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An e-mail went out recently stating, "The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) Camping system requires that parents fully disclose on the camper medication form all medication that their child has been taking within the last six months. If it is the intention of parents to keep their child off certain routine medication for the summer – especially during their time at camp – we require that this be disclosed as well."
Why the need for this preemptive measure? Because URJ Camps have been burned before.
Apparently, some parents of children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) have sent their kids to camp without their medication. On purpose. And without telling anyone at the camp.
The e-mail explains further: "We find that some parents of children with ADD/ADHD feel comfortable giving their children a medication break during the summer, as they believe that camp is more of a relaxed environment than school and that the need for the child to focus is reduced. At camp, children are in fact required to maintain focus at a level often higher than that during the school year. Most activities require campers to be alert, cooperative and task-oriented for much of the 24-hour day – whether on the ropes course, the bike trail, the tennis court or T'fillot (prayer). We want to ensure the children can participate fully and in a way that is safe for both them and those around them."
'Drug Holiday' practices changing
The practice of suspending ongoing medication for a select period of time is nothing new; in fact, it even has a name: Medication Vacation (or, alternately, Drug Holiday), and it's a practice that's been condoned by prescribing doctors themselves.
"In the past, doctors recommended that children take a break from ADHD medication after school, on weekends, and during the summer," states the ADHD Parents Medication Guide, prepared by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AAPAC) and the American Psychiatric Association (APA). "Now, many doctors recommend that children stay on their ADHD medication full-time to get the benefits at home and at play."
Why the change of counsel? The guide states that continuing medication outside of school is especially beneficial for teens, as it helps them make decisions about cigarette smoking, substance use and risky behavior.
"Not taking ADHD medication may put your child at risk," the guide warns. "Younger children are at risk for injuries and for having social issues when they are not taking their ADHD medication, and adolescents are more at risk for motor vehicle accidents and other risky behaviors."
'ADHD is a legitimate disability'
Louis Bordman, senior director of URJ Camps Eisner and Crane Lake, says he has unwittingly experienced campers on parent-imposed Medication Vacations. It isn't until he and other staff members notice a pattern of unusually disruptive behavior that they begin to suspect the child's parents have acted disingenuously.
"When there is some type of behavioral challenge or a child gets overly frustrated it causes us to work with the child more closely and investigate more closely," he tells ParentDish. "In some cases, we find that the child doesn't have these frustrations and challenges during the school year and (we think) 'Well, that's odd' and then we find out the reason the child doesn't have those particular challenges at school is because the child may take a particular medication."
According to Bordman, URJ's anti-Medication Vacation stance has been around for a number of years.
"I think there was a myth that campers needed different skills to succeed in camp than they need in school," he says. "But truth be told, they need many of the same levels of interaction and concentration to navigate through the social environment and the schedule of a camp routine."
Child psychiatrist Dr. Larry B. Silver, a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown University Medical Center with more than 30 years of practice and research under his belt, tells ParentDish in a phone interview that he doesn't agree with the practice of drug holidays.
"To me, it's parallel to having a kid that's very nearsighted and not sending him to school with glasses," he says. "ADHD is a legitimate disability. ... If the medication is working and the child needs it, why set the kid up for failure by taking them off the medication?"
Silver says parents who talk about taking breaks usually have not been educated about what the medicine is and how it works.
"They're afraid the medicine is causing harm so they want to get off it whenever possible, rather than seeing it as a positive," he says. "We've been using these medications for over 60 years. They're very safe, they're very effective. For many kids it makes quite a difference in their ability to function in school and among peers."
Parents have their reasons
However, the reasons parents might want to give their kids a drug holiday are both varied and well-founded.
"Some children and teens have difficulty tolerating common side effects of ADHD medication," Dr. Stephen Grcevich, a child and adolescent psychiatrist in Cleveland, tells ParentDish in an e-mail. "Physicians may recommend that parents stop medication for children who struggle to gain weight during the school year. Many tweens and teens complain that they don't feel 'like myself' on ADHD medication. Friends complain that they're too serious on medication. Some kids with anxiety disorders co-occurring with ADHD may become more angry, irritable or emotional on medication."
