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Amazing Dad: Dan Rooney
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Maj. Dan Rooney, surrounded by his wife, Jacqy and their four daughters, is working to aid the families of fallen heroes. Credit: Folds of Honor Foundation
Amazing Dad: Maj. Dan Rooney, who established the Folds of Honor Foundation, which gives scholarships to families of those in the military who were killed or became disabled during their service
Dan's Family: Wife: Jacqy, married 11 years; Kids: Victoria, 8, Tatum, 5, Mia, 2, Reese, 1
Dan Lives In: Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
Why Dan Is Amazing: Returning from his second tour in Iraq on a commercial flight in 2006, Dan and the other passengers were told the remains of fallen soldier Corporal Brock Bucklin were on board. As the flag-draped casket was removed from the plane's cargo hold, Dan watched as Bucklin's family -- including his wife and young son -- joined the procession. At that moment he knew he wanted to help make a difference in the lives of families of fallen heroes.
In 2007, Dan, a Major in the Air National Guard and a decorated F-16 pilot who has served three combat tours in Iraq, founded the Folds of Honor Foundation, a nonprofit organization that provides scholarships to the spouses and children of military service members disabled or killed in service.
"I've gone to combat three times in Iraq, and we always say we'll never leave a man or a woman behind on the field of battle," he tells ParentDish. "We don't want to leave the family behind on the field of battle either. ... We're almost at 1,400 scholarship recipients since we've been around in the last three years or so, and we're not going to stop until we can do everything we can to help every family that's out there in need."
Also a golf course owner, Professional Golfers' Association of America (PGA) pro and United States Golf Association (USGA) member, it seems natural that the foundation's flagship fund-raising event is Patriot Golf Day, where, in a joint effort with the PGA and USGA, $3 million in donations were made in its first two years from golfers nationwide, with more than 550 scholarships awarded. Dan says more than 5,000 golf courses in all 50 states are being targeted to participate in this year's Labor Day weekend event.
"It's the biggest grass roots golf movement in the world and I don't think there are any other larger sports movements out there," Dan says. "You can go to one of those golf courses and make a donation. Last year, we raised about $2.3 million over that weekend. We ask people to donate one extra dollar when they go and play golf. It's something everyone can do and you can see the exponential impact of literally millions of people joining together to give back."
Combining his military service, philanthropy and love of golf has been a dream come true, Dan says.
"My dad always brought me up with the message: Find your passions in life, find something you love to do and figure out a way to do it every day and you'll never go to work," Dan says. "I wanted to be a PGA golf professional and an F-16 pilot and, from what I know, I'm the only one of those combinations out there. And to get to take that to the next level and use these things for good has been a great blessing that I discovered on my journey of life. I didn't set out with that purpose, but to be able to merge these two things together in such an impactful way is the greatest luck I've ever had in my life."
Dan says it's easy to stay inspired by his mission.
"Every time I meet one of these families and know that there are thousands more out there that, unfortunately, are being left behind, being forgotten by our country, it's real easy to stay motivated and inspired each and every day," he says. "Ultimately, what drives me -- and I think drives most people -- is you discover that great irony that when you're the one who reaches out to someone in need, you're actually the one being helped. ... I would guess when it's all said and done, you're not going to be asked what you did with your life, but rather what you did for others."
Dan's Folds of Honor Staffer, Sgt. Josh Butts, Army Veteran, Says: "Dan leads a cause that is not only eminently important, but completely necessary. We ought to take care of those who have taken care of us. The greatest leaders are those who help us realize the most obvious truths, and execute action based on the conviction of those truths. This is what Major Rooney has done."
Recognition: For his combat in Iraq, Dan is a two-time recipient of the "Top Gun" award and was honored with the "Spirit of Attack" award as a top graduate of F-16 training. His many decorations include the Air Force Commendation Medal, Air Medal, Anti-terrorism Medal, Combat Readiness Medal and Air Expeditionary Medal.
For his work with Folds of Honor, Dan received the White House's Presidential Volunteer Service Award, the Air National Guard's Distinguished Service Medal, the Ellis Island Medal of Honor and the PGA's first-ever Patriot Award.
Dan's Guilty Pleasure: Chocolate chip cookies at night
Dan's Best Advice: "In life, have the courage every day to live between the realm of fear and faith. ... True fulfillment lies on the outer edges of life and that lies outside of your immediate small world that people tend to get stuck in, including myself. We have the courage to venture out into what I describe as that line between fear and faith, and that's when you find out what life is about."
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 1)
6-20-2010 @ 6:08AM
A Grandmother said...Kudos to you Major Dan Rooney, you have a big heart. People like you are what makes our country great. Be well and safe always.
A grandmother
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6-22-2010 @ 8:53AM
Mike said...Amazing man. He is not unique to our Armed Forces, but rather typifies the selfless qualities of those brave men and women who put their lives on the line for the rest of us.
