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School's out for summer, but what about the meds? Credit: Getty Images
An e-mail went out recently stating, "The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) Camping system requires that parents fully disclose on the camper medication form all medication that their child has been taking within the last six months. If it is the intention of parents to keep their child off certain routine medication for the summer – especially during their time at camp – we require that this be disclosed as well."
Why the need for this preemptive measure? Because URJ Camps have been burned before.
Apparently, some parents of children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) have sent their kids to camp without their medication. On purpose. And without telling anyone at the camp.
The e-mail explains further: "We find that some parents of children with ADD/ADHD feel comfortable giving their children a medication break during the summer, as they believe that camp is more of a relaxed environment than school and that the need for the child to focus is reduced. At camp, children are in fact required to maintain focus at a level often higher than that during the school year. Most activities require campers to be alert, cooperative and task-oriented for much of the 24-hour day – whether on the ropes course, the bike trail, the tennis court or T'fillot (prayer). We want to ensure the children can participate fully and in a way that is safe for both them and those around them."
'Drug Holiday' practices changing
The practice of suspending ongoing medication for a select period of time is nothing new; in fact, it even has a name: Medication Vacation (or, alternately, Drug Holiday), and it's a practice that's been condoned by prescribing doctors themselves.
"In the past, doctors recommended that children take a break from ADHD medication after school, on weekends, and during the summer," states the ADHD Parents Medication Guide, prepared by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AAPAC) and the American Psychiatric Association (APA). "Now, many doctors recommend that children stay on their ADHD medication full-time to get the benefits at home and at play."
Why the change of counsel? The guide states that continuing medication outside of school is especially beneficial for teens, as it helps them make decisions about cigarette smoking, substance use and risky behavior.
"Not taking ADHD medication may put your child at risk," the guide warns. "Younger children are at risk for injuries and for having social issues when they are not taking their ADHD medication, and adolescents are more at risk for motor vehicle accidents and other risky behaviors."
'ADHD is a legitimate disability'
Louis Bordman, senior director of URJ Camps Eisner and Crane Lake, says he has unwittingly experienced campers on parent-imposed Medication Vacations. It isn't until he and other staff members notice a pattern of unusually disruptive behavior that they begin to suspect the child's parents have acted disingenuously.
"When there is some type of behavioral challenge or a child gets overly frustrated it causes us to work with the child more closely and investigate more closely," he tells ParentDish. "In some cases, we find that the child doesn't have these frustrations and challenges during the school year and (we think) 'Well, that's odd' and then we find out the reason the child doesn't have those particular challenges at school is because the child may take a particular medication."
According to Bordman, URJ's anti-Medication Vacation stance has been around for a number of years.
"I think there was a myth that campers needed different skills to succeed in camp than they need in school," he says. "But truth be told, they need many of the same levels of interaction and concentration to navigate through the social environment and the schedule of a camp routine."
Child psychiatrist Dr. Larry B. Silver, a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown University Medical Center with more than 30 years of practice and research under his belt, tells ParentDish in a phone interview that he doesn't agree with the practice of drug holidays.
"To me, it's parallel to having a kid that's very nearsighted and not sending him to school with glasses," he says. "ADHD is a legitimate disability. ... If the medication is working and the child needs it, why set the kid up for failure by taking them off the medication?"
Silver says parents who talk about taking breaks usually have not been educated about what the medicine is and how it works.
"They're afraid the medicine is causing harm so they want to get off it whenever possible, rather than seeing it as a positive," he says. "We've been using these medications for over 60 years. They're very safe, they're very effective. For many kids it makes quite a difference in their ability to function in school and among peers."
Parents have their reasons
However, the reasons parents might want to give their kids a drug holiday are both varied and well-founded.
"Some children and teens have difficulty tolerating common side effects of ADHD medication," Dr. Stephen Grcevich, a child and adolescent psychiatrist in Cleveland, tells ParentDish in an e-mail. "Physicians may recommend that parents stop medication for children who struggle to gain weight during the school year. Many tweens and teens complain that they don't feel 'like myself' on ADHD medication. Friends complain that they're too serious on medication. Some kids with anxiety disorders co-occurring with ADHD may become more angry, irritable or emotional on medication."
Then there's the cost of medication.
"During the current economic downturn, families with less expensive health plans often face considerable out-of-pocket expenses for the most commonly prescribed ADHD medications," says Grcevich, president and founder of Family Center by the Falls. "They'll find the money for medication essential to their child's success in school but try to save by skipping weekends and the summer months."