Then there's the cost of medication.
"During the current economic downturn, families with less expensive health plans often face considerable out-of-pocket expenses for the most commonly prescribed ADHD medications," says Grcevich, president and founder of Family Center by the Falls. "They'll find the money for medication essential to their child's success in school but try to save by skipping weekends and the summer months."
Bordman says he and his camp staff certainly won't (and can't) force parents to comply with their policy, but he does try to explain his side of the story.
"Certainly, I'm not a fan of medicating kids, but when medications work, they help children to thrive," he says. "We need for the campers -- and the campers need for themselves -- to still be able to operate as though they were medicated.
"They're expecting someone other than the parent to be prepared for a child coming that needs to be on medication. And that really creates challenges," he says. "But the greatest challenge is for the child. When the child acts out, their friends don't want to hang out with them and they feel uncomfortable and they beat themselves up (saying), 'Why did I behave that way?' and 'I'm always in trouble.' The parents have taken them off and thrown them right into an extremely intense social environment with rules and guidelines and structure that they need to be able to observe and embrace. And that's a challenge for those kids."
The absence of medication is what "ultimately creates the negative attention," Bordman says. "Then the poor kid absorbs that and then is blamed for his or her behavior, but no, the parents or the physician should be blamed because they're not giving them the help they truly need."
If the parents are adamant, Bordman will make an exception but makes absolutely clear "if there are any challenges, they're going to need to put the child right back on medication."
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ReaderComments (Page 3 of 5)
6-03-2010 @ 8:42AM
Dharma said...i know this may seem like an odd to almost unbelievable issue .. no meds all of the time and people get use to having children that have needs and are treated that way.
i know of so many kids who were forced to take this stuff.. and given so many different types of diagnosis and they made those children unable to think or be in social settings...
insanity isnt in the kid its in the manipulating adults that need what they think is peace and quiet. you have a kid deal with it..
and yes we have two children like this... deal with it.. dont rob them of their natural selves. they will move away from what is bothering you.. provide education they can learn from.
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6-03-2010 @ 6:01PM
Ann said...If ADHD meds robbed my son of himself, I would not give them to him. If the all they did was was make him quiet, I would not give them to him. Thankfully, the med my son takes does not work that way at all.
Before the medicine I had a brilliant child who was trapped in a cycle of defensiveness, frustrations and lashing out. With the medication, I have a brilliant child who thrives in the freedom to express himself in ways there were blocked to him before. I can't tell you what a joy it is to have my son back.
We do not rely solely on pills, but I know that they are an important part of helping his brain function at it's best capacity.
6-03-2010 @ 8:46AM
Jennifer said...For those parents looking for a non-medical approach for ADHD learning and therapy, please take a look at brainbalancecenters dot com . This program focuses on repairing the functional disconnect in the way the two sides of the brain communicate. They do a lot of work with ADHD kids and are getting great results!
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6-03-2010 @ 9:23AM
me said...First of all, the doctors nowadays don't give a crap about people, they are just out for the money...so of course they're gonna tell you not to take your child off his meds.Second, I have ADHD and when I was younger they wanted to put me on meds like that and my mom told the doctors that she wanted a child, not a zombie... she then told the teachers who were complaining that if she could handle me at home then they could handle me at school, they started giving me extra things to do and everything worked out fine. These drugs are not safe.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:28AM
John Henry said...Its amazing to me that adults don't allow kids to be kids. All kids have thier on special gift for life " every kid can't play basketball, football, tennis, soccer and guess what GO TO CAMP. Just be a good parent to your kids. Don't expect them to be someone else.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:35AM
cindy said...It is easy for people who have not experienced ADHD for themselves, either personally or a loved one suffering from it, to make harsh judgements. As a female, going through public school in the 60's-
before anyone knew about ADHD, I can tell you that I struggled and suffered. I was blessed with some caring adults in my life that had the patience to deal with my lack of focus, impulsivity, risky dangerous behaviors and the difficulty with social skills. People who are ignorant about this disorder need to look into our prison system.
