Should My Ex's Fiancee Post Photos of My Daughter on Her Facebook?

Duhhhhhhh....the child didn't post the pic...her father's girlfriend did. And it is a parental issue since she has no legal rights to post the pic and it wasn't on her fathers page....... I have told my daughters' friend, teenager, to remove a pic of my daughter holding a glass with "h****" on it ..while the friend had another glass with a ******.she was in a gag store and all that need was someone to text that pic around the school for a bad reputation.....and she did take the pic down.....i'm a mother and I look out for my child......do what you want with your own kids..;.I have her for life....wives n husbands come n go.......a dime a dozen...I can't replace my kids.

Jealousy? No, jealousy is when your husband's pregnant girlfriend post pictures of them together, knowing that his grown children have access to those pictures. This is about a child, and the custodial parent is either comfortable with this or not. For what ever reason. They can lock the pictures, so YOU can't see them, but they can have them accessible to anyone THEY choose. Face Book, My Space, use your powers for good, not for evil! You should discuss this with your ex. and maybe you can come to an agreement that you can be comfortable with.

Thank you for posting the honest truth.. This is just another vindictive woman in a divorce case that hates to see the father have any rights.. It is the same thing I am going through with my ex. Tell the ***** to go **** herself.

i noticed you said you have friends with post . As you are not a parent what gives you the right to pass judgement you could care less it not your child .so don' t set there and try to down play this concern

Not to be rude, because I'm sure this way of thinking makes total sense to you. However... there ARE people in the world who choose to NOT social network at all. For example, my husband and I do NOT, but both his family and my own DO. His sisters and my siblings are all aware that we do NOT approve of them posting pictures of our children, even if no names are mentioned, and they respect our choice. Now if I were to get divorced and my husbands new wife DID have a site of some sort, I would be VERY angry if she choose to post my childs pictures! I personally think that social networking is just one more step towards socialism, and I may very well be a lunatic, but this is America and I believe that if a parent believes something is wrong or unsafe for their child, they have EVERY right to say so. Why assume this woman is just jealous? From what she wrote I got zero hint of that, she seemed sincerely concerned about her child, so maybe she actually was!

I could not agree more I feel that she is Jealous!!!! I bet she has a facebook with her kids pics on it. She just wants to make a big deal out of nothing. And how does she know there are pics of her child on her EX'S web page hmmm think of that one. Most likely because she was taking a peek sounds like a stalker issue to me. Get over the fact that you ex has a new woman it isnt the end of the world!!! I have 4 beautiful babies 2 of them are to my ex and he has a new woman and she has pics of my babies on her page so what!!! your her mom not the other woman. Get over your jealousy issues!!! You notice that the whole issue is aimed toward the future wife not the dad, you plainly state without saying it that your jealous and do not want your child on her page. Grow up and worry about what is really important and that is keeping your child happy, I bet your one of those moms that sit there and say bad things about your ex's new lover and try to make her hate them. It sure sounds like it. Do you have pics of your kid on your facebook??????? Most likely you do, his soon to be wife is going to be a part of your childs life it will be so much easier on yourself and your daughter if you just let it be

Jealousy has nothing to do with it, Facebook is not even close to being protective of the people that have accounts on there( they are supposedly working on it) If my child's picture ended up on any website without myself putting up the pics there would be war, I have not posted my childrens' pictures anywhere at all on the internet because it is wayyyyy too easy for nasty pervs to do data mining and find out information and then to put a pic with that information NO WAYYY.

Quite your chicken poop comments that you think you can't be traced by and find some help for your insecurity or boredom, which ever it is

Why was this mom snooping around on the fiancee's facebook in the first place? It sounds like the mom is being jealous and petty to me. Millions of families post their family photos on their facebook pages. As a stepmom and a mother of 2 daughters with a stepmom, I'd be more offended if my child wasn't included in their stepmom's Facebook pages. But, of course I'm not a jealous troublemaker either. This mom needs to get a grip and be happy she has a step mother- to- be for her daughter who is proud and happy enough with her child to present her to the world as a happy addition to her life. I feel sorry for the father and his new wife to be. It sounds like they're in for years of petty Tom foolery with an unhappy, unstable ex.

My thoughts exactly. First words that jumped out at me were: "If your concerns are relevant to protecting your daughter from being viewed by strangers -- I'm with you."

Protecting her daughter from being viewed by strangers? Isn't the child viewed by strangers every time she goes out in public, example, to the supermarket with mom, with dad, to the park on the corner with some friends to ride the swings... really, Momma Bear, you must get over this need to control every aspect of your daughter's life. Sounds like you're extremely insecure, and perhaps you should seek help for that problem.

The article goes on to say: "If, however, you're simply uncomfortable having her future stepmother acknowledge her fiancee's daughter to her online friends, we're talking about a different issue. In that case, you are going to have to do the difficult work of coming to terms with this woman's presence in your child's life."

And there is the problem I believe. Not the idea of 'protecting' her child from 'being viewed by strangers.' Please. Get over your damn self. Every parent wants to protect their child, absolutely, but you're just being paranoid. And I believe you're afraid your ex's future wife will usurp your place in your daughter's life. Maybe you're worried that she'll get along better with her step-mom, and I believe your ego can't handle that.

Seek professional help.

You hit the nail right on the head! A bit of jealousy?? I think it's a lot!

Peter Gozinya .. You need to spend a couple of bucks talking to an attorney for an hour before you get yourself in a whole lot of trouble.

Peter Gozinya .. You need to spend a couple of bucks talking to an attorney for an hour before you get yourself in a whole lot of trouble.

Alright Louis, your comments are just creepy. Please don't use yourself as an example of a stalker/pedophile/child molester unless you really are one. Ewww....