There is no deed too small, no action too insignificant we can make in repaying the families of the wonderful Americans. They deserve our undying respect as do their fallen family members.
If you have the opportunity, please take some time to watch the HBO movie "Taking Chance". It is about one Marine's experience while escorting the body of a fellow Marine back home to his family. It's available from Netflix, Blockbuster, and the like.
I guarantee you will never see a more touching and important movie. At the very least, it will allow you to understand why Maj. Dan Rooney was so moved when he disembarked that plane.
6-20-2010 @ 6:19AM
james russell said...I remember when you returned from overseas that you were able to go to college on the GI Bill. If your parent was killed during the war, the children got a free college education. Now you have to make a "donation" to the GI Bill to even get to college. God forbid that you got killed and you left your family behind. Your wife and Kids no longer get any benefits other than death benefits.
That Dan Rooney made this available to these children is great.
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6-20-2010 @ 6:50AM
Rebecca said...Okay. I'm crying. What a wonderful story. You are an incredible man Maj. Rooney who has been blessed with a wife who supports your phenomenal efforts!!!
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6-20-2010 @ 7:06AM
Kathy said...What a GREAT MAN,I lost my friend Joseph Behnke over there.I hope you have a wonderful Father's Day! Kathy Queens,NY
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6-20-2010 @ 7:07AM
Phyllis said...Now, this is something wonderful and uplifting to read and post my comment to. May God bless you and yours with a long life, good health and abundance of happiness.
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6-20-2010 @ 7:21AM
jwest136 said...Your best advise should be pasted on the bathroom mirrors of every home in America, read each morning and night to inspire us all and get us focused on the right path to a fulfilling life experience. You are living my dream .... congratulations and Happy Fther's Day !
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6-20-2010 @ 7:42AM
William R. Frugoli said...Would it not be great for our nation if every political leader and their aides returned to the rules of leadership and life express by Major Dan Rooney.
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6-20-2010 @ 8:39AM
John Mrgan said...Amen to that. Why is it that the people who don't have much to give (most of us) give it all, and the people that have the most (politicians and government oficials) not only don't give, but try to take what isn;t theirs in the first place. Maj. Dan Rooney, I salute you with the utmost respect, not only for your service to God and country, but for your compassion, love and understanding of humanity.
6-20-2010 @ 9:15AM
Olivia said...KUDOS to you and your family! May God bless you all!
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6-20-2010 @ 9:35AM
upurs said...self richeous thieves...it's "volunteer military"...what part of the "no"...i ain't goin did you whiners forget about?...you young people today are so stupid and brainwashed,surely ther must be something in the water and food...i got news for you prideful patriots...if you dummies would not signed up...this "wonderful" government...would have brought back the draft...!..that's how much they care about patriotism..!...you people are shameful
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6-20-2010 @ 12:34PM
Michael said...upurs: First, your name automatically strips you of any semblance of credibility.
However, under the US Constitution, there is a line which states you have the right to pursue happiness. Unfortunately, you took the wrong road and pursued misery.
It also appears that when you tried to pursue an education, you also took a left and chose the path of ignorance. It's very sad and ironic that most of these people sacrificed their chances at wonderful lives so you could have the right to choose your miserable existence.
6-20-2010 @ 9:41AM
pirateladee2718 said...I had the privilege of knowing this couple as newl weds while he was in pilot training in Wichita Falls Texas. I worked with his wife. They were both great people and I am not surprised at their current endeavor.
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6-20-2010 @ 9:40AM
upurs said...these self richeous thieves capitalizing on the tragedies of others...!..you young people today are stupid and brainwashed...what part of the word"no" did you people forget when it came to signing on for war..??...this wonderful govermment would have simply brought the back the draft if you knuckleheads would have told them "no"...which goes to show you how much they really care about patriotism,or you.
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6-20-2010 @ 12:38PM
Michael said...upurs: First, your name automatically strips you of any semblance of credibility.
However, under the US Constitution, there is a line which states you have the right to pursue happiness. Unfortunately, you took the wrong road and pursued misery.
It also appears that when you tried to pursue an education, you also took a left and chose the path of ignorance. It's very sad and ironic that most of these people sacrificed their chances at wonderful lives so you could have the right to choose to be a miserable human being.
That makes them much better people than I could ever be, because I couldn't honestly say that I would sacrifice my life for the likes of you.
6-20-2010 @ 9:42AM
Maria said...Wow I salute you for taking the leap of Faith that God gave you to make a difference in the life's of military family's. Some people wouldn't have the courage to go forward with such a undertaking. May God continue to guide you and give you the strengths to complete your mission. Be Blessed Maj. Dan Rooney
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6-22-2010 @ 7:33PM
Vicrae said...Would you consider running for the presidentcy of the USA?
We need more of this type of person in our governmental offices.
Bless you family and what you are doing.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!!!!!
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6-20-2010 @ 9:52AM
gmg527 said...He's an airman, NOT a soldier. Get it right
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