:
Who knows that the four-legged Jasper came first? The fact that the neighbors and local friends (and future girlfriends and teachers) will never know the name's provenance is a good start. But what about your older sons? Do any of them remember the dog? Have they heard the name Jasper all their lives in a furry context, so that it might as well be Fido to them? And based on the sibling relationships they have now, are they likely to use the doggy connection to torment their little brother?
Second, what are you planning to tell young Jasper about his predecessor? You shouldn't wait until the day he asks mommy and daddy about the cool dog in all of your family photo albums, only to learn that he has more in common with this pup than he imagines. From the start, make the beloved family dog part of the story of how you chose Jasper's wonderful name. Part, but not the whole story.
Finally, does your family have a new cherished pet? If Jasper himself grows up loving a dog as a member of his family, he might just see the naming connection as a positive. To a young boy in particular, somebody like Fido -- I mean, Max or Bailey --could be a pretty cool namesake.
How do you name your pets? Share your experiences here. And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 11)
5-20-2010 @ 2:36PM
Sandra Farmer said...I don't see any thing wrong with you naming your child after your dog name.
My sister couldn't have children for a while and her dog's name was Fee Fee. When I had my first child I named my daughter after her dog . He passed away. My daughter's name is Felicia (Fee Fee)
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5-21-2010 @ 9:11PM
SheWolf said...I don't see anything wrong with it at all. As a matter of fact my son named his first son after the dog we had when he was younger. That dog was a very special part of our family. I know when my grandson is older and my son tells him all about the little dog that inspired his name he will be proud to be a part of that story and all that love. So here's to Jake....your still in our hearts and always will be!
5-21-2010 @ 9:25PM
Debra Lampen said...We were given a puppy for my son, when I was pregnant. . Unfortunately we were unable to keep the dog, but I named my son Jason, anyway. I have never regretted that decision in 40 years.
5-21-2010 @ 9:24PM
kevin said...I don't think it is too horribly bad if it is actually a persons name. But please, do not name a person fido, spot or scooby doo.
5-21-2010 @ 9:37PM
debra Lampen said...Let me clarify - we were given a dog named Jason for the baby, when I was pregnant, unable to keep the dog due to housing rules, I chose to name my baby Jason, after that wonderful dog that another friend took, and haven't regretted my decision. I love the name Jason and I love my son
5-21-2010 @ 9:50PM
lifeisfun55 said...I think I'd want to cherish the memory of a beloved pet and keep them separate from my children! Http://www.petsinfoguide.info
5-21-2010 @ 11:44PM
jipeng_114 said...many dogs have their own beds and their own wardrobes and special organic doggy diets.They have a great environment to grow ,to play ,and then to die .They are very luck.You know lots of peoples don't have their own clothes(can't think about wardrobes ) ,can't eat their fill.
I don't think there's anything wrong to name a baby after a pet's name .
5-21-2010 @ 11:31PM
me said...I agree. Name the child after the dog but don't volunteer how the name came to bei unless you are close to the person. It's a great name!
5-21-2010 @ 11:56PM
Debbe said...I agree with you 100%. I named my first son after my dear dog Scotty. I loved that dog so much. Years later when I had a son I named him Charles after his dad and Scott after my doggie! He's 42 now and still has the name and tells his close friends...."ya know my mom named me after her dog!"
5-22-2010 @ 1:04AM
Opihi said...I think that's a charming story .... and "Fee Fee" I'm sure never felt slighted. Names which take their inspiration from love or admiration or even a favorite fiction character are a great legacy to your child. And a beloved pet counts in my mind. Or course, I'd have some trouble with "Fido" .... but I'd work out a compromise.
What I do have trouble with is the hyperlink linked to each of your names on this message board. Click onto it and you'll find your "profile" ... with every comment you've ever made on ANY of AOL's comment boards.
This is pretty invasive. Particularly since none of us was informed when we wrote our FIRST comment on any of these AOL sites, that the Email we were requested to provide for "VERIFICATION" was in fact automatically linked to this unauthorized profile ... and an archives of all our comments.
"Verification" does NOT mean "set up a profile" .... not in any English Dictionary I know of. Nor does it mean " with an archives of all your comments tossed in".
AND if you posted on LemonDrop and used your real name ( No option given here either ... just a request for a "name" ) it may be picked up by Google and you' ll find that profile listed under a search for your real name. Even if you change your "display" name later ... the profile will be under that original name.
Anybody feel a little violated here??????
5-22-2010 @ 1:25AM
roger said...There is nothing wrong with using the same name for loved ones. For some reason we have the idea that dogs are to be treated with less respect than humans. Saying " you treat me like a dog" or "Kicked around like a dog". You asked for opinions and this is mind. Name your child whatever name you wish. If the name means something to you, then why not? It's not putting your child down but it's saying that your dog is a valuable family member. Plus Jasper is an awesome name. It's not unique but not OVERUSED liek the name Joe, or Richard or the like. It's a great name. But you must have reservations about it or you wouldn't have asked for outside opinions, so I think you need to visit your concerns and see if they have merit for concern in this case.
5-22-2010 @ 1:20PM
BassGuitarBoss said...This is just plain nutty. It wouldn't cross the mind of a normal-thinking-person, and if by chance it did, couldn't possibly be considered seriously.
Three older children? Pictures? Neighbors, friends and family?
Please. This is a joke, right?
6-07-2010 @ 9:03AM
Laurel said...My cousins in Sewickley , PA have a grandson and cousin named after their former dog Eric. I thought that was strange until my dogs came along and they are all named after people. Nelson Mandella, King Samuel, Winnie Mandella, Moses,Lucille Ball better known as Lucy,Winston Churchill and Mummey. It is amazing how true to their names they are... To each his own. Peace.
Looking for good forever homes for these guys and gals HELP !!!!!! epremiertravel@aol.com
5-20-2010 @ 3:09PM
Kari said...I'm sorry, I do think it's kind of weird. There will always be associations for you and your family, and I feel like your child deserves his own name. I'm pregnant too, so I know how hard the naming thing is. Can you change it a little, like Casper?
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5-21-2010 @ 8:49PM
Jaki said...Casper is a ghost! Bad choice.
5-21-2010 @ 9:37PM
claire said...The name is fine but do not do this to your baby!! Someone will always tell and no matter how many years pass, he will be made to feel odd or awful--by some mean little kid who heard from someone where the name came from. Maybe the third ot fourth but not the FIRST. Pick a name with the combination of your family name and your spouse's family name and everyone will be happy.
5-21-2010 @ 9:22PM
cpahere said...but he's a friendly ghost.
5-22-2010 @ 6:24PM
connie said...Jasper is a horrible name in the first place! I feel sorry for the poor dog for having been stuck with it,and I'll feel even sorrier for the new baby.The baby deserves a name of his own,so wise up lady,and give the kid a break!
5-20-2010 @ 3:56PM
SKL said...Eew. Then again, I had a boss who swore his mom named him after their refrigerator.
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5-21-2010 @ 3:47AM
tina said...I don't know if you know this, but Steve Irwin named his daughter Bindi after his beloved pit mix that passed shortly before she was born. I think that would put you in good company if you named your son Jasper.
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