Many inmates, who did not have supportive influences while growing up, were labeled bad, stupid, selfish and grew up with that horrendous self esteem. It is an insidious disorder, no clear obvious symptoms as with diabetes, for instance, but can be just as life threatening when people try to control it themselves. unknowingly, people with ADHD often turn to alcohol to calm the wild uncontrollable thoughts and feelings, adding to the problem.
I am also a therapist, working with children and their families, who are dealing with these disorders. I have deep compassion, having lived through it myself, and am now thankful to be able to have medication to help me function in my life and to use my experience to help and understand others. Obviously we do not have all the answers, yet, but moving in some good direction. I am so tired of hearing ignorant people saying "When I was a kid- no one took meds ,and no one had ADHD and we were all just fine". The truth is-- we were NOT all just fine. Many of us suffered. Those ignorant folks will be the first ones to remember, and make fun of, 'the stupid kid who always got in trouble'. Well maybe 'the stupid kid' was really brilliant and suffering from uncontrollable ADHD. Come on people- learn the facts before you judge.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:34AM
Kim said...Taking kids off medication is not something I would recommend, because children still need to have control over their behavior and be able to cope in social settings. For parents who put their children in summer camps they still want to make sure their child enjoys their camp experience. If kids are taking medication during the school year to control the behavior, and decrease the chances of acting out, then why wouldn't it be appropriate at a summer camp? The children are still in the company of peers and adults, so they still need their medication, if that is what helps them to function, thrive, stay focused, but also have fun.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:44AM
CeeC said...AD/HD, isn't that the name for a child who has likes to get up out of and go to the bathroom more often than is allowed? I guess if I had been born in the this day and age my "C" in self control could have diagnosised me in this 'modern disease'.
Personally I think half the kids that are on these drugs are only on them because they were inquisitive, happy kids who just couldn't sit all day long in the classroom. Kids are naturally bouncy they feel unnatural sitting in desks for long periods of time, these drugs turn them into zombies.. with apparently no appetite.
Really is this the way to treat our children? start them on drugs early so they can continue to be addicts as adults? The "state is mother, the state is father "to gain control over the population just get them hooked on drugs and then threaten to take them away.
The future sure looks bleak!
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6-03-2010 @ 7:39PM
Ann said...I remember when I use to think exactly the same way. For my son's sake, I'm glad that I learned better.
6-03-2010 @ 2:08PM
Lori said...Heck yah parents need to disclose that! If I know a kid has ADHD you & the child are better off warning me so I can find someone w/ more patience to deal w/ him 'cause I know MY limits!
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6-03-2010 @ 9:46AM
jcc1 said...all Drs that prescribe mind altering drugs, that were NEVER APPROVED or TESTED on CHILDREN, should be thrown in jail ...these types of drugs as well as anti depressents & allergy meds weren't tested on children to get approved & only received rubber stamps from FDA yrs after Drs illegally gave children these drugs & nobody complained/stopped them
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6-03-2010 @ 9:55AM
jcc1 said...the medical racket going on in this country has killed, tortured more people than Hitler & Stalin combined ...this last ditch effiort (universal healthcare) to save their corrupt/evil & BANKRUPT system will only last a few short yrs before it implodes
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6-03-2010 @ 9:55AM
Mariah said...Two of my cousins are ADHD and they get summer breaks in their medication, as well as long school holidays such as thanksgiving and christmas. Because there is an appetite suppressant in the medication they take, both of them, especially the boy look sick and gaunt by the end of the school year. They gain a lot of weight during the summer and they look healthy again by the next school year, I can't even imagine what they'd look like if they were on the medication ALL year. I think that if a child is severely ADD/ADHD, then maybe their medication could just be cut back a little bit, and not give them the full dose.
