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School's out for summer, but what about the meds? Credit: Getty Images
An e-mail went out recently stating, "The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) Camping system requires that parents fully disclose on the camper medication form all medication that their child has been taking within the last six months. If it is the intention of parents to keep their child off certain routine medication for the summer – especially during their time at camp – we require that this be disclosed as well."
Why the need for this preemptive measure? Because URJ Camps have been burned before.
Apparently, some parents of children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) have sent their kids to camp without their medication. On purpose. And without telling anyone at the camp.
The e-mail explains further: "We find that some parents of children with ADD/ADHD feel comfortable giving their children a medication break during the summer, as they believe that camp is more of a relaxed environment than school and that the need for the child to focus is reduced. At camp, children are in fact required to maintain focus at a level often higher than that during the school year. Most activities require campers to be alert, cooperative and task-oriented for much of the 24-hour day – whether on the ropes course, the bike trail, the tennis court or T'fillot (prayer). We want to ensure the children can participate fully and in a way that is safe for both them and those around them."
'Drug Holiday' practices changing
The practice of suspending ongoing medication for a select period of time is nothing new; in fact, it even has a name: Medication Vacation (or, alternately, Drug Holiday), and it's a practice that's been condoned by prescribing doctors themselves.
"In the past, doctors recommended that children take a break from ADHD medication after school, on weekends, and during the summer," states the ADHD Parents Medication Guide, prepared by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AAPAC) and the American Psychiatric Association (APA). "Now, many doctors recommend that children stay on their ADHD medication full-time to get the benefits at home and at play."
Why the change of counsel? The guide states that continuing medication outside of school is especially beneficial for teens, as it helps them make decisions about cigarette smoking, substance use and risky behavior.
"Not taking ADHD medication may put your child at risk," the guide warns. "Younger children are at risk for injuries and for having social issues when they are not taking their ADHD medication, and adolescents are more at risk for motor vehicle accidents and other risky behaviors."
'ADHD is a legitimate disability'
Louis Bordman, senior director of URJ Camps Eisner and Crane Lake, says he has unwittingly experienced campers on parent-imposed Medication Vacations. It isn't until he and other staff members notice a pattern of unusually disruptive behavior that they begin to suspect the child's parents have acted disingenuously.
"When there is some type of behavioral challenge or a child gets overly frustrated it causes us to work with the child more closely and investigate more closely," he tells ParentDish. "In some cases, we find that the child doesn't have these frustrations and challenges during the school year and (we think) 'Well, that's odd' and then we find out the reason the child doesn't have those particular challenges at school is because the child may take a particular medication."
According to Bordman, URJ's anti-Medication Vacation stance has been around for a number of years.
"I think there was a myth that campers needed different skills to succeed in camp than they need in school," he says. "But truth be told, they need many of the same levels of interaction and concentration to navigate through the social environment and the schedule of a camp routine."
Child psychiatrist Dr. Larry B. Silver, a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown University Medical Center with more than 30 years of practice and research under his belt, tells ParentDish in a phone interview that he doesn't agree with the practice of drug holidays.
"To me, it's parallel to having a kid that's very nearsighted and not sending him to school with glasses," he says. "ADHD is a legitimate disability. ... If the medication is working and the child needs it, why set the kid up for failure by taking them off the medication?"
Silver says parents who talk about taking breaks usually have not been educated about what the medicine is and how it works.
"They're afraid the medicine is causing harm so they want to get off it whenever possible, rather than seeing it as a positive," he says. "We've been using these medications for over 60 years. They're very safe, they're very effective. For many kids it makes quite a difference in their ability to function in school and among peers."
Parents have their reasons
However, the reasons parents might want to give their kids a drug holiday are both varied and well-founded.
"Some children and teens have difficulty tolerating common side effects of ADHD medication," Dr. Stephen Grcevich, a child and adolescent psychiatrist in Cleveland, tells ParentDish in an e-mail. "Physicians may recommend that parents stop medication for children who struggle to gain weight during the school year. Many tweens and teens complain that they don't feel 'like myself' on ADHD medication. Friends complain that they're too serious on medication. Some kids with anxiety disorders co-occurring with ADHD may become more angry, irritable or emotional on medication."
Then there's the cost of medication.