Bordman says he and his camp staff certainly won't (and can't) force parents to comply with their policy, but he does try to explain his side of the story.
"Certainly, I'm not a fan of medicating kids, but when medications work, they help children to thrive," he says. "We need for the campers -- and the campers need for themselves -- to still be able to operate as though they were medicated.
"They're expecting someone other than the parent to be prepared for a child coming that needs to be on medication. And that really creates challenges," he says. "But the greatest challenge is for the child. When the child acts out, their friends don't want to hang out with them and they feel uncomfortable and they beat themselves up (saying), 'Why did I behave that way?' and 'I'm always in trouble.' The parents have taken them off and thrown them right into an extremely intense social environment with rules and guidelines and structure that they need to be able to observe and embrace. And that's a challenge for those kids."
The absence of medication is what "ultimately creates the negative attention," Bordman says. "Then the poor kid absorbs that and then is blamed for his or her behavior, but no, the parents or the physician should be blamed because they're not giving them the help they truly need."
If the parents are adamant, Bordman will make an exception but makes absolutely clear "if there are any challenges, they're going to need to put the child right back on medication."
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ReaderComments (Page 4 of 5)
6-03-2010 @ 10:29AM
j said...Any person who things drugging there kids is the answer is nuts
true some kids need it but most cases are so there teachers can sit back and relax there parents dont have to put so much effort in rasing there kids while the kid is drugged up of course he is gonna act good and no outbursts but you are preventing the child to be himself
PS. A kid is supposed to make trouble if he does not there is something wrong
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6-03-2010 @ 4:46PM
sunny said...Yet more evidence that the "medication" is more for the lazy parents' convenience, not really needed byt the child.
I would LOVE it if people could take a "vacation" from their medications.
let's see.....diabetics could stop taking their insulin for 5 or 6 weeks. High blood pressure medicine? Just take a break from it. No problem. Heart disease? Oh, just stop all your meds for a while.
Oh and all the pesky chemotherapy? Let's get away from that for the summer.
Give me a BREAK.
Lazy, incompetent parents wanting to medicate their kids into submission and then giving them a "break" during the summer.
This is yet another level of stupidity and absurdity.
IF YOU REALLY "NEED" MEDICATION, YOU NEED IT ALL THE TIME NOT JUST WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT>
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6-03-2010 @ 11:19PM
Ann said...Actually there are many medications that you only take when the situation calls for it. If Aleve works well on a migraine, should it be taken every day even when there is no headache? What about ezcema treatments? Heartburn medication? My daughter only takes bronchiodilators when she needs them. My husband takes anti-inflammatories when his back pain flares up. Are none of these conditions real to you if a person is sometimes able to live their life without daily doses of medication?
6-03-2010 @ 10:24AM
Ann said...As soon as a child shows a little hyper activitity the docotor says MEDICATE pretty soon all children will be walking around medicatd that way parents and teachers will have perfect little zombies.
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6-03-2010 @ 11:24AM
j said...100 % right i said the same thing i one time made a little trouble in class and the teacher sat me down and tried to convince me to take drugs to calm me down well i did not take it and i am a very normal person without them
6-03-2010 @ 1:04PM
Kelley said...Doctors are so quick to throw a med at a kid that is out of control. My nephew has a 7 year old step daughter that would absolutely not pay attention. In fact, she would zone out to the point of unknowingly wetting her pants. Her mother took her to the doctor, who immediately perscribed meds for ADHD. There was no improvement whatsoever....in fact, it made her worse. My nephew told her mom to take her off of that crap. Her mom took her to another doctor, and this doctor discovered that this poor kid had type 1 diabetes, and had it for the past 3 years. It had gotten to the point that this child had a lesion on her brain, because she wasn't being treated for diabetes. Her "zoning out" and her inability to pay attention had NOTHING to do with ADHD. I hope they sue the first quack that diagnosed her.
7-10-2010 @ 5:46PM
Pearl said...I think it's great that parents are taking the kids off those horrible drugs! Do you know what the side effects of those are??? There are other options, natural options, that help those children and have much much much better results.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:28AM
magus 47 said...Of course when these kids leave school they will need more drugs to 'function' in society. Indeed they will be on drugs for the rest of their lives. I am sure if I were in school today i too would be ADHD. Actually I was just bored and didnt like the regementation of school. but hell excited? take a pill. Unhappy? take a pill. Bored? Take a pill.