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6-03-2010 @ 9:55AM
jcc1 said...your Drs pump your children with 30-50 VACCINES by age 7 that ruin their immune /nervous systems, you give them cell phones, video games , junk food & the idiocy of most public schools & you wonder why they can't focus &/or too hyper? (too hyper cause they aren't getting enough exercise & cranking too much sugar/caffeine/dyes more often than not) ...God help you fools giving your children these drugs & ignoring reality ...they don't need to be sedated to make these slacker teachers lives better, nor your own ...why? all so you can dump 200k into MORE education most of them don't need ....wake up people
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6-03-2010 @ 9:57AM
Kirsten said...Once again parents selfishly think only of their own children's needs and send out of control kids off to ruin camp for the other children. If your child is that out of control let them have a "drug holiday" at home with you, don't foist off a child with behavioral problems on a summer camp. That's a holiday for you, not for the kid and definitely not for the rest of the campers who behave properly.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:08AM
jennifer said...Yeah. Like those parents who are more concerned about their proper, perfect kids' fun, and not the legitimate medical needs of other kids. I hate selfish parents.
6-03-2010 @ 10:12AM
Wendy said...I am a high school chemistry teacher and my oldest child (who is now 16) has ADD. He was diagnosed when he was in the fourth grade. I had noticed in 3rd grade that he could divide in math class, but he could not pass a timed multiplication test...Also, he would spend two hours doing 20 minutes worth of homework and that was with both parents hovering over him, telling him to "focus". Dad would yell, child would cry, mom would have to leave the room.
I was resistant to the idea of administering drugs to treat my child's problem. However, the pediatrician assured me that if this was truly ADD we would see "miracle" type results and we DID! (His reading level increase by four grades!)
For those of you who are critical of prescribing drugs, I recommend that you do your own research. There have been studies on the brain, scans before medication and after medication. This, when properly diagnosed, is a real medical issue. And as someone mentioned earlier, you wouldn't withhold insulin from a diabetic, so why in the world would you put your ADD, ADHD child on a "vacation" from their medicine. There are many types of medicine and if one doesn't work keep trying. Work closely with your doctor.
From the very first day on medication we could tell a difference even in how he could carry on a conversation. It was more focused.
It took a while to diagnose him because he doesn't necessarily display hyperactive trends.One teacher told me that he could stare at a pencil for two hours. He is the type of child who could make decent grades and not disrupt the class. These kids are often the ones who "fall through the cracks" because they appear to be so passive. In reality, their minds are running "90 to nothing".
Now that he is sixteen, and driving, it is more important than ever that he take his medication. It allows him to focus on driving. Aren't you glad that I don't let him drive "unmedicated" or take a vacation on the weekends or summer from his meds??
The thing is that if you truly have a child with ADD/ADHD and spend a little time researching their particular disorder, you will realize that their medicine helps them be "more normal". Even my sixteen year old's best friends remind him to take his medicine because they know how much better he is when he takes it.
Oh yeah, standardized test scores went through the roof when we started the medicine for ADD and he is an honors student who is studying sports medicine/athletic training.
One book that has tremendously influenced my philosophy on this is called "Healing ADD- The Breakthrough Program That Allows Your to See and Heal the 6 Types of ADD" written by Daniel G. Amen, M.D. If you haven't done your own research, I highly recommend this book. If you are one of those persons who requires scientific proof, then this book is one you should definitely read. I had to buy a second copy because I gave my first one to a parent of one of my students.
I hope this helps those of you who are wavering and confused as to best help your child. Please work closely with a professional. Seek support from others. Always love and support your child.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:39AM
Tara said...Well said!!!! Take it from a teacher that works with ADD/ADHD kids all day long and has a kid with it as well!! You don't know what it is like to have a kid with this disease until you have experienced it yourself......Don't judge us until you have walked in our shoes!!!
Thank God for teachers like you!!! God Bless!!!
6-03-2010 @ 10:13AM
Kirsten said...Ah, the tyranny of the minority. Gotta love it.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:14AM
Miriam said...I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 7 years old, and my doctor had me put on a "medication vacation" over the summers. I was also at a sleepaway camp, and I can recall being absolutely miserable when I wasn't on my medication. I didn't feel like myself, I knew I was more impulsive and I liked being able to concentrate better. I was also aware that I was alienating myself because of my behavior, and I didn't have many friends. I even wrote letters home, saying "please send my medicine- I don't like how I am." After two years of this, my parents and doctor agreed that a medication vacation wasn't in my best interest, and I was a much happier camper (cliche intended).
I don't have children yet, but when I do, if they have ADHD, they will not have medication vacations.
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