"During the current economic downturn, families with less expensive health plans often face considerable out-of-pocket expenses for the most commonly prescribed ADHD medications," says Grcevich, president and founder of Family Center by the Falls. "They'll find the money for medication essential to their child's success in school but try to save by skipping weekends and the summer months."
Bordman says he and his camp staff certainly won't (and can't) force parents to comply with their policy, but he does try to explain his side of the story.
"Certainly, I'm not a fan of medicating kids, but when medications work, they help children to thrive," he says. "We need for the campers -- and the campers need for themselves -- to still be able to operate as though they were medicated.
"They're expecting someone other than the parent to be prepared for a child coming that needs to be on medication. And that really creates challenges," he says. "But the greatest challenge is for the child. When the child acts out, their friends don't want to hang out with them and they feel uncomfortable and they beat themselves up (saying), 'Why did I behave that way?' and 'I'm always in trouble.' The parents have taken them off and thrown them right into an extremely intense social environment with rules and guidelines and structure that they need to be able to observe and embrace. And that's a challenge for those kids."
The absence of medication is what "ultimately creates the negative attention," Bordman says. "Then the poor kid absorbs that and then is blamed for his or her behavior, but no, the parents or the physician should be blamed because they're not giving them the help they truly need."
If the parents are adamant, Bordman will make an exception but makes absolutely clear "if there are any challenges, they're going to need to put the child right back on medication."
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6-03-2010 @ 10:00AM
jennifer said...Too bad they didn't do anything to fix your arrogance and ignorance.
6-03-2010 @ 10:05AM
Billie said...I am with the others when they say it is not just a behavioral issue with ADHD. My son is 7 and without the medication I can tell him to go throw something away and he will forget what he is doing on the way to the trash can because he gets distracted by something else in between here and there. His teacher watched him for two weeks while he was supposed to be working on his own during school and she counted that he got off track an average of 27 times in 10 minutes. That is once every 22 seconds! Other than his lack of focus, he has no behavioral issues or social issues for that matter. He is only on medication to help him focus on what he is supposed to be focusing on. Nothing to do with lack of parenting, thank you very much!
6-03-2010 @ 10:17AM
Nan E. Puckett said...My dad had a very effective cure for 'out-of-control' behavior...it was called a belt! It never failed to end the problems, once & for all...now before all of you get worked into a huff, imagine what it w/be like today if teachers AND parents had ANY control over the kids---everyone would benefit, especially the kids. Why? Because parameters & boundaries provide safety & security; all children WANT such but few get the reassurance they crave. The few kids I've known who're medicated for ADHD are usually bright, inquisitive & need challenging activity, something few classrooms OR HOMES, I must say, promote...frankly, just the threat of corporal punishment would do a world of good, but of course, that ain't happening....too bad for the kids...
6-03-2010 @ 10:38AM
pissed off said..."ADHD is just an excuse for parents to drug their kids because they don't want to deal with them. All parents should stop feeding their children Ritalin and start just being parents. FYI I was diagnosed with ADHD and I was prescribed Ritalin when I was a child."
You got a lot of nerve! It is a real deal and people have found out what can cause it too! The two I know of is something to do with pesticides, and the other is umbilical cord problems. I have this disease, now why don't you do the whole world a favor and take a hike!
6-03-2010 @ 11:16AM
kaj said...Actually, if you compare the Alpha and Beta waves of a child with ADD/ADHD, to ones without, you will notice a marked difference. That is one of the reasons Biofeedback works well. But I do agree that meds are being abused too. Medication can help make kids trainable, but they don't take the place of good old fashioned home training. Unfortunately, what no one has pointed out, is that ADD/ADHD, is a subjective disorder. It's symptoms can be as various as the individuals that are inflicted, and so goes the side effects of the medicine used to treat it. As for the medication not building up, that's crap propiganda. Just like any Methemphetemine, the body will build up a tolerance, and require more to do the job. Ask any coke head. I speak from experience. I was diagnosed ADHD in 1981, when Ritalin was still experimental lol. I also have 3 boys, two of whom suffer from ADHD, the oldest being 17.
6-03-2010 @ 7:35AM
Mike said...My son takes Ritalin for Autism Spectrum Disorder and while we do take "holidays" on weekends we would never send him to a camp without it. He has been gaining weight since we started to do this but we have been able to reduce his normal dose from 15mg to 10mg every four hours by putting him on the Gluten free diet. We really believe that certain foods have dramatic effects on his behavior. The long term effect on children taking these medications are unknown. Remember electro shock therapy was a normal treatment years ago.