Gee how did little johney end up a druggie. It's cause doctors and parents are pushers.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:28AM
Dianne said...Please just post this. I am not finding your e-mail in my system,in order to confirm my comments, although you notify me to reply to your e-mail automatically in this column.
I would bet Larry Silver,M.D. was not yet a doctor when this drug began to be used in the school system, The children were medicated by the schools, without much public awareness. The parents certainly were not made aware of what this medication was about. It was in reality a test program of a pharmaceutical company having sold the idea to the local board of education; it was not a bonafide medically administered product with your private physician's approval.
Parents then were of a generation that had received iodine therapy in a pill that tasted predominantly like chocolate. It was handed around each week, down the aisles by your classroom teacher to prevent goiter in areas of the country where that nutritional deficiency might occur. This is sugar-coating the truth as in above article.
We were, of course, the generation of parents who back then also stayed home from school during the Polio Quarantine(no pills as yet for that epidemic) and our stay at home mothers kept us ingeniously entertained with educational toys. I was a long-term confirmed reader by then, so I received a very appropriate education on my own in History,Literature, Science without "a school system". I ended up lacking in math however but my mother made the concerted effort to help me distinguish between one kind of numerical system and another,since our monetary system has terms differing from our measurements of time, or the tempo in music for that matter.
If anything our school programs were geared to induce "anxiety disorder" in children, which would symptomatically very much resemble the same symptoms that were later decided to be "attention-deficit disorder" or/and "hyperactivity disorder". Yet the results of this conditioning meant that parents were ill-prepared to recognize anything unusual about a school system passing out mood alterants.
People are so easily led by so-called authorities. My mother in future years had a shoe-box full of pill samples made available to every physician in our country by the pharmaceutical industry. She was a pill popper, as a nursing school graduate who thought nothing of it.
It is our particular culture that brought this about; and quite frankly the only people doing anything beneficial for school children in those years, through their own breakfast programs were the Black Panthers who understood the source of the problem.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:32AM
Nan E. Puckett said...Amen, jcc1! Children today are used as guinea pigs & parents willingly go along with it. The very idea of 'controlling' a child with drugs is chilling. Parents have usurped their responsibilities, allowed their kids to be raised in daycare, educated by liberal unionized systems, & entertained by degrading tv shows, or the WII & XBox. Once we kept an 'ADHD' child for the weekend & were warned that she was 'difficult' without her drugs (school was out)...instead she was just fine since we didn't tolerate any bad behavior or resistance to rules. Observing her with her parents was an eye-opener: they frankly ignored her even as she did everything possible to get their attention--she would take every opportunity to cling to them or try to talk to them, to no avail. It was clear where the real problem was...I'm not saying that this is true for all parents but I am saying that the lack of discipline & especially the lack of a parents' presence, has dealt a deadly blow to our nation's children...
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6-03-2010 @ 11:03AM
Linda said...ADD is a true disorder. Disorder is the problem. If you read statistic, the kids that succeed and work through ADD are the ones who DO the research and realize it is VERY curable.
Children and adults who are blessed to have had loving parents who cooperate and find boundaires/Guidlines, love GOOD COPING SKILLS and most important fun and laughter in their home find a balance with this ORDER.
People ask why it is so prevalent in todays world?
Sex, drugs and rock n roll are at its peak in advertising, TV shows, video games and the fast pace world we live in. Most movies and TV shows are violent and sexual in nature which are addictive by nature. You cannot turn on a TV or computer, walk in a airport without hearing negative information. All doctors agree turning OFF technologhy has amazing benifits to calming anyone not just "ADD".
Pharmacy companies are pushing all types of drugs from sleepling pills, depression, ADD meds, you name it on TV and every magazine you open. The airports now have huge billboards for ADD! In the 50's it was tobacco companies and alcohol commercials brain washing the consumer. Now "legal stimulants and depresents" are "Prescribed Meds", so we are brain washed into beliving it is ok because a doctor said so and it is medical.
There are very few comedy movies or TV shows for laughter, which is the best medicine along with exercise and diet and work to feel success which every human needs success. Give any human THEIR passion and they WILL succeed.
Most homes are two parents working, leaving kids with no structure and routine which is a key solution to ADD.
Or children are so over book and forced into a "Type A" mentality they are stressed to the max to mature faster, run faster, be smarter do better in school. We are trying to fit everyone in a box of educated people to have more money and stuff. Not all people are ment to sit at a job. Many of us are in need to work with our hands and be in employment that unfortunately receives no respect or financial income because the" intelligent factor is not needed". God designed a variety of people to do a variety of skills to make the world function NOT over function.