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6-03-2010 @ 7:40AM
aprilnmarcus said...My child has ADHD. When she doesn't have her medicine then it's hard to do anything with her at home as well. She has lost weight but she's at a very good weight range. Without it she bounces off the walls at home, hard to talk straight with her or get her to listen and understand what I'm saying. And when she's not on it at school then they notice cuz they can't do anything with her. But when she's on it at home then she is a complete turn around. Sometimes I think it makes her too serious but I know it's for her own good. I figured out that I think it's because us ADHD parents are so used to having them so hyperactive that when they are on medicine and being relaxed that it's frightening but in reality they are fine. And when she's on it then the teachers are able to enjoy her at school. Only time she's ever off is when we are waiting on her prescription to get to the pharmacy so we can pick it up. Usually a day or two but now we get the medicine for 30 days and what we use is working so I'm confident if I keep her on it and keep working with her that she'll be fine. It's gonna be summer vacay so I can work with her by taking her outside myself to play with other kids when she may be feeling 'too' relaxed.
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6-03-2010 @ 7:41AM
Sheryl Banak said...While this does happen, it is not true for everyone. Some kids (and adults) really do need the medications; but, therapy for the child and parents is a must, not just the meds.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:03AM
ammoman7811 said...90% of kids that are diagnosed with ADHD are just brats and this diagnosis give the parents an excuse for their kid. That way they aren't bad parents, they just have a child with a disorder.
Having said that, our Boy Scout Troop had a boy come to camp two summers ago whose parents tookhim off his meds without telling anyone. He was a holy terror and ruined the camp for the rest of the troop. Then , when the truth came out, the parents couldn't understand why everyone was upset with them. Afterall, they had to put up with their kid all year long. What was the big deal about one week at camp. Go figure.
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6-03-2010 @ 7:44AM
Sheryl Banak said...My comment about meds & therapy wasin reply to Sam,but, even though I used the reply button in hismessage, my reply did not show it was to that message
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6-03-2010 @ 7:48AM
Sheryl Banak said...To Mike: elecroconvulsive (ECT) therapy IS used today, more than you may realize. It is less barbaric than in the distant past. It is a beneficial treatment for some people.
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6-03-2010 @ 8:02AM
Steve Brown said...I have a (now 27 year old) son with ADD (non-hyperactive), who has taken meds since he was 8. We always tried to give him time off his meds so he could "feel normal" as he likes to put it. He took Stratera for a few years (as an adult), which is a norepenephrine inhibitor and must be taken daily over time, but went back to Ritalin so he can be med-free during weekends and vacations from work.
His physician recommends going drug-free when the situation warrants it.
People make way too big a deal about this. There is no "one size fits all" solution to most any "syndrome". Taylor the medication to the individual patient's needs, not the patient to the medication.
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6-03-2010 @ 8:46AM
carrie said...Amen steve that was a perfect way of putting it." taylor to fit the kids" You know what your child needs. As for adults i know some have got back on there meds and its doing wonders for them through there job performance.I just took my son off his meds. he went from skipping a grade and stright a to going wright back to ese.Not being able to complete a simple task, having to be reframed because he wants to jump off chairs being kicked off the bus. We put him back on and with in a week they put him back into his classroom were back to having A's and no problems. but we also have therpy and lots of outside time, and board games to help him. As parents just because we put our kids on meds don't mean we take the easy way out. There is alot of other extra work that goes along with it. Thank You Steve because that comment was a good way to explain how to deal with anybody going through what we all go through. To ignore the situation would to selfish and lazy. I will keep praying for a cure. Amen
6-03-2010 @ 12:48PM
Dave Vermillion said...I am a 72 year old male who was recently (finally -yes!) diagnosed as ADD. I have never been hyperactive. I want to say that the one comment that is most on the mark is Steve Brown's.
I have a grandson who is significantly ADHD and I would NEVER send this young guy anywhere alone without his meds without a parent or knowing caregiver present.
There is hope, by the way. I have had a good life but could have been better if I knew why nobody liked me!