The divorce rate is 50%. So is drug and alcohol addiction. The effects on kids and domestic fighting of parents in the home is huge. When two parents do not agree on parenting styles it spells disaster for the kids.
One the parents fight and show no love and respect for one another which teaches the children no love or respect for others and NO COPING SKILLS and two the fighting kills the children's spirit which causes anxiety and learning disabilities.
Read the book "NO" by Walsh, Barnes n Noble, It is excellent.
As well as the book online 3 STEPS of ADD. Also the CD set called "Total Transformation".
All people need structure and boundaries, good manners, to FEEL LOVED and compassion, when this is put into place all ADD people can live a successful life. LOVE IS the cure of almost every single illness.
Read the book, LOVE IS LETTING GO OF FEAR.
Or ANY book by Louis Hay, The Power of the Spoken Word. All these books are at any book store in the US and well known. The Bible most taught cure was LOVE.
I am a wife of a husband with severe ADD, all three of my childen have it as well. Once we focued on love thinking and NOT labeling which I truely dislike in this diganosis, our whole family dynamic changed. The agression and frustration stopped and we found love and laughter back into our home rather than focusing our thoughts on the negative side of ADD. Another great book is called
The Gift of ADHD Activity Book, by Lara Honos-Webb, PHD. She finds the blessings and positive to this ORDER and again the way our perspective thinks about ADD is positive NOT negative.
I have read every book I could on ADD, I read ADD expert, Dr. Amen books and went to his clinic with my child. I have learned when there is love and laughter in ANY illness the rate and cure sky rockets.
I challenge anyone with any illness to read these books. The ones I have listed have helped our family and most doctors suggest books with the negative thought of ADD. We choose the POSITIVE! It WIll change your mind, thought and perspective, even a smallest amount ..... I PROMISE!
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6-03-2010 @ 10:41AM
Austin said...If I was around that age and going to camp, the last thing in the world I would do is take my ADD meds. I was on Adderall, Ritalin, or Concerta for my entire grade school career and I absolutely hated it. It killed my personality and made me feel horrible. The best possible thing for these kids is to be off of it whenever they aren't in school. Camp is to have fun, not work hard and be successful
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6-03-2010 @ 10:51AM
shannon said...My son was always the kid who was bouncing off the walls at daycare. He disrupted the whole class, refused to take naps, drove the teachers crazy. When he entered kindergarten, his teacher recognized the signs right away. We had him tested and he came back as having ADHD. We refused to medicate him and in first grade it was the same behaviors, disrupting class, not paying attention and his grades were c's and d's. After much discussion with his teacher and his doctor, we decided to put him on Adderal. With in 1 week his teacher saw a vast improvement. He will be entering 4th grade in the fall and has been a straight A student since going on the medication. I do give him a break during the summer because he needs to gain some weight and I dont like giving it to him unless its absolutely needed.
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6-03-2010 @ 10:43AM
nancy said...My son is diagnosed with ADHD and only medicated on school days to enable him to focus more completely on academics (he has difficulty sitting still to concentrate). His med is fine according to his prescriber for "daily" use. At home and during most activities, I see no difference whether he is on or off the med, but they do see and he does feel the need for med support at school. Because of the "med holidays", or I would call it selective use of the medication, my son eats well by dinner time, on weekends and during the summer (the med does strongly supress appetite) and his growth patterns and weight/muscularity are average to good. However, I do agree that for some activities, medication may be required to ensure safety r/t maintaining focus. For example, he is going to a rock climbing wilderness camp this summer and I will be sending his med with him since the activity is potentially dangerous, requires concentration and peer interaction might be distracting. Interestingly (my son is adopted), my husband was diagnosed as an adult with ADHD and tried medication, but couldn't tolerate it. Hubby had learned to "...channel his disability into socially acceptable behaviors...". Hubby is highly successful as an independent business owner, a great boss, husband, father, adult son, handy-man, runner, walker, biker, hiker and now working on swimmer...doing his first Triathalon at 50. He ran the Boston Marathon twice after 40. I affectionately refer to him as my "Busy Boy"...now I have two of them! Our son uses his time off the medication to work on his own set of compensation skills, learning to manage his high energy. No couch potatoes in this house. And it is all fine with me. Ultimately, every parent (in conjunction with pediatrician/therapists etc.) has to do what they believe works best for their child. RN, MS, "MOM"
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6-03-2010 @ 10:56AM
J.B. said...I wonder how many kids with ADD don't have a DAD? I'm just saying.