6-03-2010 @ 8:09AM
Val said...I have to wonder why there are so many kids diagnosed with ADD or ADHD these days. Back in the early 60's when I was in grade school there weren't any cases like this. What has changed so much? I know - food additives, carbohydrate and sugar rich diets, environmental toxins, and some well meaning people who turn bad behavior into a syndrome where drugs are the cure. If these camps are also altering the childrens diet to something with less carbs and sugar it would be interesting to see how the kids do without medication. Also, meds could cumulative long term effects on a childs body so taking a break isn't a bad thing. Of course the pharmaceutical companies will never admit to that. And yes - we had a child in our family with this diagnosis and once sugar and carbs were replaced by healthier food and better discipline miraculously the problem disappeared.
There was no quick fix.
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6-03-2010 @ 8:17AM
melandee said...I am a therapist, and work with families and children who have ADHD as well as other difficulties. I do understand the thought by some that ADHD is or has been over diagnosed and I do know that it is possible persons have been diagnosed ADHD as an error; however, I am very careful with this diagnosis and considering the family itself and talking with others not just mom or dad before making this call. I also look at the Childs grades and his or her behavior issues at home and school or other social situations. In looking at a combination of factors and not just going on what one person says then your considering the individual in more than one environment, which is the proper thing to do anyway.
A child who truly has ADHD will have difficulties and symptoms in more than one environment. A child who truly has ADHD with medication can be successful at school academically and socially when they have struggled and failed before. There are several medications now for ADHD although it is frustrating sometimes trying to find the one that works the best with the least side effects there are choices and effects such as reduced appetite might do better with a change to another medication that will allow for better appetite.
My nephew truly has ADHD and was diagnosed by his doctor 8 years ago he is now in high school and does take concerta. Once his behaviors were under control and he began medications, his grades improved as well as his ability to function in social situations. My sister is NOT just medicating her son. My sister has NOT just looked for an excuse to medicate this child he was miserable at school hated going there or anywhere else, that required his attention and ability to sit quietly. Medication alone is not the answer by no means for everything, through therapy, coping skills, impulse control and sometimes modifications to schoolwork a child such as my nephew can feel successful. The goals being teach skills to use and hope that medication is not always necessary.
My nephew still misbehaves and is in trouble due to his lack of impulse control and hyperactivity even as a 10th grader if he misses his medications. As a teen, this leads to him avoiding some social situations and I do not agree with his medication vacations because of this.
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6-03-2010 @ 8:29AM
SlowCode said...My ex-wife keeps both of ours off their meds any time they're not in school. I stay on the routine as prescribed. Then she wonders why her home is like a zoo, and the kids are so well-behaved at my place. I try to explain this to her but she doesn't get it.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:19AM
tamarabrit said...I took my sons off of their medication during weekends and summer break. My philosophy was that eventually my sons would have to learn how to handle their ADHD on their own and taking medication with multiple side effects for the rest of their lives was not something I wanted them to be burdened with. Granted, both my boys did not have a severe ADHD diagnosis and the medication was to help them stay focused in school. One of my boys would experience loss of appetite and sleeplessness so it was in his best interest to give him a break. Now as teens neither one of them take their medication and haven't for several years. They are able to make decisions as to how to best stay focused. We lived in Europe for a number of years and they don't medicate their children; they give them coffee, which has the opposite effect in children with ADHD/ADD. I tried it on my very active ADHD son because I was unable to find a doctor willing to prescribe the Ritalin, and it worked. One cup in the morning and he was good to go. Most schools have a coffee bar in the school and will serve coffee throughout the day. Just something to think about...
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6-03-2010 @ 8:38AM
Nelle said...My 13 yo son has been diagnosed with adhd and depression. Our camp simply will NOT accept him if he's not on medications; he's off the walls when he skips a day or two (he hates the medication), and his behavior reflects that he hasn't taken it for a couple/three days. It's like seeing a big white spot in an ocean of blue. So, no drug holidays in our family. Besides, in a camp setting, a kid like that can mess up a bunk which would otherwise be a great group of kids, be split. And how fair is it for this kid to get dumped on a 17-18 yo counselor who has NO clue how to handle this? It makes for a lousy summer for all.
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6-03-2010 @ 8:41AM
Christina said...As a parent of a child diagnosed with adhd, and prescribed medication for impulsivity, I can understand both sides of the argument..However, our pediatrician did not prescribe medication over the summer..I think it was a good time for his body to rest, his appetite to increase, and him to be free of the drug..He did his most growing over the summer..sometimes children learn to self monitor their behavior without relying on the medication.. We did not have the option of medicating him over the summer and he has since outgrown the need for the medication.
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