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6-03-2010 @ 1:23PM
Linda said...I agree, stastics show when a father IS involved in a childs life their test score improve in school, which improves self estem which improve behavior. There is no fear when a Dad has "your back". Sad but true! Look at nature, most animals the Dad is very involved. Watch the March of the Penguins, I am just saying too!!!
6-03-2010 @ 11:21AM
PJ said...I am a grandmother of an 11 yr old boy that I have visit with me for 6 weeks,each summer, and I am one that does not believe in drugging a child, when parenting works just fine. Some teachers , I have come across have over crowded class rooms and can't have the one on one that I have with my grandson. SO IS IT REALLY a problem for them to NOT take the meds when YOU are able to relate to the child????????Or do you JUST not want to be a part of his life,????? I have no problem with him.
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6-03-2010 @ 11:26AM
ZDonjeanh said...Don't believe all you read. Most ADHD medicine is horrible for your kids. It interrupts their sleep patterns which makes the problem worse. It interferes with your hunger, either increases or decreases. It also changes who you are. You get use to being doped up, which for me was good because I hated that doped feeling so I always stayed away from illegal drugs. I wish there was a site for all people who grew up on the medicines could tell their stories of how bad it was being on these meds. There is some interesting studies that show food additives may be causing most these problems. Not one group wants to do a real study by tracking a large group of kids from birth to teens to find common factors relating to the diseases. Drug Companies and Doctors love ADHD, it makes them a lot of money. Parents follow their Doctors advice simply because they have no where to gain real information to make good choices. I sure don't have the answer, but I know the Doctors also don't.
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6-03-2010 @ 11:30AM
Ginger said...I am a parent of a middle schooler with ADHD. He is currently on Vyvanse and during the week he takes a larger dose 50 mg but on weekends he takes a lower dose (30mg) so he is able to eat a little more and focusing is not such a big deal. I must admit this drug has been a God send for us as a family. and because it leaves his system at the end of the day ( and believe me I see him "come down" from it) I think it is necessary to his well being. But taking a break from any stimulent once in awhile is a good thing. The thing these parents did wrong was not informing the camp what and why they were doing it. I would only say to them consider a lower dose so they have some help but not as much as they might need for the school year.
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6-03-2010 @ 12:03PM
Chris said...My 9 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD when he was 7, which was when he was in the first grade. Given the fact that ADHD/ADD is an extremely controversial topic, my husband and I have done a lot of research on this. First, I would like to explain that ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and ADD is Attention Deficit Disorder. There IS a difference between the two and it IS important to know which one your child has. Secondly, if a child has just ADD, which does not include the "hyperactivity", then the child is NOT going to necessarily have behavioral problems, it simply means that they have an inability to focus or concentrate on anything! This in turn causes severe frustration for the child and eventually will cause the child to act out. Now, if the child has ADHD, which means, this is my favorite expression to describe my child, they make tigger look lethargic, in addition, they also have the inability to focus or concentrate, for a lot of children that have the Hyperactivity, they seem to think everything is funny and when they get in trouble they laugh and over time they get doubly frustrated. Unfortunately, this IS a very REAL disorder; however, there is a large population of parents who have abused this and they are the ones who have made the public skeptic in believing that there are true needs. My husband and I struggled immensely over deciding to "medicate" our child. We even took him off at Christmas time for 7 weeks to see if he really needed it. We made charts for him to follow for getting dressed in the am and for after school, also had rewards for good days at school and rewards for chores and good tasks at home and it worked for about 3 weeks then he could not remember or focus on those. It was very difficult to watch my child come home from school with red faces and be upset because he could not understand why he was trying but could not control himself. Also, his grades went down a whole letter grade, which also upset him, because he had straight A's and was in the top percentile for reading and won field trips for his reading, which did not happen without his medication. We were very lucky to have a teacher who was very supportive and did everything in her power to help us try to avoid putting him back on the medication but we did put him back on his medication and after 2 weeks on medication his grades came up and he doubled his reading points!! As far as "medication vacations",this decision to have off for weekends or summer should be made carefully with the doctor and even the teachers input. My husband and I were asked, are we "policing our child" or "parenting our child"?? That question made us think and it really hit home.
Every child is different and each medication is different, it is important for parents to do their part as well, you can not rely on medication only to "correct" the problem. Parents have to adjust their parenting and be involved with their child to help them understand what their disorder is and take responsibility for their actions.
I believe that people who want to accuse parents of using medication to "avoid" parenting are ignorant and uneducated.
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